[CLOSED]Who don't enjoy flirting?

[piglet]

Don't u don't enjoy flirting?

[Rayhong]

flirting with someone or someone flirting with me?

[piglet]

flirting with someone or someone flirting with me?

lets flirt..

[piglet]

flirting with someone or someone flirting with me?

dun u enjoy flirting?

[piglet]

Is it normal if a person dun enjoy flirting?

[daLady]

lets flirt..
when u flirt with someone or that someone flirt with you, neither you nor the person will start with the word 'let's flirt'...it's all subtle and mostly body language ;)

[piglet]

when u flirt with someone or that someone flirt with you, neither you nor the person will start with the word 'let's flirt'...it's all subtle and mostly body language ;)

in tht case... piglet have no chemistry with Ray.. :D

[piglet]

when u flirt with someone or that someone flirt with you, neither you nor the person will start with the word 'let's flirt'...it's all subtle and mostly body language ;)

Now ur mother of 2, do you still enjoy flirting, especially admirer tot ur still single?

[daLady]

Is it normal if a person dun enjoy flirting?

OK...in January 2005 issue of CLEO (M'sia), they say that girls normally select a flirting buddy who is someone safe, like a friend's boyfriend, husband or someone who knows they are attached in a serious relationship. And the main reason they play the game is to boost their self-esteem coz all girls want to be desired...

Guys, on the other hand, have only one reason to flirt...to get laid.

So ladies and gentlemen of ACS Sitiawan forum...do you agree?

[piglet]

OK...in January 2005 issue of CLEO (M'sia), they say that girls normally select a flirting buddy who is someone safe, like a friend's boyfriend, husband or someone who knows they are attached in a serious relationship. And the main reason they play the game is to boost their self-esteem coz all girls want to be desired...

Guys, on the other hand, have only one reason to flirt...to get laid.

So ladies and gentlemen of ACS Sitiawan forum...do you agree?

wat abt flirting with stranger?

[daLady]

Now ur mother of 2, do you still enjoy flirting, especially admirer tot ur still single?

Aiyah...I'm at a disadvantage here coz boss also reads the forum woh....these are the kind of stuff we talk about with our best buddy but not with hubby ;)

But honestly...it's nice to know that the members of the opposite sex (other than your hubby) still find you attractive... :D

[daLady]

wat abt flirting with stranger?

Can you contribute your opinion instead of asking the others for opinions for a change...say something and the others will join in...am waiting for Jang...

I've given my 2 sen worth...your turn now. :)

[song cm]

Aiyah...I'm at a disadvantage here coz boss also reads the forum woh....these are the kind of stuff we talk about with our best buddy but not with hubby ;)

But honestly...it's nice to know that the members of the opposite sex (other than your hubby) still find you attractive... :D

This applies to both men and women but I guess it has more impact on women.

[song cm]

Can you contribute your opinion instead of asking the others for opinions for a change...say something and the others will join in...am waiting for Jang...

I've given my 2 sen worth...your turn now. :)

Yeah Piglet....say something lah...don ask questions all the time :p

[clos]

zzzzzzzzzzzzz :rolleyes:

[buff]

OK...in January 2005 issue of CLEO (M'sia), they say that girls normally select a flirting buddy who is someone safe, like a friend's boyfriend, husband or someone who knows they are attached in a serious relationship. And the main reason they play the game is to boost their self-esteem coz all girls want to be desired...

Guys, on the other hand, have only one reason to flirt...to get laid.

So ladies and gentlemen of ACS Sitiawan forum...do you agree?

there is no such thing as 'safe' flirting, even if the target is 'safe'... things may get out of control...

[daBoss]

there is no such thing as 'safe' flirting, even if the target is 'safe'... things may get out of control...
speaking from experience eh, no lah no lah - i won't chium pou your secrets... :)

in any event, i think some flirting is good - if you know your limits... it just makes life a little more interesting...

[song cm]

speaking from experience eh, no lah no lah - i won't chium pou your secrets... :)

in any event, i think some flirting is good - if you know your limits... it just makes life a little more interesting...

True....but as Buff says...things may get out of control....
So, one must make sure that the limits are clearly defined and observed....and bail out once the limit is breached....

Now, the six million dollar question is... What do you think is the limit??

[JenX]

True....but as Buff says...things may get out of control....
So, one must make sure that the limits are clearly defined and observed....and bail out once the limit is breached....

Now, the six million dollar question is... What do you think is the limit??

See no touch lor.

[clos]

limit =
4male, keep your zip UP
4females, have your menstrual when u flirt.......... :p

[piglet]

But honestly...it's nice to know that the members of the opposite sex (other than your hubby) still find you attractive... :D

What if a lesb. finds u attrative? Will you be as flattered?

[song cm]

What if a lesb. finds u attrative? Will you be as flattered?

Piglet, are u doin a research or writing a book? Stop asking questions and start answering them.... :p

[daLady]

What if a lesb. finds u attrative? Will you be as flattered?

I'll feel what I feel when a girl gives me a compliment - feel good but not flattered :D

You?

[arch-an-gel]

Flirt?? Mmmm..not within the department.

Angels normally tickles people with their feathers..
and they would "Haaaaa cheeeeee" (Sneeze) :p

Shalom.

[piglet]

I'll feel what I feel when a girl gives me a compliment - feel good but not flattered :D

You?

Not that, I mean what if a lesb. finds u attractive and wants to flirt with u?

I feel that lesb. have good taste...normally their gf are quite pretty..
Me?.. of course I feel flattered..

[song cm]

Not that, I mean what if a lesb. finds u attractive and wants to flirt with u?

I feel that lesb. have good taste...normally their gf are quite pretty..
Me?.. of course I feel flattered..

Will you encourage her to continue flirting??

[piglet]

Piglet, are u doin a research or writing a book? Stop asking questions and start answering them.... :p

No, Piglet is still young, have lots of innocent questions to ask.. Pls be patient with this young piglet

Flirting is about getting along with others..enthralling them with our sensuality, attractiveness, humour and common sense...

Piglet enjoys flirting with LIMITS..

What about U song..

[piglet]

Will you encourage her to continue flirting??

Yeap.. but don't let them touch u

[song cm]

No, Piglet is still young, have lots of innocent questions to ask.. Pls be patient with this young piglet

Flirting is about getting along with others..enthralling them with our sensuality, attractiveness, humour and common sense...

Piglet enjoys flirting with LIMITS..

What about U song..

Me...I totally agree with daBoss...flirting does make your life interesting but you must make sure dat there are set rules and limits...the only problem is when one crosses the limits... then sei kan lor..... :)

[piglet]

True....but as Buff says...things may get out of control....
So, one must make sure that the limits are clearly defined and observed....and bail out once the limit is breached....

Now, the six million dollar question is... What do you think is the limit??

This is taken from Deb's Flirting Rules:-

Avoid flirting with someone else's honey. You look less than righteous (rather trifling actually), and could really hurt someone's feelings or start something you are not prepared to finish.

Don't expect that because someone flirts with you that you are owed their time or anything else. Relax! Look upon the flirtation as a pleasant way to pass the time.

Don't flirt to make someone you are with (or want to be with) jealous. It will most likely backfire and you'll end up looking like a fool.

Remember that flirting is subtle. Overt sexual innuendo (unless it's with your main squeeze) is not flirting… it's a proposition! Avoid verbal comments or behavior that could be construed as an overt sexual invitation.

Lastly, flirt only with the one you really want, not the one that is easy to get. Often what happens is the one you really want is watching you, and then decides that you weren't really flirting with or interested in them anyway.

[piglet]

Me...I totally agree with daBoss...flirting does make your life interesting but you must make sure dat there are set rules and limits...the only problem is when one crosses the limits... then sei kan lor..... :)

How do u flirt?

[Rayhong]

in tht case... piglet have no chemistry with Ray.. :D

thank god! haha

but never know ok.. sometimes opposites attract! not that i am la :D

[piglet]

Found an interesting definition from a flirting website:-

Developing the ability to flirt is an essential element in the art of meeting and establishing contact with some of the other 63 million singles in America. Flirting can affirm a woman's feminine charms or make a man feel good about his masculinity. It can really boost your ego and make you feel more attractive, more sensual, more desirable. Flirting with your date makes him or her feel wanted, exciting and captivating. Your date will feel flattered, appreciated and good about themselves when around you. That good feeling will spread and they'll feel pretty darn good about you, too.

Many single men have expressed to me that they view flirting as cruel, a punishment or taunt of some type. Their opinion is that flirting is a "waste of time" and "shouldn't be done." These guys feel that once a woman flirts with them they are then "owed" something. They view the flirt as a promise! Now fellas, if this is truly your mindset, let me tell you right now that nobody in this world owes you a thing! If a woman flirts with you, or you flirt with her, it is simply an opportunity for a delightful, fun and entertaining exchange of winks, giggles and light social banter. It doesn't mean that you are guaranteed anything - not a dance, a drink, a date, a relationship or sex!

You can flirt with total strangers, acquaintences or friends. You can flirt with looks, with words, with sly little touches, or any combination of the above. A flirtation can last for seconds, minutes, or even years. It can lead to more, or nowhere in particular

[Rayhong]

Found an interesting piece of article from a flirting website:-

Developing the ability to flirt is an essential element in the art of meeting and establishing contact with some of the other 63 million singles in America. Flirting can affirm a woman's feminine charms or make a man feel good about his masculinity. It can really boost your ego and make you feel more attractive, more sensual, more desirable. Flirting with your date makes him or her feel wanted, exciting and captivating. Your date will feel flattered, appreciated and good about themselves when around you. That good feeling will spread and they'll feel pretty darn good about you, too.

Many single men have expressed to me that they view flirting as cruel, a punishment or taunt of some type. Their opinion is that flirting is a "waste of time" and "shouldn't be done." These guys feel that once a woman flirts with them they are then "owed" something. They view the flirt as a promise! Now fellas, if this is truly your mindset, let me tell you right now that nobody in this world owes you a thing! If a woman flirts with you, or you flirt with her, it is simply an opportunity for a delightful, fun and entertaining exchange of winks, giggles and light social banter. It doesn't mean that you are guaranteed anything - not a dance, a drink, a date, a relationship or sex!

You can flirt with total strangers, acquaintences or friends. You can flirt with looks, with words, with sly little touches, or any combination of the above. A flirtation can last for seconds, minutes, or even years. It can lead to more, or nowhere in particular

ooh educational.. and your point being?

[piglet]

thank god! haha

but never know ok.. sometimes opposites attract! not that i am la :D

Tht's y can't flirt with u eventhough sometimes opposites attract... cause dun thk have any chemistry with u...
u r ?? :eek:

[Rayhong]

Tht's y can't flirt with u eventhough sometimes opposites attract... cause dun thk have any chemistry with u...
u r ?? :eek:

in your dreams! haha :D

[piglet]

in your dreams! haha :D

dun think it will be my dream.. more like nitemare :D

[song cm]

How do u flirt?

hmm....to share or not to share?? ;)

[song cm]

dun think it will be my dream.. more like nitemare :D

this sounds like ex lovers quarrel...... :p

[Rayhong]

this sounds like ex lovers quarrel...... :p

:D that's how it all starts.. just like the movies

[piglet]

this sounds like ex lovers quarrel...... :p

if ex lover.. will not "quarrel" so openly.. :p

[Rayhong]

if ex lover.. will not "quarrel" so openly.. :p

song was implying that it sounded like one la.. :D

[piglet]

song was implying that it sounded like one la.. :D

i knwlar...
just let him know tht if ex-lover.. I will call him up and scold him upside down

[song cm]

song was implying that it sounded like one la.. :D

Hmm...maybe u guys need a room to talk this over...haha... :D

[Rayhong]

that's right song... she never listens - always jumps to conclusions! :D just like when we were lovers *puke puke :D

[song cm]

ohh.....I am so duh.......

I think both Piglet n Ray are flirting with each other....correcto?? :D

[Rayhong]

bingo - proved my point. actually flirting in the form of arguments could go either way :D

aiyah you've seen You've Got Mail right? F-O-X FOx!

[piglet]

that's right song... she never listens - always jumps to conclusions! :D just like when we were lovers *puke puke :D

since whn u can understand me so well.. I don't listen but i read and type :P

[song cm]

bingo - proved my point. actually flirting in the form of arguments could go either way :D

aiyah you've seen You've Got Mail right? F-O-X FOx!

Yah...I was about to snip this thread but now there is no need.... ;)

[Rayhong]

since whn u can understand me so well.. I don't listen but i read and type :P

aiyo i think i need to start a thread about opening up one's mind.. my statement was a mere implication la...

[piglet]

ohh.....I am so duh.......

I think both Piglet n Ray are flirting with each other....correcto?? :D

:eek: :eek: :eek:

[song cm]

:eek: :eek: :eek:

hey...don pretendlar... :p

[piglet]

hmm....to share or not to share?? ;)

Sharelar... dun divert fr the topic.. and become BATU API

[Rayhong]

sometimes you need a batu api to keep the thread interesting ma

[piglet]

hey...don pretendlar... :p

pretend for wht :P

[song cm]

sometimes you need a batu api to keep the thread interesting ma

Yeah Ray, u need the batuapi as well to reignite the flame..... :D

[piglet]

Yeah Ray, u need the batuapi as well to reignite the flame..... :D

u will get burnt! :D

[Rayhong]

that's the price cupid has to pay la sometimes.. horr song??

[song cm]

that's the price cupid has to pay la sometimes.. horr song??

Yaloo...sacrifice mah...for frens...after all this is a season of giving... ;)

[BohPian]

Yaloo...sacrifice mah...for frens...after all this is a season of giving... ;)

Good work cupid, already can see sparks flying liau. :D

[piglet]

Yaloo...sacrifice mah...for frens...after all this is a season of giving... ;)

Season of giving..... :D wer's my present?

[piglet]

Good work cupid, already can see sparks flying liau. :D

Not cupid.. more like devil @ work

[BohPian]

Season of giving..... :D wer's my present?

Cupid is busy looking for a box big enough to fit Ray in :D

[piglet]

Cupid is busy looking for a box big enough to fit Ray in :D

BohPian... u sound like v BOHLIOW!

[song cm]

Cupid is busy looking for a box big enough to fit Ray in :D

Boh Pian...u read my mind.... :D
Should I wrap Ray with jus a ribbon on?? :D

Piglet... :p

[Rayhong]

yes yes wrap me with just a ribbon in my birthday suit!

[piglet]

Boh Pian...u read my mind.... :D
Should I wrap Ray with jus a ribbon on?? :D

Piglet... :p

Can request to chg present?

[BohPian]

Boh Pian...u read my mind.... :D
Should I wrap Ray with jus a ribbon on?? :D

Piglet... :p

Dat and just a bowtie :D

[song cm]

Can request to chg present?

Piglet...don't avoid the inevitable..... :D

[Rayhong]

cannot change presents la piglet!! u flirt with me so much already, now i am totally smitten and now you wanna change presents! cannot so eeevillll one.

[song cm]

BohPian... u sound like v BOHLIOW!

Hey....how can u say like dat.....I know BohPian for so long oredi...he has tai pah liau, u know.... :)

[BohPian]

cannot change presents la piglet!! u flirt with me so much already, now i am totally smitten and now you wanna change presents! cannot so eeevillll one.

Aiyah, the fair sex don't always mean what they say, or say what they mean. :D

[Rayhong]

ok guys, i'm logging out for the day

piglet, i will be thinking of you... i miss you already

[BohPian]

ok guys, i'm logging out for the day

piglet, i will be thinking of you... i miss you already

Merry christmas, and don't forget dat bowtie :)

[daLady]

Wah...just went away for awhile and so many people flirting with piglet liao....jealouslah me :D
Dem...missed all the fun...

[Voon Chan]

limit =
4male, keep your zip UP
4females, have your menstrual when u flirt.......... :p
the zip will go down when the heat is up for male & for women, when you are having menstrual, the guy can easily turn you on if the know how.

[Alkapocino]

See no touch lor.
Better watch video if this is the case. :D

[daLady]

the zip will go down when the heat is up for male & for women, when you are having menstrual, the guy can easily turn you on if the know how.

Turned on but still no go...what's the use?

[Voon Chan]

Turned on but still no go...what's the use?After turn on must go lah. She will kill you for turning her on & let her go just like that. Some people don't mind

[Alkapocino]

Turned on but still no go...what's the use?
Makan sendiri lor..... :p

That is what I called ULTIMATE FLIRT!

[Rayhong]

alka

you say makan sendiri must be more clear la... in the hokkien term, u would imply that she will have to chiak ka ki.. meaning kau tim her self... but in malay, makan sendiri is quite possible if one is a contortionist! :D

[daLady]

After turn on must go lah. She will kill you for turning her on & let her go just like that. Some people don't mind

Eh... you are speaking from the view point of a guy...not a girl. And if you are speaking from the viewpoint of a girl...now who can that be if not ...?

Wah...like that you must be dem keng hor...pui fuk pui fuk... :p

[Voon Chan]

Eh... you are speaking from the view point of a guy...not a girl. And if you are speaking from the viewpoint of a girl...now who can that be if not ...?

Wah...like that you must be dem keng hor...pui fuk pui fuk... :pNot Keng lah. I am speaking from both side. My wife is not my 1st love & I have numerous gf before my marriage. Flirting is an classic form of art. You either have it or don't, it is just like style.

Who can that be? I would not like to reveal any name here as I can assure you that they are not from ACS S'wan. I use to tell my wife stories about my adventures when we were friend, when we ended up together I am like an opened book to her. She can accept my past adventures

[daLady]

Not Keng lah. I am speaking from both side. My wife is not my 1st love & I have numerous gf before my marriage. Flirting is an classic form of art. You either have it or don't, it is just like style.

Who can that be? I would not like to reveal any name here as I can assure you that they are not from ACS S'wan. I use to tell my wife stories about my adventures when we were friend, when we ended up together I am like an opened book to her. She can accept my past adventures

None from ACS Sitiawan? Hmm...how convenient :rolleyes:

[Voon Chan]

None from ACS Sitiawan? Hmm...how convenient :rolleyes:Why asked such a question? Are you hinting something?I was such a good boy in ACS.

[daLady]

Why asked such a question? Are you hinting something?I was such a good boy in ACS.
If you didn't get it...forget it. Let's move on...

So VC, when you flirted with those girls, was your intention to bed them? Did you manage to get them all to bed?

[Linkinfark]

If you didn't get it...forget it. Let's move on...

So VC, when you flirted with those girls, was your intention to bed them? Did you manage to get them all to bed?

Wah lau.. so direct to the point...

Anyway Merry XXXmas guys!

[Voon Chan]

when you flirted with those girls, was your intention to bed them? Did you manage to get them all to bed?Flirting, my intention was not taking them to bed. It is just to have some fun, knowing that you are desirable by women(Yes! I stil have that, Charm, attractiveness or just appeal). Have fun is my ultimate intention. Exchanging glances again & again waiting for the right moment to get to know her, are fun. More exciting than sex as it is something new & fresh. ;) could be sexy if the other party is in.

Get them to bed? Let me see. Physical yes, sex not really. I don't have the habit of sleeping with stranger.

If you hit the right note, they will be all over you. A word of caution "Beware of fatal attraction it can kill you". Flirt carefully.

Happy Flirting everyone.

[song cm]

Not Keng lah. I am speaking from both side. My wife is not my 1st love & I have numerous gf before my marriage. Flirting is an classic form of art. You either have it or don't, it is just like style.

Who can that be? I would not like to reveal any name here as I can assure you that they are not from ACS S'wan. I use to tell my wife stories about my adventures when we were friend, when we ended up together I am like an opened book to her. She can accept my past adventures

Wah...VC...didn't know dat u are such a playboy one..... :D
Btw...how many is numerous? 10, 20, 30??.....

[song cm]

Flirting, my intention was not taking them to bed. It is just to have some fun, knowing that you are desirable by women(Yes! I stil have that, Charm, attractiveness or just appeal). Have fun is my ultimate intention. Exchanging glances again & again waiting for the right moment to get to know her, are fun. More exciting than sex as it is something new & fresh. ;) could be sexy if the other party is in.

Get them to bed? Let me see. Physical yes, sex not really. I don't have the habit of sleeping with stranger.

If you hit the right note, they will be all over you. A word of caution "Beware of fatal attraction it can kill you". Flirt carefully.

Happy Flirting everyone.

Oh...so touch only ah....hehe.....sounds like u had lots of fun but isn't going to bed the ultimate aim, correct me if I am wrong....... :D

[daLady]

Flirting, my intention was not taking them to bed. It is just to have some fun, knowing that you are desirable by women(Yes! I stil have that, Charm, attractiveness or just appeal). Have fun is my ultimate intention. Exchanging glances again & again waiting for the right moment to get to know her, are fun. More exciting than sex as it is something new & fresh. ;) could be sexy if the other party is in.

Get them to bed? Let me see. Physical yes, sex not really. I don't have the habit of sleeping with stranger.

If you hit the right note, they will be all over you. A word of caution "Beware of fatal attraction it can kill you". Flirt carefully.

Happy Flirting everyone.

If you didn't manage to get them to bed but think they have a thing for you or that they desire you, it means you've been taken for a ride by skillful female flirts ;) ...so think again :p

[song cm]

If you didn't manage to get them to bed but think they have a thing for you or that they desire you, it means you've been taken for a ride by skillful female flirts ;) ...so think again :p

daLady....maybe the girls wanted "it" but VC wouldn't give it to them??
But I guess any nomal man would have gave in....... :D

[piglet]

But I guess any nomal man would have gave in....... :D

I assumed tht ur one of the normal man, so u always gave in when u flirt? :D

[piglet]

Not Keng lah. I am speaking from both side. My wife is not my 1st love & I have numerous gf before my marriage. Flirting is an classic form of art. You either have it or don't, it is just like style.

Who can that be? I would not like to reveal any name here as I can assure you that they are not from ACS S'wan. I use to tell my wife stories about my adventures when we were friend, when we ended up together I am like an opened book to her. She can accept my past adventures

U sound like a desirable ..and also a flirtatious person and flirting is one of ur skill..
hemmm... care to post ur photo @ this thread??

[song cm]

I assumed tht ur one of the normal man, so u always gave in when u flirt? :D

But I dont flirt....so dat is nothing to give in......... :D

Anyway...wat I meant in giving in is not just in the context of mere flirting if you read the previous post clearly...... :p

[Beanie]

But I dont flirt....so dat is nothing to give in......... :D

Anyway...wat I meant in giving in is not just in the context of mere flirting if you read the previous post clearly...... :p

Which MEN don't flirt????????

[song cm]

Which MEN don't flirt????????

Are you making a general statement or are u speaking from experience? :p
If it is the latter, please share...... :D

[piglet]

Are you making a general statement or are u speaking from experience? :p
If it is the latter, please share...... :D

Forgot tht ur not a MAN... eunuch rite?

[song cm]

Forgot tht ur not a MAN... eunuch rite?

Why...still sore from the foursome we had on Xmas eve?? :D

[Beanie]

Are u in "union" now?? :D or shld I say "union" in Paris??

Not only in Paris, .. it's everywhere..

[song cm]

{thread snipped to Kay Poh Chee Corner - Piglet n Beanie}

[LiLiaN]

i know, this is like, 2 days after everyone had this discussion.. (darn it for living in different timezone, and i also blame it on the slow net connection)...

flirting is something i think everyone does, some do it well, others not so well... it can be something low key, like turning charm on to get something e.g. be nice to the encik at the custom so passport can be stamped without fuss.... or it can be full blown, also to get something e.g. guy chatting girl up in bar hoping to get somewhere (you know what i mean...)....

day to day flirtings are mainly harmless, to keep good rapport and to make one feels desirable and important and loved (or at least liked)... so why not indulge in it...?

[daLady]

U sound like a desirable ..and also a flirtatious person and flirting is one of ur skill..
hemmm... care to post ur photo @ this thread??

Aiyah...still no picture of VC...wonder if any of his yearmates has it.

[song cm]

Aiyah...still no picture of VC...wonder if any of his yearmates has it.

sorry....daLady, can't help you as we were in different class.....but i will continue to search my photo album......

[piglet]

sorry....daLady, can't help you as we were in different class.....but i will continue to search my photo album......

Any result?

[Voon Chan]

Oh...so touch only ah....hehe.....sounds like u had lots of fun but isn't going to bed the ultimate aim, correct me if I am wrong....... :DI don't really remember the number CM. I can remember my mom & sister scolding me when I have a new girl. Fun, yes! Yes, I agree with what you have said.

[daLady]

Aiyoh..so many contradictory points made here by a single person...seem likely they are either made-up or half-truths.... :D

Sigh..the things some people do or say to boost up their own dem ego.... :rolleyes:

[piglet]

Aiyoh..so many contradictory points made here by a single person...seem likely they are either made-up or half-truths.... :D

Sigh..the things some people do or say to boost up their own dem ego.... :rolleyes:

Agreee...VC talk talk so much on his historical flirts.. dunno true or not.....so damn ego

[piglet]

From the website of silly quotes:-

"God made mud, God made dirt, God made guys so girls could flirt!"

[Diong_Gar_Loon]

In my opinion, everyone flirts. It only depends to what extend and the objective of the flirt.

[piglet]

In my opinion, everyone flirts. It only depends to what extend and the objective of the flirt.

Need an objective to flirt?????
Tot flirting have only one objective.. is to have FUNNNN

[daLady]

Need an objective to flirt?????
Tot flirting have only one objective.. is to have FUNNNN

According to the CLEO magazine, guys usually have an objective different from girls ;)

[piglet]

According to the CLEO magazine, guys usually have an objective different from girls ;)

to have FUN as well rite? but diff. kind of fun

[daLady]

to have FUN as well rite? but diff. kind of fun

That's a wide definition of fun.... :D

[Diong_Gar_Loon]

Need an objective to flirt?????
Tot flirting have only one objective.. is to have FUNNNN
not necessary. some people flirt to make their partner jealous. others, to get the other person to bed. so like i say, it depends.

[piglet]

not necessary. some people flirt to make their partner jealous. others, to get the other person to bed. so like i say, it depends.

hemmm ....u flirt to make ur partner jealous?

[Diong_Gar_Loon]

hemmm ....u flirt to make ur partner jealous?
maybe yes......maybe no. hehe!

[piglet]

maybe yes......maybe no. hehe!

I guess u just enjoy flirting without any particular reasons..

[Diong_Gar_Loon]

I guess u just enjoy flirting without any particular reasons..
Not true.........people flirt either to get attention or to give attention. So which is your type?

[daLady]

Not true.........people flirt either to get attention or to give attention. So which is your type?
I tot it works both ways...otherwise, where's the fun?

[Sarah]

Hm...flirt... I guess, ppl flirt to get attention.. but it all comes with a sense of realization, there's no point flirting but just to be yourself. But, do not be confused between someone being nice and flirting. For some ppl, its just in their nature, that they can be very friendly to guys, and vice versa.

[athena]

can a friendly person be considered flirtatous? (pardon the spelling, got terrible spelling)

[Sarah]

I know that guys always "flirt" by their stare... haha... I have a bf already, yet I can still catch many of his friends staring at me.. I just felt it strongly that they were always staring at me. Then I tried to confirm by catching them doing it.. haha :) To be honest, it does feel flattering!! :)

[Sarah]

no! in that case..then everyone who's friendly and already have a partner, must never be close to any friends of opposite sex?? that's absurd!! Life don't just revolve around the couple, we still need friends too...

[song cm]

no! in that case..then everyone who's friendly and already have a partner, must never be close to any friends of opposite sex?? that's absurd!! Life don't just revolve around the couple, we still need friends too...

Really...it is tough for a married person to have a close friend who is from the opposite sex....again one has to look at the "degree of closeness"....this again falls back to the argument can a man n woman be close friends....

[athena]

Really...it is tough for a married person to have a close friend who is from the opposite sex....again one has to look at the "degree of closeness"....this again falls back to the argument can a man n woman be close friends....
i guess a good topic to start is what is the difference of being married and being single but have a partner

[clos]

can a friendly person be considered flirtatous? (pardon the spelling, got terrible spelling)

depends on :-
1)wat conversations u2 are talking about. if he/she indirectly complimenting you or somehow hinting that u look good etc:, obviously.....
2)how well u knw this person? is he/she always been friendly or ???
3)u'll know, we have that 'sense' if some1 is flirting.

[Rayhong]

i have a girlfriend. and at the same time i have very very good female friends that i do not want to have sex with. i believe one can be partnered and have a good friend of the opposite sex at the same time - it all boils down to motives and intentions.

what are we talking about again?

[Sarah]

sorry, I should rephrase... I did not mean married couples..when I said someone with partner. :) But you are right, I guess, to an extent you can only be close, but no further, for you wouldnt want to cause any misunderstandings. If I were married, i dont think i'll have the time to even be close to my girlfriends, let alone guys. Im sure, I can only do so much to keep in touch, maybe call once in a while or meet up once in a blue moon. I'll be soo uptight with daily chores, working, washing, cooking, ironing, taking care of kids... my... these alone will take up soo much of your time already.

[Sarah]

I think, its not so much of the person involved in flirting, I guess now its wat the partner would perceived given that their man/woman are involved.

For me, flirting days are way over! I've got better things to do than electrifying other men. Even to my bf, I have to keep charging my power to electrify him constantly... man, that's tiring...

on the other hand, I know how to avoid someone who's trying to flirt with me. Easy plain easy, no reason why some ppl come up with the excuse that they fell for it.

But the only thing that worries me, is what if I am being accused of flirting, when Im not!!

[Rayhong]

that's the thing.

anyone can flirt - and anyone WILL flirt when circumstances leads him/her to it - irregardless of whether this person is married, attached or single. of course if one is single, he/she is then justified to flirt all he/she wants because he/she is not accountable to another person.

makes no difference if you have been married for 20 years - if one sees something they like and gets "funny ideas" - the flirting will begin in hopes of reigniting the excitement of first encounters. it all boils down to motives.

wait... what are we talking about again? :D

[Sarah]

haha... u are so funny Ray...

We all just need to be true to ourselves and hold accountable of what we do laa.. for a mere seconds of excitement, which will jeopardize a relationship, is just not worth it...

[Sarah]

but hey, that wasnt wat I was saying.. my worry is that Im being accused by some non-sensible ppl.. u may never know what kind of ppl you will encounter.. my dad used to be like that..if he comes home one evening, and waited a while (which he perceived as forever) for my mum to open the door to greet him, he would accused my mum of letting her lover out of the house thru the backdoor...!!!

what an accusation??? Just imagine how my mum would feel...and I was there with my mum!!!

[clos]

I think, its not so much of the person involved in flirting, I guess now its wat the partner would perceived given that their man/woman are involved.

For me, flirting days are way over! I've got better things to do than electrifying other men. Even to my bf, I have to keep charging my power to electrify him constantly... man, that's tiring...

on the other hand, I know how to avoid someone who's trying to flirt with me. Easy plain easy, no reason why some ppl come up with the excuse that they fell for it.

But the only thing that worries me, is what if I am being accused of flirting, when Im not!!

i agree with this statement "Even to my bf, I have to keep charging my power to electrify him constantly... man, that's tiring... " :( me 2

[Rayhong]

haha... u are so funny Ray...

We all just need to be true to ourselves and hold accountable of what we do laa.. for a mere seconds of excitement, which will jeopardize a relationship, is just not worth it...

i aim to amuse! :D

well said about accountability!

[Rayhong]

but hey, that wasnt wat I was saying.. my worry is that Im being accused by some non-sensible ppl.. u may never know what kind of ppl you will encounter.. my dad used to be like that..if he comes home one evening, and waited a while (which he perceived as forever) for my mum to open the door to greet him, he would accused my mum of letting her lover out of the house thru the backdoor...!!!

what an accusation??? Just imagine how my mum would feel...and I was there with my mum!!!

as for what ppl might say, i live by this motto - as long as i am not doing anything wrong - F#$K them. afterall to every right there is a left, one man's terrorist is another man's freedom fighter - there is just no pleaseing everybody. right?

another relationship pitfall is insecurity and loss of faith. but that is another thread altogether.

[Rayhong]

i agree with this statement "Even to my bf, I have to keep charging my power to electrify him constantly... man, that's tiring... " :( me 2

haha how u do that? at the end of the day you plug yourself into the wall socket and charge up? heh heh :D

but it's good what you are doing. contributing to a 2 way relationship!

i also agree that i enjoy flirting with my gf the most... flirting that almost always leads to better things! :D

[Sarah]

haha..for me...recharge means sleep laa.. hehe :) have to rest alot alot...then baru got energy !!!

[Diong_Gar_Loon]

So........do we consider girls who dress up sexily, flirting. Women may argue that they just want to feel good. My opinion differs.

[Sarah]

hm... do you only want your girl to dress up sexily for your eyes only??? Dont you want to be proud of her??? Im just asking you a question... :)

[Sarah]

For me, I used to dress up very nicely, and since I got together with my bf, everyone says I've changed... that Ive become more aunty-looking!! Which is entirely not true! I still do dress to appeal at times, not becuz I want to flirt, but becuz I want to make my bf feel proud to have me. That's the only reason why I'd dress up. However, most of the time, I dont, cuz I know Im secured in him.

[Sarah]

Even after marriage and have half a dozen of kids, women should not take it for granted.. personal grooming is vital! I don't mean they should dress sexily... but how would u define sexy?? short mini skirt? tube?? for me, anything that's not revealing... is ok. Some girls are a natural beauty, however they dress also, they look gorgeous and appealing... this u cant blame them!

[KoChun]

Some girls are a natural beauty, however they dress also, they look gorgeous and appealing... this u cant blame them!

Men are not going to blame them, I am sure. Gonna love them!!!

[Sarah]

u dunno ar Kochun... some guys are very protective wann... cannot let their women reveal their beauty to public wan.. you know what religion Im talking abt laa...

anyway, KoChun.. is he the "to san" ar??? you good at gambling ar??? aiyoh

[KoChun]

No, no, I don't know how to gamble wan. Don't even know how to play simple black jack. :D

[Diong_Gar_Loon]

hm... do you only want your girl to dress up sexily for your eyes only??? Dont you want to be proud of her??? Im just asking you a question... :)
I don't mind her dressing up sexily only for me but of course I also like to show her off la. But truthfully, are they dressing to make their partner's proud or flashing around.

[athena]

haha...Art...protective men from a 'certain' religion ....hahaha...that's good..

well, the way that I am seeing it is that. Some guys prefer their gals to dress ordinary in public and more appealing, when in private, is that perhaps they would not want their gal to 'electrify' other ppl the way they got electrified in the first place.

anyone can confirm this?

[Sarah]

then the question lies within yourself. Do you really know her well enough? Do you trust her?? It's quite surprising not to know if she's impressing you or others... but then again, even if she's impressing others, she might do it for you! :)

I will want others to tell my bf that he's got a gorgeous gf... dont u feel flattered? :D

[Sarah]

No, no, I don't know how to gamble wan. Don't even know how to play simple black jack. :D

ok ok .nvm laa...I teach u laa..Im Queen of Tai Di.. :)

[KoChun]

Eh, what is tai di ah? Can elaborate ah?

[Sarah]

haha...Art...protective men from a 'certain' religion ....hahaha...that's good..

well, the way that I am seeing it is that. Some guys prefer their gals to dress ordinary in public and more appealing, when in private, is that perhaps they would not want their gal to 'electrify' other ppl the way they got electrified in the first place.

anyone can confirm this?

for me, if she's urs she's urs.. if you cant trust her that way, then you can never trust her at all.. since u have to guard her from electrifying others... you cant control her 24/7..

[athena]

if Art is Queen of Tai Di, I am Queen of 99...Art rmbr that game?

[Sarah]

Eh, what is tai di ah? Can elaborate ah?

dun pretend laa... its soo famous... hm..Tai Di, is 60% skill, 40% luck (depending on the cards u get).. hehe :)

[Sarah]

if Art is Queen of Tai Di, I am Queen of 99...Art rmbr that game?

argh.. i should know wan.. but dun remember how to play liao... the one we played at Bkt TInggi wan ar??

[piglet]

Even after marriage and have half a dozen of kids, women should not take it for granted.. personal grooming is vital! I don't mean they should dress sexily... but how would u define sexy?? short mini skirt? tube?? for me, anything that's not revealing... is ok. Some girls are a natural beauty, however they dress also, they look gorgeous and appealing... this u cant blame them!

Do not need to dress as little cloth to be define sexy.. can be quite disgusting at time... no taste...
Dress sexily, can be not too exposed...example...SIA stewardess uniform... I thk it's really sexy...(it's not a short mini skirt or a tube..)

[Sarah]

Do not need to dress as little cloth to be define sexy.. can be quite disgusting at time... no taste...
Dress sexily, can be not too exposed...example...SIA stewardess uniform... I thk it's really sexy...(it's not a short mini skirt or a tube..)

SIA not coat meh??? i feel that MAS uniform is nicer!

[athena]

argh.. i should know wan.. but dun remember how to play liao... the one we played at Bkt TInggi wan ar??
yup yup :D

[Diong_Gar_Loon]

then the question lies within yourself. Do you really know her well enough? Do you trust her?? It's quite surprising not to know if she's impressing you or others... but then again, even if she's impressing others, she might do it for you! :)

I will want others to tell my bf that he's got a gorgeous gf... dont u feel flattered? :D
well then, you are flirting to get attention so that your bf will be proud of you. Correct???

[piglet]

SIA not coat meh??? i feel that MAS uniform is nicer!

:D same same lar... can make the MAN nose bleed..

[song cm]

Do not need to dress as little cloth to be define sexy.. can be quite disgusting at time... no taste...
Dress sexily, can be not too exposed...example...SIA stewardess uniform... I thk it's really sexy...(it's not a short mini skirt or a tube..)

so...piglet...u gonna wear one when u come to Penang?? :D

[piglet]

well then, you are flirting to get attention so that your bf will be proud of you. Correct???

She dun need to flirt to get attention with her dressing, it attract attentions for others :D

[KoChun]

dun pretend laa... its soo famous... hm..Tai Di, is 60% skill, 40% luck (depending on the cards u get).. hehe :)

Tai Di means what? Big 2 ah? What is so big about 2? I thot Ace of Spade the biggest? Gamble big or small? If lose small only, then maybe I can learn from you and even pay a little 'tuition' fees.

[piglet]

so...piglet...u gonna wear one when u come to Penang?? :D

Kebaya.. tak ada... baju kurung + tudung.. boleh?

[Diong_Gar_Loon]

so...piglet...u gonna wear one when u come to Penang?? :D
so............fetishes over stewardess uniform. hehehe! maybe we can start a thread on what uniform turns people on and get a poll on it.

[KoChun]

Kebaya.. tak ada... baju kurung + tudung.. boleh?

Sarong pun boleh lah...

[piglet]

so............fetishes over stewardess uniform. hehehe! maybe we can start a thread on what uniform turns people on and get a poll on it.

Make it into glass musuem??? :rolleyes:

[piglet]

Sarong pun boleh lah...

Tak ada saronglar... how?

[Sarah]

well then, you are flirting to get attention so that your bf will be proud of you. Correct???

I beg to differ... that's not flirting :D it never even crossed my mind... Its really abit childish to even think of it.. I dress nicely, as courtesy.. i just want to be presentable and not embarrass my bf.. i mean for me laa... it's plainly out of courtesy laa..

I really dunno about others... all you need is to trust her and to know her well..and that even if she dresses up, take it as your pride! and not be unhappy abt it. :)

[KoChun]

Tak ada saronglar... how?

Pakai sari atau cheongsam loh :)

[piglet]

Pakai sari atau cheongsam loh :)

I pakai Cheongsam... U pakai SamFu.. ok? Deal?

[Sarah]

haha... see... piglet said not MAS and SIA's uniform not revealing one also can make man's nose bleed ar... then its not about dressing then.. its about our conduct! our body language...!! :)

[athena]

wat kebaya, sari, sarong la....tersasul from topic liao le

[Sarah]

i think that's what Im trying to say... even if I dress until dem sexy... but keep a distance from men, don't think my bf would even think of me flirting at all. . yes yes.. its all abt conduct and body language! :)

[piglet]

haha... see... piglet said not MAS and SIA's uniform not revealing one also can make man's nose bleed ar... then its not about dressing then.. its about our conduct! our body language...!! :)

not tht the stewardess are flirtatious or because of their body language.. just look at their body hugging kebaya uniform ... those with good body.. yumm yumm

[Sarah]

wat kebaya, sari, sarong la....tersasul from topic liao le

ahhaaahh... yalor... anyway ath ar... the 99 wan ar...the punishment is face painting isit??? was that the game??

[piglet]

wat kebaya, sari, sarong la....tersasul from topic liao le

tak terpesong... kebaya , sari.. sarong.. can wear to flirt :D

[KoChun]

wat kebaya, sari, sarong la....tersasul from topic liao le

Mana ada tersasul? Can also flirt wearing sari, kebaya mah :)

[KoChun]

tak terpesong... kebaya , sari.. sarong.. can wear to flirt :D

:eek: We think alike :eek:

[Sarah]

Ko Chun... Tai DI after a while u play, can get sien wan... but its still fun when u keep winning.. :) hehe..no need tuition fees laa..can teach u for free ar... it all depends on your thinking, if u get it, u'll be good, if not... however also cannot win wan ar..

[piglet]

Mana ada tersasul? Can also flirt wearing sari, kebaya mah :)

give me a five... ;)

[KoChun]

Ko Chun... Tai DI after a while u play, can get sien wan... but its still fun when u keep winning.. :) hehe..no need tuition fees laa..can teach u for free ar... it all depends on your thinking, if u get it, u'll be good, if not... however also cannot win wan ar..

Okay, shall 'learn' from you if the opportunity comes. Thanks in advance.

[song cm]

give me a five... ;)
Piglet...a candidate for fivesome??

[Sarah]

yala..that's what I said..its body language laa... if u think a fat one wear kebaya, sari... can make ur nose bleed ar?? body language are efficient only for those who have nice and slim figure... :) unfortunately, some ppl think its flirtateous!

[KoChun]

give me a five... ;)

http://www.emotipad.com/newemoticons/Wave.gif

[athena]

give me a five... ;)
hey, i tot piggie sehati sejiwa with ausman liao no ah? :eek:

[piglet]

Piglet...a candidate for fivesome??

584... u will be retrench in 3 mths time... I need to look for next better player

[song cm]

hey, i tot piggie sehati sejiwa with ausman liao no ah? :eek:
piggie...everyone aso can ler....

[KoChun]

hey, i tot piggie sehati sejiwa with ausman liao no ah? :eek:

Piglet hati bunga!

[piglet]

hey, i tot piggie sehati sejiwa with ausman liao no ah? :eek:

sejak bila?

[song cm]

584... u will be retrench in 3 mths time... I need to look for next better player
hmm...sure Kochun is a better player? I know he is good in badminton but bedminton is a totally different game lar...

[piglet]

piggie...everyone aso can ler....
sama sama with u SONG

[Sarah]

you guys soo funny...can digress from topic until like that... :)

[piglet]

Piglet hati bunga!

U also not too bad either

[piglet]

you guys soo funny...can digress from topic until like that... :)
we're flirting @ the moment.. wan to join in?

[athena]

haha...tak lari...main topic: flirting...subset of topic is piglet flirting stories...:D

[Sarah]

ooohhh..ic ic.. haha :) :D

[piglet]

hmm...sure Kochun is a better player? I know he is good in badminton but bedminton is a totally different game lar...

how u know he only know how to play badminton... have u tried playing other games with him before?

[athena]

sama sama with u SONG
haha...sounds like sama sama samSONG!!!

[song cm]

we're flirting @ the moment.. wan to join in?

wah...recruiting more?? can can.... pls join...the more the merrier...

[Sarah]

we're flirting @ the moment.. wan to join in?

haha... no.. not into flirting... not in real life, not even in the net.. :)

[KoChun]

how u know he only know how to play badminton... have u tried playing other games with him before?

Ha ha. I think I get your meaning, piglet. Try harder next time, okay?

[song cm]

how u know he only know how to play badminton... have u tried playing other games with him before?


aiyah...I am happy today but still not that gay lar....

[piglet]

haha... no.. not into flirting... not in real life, not even in the net.. :)

r u sure ... wat r u doing now.. ur flirting with us already.. fun rite?

[piglet]

aiyah...I am happy today but still not that gay lar....

Playing other type of games... u need to be gay?,,, ur really 584

[piglet]

Ha ha. I think I get your meaning, piglet. Try harder next time, okay?

ok... I try harder next time... :p but dun be too proud!

[daLady]

r u sure ... wat r u doing now.. ur flirting with us already.. fun rite?

Err...can u define flirt again? You mean give opinion on the net also flirt or talk about gambling also flirt? :D

[piglet]

Err...can u define flirt again? You mean give opinion on the net also flirt or talk about gambling also flirt? :D

ask tis kind of Qs ... how to answer :confused:

[song cm]

Playing other type of games... u need to be gay?,,, ur really 584

no ler...thot we were talkin abt bedminton mah...

[daLady]

ask tis kind of Qs ... how to answer :confused:
eee...if cannot define, how to know whether you are doing it? :confused:

Just for the record hor...I did not have any intention to flirt with anybody when I wore that blouse to HL wedding. If got any hidung berdarah, it is regretted... ;)

[daLady]

no ler...thot we were talkin abt bedminton mah...
There are two definitions for the word gay....which was yours?

[Diong_Gar_Loon]

I beg to differ... that's not flirting :D it never even crossed my mind... Its really abit childish to even think of it.. I dress nicely, as courtesy.. i just want to be presentable and not embarrass my bf.. i mean for me laa... it's plainly out of courtesy laa..

I really dunno about others... all you need is to trust her and to know her well..and that even if she dresses up, take it as your pride! and not be unhappy abt it. :)
hello excuse me..........do you call dressing with a big longkang in the middle of your chest decently presentable or to attract people's eyes. come on. you can still wrap up in a mummy cloth and still look sexy. of course not accusing you of wearing something like that.

[daLady]

hello excuse me..........do you call dressing with a big longkang in the middle of your chest decently presentable or to attract people's eyes. come on. you can still wrap up in a mummy cloth and still look sexy. of course not accusing you of wearing something like that.

Typical guy...want to look at other people's girls but don't want other people to look at your girl.... :rolleyes:

[Diong_Gar_Loon]

Typical guy...want to look at other people's girls but don't want other people to look at your girl.... :rolleyes:
Looking is one thing. Wolfing is another.

We want other guys to say, "Damn, she is one fine lady" and not "Damn, I wanna bang her till kingdom comes".

[daLady]

Looking is one thing. Wolfing is another.

We want other guys to say, "Damn, she is one fine lady" and not "Damn, I wanna bang her till kingdom comes".

Ah...you want a lady in the kitchen and a whore in the bedroom.... ;)

[Diong_Gar_Loon]

Ah...you want a lady in the kitchen and a whore in the bedroom.... ;)
I wouldn't mind a whore in the kitchen as well if she is up for it. Hehe.

[piglet]

hello excuse me..........do you call dressing with a big longkang in the middle of your chest decently presentable or to attract people's eyes. come on. you can still wrap up in a mummy cloth and still look sexy. of course not accusing you of wearing something like that.

Seing the big longkang, is still ok I guess, cause not everybody can have longkang eventhough they could be wearing the same clothes.. :p

[song cm]

There are two definitions for the word gay....which was yours?

dat is why i say i am happy but not gay...

[piglet]

dat is why i say i am happy but not gay...

only u will know ;)

[song cm]

only u will know ;)

hehe...i thot i am 584?

[piglet]

hehe...i thot i am 584?

too bad tot ur a gay.. if ur gay.. I would like to flirt with u :p

[daLady]

too bad tot ur a gay.. if ur gay.. I would like to flirt with u :p
:eek: now into gay also....looks like the years spent in Australia did irreversible damage to your sexual orientation :eek:

[piglet]

:eek: now into gay also....looks like the years spent in Australia did irreversible damage to your sexual orientation :eek:

Did I show the Madigras parade photos... the gays and lesbians in their G string only.... the parade is superb....they are fun & confident ppl.. :D

[daLady]

Did I show the Madigras parade photos... the gays and lesbians in their G string only.... the parade is superb....they are fun & confident ppl.. :D
:eek: Where has my poor innocent little jumbo gone to? :p

[piglet]

:eek: Where has my poor innocent little jumbo gone to? :p

Still innocent.. remember u came to the world with only ur birthday suit?

[jimdiong]

:eek: Where has my poor innocent little jumbo gone to? :p
still here and reading all ur posting... been buzy today. anyway, back to flirting, i opinion is everyone flirt once in a while and it feel good to have the attention for the other party but dun get overboard with it as its dangerous if u r married. :)

[Diong_Gar_Loon]

Seing the big longkang, is still ok I guess, cause not everybody can have longkang eventhough they could be wearing the same clothes.. :p
hey don't get me wrong. in fact, i love to see those long kang. my question is more towards why women wear it. is it to make their bf's proud of them or to make themselves feel good. i go strongly with the second.

[KoChun]

My guess only, both reasons.

[KoChun]

After all, I've got no longkang to show. Only got a big tummy :D

[athena]

hey don't get me wrong. in fact, i love to see those long kang. my question is more towards why women wear it. is it to make their bf's proud of them or to make themselves feel good. i go strongly with the second.
i would agree that most women when they dress up they would think of making themselves feel good rather than making their bfs feel proud. We are in the new age already. Not some 16th Century, where gals just hope to marry off rich.. the lady is happy dressing that way, and she is confident enough to carry is, i don't see why not? however, there is a thin line between dressing sexily and dressing like a slut!!!!

[song cm]

too bad tot ur a gay.. if ur gay.. I would like to flirt with u :p

hey, why u can't flirt with a straight guy? Scared u cant control urself isit... :D

[KoChun]

Not some 16th Century, where gals just hope to marry off rich..

Still the same today, in general. I've interviewed a few ladies before. :)

[athena]

Still the same today, in general. I've interviewed a few ladies before. :)
let's not include those who are stuck in those times!!!

[kamkuey]

I once flirted with my fren's secretary.. or PA.. or.. dunno lar.. dem sexy girl. Flirt until one day, over dinner.. she started to ask me the following...

The car you are driving, is it under your name? Fully paid?
Are you staying in your own house or apartment?
How much money you got in your bank?
How much you earning a month?
....
....

WAH LAU eh.... I answered all her questions truthfully, fast fast makan finish dinner, send her back and never wanted to see her again. Probably she had the same thoughts after my answers.. kekeke.. not rich enough for her.

Having said that, I think she is just being very practical... but just a little too much :D

[KoChun]

So, I was right in certain ways? Kamkuey, you agree with me?

[kamkuey]

You mean the part where girls are hoping to marry some rich man? In a way I agree as I know of some ladies who are on the look out for rich men. Sad.. really. Their entire life revolves around hunting for these men.

On the other hand, there are many ladies now who are very capable and able to earn a decent living on their own. Some ladies excel much more compared to men who are within the same age and level.

Back to flirting, to me, flirting is wonderful, as long as you know your limits.

[KoChun]

Well said, Kamkuey. Fully agreed!

[piglet]

hey, why u can't flirt with a straight guy? Scared u cant control urself isit... :D

Scared straight guy cannot control himself... anyway.. gay are more interesting ppl :D

[piglet]

You mean the part where girls are hoping to marry some rich man? In a way I agree as I know of some ladies who are on the look out for rich men. Sad.. really. Their entire life revolves around hunting for these men.

On the other hand, there are many ladies now who are very capable and able to earn a decent living on their own. Some ladies excel much more compared to men who are within the same age and level.

Back to flirting, to me, flirting is wonderful, as long as you know your limits.

Limits dimana?

[song cm]

Scared straight guy cannot control himself... anyway.. gay are more interesting ppl :D

hey...I hv very strong self control one...Linkin will elaborate on dat later....
So, am I less interesting now to you??

[piglet]

hey...I hv very strong self control one...Linkin will elaborate on dat later....
So, am I less interesting now to you??

Unless ur a gay man lor.. r U?

[piglet]

hey...I hv very strong self control one...Linkin will elaborate on dat later....
So, am I less interesting now to you??

Linkin... wer r u? I'm v curious on this song.. "strong self ctrl" story...

[song cm]

Unless ur a gay man lor.. r U?

u tell me...did i turn less interesting overnite?? don give me the gay b***shit..... :p

[piglet]

u tell me...did i turn less interesting overnite?? don give me the gay b***shit..... :p

Have u ever been interesting b4?

[song cm]

Have u ever been interesting b4?

U tell me...hey, why do u always answer a question with a question??

[piglet]

U tell me...hey, why do u always answer a question with a question??

Not tht I could remember tht u have ever been interesting...

Tell me .. wat is so interesting abt u"??

[song cm]

Not tht I could remember tht u have ever been interesting...

Tell me .. wat is so interesting abt u"??

nah...not interested in telling you........got better things to do.....

[piglet]

nah...not interested in telling you........got better things to do.....

Ur rite... u got not much of interesting to tell me... cause no interesting mar.. better things to do...like closing accounts???so boring..

[song cm]

Ur rite... u got not much of interesting to tell me... cause no interesting mar.. better things to do...like closing accounts???so boring..

maybe u r not interesting enaf for me to tell one....
btw..closing accounts is my bread n butter lah...boring or not, it bring in the dole for me...to pay for my hse n car ....... :D

[piglet]

maybe u r not interesting enaf for me to tell one....
btw..closing accounts is my bread n butter lah...boring or not, it bring in the dole for me...to pay for my hse n car ....... :D

Mayb... u really got noting interesting enuf to tell me... & these r excuses... :p

[song cm]

Mayb... u really got noting interesting enuf to tell me... & these r excuses... :p

all these maybes......maybe we should meet up n see whether who is more interesting.....haha :rolleyes: