[Closed]What is the Best Valentine's Gift you have ever received?

[Voon Chan]

I am almost out of idea for Valentine's Gift. Year after year, my wife will say "Get me something unique. No flower, etc".

The greatest gift from her to me is my son, Vui Ctze in 2003. :)

Can you tell me as to the most precious gift you have ever received on Valentine Day? I may need to prepare for next year.

[athena]

I am almost out of idea for Valentine's Gift. Year after year, my wife will say "Get me something unique. No flower, etc".

The greatest gift from her to me is my son, Vui Ctze in 2003. :)

Can you tell me as to the most precious gift you have ever received on Valentine Day? I may need to prepare for next year.
your son's bday is on V-day?

[Voon Chan]

your son's bday is on V-day?Yes! I celebrated his 2nd Birthday yesterday. He was very happy. My wife got him a cake with Elmo picture on it as he love Elmo.

[athena]

Yes! I celebrated his 2nd Birthday yesterday. He was very happy. My wife got him a cake with Elmo picture on it as he love Elmo.
tat's nice...hehe...u planned it or just coincidence? :D

[Voon Chan]

tat's nice...hehe...u planned it or just coincidence? :DIt just happened. She said that she would not like to have a child born on that day. My wife was due for 3rd of March 2003.

So what was best gift you have ever received?

[athena]

It just happened. She said that she would not like to have a child born on that day. My wife was due for 3rd of March 2003.

So what was best gift you have ever received?
i'm still very junior in the dating scene!! haha

[Voon Chan]

i'm still very junior in the dating scene!! hahaJunior or not, I am sure you have something from him.

So what was best gift you have ever received from him?

[kamkuey]

I can share with you the WORSE gift I gave my gf last time... a mug.. BUAHAHAHA.. a mug!! can imagine her disappointment or not? *sigh*

[Voon Chan]

I can share with you the WORSE gift I gave my gf last time... a mug.. BUAHAHAHA.. a mug!! can imagine her disappointment or not? *sigh*I think I can imagine her dissappointment unless you get her A SPECIAL MUG. Well, I think is a gift is just a thought. At least you have her in your mind. She will appreciate that.

[Dino]

I think I can imagine her dissappointment unless you get her A SPECIAL MUG. Well, I think is a gift is just a thought. At least you have her in your mind. She will appreciate that.

He's single till today you know.....i wonder why??? :D

[Voon Chan]

He's single till today you know.....i wonder why??? :DHe need to learn how he can please his gf. Example buy a nice gift, dinner romantic outing & etc. Most importantly, say the correct thing. If he can make a girl happy, I am sure a lot of girls would like to marry him. Learn from this thread.

[Lava Gal]

what about giving something with personal touch? takes extra effort, but reflects how much thought has gone into it

[janicejoy]

Call me weird but the best present I got was a pasta maker (specifically asked for it) and a home cooked meal. Don't like flowers or chocolates or expensive dinners Get me a recipe book or anything to do with cooking or baking, and I'll be happy.

[Voon Chan]

what about giving something with personal touch? takes extra effort, but reflects how much thought has gone into itI have made press flowers, hand made cards & designed ring & pendants for her. Is that personal enough?

[JC]

what about giving something with personal touch? takes extra effort, but reflects how much thought has gone into it
Very good lavanya... I think Valentine's Day is to commercialised nowadays... one stupid stalk of rose will cost RM10.00...:mad:
VD dinners cost at least RM200 up to RM500 for a couple... and you get crap food...
My wife & I sees this and we celebrated VD going to a proper Korean restaurant with Korean wine... a quiet dinner just the two of us, appreciating each other for the sacrifices we've made... Just like a thanksgiving dinner... That's VD to me...:)

[kamkuey]

ahem... now single.. but not actually TILL today :D
Only dat time dungu enough to buy a MUG!! (MUAHAHAHAHA) as a present. It was a heart shaped mug though.

[Dino]

Smart guys gives girls gifts that can be re-used sometime in the future.
Eg: You give a girl a good rice cooker or blender....if you marry her...you can reuse those and not waste money buying it again!!! :D

[JC]

If you dun marry her, your sucessor will enjoy for gifts...:D

[Dino]

If you dun marry her, your sucessor will enjoy for gifts...:D

Thats why u make sure she becomes yours!!! If not...just ask it back from her!!!

[kamkuey]

Smart guys gives girls gifts that can be re-used sometime in the future.
Eg: You give a girl a good rice cooker or blender....if you marry her...you can reuse those and not waste money buying it again!!! :D
smart.. but some arogantbiatch would think that it is an MCP gesture, asking her to remain in the kitchen.

Which is actually good also la.. since we know that that is the time to kick her out. MUAHAHAHAHA

[t-wei]

I have made press flowers, hand made cards & designed ring & pendants for her. Is that personal enough?

try writing something...e.g. poetry

[siewjang]

5 years ago, I received a stalk of rose from hub. He told me it was Rm10. Wah so expensive. But he told me that it was a little girl who sold them for charity. Boleh la. :)

[kamkuey]

try writing something...e.g. poetry
Poetry.. now that is a very good idea..

[athena]

Poetry.. now that is a very good idea..
not exactly a good idea...when i was muchmuch younger...my fren received malay 'poetry' by her many admirers..his Malay dem geng....when we read the the 'poem' we can really feel our bulu roma standing....hahahhaa

[Voon Chan]

try writing something...e.g. poetryI am not good at it & she is would not really be impress by it. I tried singing to her once. She was happy when she heard that.

[t-wei]

not exactly a good idea...when i was muchmuch younger...my fren received malay 'poetry' by her many admirers..his Malay dem geng....when we read the the 'poem' we can really feel our bulu roma standing....hahahhaa

well anything is fine..as long as u give it from the heart :p

[athena]

well anything is fine..as long as u give it from the heart :p
true, but that time, still kiddies mah...so we mah dunno how to appreciate fine art!!!!

[kamkuey]

true, but that time, still kiddies mah...so we mah dunno how to appreciate fine art!!!!
but I am sure you are not kiddies anymore now mar.
A very simple 4 lines para enuf liao lo..
Does not have to be flower flower wan mah.. correct?

[athena]

but I am sure you are not kiddies anymore now mar.
A very simple 4 lines para enuf liao lo..
Does not have to be flower flower wan mah.. correct?
not a kiddo...but still dunno how to appreciate 'fine art' haha..

[t-wei]

not a kiddo...but still dunno how to appreciate 'fine art' haha..

can always start wan....have u watched puteri gunung ledang?....lots of beautiful Malay poetry "sajak" in it...something needs to be cultivate..that is if u have the interest lor ;)

[Sila]

Very good lavanya... I think Valentine's Day is to commercialised nowadays... one stupid stalk of rose will cost RM10.00...:mad:
VD dinners cost at least RM200 up to RM500 for a couple... and you get crap food...
My wife & I sees this and we celebrated VD going to a proper Korean restaurant with Korean wine... a quiet dinner just the two of us, appreciating each other for the sacrifices we've made... Just like a thanksgiving dinner... That's VD to me...:)
hmmm should i spoil the valentine's mood and say what i think VD means to me? :p

[Voon Chan]

hmmm should i spoil the valentine's mood and say what i think VD means to me? :pYes! Yes!

[athena]

haha..sila...do you mean..
VD=venereal disease ? hahaha...

[Voon Chan]

Call me weird but the best present I got was a pasta maker (specifically asked for it) and a home cooked meal. Don't like flowers or chocolates or expensive dinners Get me a recipe book or anything to do with cooking or baking, and I'll be happy.You asked for it & you got it! What could be better than that.

[LiLiaN]

i've never really wanted to celebrate v-day, even back when i was dating... was just never into commercialised celebration and the prices for everything from flower to dinner was just crazy daylight robbery!!

but ex-bfs didn't think so and wanted to celebrate... well, their money, their choice.... one particularly memorable present that i've received was a hand-made AND home-made memory booklet where special dates were written in there, along with pictures and poems and just short phrases of thoughts... that was so sweet...

[t-wei]

i've never really wanted to celebrate v-day, even back when i was dating... was just never into commercialised celebration and the prices for everything from flower to dinner was just crazy daylight robbery!!

but ex-bfs didn't think so and wanted to celebrate... well, their money, their choice.... one particularly memorable present that i've received was a hand-made AND home-made memory booklet where special dates were written in there, along with pictures and poems and just short phrases of thoughts... that was so sweet...

awwwww....so sweet :p

[Lava Gal]

I have made press flowers, hand made cards & designed ring & pendants for her. Is that personal enough?

voon chan...tatz so sweet of u...yea! tatz wat i call personal touch, man! to think there r sweet hubbies like u out there still, ur wife is indeed lucky =) i bet most guyz would not think of wasting time MAKING silly gifts

[Alkapocino]

Many years ago, a cute little 'angel' by the name Lina D, gave a hand-made 'hart' she folded specially for me (she was only 14 then). It's still with me till this day...in my heart. :o

p/s: The 'angel' is somewhere in England now. Hope she will find her Valentine. :)

[Voon Chan]

Yesterday night, my wife came back late at 9.00 pm. She said " I have got you a belated gift". I opened the box & I saw a gold chain. It was really a surprise to me.

[WitchKing]

Yesterday night, my wife came back late at 9.00 pm. She said " I have got you a belated gift". I opened the box & I saw a gold chain. It was really a surprise to me.

Sweeet.....so you made it into an even later nite :D !?

[Voon Chan]

Sweeet.....so you made it into an even later nite :D !?My son was coughing, we need to take care of him. How I wish! You are getting naughty my friend. :rolleyes:

[WitchKing]

My son was coughing, we need to take care of him. How I wish! You are getting naughty my friend. :rolleyes:

Where got naughty one? Orang2 dah kahwin normal lah tuu :p !

[Voon Chan]

Where got naughty one? Orang2 dah kahwin normal lah tuu :p !Ingat tak peribahasa "Tua-tua keladi, makin tua, makin.........................

So what is the best ever gift you have received or gift to your wife?

[siewjang]

Ingat tak peribahasa "Tua-tua keladi, makin tua, makin.........................
???

makin gatal?

[Voon Chan]

???

makin gatal?Very Good! Still remember you Bahasa Malaysia.

What is your favourite Valentine Gift?

[WitchKing]

Very Good! Still remember you Bahasa Malaysia.

What is your favourite Valentine Gift?

Bukan lah! Tua-tua keladi, makin tua, makin.........................STEADY! (like real only! ) :D

Valentine gift-> two piece lingerie for the wife (watched the sun come up that night, that year ;) . Best I ever got was a watch, never mind its the thot that counts.

[Voon Chan]

Bukan lah! Tua-tua keladi, makin tua, makin.........................STEADY! (like real only! ) :D
makin tua makin mianglah.

Apa yang steady tu? Boleh tunjuk tak.

[WitchKing]

makin tua makin mianglah.

Apa yang steady tu? Boleh tunjuk tak.

Aiseyman, faham-faham saja-lah ;)

[Voon Chan]

Nazlan, Song is not here. I think he is too busy in the MEB's thread. Maybe he is looking at a "calon baru" for..............

Where is Azmee?

[WitchKing]

Nazlan, Song is not here. I think he is too busy in the MEB's thread. Maybe he is looking at a "calon baru" for..............

Where is Azmee?

..he was around last week b4 CNY, right? will give him a tinkle.

[song cm]

Nazlan, Song is not here. I think he is too busy in the MEB's thread. Maybe he is looking at a "calon baru" for..............

Where is Azmee?
haha...like Nazlan say lor...look but don touch....so i look at MEBC calon lor.... :D

[Voon Chan]

haha...like Nazlan say lor...look but don touch....so i look at MEBC calon lor.... :DSee no touch? Can tahan ah? Too much viewing can arouse your thought. Warning:Very Dangerous.

Share you Valentine gift with us Song CM.

[song cm]

See no touch? Can tahan ah? Too much viewing can arouse your thought. Warning:Very Dangerous.

Share you Valentine gift with us Song CM.
haha....honestly...this valentine, we din gv each other anything....

[WitchKing]

See no touch? Can tahan ah? Too much viewing can arouse your thought. Warning:Very Dangerous.

Share you Valentine gift with us Song CM.

heh! heh! Arouse the head up there okay one, around the head down there ....siap laa luu! :cool: :eek: IN THAT ORDER!!

[Voon Chan]

heh! heh! Arouse the head up there okay one, around the head down there ....siap laa luu! :cool: :eek: IN THAT ORDER!!Kalau dua-dua pun arouse? Macam mana tu?

[song cm]

heh! heh! Arouse the head up there okay one, around the head down there ....siap laa luu! :cool: :eek: IN THAT ORDER!!
hey, the danger is dat if the head up there is aroused....it might plan somethin for the head down there..... :D

[WitchKing]

Kalau dua-dua pun arouse? Macam mana tu?

keluar tanduk kat kepala, ekor kat 'anu' with a pitchfork in hand laa :D apa lagi. Remedy is summed up in two words.....REALLY COLD SHOWER (oops, thats three). Yo SongCM, did the both of you really mind not getting anything for the V-Day, honestly?

[song cm]

keluar tanduk kat kepala, ekor kat 'anu' with a pitchfork in hand laa :D apa lagi. Remedy is summed up in two words.....REALLY COLD SHOWER (oops, thats three). Yo SongCM, did the both of you really mind not getting anything for the V-Day, honestly?
honestly, i din mind and i don think mrs mind as well....infact i took her out for her to buy a dress but none tickle her fancy....I am taking her out for candlelight dinner tomorrow nite...as both my kids will be stayin at my in-laws and u know wat come after dinner.....haha

[WitchKing]

honestly, i din mind and i don think mrs mind as well....infact i took her out for her to buy a dress but none tickle her fancy....I am taking her out for candlelight dinner tomorrow nite...as both my kids will be stayin at my in-laws and u know wat come after dinner.....haha


......!!!!DESSERT!!!!!!

[song cm]

......!!!!DESSERT!!!!!!
yeap...sweet satisfying dessert....... :D

[Voon Chan]

as both my kids will be stayin at my in-laws and u know wat come after dinner.....hahaHave a nice time. Hope it is not the time of the month for her

[song cm]

Have a nice time. Hope it is not the time of the month for her
apalah, my fren....u really know how to douse the flame.....
so...I guess...the best valentine gift is passionate LM......haha :D

[WitchKing]

Have a nice time. Hope it is not the time of the month for her

Speaking of which, tonite is Malam Jumaat, but no can jalan 4me sebab its dat time of the month for mine (i think dat why I 'otak kuning' these two weeks, lah. sudah lama tak 'dapat' :mad: )

Eh! Must start work lah!!, catch up with u guys later......

[Voon Chan]

so...I guess...the best valentine gift is passionate LM......haha :DGenerally Yes. But my son was the best gift to me. :)

[song cm]

Speaking of which, tonite is Malam Jumaat, but no can jalan 4me sebab its dat time of the month for mine (i think dat why I 'otak kuning' these two weeks, lah. sudah lama tak 'dapat' :mad: )

Eh! Must start work lah!!, catch up with u guys later......
isit...din know dat u cant do on malam Jumaat....thanks for the info... :p
oklah...do it at 12.01 am, Friday nite lor.... :D

[Voon Chan]

Speaking of which, tonite is Malam Jumaat, but no can jalan 4me sebab its dat time of the month for mine (i think dat why I 'otak kuning' these two weeks, lah. sudah lama tak 'dapat' :mad: )

Kesian, adik kena puasa. Dua minggu?

[WitchKing]

Kesian, adik kena puasa. Dua minggu?
Man, dis forum is addictive lah, ok ok give myself ONE MORE POST this morning b4 start work!

CM, bukan tak boleh buat on Malam Jumaat. actually we are encouraged to do the 'low level flying' tonite (dat why banyak malays call in on Fridays to ofis saying "I lambat sikit", paham2 laa tuu.) Its my missus 'no fly zone' this time o month, jadik as VC said, (not so) little brother kena puasa lah, hope can break fast next week. Once that happens, 'bring on the buffet!!!! :D '

[song cm]

Man, dis forum is addictive lah, ok ok give myself ONE MORE POST this morning b4 start work!

CM, bukan tak boleh buat on Malam Jumaat. actually we are encouraged to do the 'low level flying' tonite (dat why banyak malays call in on Fridays to ofis saying "I lambat sikit", paham2 laa tuu.) Its my missus 'no fly zone' this time o month, jadik as VC said, (not so) little brother kena puasa lah, hope can break fast next week. Once that happens, 'bring on the buffet!!!! :D '
ok...i read the post 2 fast...din see the word (but).....
oklah, kawan...kena tunggu lar....bila all go, mesti excellent punya....enjoy urself...don overeat ok..... :p

[Voon Chan]

(not so) little brother kena puasa lah, hope can break fast next week. Once that happens, 'bring on the buffet!!!! :D 'Bila kecil panggil adik, bila sudah besar digelar Abang. Nazlan, engkau ini harimau ke? Nak buffet pulak.

[Dino]

Man, dis forum is addictive lah, ok ok give myself ONE MORE POST this morning b4 start work!


Now we officially welcome you to the club!!!!!

[Voon Chan]

Now we officially welcome you to the club!!!!!Nazlan., finally get recognition from super moderator. Well done.

Dino, welcome to year 1987! :)

[siewjang]

Now we officially welcome you to the club!!!!!
Dino, aren't you just glad to see someone being addicted :D

[Dino]

Hehehehehe.....yeah....about 150 posting more....you can officially get a super duper trooper special title for yourself(Its a status symbol on the forum you know)!!!!! Keep it up Nazlan!!!! :D

Thanks Voon!!!!

[Voon Chan]

Siew Jang, welcome to tear 1987! Hope to see you around.

[Dino]

Dino, aren't you just glad to see someone being addicted :D

One of the joys of being a mod is seeing addicts like him!!! :D

[siewjang]

Siew Jang, welcome to tear 1987! Hope to see you around.
VC, don't worry. I'm always around in your class. Just that the conversation is more suitable for man :D Kena jaga harga saham :o

[daLady]

VC, don't worry. I'm always around in your class. Just that the conversation is more suitable for man :D Kena jaga harga saham :o What harga saham?:p

[song cm]

wah....buy one, get one free.....welcome dalady.... :D

[Voon Chan]

VC, don't worry. I'm always around in your class. Just that the conversation is more suitable for man :D I will think of a thread that is suitable for everyone the next time. At least I have so visitors for year 1987 this time.

[WitchKing]

I will think of a thread that is suitable for everyone the next time. At least I have so visitors for year 1987 this time.

unless this kinda thread is already been done; howzbout ....... how our beloved SIGNIFICANT HALF ended up with us (the HOPELESS HALF :p )

[Voon Chan]

unless this kinda thread is already been done; howzbout ....... how our beloved SIGNIFICANT HALF ended up with us (the HOPELESS HALF :p )I think I have shared some of my stories in some thread. I don't know where. You can always start one in year 1987.

[Voon Chan]

daLady & daboss, are you going to share with us something in this thread?

[daLady]

daLady & daboss, are you going to share with us something in this thread? Think and think....but NOTHING....remembered I share before, he doesn't give me things on days when it is generally expected. So spontaneity and surprise is what I get.

[WitchKing]

spontaneity and surprise is what I get.

Those, are the Best. ;)

[Voon Chan]

Well, After 84 posting, I have yet to get any fresh or interesting idea from this thread. Really hope that more people will contribute some inspiration or idea to people like me. Maybe you have heard of something interesting, please do post.

[daLady]

Those, are the Best. ;) Yup...I fully agree:)

[Voon Chan]

Yup...I fully agree:)daLady, I think daBoss need to plan a surprise & you just relax. When the time is right, the surprise will come.

[WitchKing]

Well, After 84 posting, I have yet to get any fresh or interesting idea from this thread. Really hope that more people will contribute some inspiration or idea to people like me. Maybe you have heard of something interesting, please do post.

:confused: If my suggestion in post #46 isn't interesting, i give up :D

[Voon Chan]

:confused: If my suggestion in post #46 isn't interesting, i give up :DThat posting? It is impregnated with BIG HIDDEN Message behind it. To me lingerie is a waste of money. Before you know it, it will be on the floor or bed. then............................(Not forgetting you have 2 daughters now, you may not even have a chance, BTW, sudah buka puasa ke?)

[daLady]

daLady, I think daBoss need to plan a surprise & you just relax. When the time is right, the surprise will come. If you know the time is right, then it won't be a surprise anymore. BTW, his plans normally start with passionate....relaxation comes after that....:D

[daLady]

That posting? It is impregnated with BIG HIDDEN Message behind it. To me lingerie is a waste of money. Before you know it, it will be on the floor or bed. then............................(Not forgetting you have 2 daughters now, you may not even have a chance, BTW, sudah buka puasa ke?) That's how he got 2!:D

[WitchKing]

That posting? It is impregnated with BIG HIDDEN Message behind it. To me lingerie is a waste of money. Before you know it, it will be on the floor or bed. then............................(Not forgetting you have 2 daughters now, you may not even have a chance, BTW, sudah buka puasa ke?)


...No Fly Zone lifted juz last nite. Massive Bombardment followed soon after.

and NO, the lingerie was NOT a waste of money by a longshot, it was one of THE most romantic and sensuous thing I'd ever gotten for her. (does wonders for LM).....give it a try (and i dont mean YOU wearing it). You never know till you guyz try.

[Voon Chan]

If you know the time is right, then it won't be a surprise anymore. BTW, his plans normally start with passionate....relaxation comes after that....:DTHat is very interesting. I think most guys are like that. Maybe I will get him to share some of his experiences here with us. If you don't mind.

[Voon Chan]

...No Fly Zone lifted juz last nite. Massive Bombardment followed soon after.

and NO, the lingerie was NOT a waste of money by a longshot, it was one of THE most romantic and sensuous thing I'd ever gotten for her. (does wonders for LM).....give it a try (and i dont mean YOU wearing it). You never know till you guyz try.Macam "operation dessert storm". "carpet bombing ke?".

I have trried it That is why I said that in my earlier posting.

[daLady]

...No Fly Zone lifted juz last nite. Massive Bombardment followed soon after.

and NO, the lingerie was NOT a waste of money by a longshot, it was one of THE most romantic and sensuous thing I'd ever gotten for her. (does wonders for LM).....give it a try (and i dont mean YOU wearing it). You never know till you guyz try. Agree...I do not yet know a woman who can honestly say she doesn't love a nice sexy little lingerie...

Of course this does not include those pasar malam, gaudy looking type...

[WitchKing]

Macam "operation dessert storm". "carpet bombing ke?".


The carpet died last night due to 'Friendly Fire'.

[Voon Chan]

The carpet died last night due to 'Friendly Fire'.BTW, do you know what is "carpet bombing?".

[euj]

i haven't actually received much romantic stuff for v day, or at least i can't really remember, but there was this once in high school in singapore when i received a big chocolate cake which was home baked in the school canteen. i though that was really sweet and romantic...

[WitchKing]

BTW, do you know what is "carpet bombing?".

Yeah, I define it as 'a massive pounding and dispersal of munition ordinance released from a low level flying 'bomber', over a specific area of attack, causing multiple instances of 'climactic' explosions from the target upon the released ordinances reaching their 'zone'. Friendly fire casualties may result if innocent bystanders happen to be in the area of attack.'

...the carpet was in the wrong place, at the RIGHT time :p

[Voon Chan]

i haven't actually received much romantic stuff for v day, or at least i can't really remember, but there was this once in high school in singapore when i received a big chocolate cake which was home baked in the school canteen. i though that was really sweet and romantic...a big chocolate cake? that was really sweet. what happened after that apart from eating it (with that girl)?

[Voon Chan]

Yeah, I define it as 'a massive pounding and dispersal of munition ordinance released from a low level flying 'bomber', over a specific area of attack, causing multiple instances of 'climactic' explosions from the target upon the released ordinances reaching their 'zone'. Friendly fire casualties may result if innocent bystanders happen to be in the area of attack.'

...the carpet was in the wrong place, at the RIGHT time :pBravo! Good explanation.

[euj]

a big chocolate cake? that was really sweet. what happened after that apart from eating it (with that girl)?
well, we liked each other and hung out for the rest of the year, but then i went to australia and she went to england, so that's that i guess. i'm glad things didn't work out, cos i've met other lovely women over the last 10 years! :)

[siewjang]

Euj, she will be very dissapointed when she read this.

[Voon Chan]

well, we liked each other and hung out for the rest of the year, but then i went to australia and she went to england, so that's that i guess. i'm glad things didn't work out, cos i've met other lovely women over the last 10 years! :)EUJ, As I have commented you are a pro when women is concern. What do you normally buy them apart from drink & food?

[siewjang]

From what we gathered here jewellery :D

[Voon Chan]

From what we gathered here jewellery :DWE shall wait for EUJ, to confirm this. After reading his thread, I think that he is a women's man.

[daLady]

Euj, she will be very dissapointed when she read this.She won't coz she is not from ACS Sitiawan....:D

[daLady]

From what we gathered here jewellery :D OR money $$$$$...

[siewjang]

WE shall wait for EUJ, to confirm this. After reading his thread, I think that he is a women's man.
VC, go to class '92. It's all written there.

What do you expect, VC. After 10 years of learning, this is the man that very man admire :D . One more thing to learn from Euj, Egyptian Cotton and 450 thread count :D .

[siewjang]

OR money $$$$$...
So far Euj only mentioned expensive gifts, no ang pow yet. :)

[Voon Chan]

One more thing to learn from Euj, Egyptian Cotton and 450 thread count :D .I know about that already. I will look for type of stitches & buttons as to my clothes.

[siewjang]

Stitches and button... hmm... very interesting.

[Voon Chan]

Stitches and button... hmm... very interesting.Example, single stitch or double stitches. Button like plastic, mother of pearl, ivory, wood , metal & etc.

[euj]

WE shall wait for EUJ, to confirm this. After reading his thread, I think that he is a women's man.
haha...you guys are too kind...
this might sound cliched, but it's not about spending money on women. it's about making them feel appreciated. so that means that you have to listen to them, take an interest in them and be considerate. what that means in actual terms is spending time to talk, do things that women like (you might even like it yourself eventually too) such as going on walks, washing the dishes, opening the door for them and show them that you've been thinking about them. it could mean something as simple as calling her during the day when you working just to say that you've been thinking about her. other considerate things are to talk to her after work and ask her how her day went. or cooking breakfast in bed for her on saturday or sunday morning. or leaving love notes for her in her wallet or bag in the morning before you go to work. or giving her a massage after a long day of work. or preparing the bath for her with nice bath salts and some candles around the bath. or sitting outdoors at home with some nice music on, the lights down low and some wine and then just talk. i know most guys aren't comfortable with all that, but it's really fun and going the extra mile shows the chick you care. of course you must really mean it, and eventually it will become natural. and then, spending money on them is the icing on the cake. :)

[siewjang]

This may sound like you love her more than she love you.

[WitchKing]

haha...you guys are too kind...
this might sound cliched, but it's not about spending money on women. it's about making them feel appreciated. so that means that you have to listen to them, take an interest in them and be considerate. what that means in actual terms is spending time to talk, do things that women like (you might even like it yourself eventually too) such as going on walks, washing the dishes, opening the door for them and show them that you've been thinking about them. it could mean something as simple as calling her during the day when you working just to say that you've been thinking about her. other considerate things are to talk to her after work and ask her how her day went. or cooking breakfast in bed for her on saturday or sunday morning. or leaving love notes for her in her wallet or bag in the morning before you go to work. or giving her a massage after a long day of work. or preparing the bath for her with nice bath salts and some candles around the bath. or sitting outdoors at home with some nice music on, the lights down low and some wine and then just talk. i know most guys aren't comfortable with all that, but it's really fun and going the extra mile shows the chick you care. of course you must really mean it, and eventually it will become natural. and then, spending money on them is the icing on the cake. :)

Class, Man. Real Class.

[daLady]

haha...you guys are too kind...
this might sound cliched, but it's not about spending money on women. it's about making them feel appreciated. so that means that you have to listen to them, take an interest in them and be considerate. what that means in actual terms is spending time to talk, do things that women like (you might even like it yourself eventually too) such as going on walks, washing the dishes, opening the door for them and show them that you've been thinking about them. it could mean something as simple as calling her during the day when you working just to say that you've been thinking about her. other considerate things are to talk to her after work and ask her how her day went. or cooking breakfast in bed for her on saturday or sunday morning. or leaving love notes for her in her wallet or bag in the morning before you go to work. or giving her a massage after a long day of work. or preparing the bath for her with nice bath salts and some candles around the bath. or sitting outdoors at home with some nice music on, the lights down low and some wine and then just talk. i know most guys aren't comfortable with all that, but it's really fun and going the extra mile shows the chick you care. of course you must really mean it, and eventually it will become natural. and then, spending money on them is the icing on the cake. :) Okay, I'm printing this in the biggest font I can get and will stick it on the mirror in the bathroom to make sure daBoss reads this....:D

[Voon Chan]

haha...you guys are too kind...
this might sound cliched, but it's not about spending money on women. it's about making them feel appreciated. so that means that you have to listen to them, take an interest in them and be considerate. what that means in actual terms is spending time to talk, do things that women like (you might even like it yourself eventually too) such as going on walks, washing the dishes, opening the door for them and show them that you've been thinking about them. it could mean something as simple as calling her during the day when you working just to say that you've been thinking about her. other considerate things are to talk to her after work and ask her how her day went. or cooking breakfast in bed for her on saturday or sunday morning. or leaving love notes for her in her wallet or bag in the morning before you go to work. or giving her a massage after a long day of work. or preparing the bath for her with nice bath salts and some candles around the bath. or sitting outdoors at home with some nice music on, the lights down low and some wine and then just talk. i know most guys aren't comfortable with all that, but it's really fun and going the extra mile shows the chick you care. of course you must really mean it, and eventually it will become natural. and then, spending money on them is the icing on the cake. :)Well said! I think it is true. Any women if we take care of them well as you have mentioned they would be in the cloud. As for me, I cook, massage, spring up at her office with home cook lunches & etc. All her friend will envy her.

[daLady]

This may sound like you love her more than she love you.Jang...this is love lah...cannot be calculative....not a matter of who love who more but to give the best you can...

And when you start giving, it helps the other person to learn to give as well...a win-win situation...:)

[Voon Chan]

Jang...this is love lah...cannot be calculative....not a matter of who love who more but to give the best you can...

And when you start giving, it helps the other person to learn to give as well...a win-win situation...:)It is true! If you gift so much to one person, that person will eventually return to you. Just relax & enjoy it.

[daLady]

It is true! If you gift so much to one person, that person will eventually return to you. Just relax & enjoy it. Yet at the same time...you should give without expecting return....you'd be pleasantly surprised...:)

[euj]

This may sound like you love her more than she love you.
i'm not into playing games anymore. i look for a woman who puts in 100%, just like me. my current gf does that, so both of us are happy. :D

[euj]

Okay, I'm printing this in the biggest font I can get and will stick it on the mirror in the bathroom to make sure daBoss reads this....:D
haha...what a compliment. :p

[euj]

Jang...this is love lah...cannot be calculative....not a matter of who love who more but to give the best you can...

And when you start giving, it helps the other person to learn to give as well...a win-win situation...:)
agreed. like gandhi said, 'to receive love, you have to give love...'

[Voon Chan]

i'm not into playing games anymore. i look for a woman who puts in 100%, just like me. my current gf does that, so both of us are happy. :DThat is great. Both of you will make a great couple. Is is not often we see this. So are you going to settle down?

[LiLiaN]

oh, the idea of massage and bubble bath definitely works well... how about this...? particularly after a long day for her, as she gets back, give her a massage then draw a nice bath, lit the bathroom with candles, play soothing music (think monica in friends drawing chandler's first bath)... while she rest and relax, that's the time you whip up some smoked salmon and champagne (or oyster/champagne whichever you prefer)... and chocolate for dessert... this ought to earn you lots and lots of brownie points... :)

[euj]

That is great. Both of you will make a great couple. Is is not often we see this. So are you going to settle down?
don't know yet. it's only been 4 months and i'm only recently getting over a former long term relationship...

[euj]

oh, the idea of massage and bubble bath definitely works well... how about this...? particularly after a long day for her, as she gets back, give her a massage then draw a nice bath, lit the bathroom with candles, play soothing music (think monica in friends drawing chandler's first bath)... while she rest and relax, that's the time you whip up some smoked salmon and champagne (or oyster/champagne whichever you prefer)... and chocolate for dessert... this ought to earn you lots and lots of brownie points... :)
i'll try that one lil. thanks for the suggestion... :p

[Voon Chan]

More men should look in to this. They always have in their mind material things only. They forgot that women need Tender Loving Care. Or their ego is too big "Why should I do this, it is only for the women".

Guy time to change your mind set.

[LiLiaN]

recently a guy friend of mine said "don't you know guys hate buying presents?"...
i was shocked... :eek:

[Voon Chan]

don't know yet. it's only been 4 months and i'm only recently getting over a former long term relationship...You are doing fine. forget about the past & move on. Don't stress yourself up. Relax & enjoy this relationship with your gf.

[daLady]

i'm not into playing games anymore. i look for a woman who puts in 100%, just like me. my current gf does that, so both of us are happy. :D yes...that's the secret of long lasting relationship...:)

[euj]

More men should look in to this. They always have in their mind material things only. They forgot that women need Tender Loving Care. Or their ego is too big "Why should I do this, it is only for the women".

Guy time to change your mind set.
correct. being considerate adds so much value. for example, if you buy her flowers, don't just give them to her when you get back. send them to her at work or deliver them yourself.

[euj]

recently a guy friend of mine said "don't you know guys hate buying presents?"...
i was shocked... :eek:
not true. i love buying presents. makes me feel good. :)

[LiLiaN]

guess everyone conducts their relationship differently....

[daLady]

recently a guy friend of mine said "don't you know guys hate buying presents?"...
i was shocked... :eek:
I guess some people do get stressed out buying stuff for people...I do,too...sometimes, more so when the person means a lot to me. Although yes, it's the thought that counts...but I'm happier knowing that I got something the person really likes (particularly if it is going to cost a bomb). For me, it also goes to show how much I understand or know the person...

[Voon Chan]

correct. being considerate adds so much value. for example, if you buy her flowers, don't just give them to her when you get back. send them to her at work or deliver them yourself.euj, not many guy are like us I think. A personal touch to everything will make her feel love & safe with you.

[euj]

I guess some people do get stressed out buying stuff for people...I do,too...sometimes, more so when the person means a lot to me. Although yes, it's the thought that counts...but I'm happier knowing that I got something the person really likes (particularly if it is going to cost a bomb). For me, it also goes to show how much I understand or know the person...
i try to make it meaningful. so giving for them, not for me...

[LiLiaN]

all i have to say - euj, lucky indra... voon chan, lucky your wife (sorry don't remember her name)... daLady, you're also very lucky... still remember the story of daBoss sending tons of roses to you out of the blue... so sweet... :)

[Voon Chan]

i try to make it meaningful. so giving for them, not for me...A gift from the heart to your lover will be the most special gift to them. Make it meaningful? Yes, I am sure your lover will appreciate you

[Voon Chan]

all i have to say - voon chan, lucky your wife (sorry don't remember her name)Hope one day you will end up with a great guy.

[euj]

all i have to say - euj, lucky indra... voon chan, lucky your wife (sorry don't remember her name)... daLady, you're also very lucky... still remember the story of daBoss sending tons of roses to you out of the blue... so sweet... :)
aw, thanks lil...taken many years of trial and error though...

[Voon Chan]

Bye everyone, I am leaving now. Happy Posting. Having dinner with my wife

[LiLiaN]

you guys, have fun... :)

[daLady]

i try to make it meaningful. so giving for them, not for me... I understand what you mean.....hmm..how do i explain this? Ok I admit it, I do feel a tinge of disappointment when I get an expensive gift that I do not really want/or like. It's not that I do not appreciate the gift and the thoughtfulness...but well, I'm human...:o So I do imagine the other person would feel the same way in similar situation...so his disappointment became my own disappointment...ahh...this is a complicated emotion...

[daLady]

all i have to say - euj, lucky indra... voon chan, lucky your wife (sorry don't remember her name)... daLady, you're also very lucky... still remember the story of daBoss sending tons of roses to you out of the blue... so sweet... :) Eh...what about lucky daBoss?:D

[LiLiaN]

Eh...what about lucky daBoss?:D
both also lucky, to have found each other....

[siewhaw]

Crackjet and I don't really fancy flowers for Valentine...it's just too expensive. He rather get flowers on other days (especially when he makes me really angry...that's his way to cool me down). He is good in writing poems. This was what I got from him last year...

Trouble over still water, worries I am not,
That's when I think of you
Hardship of working life tired will I not be,
That's when I think of you
Staying back late waiting for you, always sincerely I will be,
That's when I think of you
Understanding being a mutual process, patience will I always uphold,
That's when I think of you
Sad or happy being my choices, a smile will I always show,
That's when I think of you
And when I think of you
My days will always be fulfilled.

This year, thought of making a change...I got him flowers instead. :p He loves it a lot.

[LiLiaN]

wow... that's pure romance...

[daBoss]

lucky siewhaw, crackjet's a romantic.... :D

[Voon Chan]

Great to see so many people sharing in here. Some of you are fun & romantic. Hope more will share in this thread.

[Voon Chan]

honestly, i din mind and i don think mrs mind as well....infact i took her out for her to buy a dress but none tickle her fancy....I am taking her out for candlelight dinner tomorrow nite...as both my kids will be stayin at my in-laws and u know wat come after dinner.....hahaSong CM, so how was the candlelight dinner? Want to share with us some stories?

[siewjang]

This year, thought of making a change...I got him flowers instead. :p He loves it a lot.
Yup, he posted them up here. I think in class 95. Does making the guys envy too :)

[Voon Chan]

Yup, he posted them up here. I think in class 95. Does making the guys envy too :)It is nice for a guy to received flower as a gift too. I remember when it was delivered to me a few years ago, both the girls & guys in my office envy me.

[siewjang]

So far I have seen lady sending a guy b'day cake. that was my collegue and we (all the ladies) help him to gasak all. It's a secret recipie cake somemore. How can we not resist. :D

[Voon Chan]

So far I have seen lady sending a guy b'day cake. that was my collegue and we (all the ladies) help him to gasak all. It's a secret recipie cake somemore. How can we not resist. :DI am sure he love the cake so much & he was not willing to share it. Because he got no choice, he shared it with you people. Poor guy.

[siewjang]

You are wrong. He was too happy to show it off to us. Such a big cake. So he decided to share it with us.

[Voon Chan]

You are wrong. He was too happy to show it off to us. Such a big cake. So he decided to share it with us.Good that I am wrong. So nice of him to share with all of you.

[siewjang]

VC, if wife send you a b'day cake to your office, would you share them among your collegue for bring them home to be eaten with wifey and kids?

[Voon Chan]

VC, if wife send you a b'day cake to your office, would you share them among your collegue for bring them home to be eaten with wifey and kids?
I have not received one in my office yet. Assuming I have, I would Share it with my collegues & keep a piece for my wife & son. It will go to waste if I take everything as we cannot finish the whole cake. Always better to share what we have especially when it is still fresh

[Voon Chan]

Valentine Day is over this year. Hope that everday is a Valentine day to all of you. After the sharing in this thread, we will remember the things we can do or gift to our love one. I wish that your heart will be fill with love & joy always.

I hve nothing more to say here. THis thread may be close

[KoChun]

Thread closed, as per VC's request.