"Dear Thelma" on Internet Dating

[LiLiaN]

Ahh.... that should be the way it is. Don't sleep on your problem. Talk them with your friends. Get a few opinions and you will soon realise the reality. Thumbs up.you'd be surprise that's not always the case... i've seen it, esp with people in love... never see the problem, don't want any opinion, and the final reality is always not pretty...

i'm lucky, i have a cousin who is so straight forward, her words can be like knife sometimes... then my best friend also, they kept me on the right path... and now, of course, this "family" here on the alumni... very supportive... cool... :)

by the way, out of curiosity, anyone here tried internet dating before..?

[siewjang]

by the way, out of curiosity, anyone here tried internet dating before..?
If you are not asking for trouble don't try it. 19 out of 20 turn out to be ugly. (i mean the relationship). Lilian, if you ever thought of internet dating why don't you try Kamkuey. He's a nice guy.

(*kamkuey, don't say i never help you this time)

[LiLiaN]

If you are not asking for trouble don't try it. 19 out of 20 turn out to be ugly. (i mean the relationship). Lilian, if you ever thought of internet dating why don't you try Kamkuey. He's a nice guy.

(*kamkuey, don't say i never help you this time)
oh, i'm not trying to do internet dating... i don't think it works... it's just yesterday a friend told me he's trying internet dating... and he's now officially in a relationship... and of course, like everyone who's happy in relationship, he was trying to convince me to do the same... (i was more interested yesterday in my hot chocolate and mince pie though...)

hmm... recommend me to kamkuey... shall go look at his profile.... :p

[siewjang]

Think wise and never done anything foolish. Don't know. maybe yours work leh? But my answer is strongly a No-No.

[LiLiaN]

Think wise and never done anything foolish. Don't know. maybe yours work leh? But my answer is strongly a No-No.
ermm... i'm not planning to try but i shall keep a tab to see how my friend is doing instead... from knowing him until now (err... 2 years plus) his relationships never go past 3 months... but admire him on his lack of discouragement... still working hard in being in relationship...

[daLady]

ermm... i'm not planning to try but i shall keep a tab to see how my friend is doing instead... from knowing him until now (err... 2 years plus) his relationships never go past 3 months... but admire him on his lack of discouragement... still working hard in being in relationship...

I know of two couples whose relationships actually ended up with marriage... but I know at least 5 others that ended up ugly...

[LiLiaN]

I know of two couples whose relationships actually ended up with marriage... but I know at least 5 others that ended up ugly...
so the odds is really not looking good....

[arch-an-gel]

so the odds is really not looking good....


Behold woman..beware of wolves in sheeps clothings.. :cool:
too many of them just too many of them...

Too risky too risky :eek:
chit chatting on the net maybe fun, but going out is too risky..

Shalom :D

[arch-an-gel]

so the odds is really not looking good....


Behold woman..beware of wolves in sheeps clothings.. :cool:
too many of them just too many of them...

Too risky too risky :eek:
chit chatting on the net maybe fun, but going out is too risky..

Shalom :D

[siewjang]

Too risky too risky :eek:
chit chatting on the net maybe fun, but going out is too risky..

Shalom :D
If you go out with a chat friend over a cuppa tea, i don't think there is any risk. At least you had an impression how he/she looks like and whether his looks matches his age that he describe. I have heard stories that the guy she chated with ended up to be her own dad. So it's better to meet up and check his identity.

To play save bring along a friend. You don't have to pre informed him. Just give him a surprise so that he won't do any hanky panky things.

[ausman]

oh, i'm not trying to do internet dating... i don't think it works... it's just yesterday a friend told me he's trying internet dating... and he's now officially in a relationship... and of course, like everyone who's happy in relationship, he was trying to convince me to do the same... (i was more interested yesterday in my hot chocolate and mince pie though...)

hmm... recommend me to kamkuey... shall go look at his profile.... :p

Kamkuey is a good choice... tall...dark and hemsem.... ...unless u preferred.... white....then me lah.... :cool:

[siewjang]

Kamkuey is a good choice... tall...dark and hemsem.... ...unless u preferred.... white....then me lah.... :cool:
Unless you prefer Ausman, tall, fair and fat.

[Dino]

It works! Believe me it works!

[piglet]

It works! Believe me it works!

In S'pore, the gov. match the many of their graduates through this means..

[siewjang]

In S'pore, the gov. match the many of their graduates through this means..
Kiasu government.

[piglet]

Kiasu government.

Those that join this .. are v focus... their aim is to look for life partner.. to get married :p

[siewjang]

Those that join this .. are v focus... their aim is to look for life partner.. to get married :p
Singaporean has become a workaholic and disco kaki. that is why they do not intend to get married.

[kamkuey]

I define internet dating as "dating someone you met on the Internet"... as in "dating someone you met at a party". As long as you take your time getting to know the other person, it is as safe as "party dating"

[piglet]

I define internet dating as "dating someone you met on the Internet"... as in "dating someone you met at a party". As long as you take your time getting to know the other person, it is as safe as "party dating"

The graduates.. match making.....
If ur single.. this programmes will post ur profiles on the net (only for registered unmarried citizen... filter by Reg. of Marriage)..
IF the guy or gal is interested... one of the means is to communicate through emails... b4 meeting each other..
considered internet dating??? pls define if the above desc. is way out

[JC]

Why not try speed dating? It's quick, meet lots of people and obligation-free.... Cheap too.... Unless, of course, you are too shy....

For shy people.... http://bride.ru/ (guys and gals also got... some chun chun one) :D

[ausman]

Unless you prefer Ausman, tall, fair and fat.

hmmm. am I fat... gee... SJ are you sure? :eek:

[piglet]

Why not try speed dating? It's quick, meet lots of people and obligation-free.... Cheap too.... Unless, of course, you are too shy....

For shy people.... http://bride.ru/ (guys and gals also got... some chun chun one) :D

Can gurantee tht ppls @ this site are not married?

[JC]

Can gurantee tht ppls @ this site are not married?
You must check profile-lor... also must do medical check-up... heheheh :D

[piglet]

hmmm. am I fat... gee... SJ are you sure? :eek:

Oklar.. ur pleasantly plum........

[piglet]

You must check profile-lor... also must do medical check-up... heheheh :D

Like tht must have few thousand dollars.. thn u can choose fr this site.. not free one

[JC]

Like tht must have few thousand dollars.. thn u can choose fr this site.. not free one
After choose oledi, you will need more than a few thousand dollars... for maintenance..... :D

[piglet]

After choose oledi, you will need more than a few thousand dollars... for maintenance..... :D

After tht they will become ur beloved maid.. :D

[JC]

After tht they will become ur beloved maid.. :D
Slave is more like it..... :D

[piglet]

Slave is more like it..... :D

Slavery.. after selling urself for a few thousand dollars..

If maid is not happy, she still can quit the job.. but if this bride is not happy can she req. for divorce?

[LiLiaN]

Why not try speed dating? It's quick, meet lots of people and obligation-free.... Cheap too.... Unless, of course, you are too shy....

For shy people.... http://bride.ru/ (guys and gals also got... some chun chun one) :D
god, bride from russia...???! :p

[LiLiaN]

IF the guy or gal is interested... one of the means is to communicate through emails... b4 meeting each other..
considered internet dating??? pls define if the above desc. is way out
i guess this is fine... ie internet being the only mean of contact prior to meeting and/or exchanging contact number...

[piglet]

Singaporean has become a workaholic and disco kaki. that is why they do not intend to get married.

Some of them become disco kaki not because they enjoy to go disco, but to be in the "hip" group category.

[piglet]

Why not try speed dating? It's quick, meet lots of people and obligation-free.... Cheap too.... Unless, of course, you are too shy....

For shy people.... http://bride.ru/ (guys and gals also got... some chun chun one) :D

Any commission for promoting tis site?

[LiLiaN]

hmm... maybe they'll waive your "membership fee" if you decide to join after promoting the site...? :p