Money or Love

[piglet]

If you're so poor (like africa, vietnam), with no food eat, and no house to stay, will you go for the person u love... or go for the person that have money... where u don need to worry about food, a house to stay..

[KoChun]

I'll go for FOOD.

[piglet]

I'll go for FOOD.

thn u will sure go for sugar mummy...older woman tht offers u money

[KoChun]

My mummy used to tell me, don't take too much sugar. They are very fattening and causes diabetis.

[piglet]

My mummy used to tell me, don't take too much sugar. They are very fattening and causes diabetis.

Yeap they are old enough to be your mum...tht could give u so much money to fatten u up.. but remember dun become obese... else ur mummy will throw u in the bin

[Sarah]

This question is really classic... it all really depends... but I cant choose both.. hehe... still, my 1st option is to go for money, which is food :) hahaa...

u see ar, better than both also suffer (speakin from my position as the woman), why add burden to someone who cant even take care of himself. Me choosing for money, does not mean don't love him, just that, its good for both of us.

[piglet]

This question is really classic... it all really depends... but I cant choose both.. hehe... still, my 1st option is to go for money, which is food :) hahaa...

u see ar, better than both also suffer (speakin from my position as the woman), why add burden to someone who cant even take care of himself. Me choosing for money, does not mean don't love him, just that, its good for both of us.

Will you want to be like the Vietnam bride.. married a man that is old enough to be her grandad?

[Sarah]

Will you want to be like the Vietnam bride.. married a man that is old enough to be her grandad?

Well, if Im in that inescapable situation, I have to, right? Good ar, after he dies, maybe I'll be left with some money.. like Anna Nicole SMith!

[piglet]

Well, if Im in that inescapable situation, I have to, right? Good ar, after he dies, maybe I'll be left with some money.. like Anna Nicole SMith!

U might not be as lucky to get so much money.. maybe after he dies, $5K is all he have.. :(
And mayb a widow with 1 child....

[piglet]

Artemis, wat's ur name?

[song cm]

Surely a balance between both options would be the best...don have to be so extreme until you have to choose either one.....

So, I will go for someone who I feel I could love but who have a little dole to spare....don hv to be super rich.....

But if I am force to choose only one....then money lor...

[piglet]

Surely a balance between both options would be the best...don have to be so extreme until you have to choose either one.....

So, I will go for someone who I feel I could love but who have a little dole to spare....don hv to be super rich.....

But if I am force to choose only one....then money lor...

So realistic.. :)
Choose love.. u will die happy..?
Choose money.. u will die with sadness..?

[Sarah]

U might not be as lucky to get so much money.. maybe after he dies, $5K is all he have.. :(
And mayb a widow with 1 child....

haha... u r rite laa... but I guess, alot of grls in Vietnam/thailand, etc.. marry older man for a reason.. def not for love.. maybe they have to marry for her family, to take care of her family. I once watched a show from Iraq, about the wars and pverty.. this girl as young as 16 had to marry an older man as a trade for a donkey for her family. See the sacrifice she has to make in those circumstances.. that really opened my eyes.. when you have to sacrifice love for your family.

[daLady]

So realistic.. :)
Choose love.. u will die happy..?
Choose money.. u will die with sadness..?

The thing is if there is only love and little or no money...there will be a lot of of strive. love is head-spinning and blind when it first starts but reality will set in sooner or later...especially when you have kids...the if start to quarrle of finance..sure end up bitter one.

As the saying goes.....money can't buy love, but love can't buy groceries... :(

If you choose money and the guy treats you real well...love will eventually come...otherwise, there won't be so many arranged marriage that lasts.

But if the guy treats you badly...then sure not going to be happy even if got a lot of money. In such events, set him up for an affair with 3rd party (usually this one no need help), get private investigator to get some evidence and file for divorce and lots of money...As Ivana Trump once said when she was ditched by Donald Trump..."Don't get mad...get everything!!!" :D

[piglet]

haha... u r rite laa... but I guess, alot of grls in Vietnam/thailand, etc.. marry older man for a reason.. def not for love.. maybe they have to marry for her family, to take care of her family. I once watched a show from Iraq, about the wars and pverty.. this girl as young as 16 had to marry an older man as a trade for a donkey for her family. See the sacrifice she has to make in those circumstances.. that really opened my eyes.. when you have to sacrifice love for your family.

it's sad isn't it..when ur left with no choice.. and have to sacrifice love for your family..
Must count our blessings ......
By the way u haven't answer my question yet.. who r u?

[song cm]

So realistic.. :)
Choose love.. u will die happy..?
Choose money.. u will die with sadness..?

Haha...

Choose love...u will die happy at a young age
Choose money...u will die with sadness...becoz you can't bring along the money....

[Sarah]

it's sad isn't it..when ur left with no choice.. and have to sacrifice love for your family..
Must count our blessings ......
By the way u haven't answer my question yet.. who r u?

ohh sorry sorry.. so engrossed with reading.. :) Im from 98 one... u dunno me laa... i am not hok chiew nueng...

[fishboy]

not all rich old man are d.o.m... some are genuine but they can't find the right one nearby...

[Dino]

not all rich old man are d.o.m... some are genuine but they can't find the right one nearby...

Now now fishy, we are not talking about you. Calm down please!!!! :D

[piglet]

ohh sorry sorry.. so engrossed with reading.. :) Im from 98 one... u dunno me laa... i am not hok chiew nueng...

Dunno u lar.. so young.. still studying? Nice to meet u Chiew Nueng.. ur a girl rite?

[song cm]

not all rich old man are d.o.m... some are genuine but they can't find the right one nearby...

Ikan...hmm...getting a little sensitive.... :p

[piglet]

not all rich old man are d.o.m... some are genuine but they can't find the right one nearby...

U mean can't find one nearby... they will buy one fr Vietnam?

[Sarah]

Dunno u lar.. so young.. still studying? Nice to meet u Chiew Nueng.. ur a girl rite?

yes laa..Im def a girl...am proud to be a girl... though have to suffer in child labour next time..darn!

anyway, can I call you.. ah twue?? (hok chiew for pig)

[song cm]

yes laa..Im def a girl...am proud to be a girl... though have to suffer in child labour next time..darn!

anyway, can I call you.. ah twue?? (hok chiew for pig)

No, should be twue yang (piglet) :p

[piglet]

No, should be twue yang (piglet) :p

Call me PIGLET lar.. I'm Pooh Bear friend

[fishboy]

Now now fishy, we are not talking about you. Calm down please!!!! :D

just trying to make a point...to me, i haven't fall into the o.m category yet..i m 30 something only mah

[Sarah]

No, should be twue yang (piglet) :p

haha... yea yea

[piglet]

just trying to make a point...to me, i haven't fall into the o.m category yet..i m 30 something only mah

I see.. tot ur angry..

[song cm]

just trying to make a point...to me, i haven't fall into the o.m category yet..i m 30 something only mah

hehe...30 + 5?? haha

[fishboy]

U mean can't find one nearby... they will buy one fr Vietnam?
i wouldn't use the word "buy".. i would say share the wealth with a foreigner than rather giving to those "undeserved" nearby...

[Sarah]

just trying to make a point...to me, i haven't fall into the o.m category yet..i m 30 something only mah

could be 30 + 9+ 364 days... hahhaha

[piglet]

i wouldn't use the word "buy".. i would say share the wealth with a foreigner than rather giving to those "undeserved" nearby...

wah! so profound

[dtchieng]

since this thread is on $$ n luv... i hav this question. i hav lots of coursemates, females la... who is now starting to resgister with their bf because we, soon-to-b-posted teachers, will.. er.. soon b posted la.. so to cut story short, some gals think tht a marriage registration cert is d immunity passport or something to prevent themselves from being posted to places that they dun wan to go.
if u r their bf, wouldn't u ask urself wheteher d gril really love u or is just using u?

[song cm]

since this thread is on $$ n luv... i hav this question. i hav lots of coursemates, females la... who is now starting to resgister with their bf because we, soon-to-b-posted teachers, will.. er.. soon b posted la.. so to cut story short, some gals think tht a marriage registration cert is d immunity passport or something to prevent themselves from being posted to places that they dun wan to go.
if u r their bf, wouldn't u ask urself wheteher d gril really love u or is just using u?

Is the girl a hottie?? :D

[athena]

since this thread is on $$ n luv... i hav this question. i hav lots of coursemates, females la... who is now starting to resgister with their bf because we, soon-to-b-posted teachers, will.. er.. soon b posted la.. so to cut story short, some gals think tht a marriage registration cert is d immunity passport or something to prevent themselves from being posted to places that they dun wan to go.
if u r their bf, wouldn't u ask urself wheteher d gril really love u or is just using u?
i tot for teachers, if you are married, they will try to post two of you together...so say for example, you don't wanna go to East Malaysia, so by getting registered, they might still post TWO of you over there?

[piglet]

since this thread is on $$ n luv... i hav this question. i hav lots of coursemates, females la... who is now starting to resgister with their bf because we, soon-to-b-posted teachers, will.. er.. soon b posted la.. so to cut story short, some gals think tht a marriage registration cert is d immunity passport or something to prevent themselves from being posted to places that they dun wan to go.
if u r their bf, wouldn't u ask urself wheteher d gril really love u or is just using u?

if the other party is willing be used by the gf... thn let it be... u cannot call him stupid.. just tht blindly in love.. there's no way to weight love.

I've a colleague over her.. actually secretly checked on the guy salary before dating the guys (u know S'pore match making for graduates)... and choose to date the one with higher salary... wat do u think.. it's worse rite

[daLady]

i tot for teachers, if you are married, they will try to post two of you together...so say for example, you don't wanna go to East Malaysia, so by getting registered, they might still post TWO of you over there?

obviously the guy not a teacherlah in this case...

[daLady]

if the other party is willing be used by the gf... thn let it be... u cannot call him stupid.. just tht blindly in love.. there's no way to weight love.

I've a colleague over her.. actually secretly checked on the guy salary before dating the guys (u know S'pore match making for graduates)... and choose to date the one with higher salary... wat do u think.. it's worse rite

If all things equal and you have no feelings for them yet...it makes logical sense to try it out with the one with more money...don't you think? if work - great! if not- move to the next loh...

[daLady]

since this thread is on $$ n luv... i hav this question. i hav lots of coursemates, females la... who is now starting to resgister with their bf because we, soon-to-b-posted teachers, will.. er.. soon b posted la.. so to cut story short, some gals think tht a marriage registration cert is d immunity passport or something to prevent themselves from being posted to places that they dun wan to go.
if u r their bf, wouldn't u ask urself wheteher d gril really love u or is just using u?

I don't think the guys should question the intention coz if the girl doesn't love them or want to marry them in the first place, they wouldn't have agreed to register the marriage with the guy. This is not the same as grabbing a stranger or someone you don't know so well to get the passport - like for Green Card in America.

[piglet]

If all things equal and you have no feelings for them yet...it makes logical sense to try it out with the one with more money...don't you think? if work - great! if not- move to the next loh...

My DaLady.. since when u become so realistic $$$

Tot ur the dreamy kind

[daLady]

My DaLady.. since when u become so realistic $$$

Tot ur the dreamy kind

I still dream..what is life without hope and dream? But I'd like to think I've always been sensible and practical...until love swept me off my feet :)

[piglet]

I still dream..what is life without hope and dream? But I'd like to think I've always been sensible and practical...until love swept me off my feet :)

Have love swept me off my feet?

[daLady]

Have love swept me off my feet?

Only you can tell. I think the first love sweeps most people off...what say you?

[piglet]

Only you can tell. I think the first love sweeps most people off...what say you?

How can I tell ur DaLady... and I am only a Piglet

[ausman]

Agreed with da lady... $$$$$ is not materialistic... she just being realistic.

So gal... make sure love is important in couple life but without $$$ is nothing....trust me....

[daLady]

How can I tell ur DaLady... and I am only a Piglet

I know you've been swept away before.... ;)

[song cm]

I know you've been swept away before.... ;)


By who?? Babi hutan?? :p

[daLady]

By who?? Babi hutan?? :p

What does a eunuch know about love?

[song cm]

What does a eunuch know about love?

hey...I like u aso married my first love...knew her for 10 yrs b4 we tie the knot...... (maybe it took her 10 years to figure me out...) :p

[piglet]

hey...I like u aso married my first love...knew her for 10 yrs b4 we tie the knot...... (maybe it took her 10 years to figure me out...) :p

Congrats to both... :)

[piglet]

Agreed with da lady... $$$$$ is not materialistic... she just being realistic.

So gal... make sure love is important in couple life but without $$$ is nothing....trust me....

UR wife must have lots of money... ;)

[daLady]

hey...I like u aso married my first love...knew her for 10 yrs b4 we tie the knot...... (maybe it took her 10 years to figure me out...) :p

lucky is the man who is the first love of a woman..but lucky is the woman who is the last love of a man :)

[ausman]

UR wife must have lots of money... ;)

Not my wife... it's me... lah... apalah... rich guy marry gal... rich old lady marry young guy. :cool:

[song cm]

lucky is the man who is the first love of a woman..but lucky is the woman who is the last love of a man :)

hmm...very profound.....so, so far both Anne n myself are the lucky ones....and so are Ai Hoong n Edwin.... :p

[song cm]

Not my wife... it's me... lah... apalah... rich guy marry gal... rich old lady marry young guy. :cool:

Wah...Ausman, telling ppl in a public forum dat u r rich....not scared ppl robbed u ?? :rolleyes:

[piglet]

Wah...Ausman, telling ppl in a public forum dat u r rich....not scared ppl robbed u ?? :rolleyes:

Dun worry... if gals out there tht i going after money,,,, Ausman is RICHHH

[daLady]

hmm...very profound.....so, so far both Anne n myself are the lucky ones....and so are Ai Hoong n Edwin.... :p

Don't forget...dalady and daboss :p

[fishboy]

no money people like me how ah?? nobody want and no money to buy...

[song cm]

Don't forget...dalady and daboss :p

eik....split personality? :p

[daLady]

eik....split personality? :p

hmm...why is it you have obsession with words that are simillar to cut, snip, skinned...banana split??? :p

[piglet]

no money people like me how ah?? nobody want and no money to buy...

it's good to have no money.. thn u will know tht she's true to U

[song cm]

hmm...why is it you have obsession with words that are simillar to cut, snip, skinned...banana split??? :p

and shaven...... :p

[LiLiaN]

wouldn't it be better if both of you build your wealth together...? then no worry on who is using who for the sake of money... plus then use your encouragement and support for each other to succeed to make more money.... kecchiiinggg!

[daLady]

and shaven...... :p

oh dear....the poor eunuch still get bad dreams....

it's ok, it's over...it's gone :p

[daLady]

wouldn't it be better if both of you build your wealth together...? then no worry on who is using who for the sake of money... plus then use your encouragement and support for each other to succeed to make more money.... kecchiiinggg!

the best is both is filthy rich....and continue to build more wealth.... :D

[fishboy]

wouldn't it be better if both of you build your wealth together...? then no worry on who is using who for the sake of money... plus then use your encouragement and support for each other to succeed to make more money.... kecchiiinggg!
dun forget ah... still got in-laws to impress..

[song cm]

oh dear....the poor eunuch still get bad dreams....

it's ok, it's over...it's gone :p

noler, it's not gone forever.....this particular shaven part can grow back one ler.... :D

[LiLiaN]

the best is both is filthy rich....and continue to build more wealth.... :D
both filthy rich... the end result is a wedding reception at the only 6 stars hotel in malaysia and the bride having 7 vera wang to change in and out of... (this is a fact: confirmed by a malaysian colleague whose cousin is getting married - and they are both affluent!)

ps: anyone want to try gatecrash the reception..? sure lots of expensive food one...

[daLady]

noler, it's not gone forever.....this particular shaven part can grow back one ler.... :D

but not the rest.... :p

[song cm]

but not the rest.... :p

Hmm...the last I check, everythin else was still intact....unless I am goin blind as well....

[daLady]

Hmm...the last I check, everythin else was still intact....unless I am goin blind as well....

alamak...sudah jatuh, ditimpa tangga :D

[LiLiaN]

(my goodness, reading this thread is causing blushes here... thankfully no one in the lab except me...) :o

[song cm]

(my goodness, reading this thread is causing blushes here... thankfully no one in the lab except me...) :o

Lilian, thousand apologies...this is a personal battle within me n HRH... :)

[song cm]

alamak...sudah jatuh, ditimpa tangga :D

I think I know why....you miss me so much dat you want me back to serve you....hey, donlah beat ard the bushes.... :p

[LiLiaN]

Lilian, thousand apologies...this is a personal battle within me n HRH... :)
it's ok... i'm coping... :)
keep going.... :D

[piglet]

it's ok... i'm coping... :)
keep going.... :D

yES... CONTINUE ON THE FIGHT...
:confused: FIGHT FOR MONEY OR FIGHT FOR LOVE??? LET U DECIDE

[ausman]

yES... CONTINUE ON THE FIGHT...
:confused: FIGHT FOR MONEY OR FIGHT FOR LOVE??? LET U DECIDE

What about yourself...? money or love :confused:

Lilian.... yes is up to you to decide... :cool:

[piglet]

What about yourself...? money or love :confused:

Lilian.... yes is up to you to decide... :cool:

I will go for love.... money matters... I will work for it

[LiLiaN]

What about yourself...? money or love :confused:

Lilian.... yes is up to you to decide... :cool:
hmm... i've gone for love before and look where i am right now...
maybe for a change i shall try to go for money...then compare...
nothing beats first hand experience in knowing which is better... :D

[daBoss]

the question in this thread is flawed... it just asks yoou to choose a or b. there should be option c that allows us to choose both a and b. my choice is option c - i.e. both love and money - without both the relationship is doomed...

[LiLiaN]

the question in this thread is flawed... it just asks yoou to choose a or b. there should be option c that allows us to choose both a and b. my choice is option c - i.e. both love and money - without both the relationship is doomed...i like the idea... both... (is that not greed and is that not a sin?) :confused:

[ausman]

I would say having a relationship with "love" first then with "money" is the best....chances of survival is very high...

If it is just love alone with "money" .... chances is the end of the tunnel is opposite train coming.

If it is just "money" alone.... chances is it had a longer life span...and shorter than the first.

If no love and no "money" ... go an fly kite yourself....

[daLady]

I think I know why....you miss me so much dat you want me back to serve you....hey, donlah beat ard the bushes.... :p

alamak...this is so predictable and booooooooring...

no fun already...end feud here. :p

[fishboy]

I will go for love.... money matters... I will work for it
why did u leave here
and cause so many poor man working to death to pamper their loved ones??? :confused:

[song cm]

alamak...this is so predictable and booooooooring...

no fun already...end feud here. :p

You want fun....hmm....make sure u ask from daBoss this weekend lor... :p
I can lend u my whip n handcuffs.... :D

[piglet]

why did u leave here
and cause so many poor man working to death to pamper their loved ones??? :confused:

Ooops I did not know ter r so many poor man around..........I tot I'm e poorest

[ausman]

Ooops I did not know ter r so many poor man around..........I tot I'm e poorest

I'm one of those poor man....myself.... :eek:

[piglet]

I'm one of those poor man....myself.... :eek:

Join the Club of poor people..... I welcome ... chair by Piglet (tht's y I'm so skinny)

[fishboy]

i wanna be in the comittee if there's food in the meeting.. :D

[piglet]

i wanna be in the comittee if there's food in the meeting.. :D

I got no Money to buy cakes or Turkey.. I'll try to cook some white porrige.. if u dun mind

[song cm]

Talk abt money of love...anyone saw the finale of For Love or Money 4 yesterday? I think the blond chick was so dumb to choose love over USD1 million... :p

[Voon Chan]

All of you forgot 2 other things, beauty & pure lust. Some people got married for these 2 simple reasons.

[piglet]

All of you forgot 2 other things, beauty & pure lust. Some people got married for these 2 simple reasons.

Ever lasting lust????????

[daLady]

All of you forgot 2 other things, beauty & pure lust. Some people got married for these 2 simple reasons.

I tot this type usually end up one night stand only?

[Voon Chan]

I tot this type usually end up one night stand only?
A few minute of pleasure & a whole life of problem. I have seen many accident cases & etc.

[daLady]

A few minute of pleasure & a whole life of problem. I have seen many accident cases & etc.

that's because they made the mistake of marrying each other... because 2 wrongs doesn't make 1 right...the mathematical logic of 2 negative = positive doesn't apply here.

[piglet]

that's because they made the mistake of marrying each other... because 2 wrongs doesn't make 1 right...the mathematical logic of 2 negative = positive doesn't apply here.

1 + 1 = 3

[Voon Chan]

1 + 1 = 3
Clever girl. But remember 1+1 can equal 3,4,5,6...........................

[piglet]

Clever girl. But remember 1+1 can equal 3,4,5,6...........................

1 (Husband) + 1 (Wife) = 3 (baby)

another equation:

1 (Husband) + 1 (Wife) = 3 (Mistress)

[fishboy]

1 + 1 = 3
i am confused!!!! :confused: what did you get for modern maths ?? oic..this is bio-maths..

[piglet]

i am confused!!!! :confused: what did you get for modern maths ?? oic..this is bio-maths..

Lets talk fish language ...

1 (unfaithful male fish) + 1 (female fish) = 3 (another female fish)

[fishboy]

Lets talk fish language ...

1 (unfaithful male fish) + 1 (female fish) = 3 (another female fish)
1 male ikan bilis+1 female ikan bilis= '000 '000s of anak ikan bilis.. but all end up in nasi lemak..but i have alots of fun...

[LiLiaN]

Talk abt money of love...anyone saw the finale of For Love or Money 4 yesterday? I think the blond chick was so dumb to choose love over USD1 million... :pthey have this other show called joe millionaire.. the guy is supposed to choose a girl while all the girls thought he's a millionaire... the last one i saw, when the guy told his chosen girl that he's actually broke, she never turned up for the "wedding".... sad....

and a radio program here in dublin just finished a competition... i think it's called "two strangers and a wedding"... yup, in order to win the money, two virtual strangers have to marry each other... they met first time just before the wedding!!!

what has our world come to..? are we do deprieved of decent tv programmes that it has stoop to such a low level..?

[song cm]

they have this other show called joe millionaire.. the guy is supposed to choose a girl while all the girls thought he's a millionaire... the last one i saw, when the guy told his chosen girl that he's actually broke, she never turned up for the "wedding".... sad....

and a radio program here in dublin just finished a competition... i think it's called "two strangers and a wedding"... yup, in order to win the money, two virtual strangers have to marry each other... they met first time just before the wedding!!!

what has our world come to..? are we do deprieved of decent tv programmes that it has stoop to such a low level..?

Honestly...I believe at least 50% of these "reality shows" are pre-planned or pre-scripted......imagine how can u choose a guy that u only know for few months over USD1 million....u must either be a pure romantics or just plain dumb...... :)

[daBoss]

i guess this post has nothing to do with love... and i know i've been trying to get people to post by topic... but i've really got to say this...

usd 1 million in reality shows - crap! did you guys know that the usd 1 million will be paid out as an annuity over 40 years - that's usd 1000+ per month for 40 years?

[song cm]

i guess this post has nothing to do with love... and i know i've been trying to get people to post by topic... but i've really got to say this...

usd 1 million in reality shows - crap! did you guys know that the usd 1 million will be paid out as an annuity over 40 years - that's usd 1000+ per month for 40 years?

Yeah...I saw them at the end credits as well.....haha...good point....maybe that was the reason the girl choose the man. So it is actually lust over not so much money.....

[LiLiaN]

i guess this post has nothing to do with love... and i know i've been trying to get people to post by topic... but i've really got to say this...

usd 1 million in reality shows - crap! did you guys know that the usd 1 million will be paid out as an annuity over 40 years - that's usd 1000+ per month for 40 years?
hmm... this i didn't know... the girl must be disappointed lor, not being able to go for mad designer shopping spree in the big apple or something like that...

[arch-an-gel]

MMM.. MOney is the root to all evil.
and Love overcomes evil..

Which one to choose,, :D

Shalom Shalom..

[fishboy]

MMM.. MOney is the root to all evil.
and Love overcomes evil..

Which one to choose,, :D

Shalom Shalom..
angel ah.. money is not root of evil lah...you missed out the word "love"...you must be on earth too long already.. sudah corrupted..