MOST Important in LiFe...opinion

[Lava Gal]

Hie every1...

Do share what (in ur opinion) is MOST IMPORTANT in Life. Is it people, things, responsibilities, feelings - well...anything at all...whatz ur say? Feel free to include d reason(s) as well...

Thou 4m d same alma mater, the course of life would have made each individual's priorities different, at different stages of life. Hoping 2 get a wide range of interesting replies - whether u r a 'somebody' or a 'nobody'...lets start forumming! ;)

Cheerios...

[Dino]

IMHO Health is the most important thing. As i said in a previous thread......love,kindness,riches and every other thing cannot be appreciated without we ourselves having good health. If you have good health, you can work, you can play, you can show affection and you can appreciate life. So all you fatties sitting on your bum...go out and excersise. It makes a difference to the quality of life!! :)

[Hisham]

So all you fatties sitting on your bum...go out and excersise.

OK LAH! OK LAH! :D

[Dino]

OK LAH! OK LAH! :D

Siapa makan cili..dia rasa pedas!!! :D

[sasha]

hey i htink i posted somehting here n it went missing.
?????

[Lava Gal]

dino has had his say...i suspect u r also in d medic line yea :D

what bout d others...watz ur say??

[Lava Gal]

hey i htink i posted somehting here n it went missing.
?????

to sasha & those who posted yest....sorry to say tat d thread had vanished into thin air. :eek: being unable to find it, i started off this new thread. it was purely accidental...lost during some moderating process, i was told.

worry not, just REPOST k :) :)

good 2 see tis thread has started breathing...tatz d way - keep it ALIVE, guyz!

[KoChun]

hey i htink i posted somehting here n it went missing.
?????

Double sorry! :)

[KoChun]

As I posted yesterday, to me, HEALTH is the most important thing. If you have good health, everything else is almost achievable.

[piglet]

I think it's important to have a balance ..
if we have health without love, we will be very lonely....
if we have money without health and love, no one to share the wealth with..and money will be spend on hospital bills..

[LiLiaN]

at this point of my life, my health, my independence and my career are top priorities....

[Roland_Tang]

Well, there are a lot of things that are considered important: Health, wealth, family, etc.....A wide range of what different people can say.

I think for me, I would say love is the most important thing. Without love, life has no meaning.

Anyway, on another thought, balance is the most important thing. If you can't keep a balance of life to see the different things you wish to see, you will never be happy. It always pays to be balanced in your life; money, time, and etc.

[siewjang]

I would say Love come in top priority. With good health but no love ones by your side what is the point. Where there is Love, the health will come automatically cos you are happy. That two thing actually blends together.

[Diong_Gar_Loon]

I think it's important to have a balance ..
if we have health without love, we will be very lonely....
if we have money without health and love, no one to share the wealth with..and money will be spend on hospital bills..
live life to the fullest.

[dtchieng]

i think most important is MERCY...

[jeongyik]

I think the most important in life is live to enjoy every moment in our life..Even you must enjoy your saddest moment..because without it, you won't have the enjoyment of happiest moment.

[Lava Gal]

live life to the fullest.

:) Personally i feel most important is TO LIVE IN 'd PRESENT...and yup, live life to d fullest...and life should be FILLED WITH UNIVERSAL LOVE

common people...more views....

[Lava Gal]

Here are some opinions i got 4m frenz who are out of tis forum...wen i posed tis Q to them

-Love
-Family (Responsibily to family)
-Career advancement
-Health
-Be happy & make ppl around us happy
-Live life to the fullest so there won't be regrets in life (Never say no before try. Always do my best for everything that I do. It can be from different aspect, studying, working, managing relationship with those I love the most, especially my family and frens)
-Time! (cuz there is never enuf of it and i'd like to live forever to do everything i wanna do)
-a reason to smile =) TO BE HAPPY
-Can't get what we want (coz dissatisfaction will make us strive harder...)
-Education
-Achieve a state where people respect us
-Spirituality

[Roland_Tang]

Here are some opinions i got 4m frenz who are out of tis forum...wen i posed tis Q to them

-Love
-Family (Responsibily to family)
-Career advancement
-Health
-Be happy & make ppl around us happy
-Live life to the fullest so there won't be regrets in life (Never say no before try. Always do my best for everything that I do. It can be from different aspect, studying, working, managing relationship with those I love the most, especially my family and frens)
-Time! (cuz there is never enuf of it and i'd like to live forever to do everything i wanna do)
-a reason to smile =) TO BE HAPPY
-Can't get what we want (coz dissatisfaction will make us strive harder...)
-Education
-Achieve a state where people respect us
-Spirituality

Cool Lavanya, great inputs. Yeah, I guess many people have diff views. What makes these views? Is it upbringing, or is it our current environment; peer pressure and etc? Just wondering...

[daBoss]

Here are some opinions i got 4m frenz who are out of tis forum...wen i posed tis Q to them

-Love
-Family (Responsibily to family)
-Career advancement
-Health
-Be happy & make ppl around us happy
-Live life to the fullest so there won't be regrets in life (Never say no before try. Always do my best for everything that I do. It can be from different aspect, studying, working, managing relationship with those I love the most, especially my family and frens)
-Time! (cuz there is never enuf of it and i'd like to live forever to do everything i wanna do)
-a reason to smile =) TO BE HAPPY
-Can't get what we want (coz dissatisfaction will make us strive harder...)
-Education
-Achieve a state where people respect us
-Spirituality
wow!!! it's amazing we still have people like you in this world... :)

[ausman]

MIne is MHF(Money Health Family) All in one and one for all...

[Lava Gal]

wow!!! it's amazing we still have people like you in this world... :)

uhm...watz tat supposed to mean?? :confused:

[Lava Gal]

Cool Lavanya, great inputs. Yeah, I guess many people have diff views. What makes these views? Is it upbringing, or is it our current environment; peer pressure and etc? Just wondering...

well roland...i do not have d answer to that Q...depends on the individuals i guess. i think all that u have mentioned above (BOLDED PARTS) + what we have encountered in life so far contributes to the order of prioritizing things in our life.

Hah...i just came across some quotes..lemme share them here, hope its appropriate
~ The IDEAL of life is just to LIVE IDEALLY

~ To live is to CHOOSE (Freedom is the right to choose:the right to create for oneself the alternatives of choice - Thomas Jefferson)

~ When u learn how to DIE, u learn how to LIVE - 4m Tuesdays with Morrie

~ Life should be a pattern of experience to savour, not endure. Life may not be the party we hoped for, but while we are here, we might as well dance!

and my favourite 1 is...

Life may give u a HUNDRED reasons to CRY...boo hooo hoooooooo.......But u can give life a THOUSAND reasons to SMILE :)


If anyone has anymore quotes to share, please do so...

[yee keong]

use 80/20 rule. live 80% for today, 10% for yesterday and 10% for tomorrow. you'll never know when you gonna die, you do not know what you will live for, but you know what you're doing now.

Live life to the fullest today, so that you may have a better tomorrow and sweet memories from yesterday.

[kitty_cat]

mani laaa.... erks... i mean MONEY..MONEY...MONEY... I love the smell of MONEY... health... well... erks!

[Lava Gal]

mani laaa.... erks... i mean MONEY..MONEY...MONEY... I love the smell of MONEY... health... well... erks!

Kitty...maybe since u have 9 lifes, health isnt so improtant yea..uhm...but most of us here have 1 onli...then how?

[Fulat]

I also think money is the most important thing.

No money = no honey = no family = no kids = no body to carry you name to the next generation

No money = no ginseng = no birdness = no good food = no fitness first = no health = no specialist medical care = no quality of life = no proper funeral

No money = no holidays = no breaks = get stressed

[Lava Gal]

I also think money is the most important thing.

No money = no honey = no family = no kids = no body to carry you name to the next generation

No money = no ginseng = no birdness = no good food = no fitness first = no health = no specialist medical care = no quality of life = no proper funeral

No money = no holidays = no breaks = get stressed

wow FULAT! tatz alot of equations....ermm......would any1 like to comment on that?

[Dino]

I also think money is the most important thing.

No money = no honey = no family = no kids = no body to carry you name to the next generation

No money = no ginseng = no birdness = no good food = no fitness first = no health = no specialist medical care = no quality of life = no proper funeral

No money = no holidays = no breaks = get stressed

No Health = No work = No Money= no honey = no family = no kids = no body to carry you name to the next generation

No money = no ginseng = no birdness = no good food = no fitness first = no health = no specialist medical care = no quality of life = no proper funeral

No money = no holidays = no breaks = get stressed

[Lava Gal]

No Health = No work = No Money= no honey = no family = no kids = no body to carry you name to the next generation

No money = no ginseng = no birdness = no good food = no fitness first = no health = no specialist medical care = no quality of life = no proper funeral

No money = no holidays = no breaks = get stressed


I luv ur answer dino...bravo!!!
Fulat kena balik :p

[clos]

parents and $$$ :D

[Fulat]

No Health = No work = No Money= no honey = no family = no kids = no body to carry you name to the next generation

No money = no ginseng = no birdness = no good food = no fitness first = no health = no specialist medical care = no quality of life = no proper funeral

No money = no holidays = no breaks = get stressed

Dad no Cash = you no Health

[Dino]

Dad no Cash = you no Health

Dad no health = Dad no Cash = you no Health = you no Cash!! :D

[Lava Gal]

Dad no health = Dad no Cash = you no Health = you no Cash!! :D

oooooooOOOoooo.....some battle on between fulat & dino here izit? :rolleyes:
NO LOVE = NO DAD & NO SON = HEALTH oso deteriorate = no $$$

no1 is anything without love :D

[Lava Gal]

saw that a stalker was viewing this thread...and wonder if anyone has any new opinions bout this topic??

haha...seems like the battle of my signature vs Shirui's is somewat linked tooo....coz mine says is MOST IMPORTANT

http://www.acs-sitiawan.com/forum/showthread.php?t=1994&page=2

[Sarah]

interesting you ask this Q... Cz its something that really challenges me..

Some of you said live life to the fullest??? How?? Its just a saying laa, not practical one laa.. live life as in doing the things we want to know without knowing boundaries, things that will satisfy us, even things we know that are wrong, things that hurt other ppl etc?? hmm... Well, I dunno what's in the mind of the ppl who said all these... but I guess, that's what I understand from it.

So for me, to be able to feel contented in EVERYTHING i have now, is the most important thing.

Alot of ppl now strive to work hard and earn lots of money, which they may never get to enjoy it should they die earlier than they see the money... (that's just an example)

[shiruikage]

i say :
1st: health
2nd: family
3rd: friends
4th: friends
last: others

[Lava Gal]

...ultimately, i guess tatz d key!

[clos]

most important = love&happiness (sounds abit fairy tale, hor?)

[h2o]

interesting you ask this Q... Cz its something that really challenges me..

Some of you said live life to the fullest??? How?? Its just a saying laa, not practical one laa.. live life as in doing the things we want to know without knowing boundaries, things that will satisfy us, even things we know that are wrong, things that hurt other ppl etc?? hmm... Well, I dunno what's in the mind of the ppl who said all these... but I guess, that's what I understand from it.

So for me, to be able to feel contented in EVERYTHING i have now, is the most important thing.

Alot of ppl now strive to work hard and earn lots of money, which they may never get to enjoy it should they die earlier than they see the money... (that's just an example)
i agree w art's opinion regarding what is generally perceived as "living life to the fullest" and i respect her v matured view of contentment as the most important thing.


at the very end you will realise that life is but a collection of memories....... we can't choose them because there is no perfect life (ie not only good experiences but a mix). and for all those advocating health, no matter how hard we try there is no guarantee against things like cancer, miscarriage, old age and physical deterioration, so if we make that an obsessive focus in our life (don't get me wrong i'm not advocating unhealthy living) then i think we'll miss the mark of real living. this thread has actually made me reflect on what's of the utmost importance in my living and i have to say it is to learn to savour every experience from the mundane to the exquisite. love, hurt, joy, exhilaration, pain, pleasure, brokenness, passion, fear, comfort.........so many more...
savour them all, from the awesome memories to the bitter-sweet ones...... we can't really choose them after all
to me this is what is living life to the fullest

[Lava Gal]

...savouring whatever may come our way, and handling it well, without hurting anyone else, or ourselves in the process!

Art & h2o....tatz my opinion on the cliched phrase :)

[amelia7]

agree with you too...you have put it very aptly. Life is meant to be lived to the fullest. We should strive for that because there is no guarantee in life....one can never be sure that what one strives for will be what one gets. But to live it to the fullest, yes. The memories that we collect are those that give meaning(s) to our lives. Imagine living out a life with only the same thing day in day out....

i agree w art's opinion regarding what is generally perceived as "living life to the fullest" and i respect her v matured view of contentment as the most important thing.


at the very end you will realise that life is but a collection of memories....... we can't choose them because there is no perfect life (ie not only good experiences but a mix). and for all those advocating health, no matter how hard we try there is no guarantee against things like cancer, miscarriage, old age and physical deterioration, so if we make that an obsessive focus in our life (don't get me wrong i'm not advocating unhealthy living) then i think we'll miss the mark of real living. this thread has actually made me reflect on what's of the utmost importance in my living and i have to say it is to learn to savour every experience from the mundane to the exquisite. love, hurt, joy, exhilaration, pain, pleasure, brokenness, passion, fear, comfort.........so many more...
savour them all, from the awesome memories to the bitter-sweet ones...... we can't really choose them after all
to me this is what is living life to the fullest

[darthvader]

Hie every1...

Do share what (in ur opinion) is MOST IMPORTANT in Life. Is it people, things, responsibilities, feelings - well...anything at all...whatz ur say? Feel free to include d reason(s) as well...

Thou 4m d same alma mater, the course of life would have made each individual's priorities different, at different stages of life. Hoping 2 get a wide range of interesting replies - whether u r a 'somebody' or a 'nobody'...lets start forumming! ;)

Cheerios...

having a purpose in life / knowing your purpose in life

[Lava Gal]

very well said, Darthie! :D

so may i know wat do u work as?

[darthvader]

very well said, Darthie! :D

so may i know wat do u work as?

i run a legal firm :D

[shiruikage]

i run a legal firm :D
great, not oni is darth vader an evil sith, he gotta be an evil lawyer as well? :eek: :laugh:

[darthvader]

great, not oni is darth vader an evil sith, he gotta be an evil lawyer as well? :eek: :laugh:

yes, sometimes i'm ashamed of myself ha ha ha :D

[shiruikage]

yes, sometimes i'm ashamed of myself ha ha ha :D
lol....better if u involved in class actio suit cases...then can ask u to sue the pants off alot of ppl! :eek: LOL

[Lava Gal]

be proud of urself, brudder!;)

[shiruikage]

be proud of urself, brudder!;)
which one? :h:

[Lava Gal]

the one who said he's ashamed of himself lor...u pura-pura ke or reali lost

[shiruikage]

the one who said he's ashamed of himself lor...u pura-pura ke or reali lost
lol, darth, i think she's talking about u! sue her! and btw, do u have a daughter?

[Lava Gal]

y shirui..u wanna go after his daughter? ;)

[shiruikage]

y shirui..u wanna go after his daughter? ;)
no lar. ;) just wondering if her daughter (if any) is named Sue? :laugh:

[Lava Gal]

i tot darthie was a guy :o

[shiruikage]

i tot darthie was a guy :o
guy or ger? anyway, got daughter name sue or not? :confused:

[darthvader]

:( i'm not married yet. so, no children...so, no daughter named sue-lah ha ha ....but i'll consider that name ha ha ...by the way, try to avoid lawyers at all cost...not worth it...run far far away :D