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[monay]

i really like the way you said it siehjin....kudos.

[Ah Boh]

so far siehjin's words are d best i've heard/read in order to find our own little happiness in d complicated game of relationships.

we cannot decisde whether our partner is d wrong or right choice yet until we go thru both ups & downs to see each other's true colours, then yeah, maybe we'll discover a true soulmate in d process.

dat is how i see it, wat do u think?

[Lava Gal]

y cho quiet in here dee?

boh > agree wif u...indeed u r a matured person ;) & it shows

[Ah Boh]

y cho quiet in here dee?

boh > agree wif u...indeed u r a matured person ;) & it shows
thank u thank u... :o

[Lava Gal]

ma' pleasure, boh...

btw, this thread dying dee ah? bring in some fire!! ;)

[kwimango]

ooops, tersesat di sini,
ahh since i am here, let me pose a question to you 99ers

gals - would you date a guy that earns lesser or have a less promising career than you?

and guys - would you date a girl that earns more than you or someone thats obviously on a faster track on her career than you are?

[SS2006]

ooops, tersesat di sini,
ahh since i am here, let me pose a question to you 99ers

gals - would you date a guy that earns lesser or have a less promising career than you?

and guys - would you date a girl that earns more than you or someone thats obviously on a faster track on her career than you are?
Good question, kwimango...hmmm..

[shiruikage]

ooops, tersesat di sini,
ahh since i am here, let me pose a question to you 99ers

gals - would you date a guy that earns lesser or have a less promising career than you?

and guys - would you date a girl that earns more than you or someone thats obviously on a faster track on her career than you are?
is that even an issue?


oops...sori, wrong year.:p

[kwimango]

is that even an issue?

its not an issue for me la, but i do have a friend thats facing such an issue, wonder what other people's views are

[Lava Gal]

hmmm...tricky Q. for me...first and foremost personality matters. its more of an issue tat most guys would feel inferior...ego prob ma.

[Ah Boh]

ooops, tersesat di sini,
ahh since i am here, let me pose a question to you 99ers

gals - would you date a guy that earns lesser or have a less promising career than you?

and guys - would you date a girl that earns more than you or someone thats obviously on a faster track on her career than you are?
me? i dun mind d $$$ if its abundant :D but then again, currently im not bothered by d lack of it. really, i didn't realise it till i read kwimango's question n dat got me thinking back why, u know?

wen i was 1st dating my bf, i didnt care to ask how much he was earning (im not asking u to support me, thank u very much)

wen he 1st offered to fetch me, i didnt care to ask wat car he was driving (as if i know anything bout cars anyway...)

wen he took me to nice restaurants, i didnt care to ask if he was paying (i dun mind paying for special celebrations)

u know why? 2 things are important to me...

like lav say, its d personality if we can chat about anything under d sun with an open mind n intelligence n maturity (most guys only hv 2 outta 3... keke...), then we'll eventually figure d money part out or solve other problems.

also, i look for future potentially successful career guy - keyword here being potential. hey, we're both still young rite? :) plenty of time to wait n see wat life has in store for us...

[LiLiaN]

i don't see a problem dating a guy who's earning less/ less qualified...
as ah boh rightly point out, we're not looking for someone to support us...
most women nowadays are as independent as it can get...

i think it's more important on how the guy treat me than his bank balance...
if he's filthy rich but had all the wrong attitude, that's not going to fly with me...

[athena]

hmm...this is a tricky situation.

for a guy who is earning less than the gf/wife, it could be very bruising to his ego. depending on how the mindset is. women are independent but if being too independant could harm the relationship no?

[LiLiaN]

well, of course there would be a balance or else it'll be problematic alright...
if the level of income is relative, and just a small difference, that's not a problem...
if there is a noticeable difference, remember there are other aspects to the r/ship...
balance the salary part out with these other strong points that he has...

and i also believe, if one feels secure about himself/herself as well as the r/ship he/she is in...
then there's not that many things that both can't overcome together as an unit...
it's stronger that way you know... :)

[SS2006]

also, i look for future potentially successful career guy - keyword here being potential. hey, we're both still young rite? :) plenty of time to wait n see wat life has in store for us...
That's the big keyword, isn't it - potential.

Ok, let's put it this way. If let's say the couple starts out the at same level, and then the wife climb up the ladder way faster and higher than the husband, they won't start to mind and feel uneasy about the spouse status, would they? Most people won't have problem with a wife earning 5 figure salary and a husband with 4 figure salary .
But on the other hand, when at the very initial stage of pak toring already know that the lady will rise and the man has no potential to go far with his current qualification, they will have to think rationally of possibilities of their future together, and not blinded by love. Either he improves himself, or she be sure she really wouldn't mind many years down the road...
Most people will have problem with a wife earning a 4 figure salary and a husband with a 3 figure salary in this materialistic world, sad to say.

[shiruikage]

That's the big keyword, isn't it - potential.
But on the other hand, when at the very initial stage of pak toring already know that the lady will rise and the man has no potential to go far with his current qualification, they will have to think rationally of possibilities of their future together, and not blinded by love. Either he improves himself, or she be sure she really wouldn't mind many years down the road...
Most people will have problem with a wife earning a 4 figure salary and a husband with a 3 figure salary in this materialistic world, sad to say.
now, this is the reason most couples breakup. the guy is comfortable at his present level, while the women is not getting enuf.

[song cm]

That's the big keyword, isn't it - potential.

Ok, let's put it this way. If let's say the couple starts out the at same level, and then the wife climb up the ladder way faster and higher than the husband, they won't start to mind and feel uneasy about the spouse status, would they? Most people won't have problem with a wife earning 5 figure salary and a husband with 4 figure salary .
But on the other hand, when at the very initial stage of pak toring already know that the lady will rise and the man has no potential to go far with his current qualification, they will have to think rationally of possibilities of their future together, and not blinded by love. Either he improves himself, or she be sure she really wouldn't mind many years down the road...
Most people will have problem with a wife earning a 4 figure salary and a husband with a 3 figure salary in this materialistic world, sad to say.

good analogy.....i think the best wud be both earn around the same amout.....equality mah....:D

[kwimango]

personally i think it all depends on the situation...

well, i'll try to illustrate this with an example

girl - working for a company in malaysia, thus steady income etc, could afford a car and all that

guy - just started out as an entrepreneur, opened a cybercafe with a few partners, so definitely finances are tight and not stable

girl likes to wine and dine (at least once a week) while the guy definitely prefers to have mamak and other cheaper options la.. since they will both take turns to pay. now girl is not happy cause her finances are tight (somehow), and yet she still has to pay for the guy and yet still wants to wine and dine with him

guy of course feels that he doesn't wear the pants in the relationship because he feels that he has lesser say due to his spending power (read: ego bruised)

then they fight. bleah.

[SS2006]

good analogy.....i think the best wud be both earn around the same amout.....equality mah....:D
If the wife has the opportunity to further advance in career (and of course not neglecting the family at the same time), should she hold back just because might bruise the husband's ego? You may be surprised, but a lot of man are now very open minded and has no problem, in fact is proud with their wife earning more and holding a high post (eg Prime Minister). If he is happy and confident with his own progress, he won't take it as he's not the one wearing pants.

Kwimango, your story sound quite similar to one of M'sia famous model story. She just broke of with her bf of many years, since she was just a teenager, before she became a model. According to her, it's the bf who has low self esteem , he gave her the ultimatum of break off of stop being a model and go back to the kampung girl she was before she became famous. After working so hard to get where she is, how can anyone just give up everything?

[Lava Gal]

like lav say, its d personality if we can chat about anything under d sun with an open mind n intelligence n maturity (most guys only hv 2 outta 3... keke...), then we'll eventually figure d money part out or solve other problems.

also, i look for future potentially successful career guy - keyword here being potential. hey, we're both still young rite? :) plenty of time to wait n see wat life has in store for us...
ah boh...one more thing in addition to all that - understanding & frenship! he should be like my best buddy :)

and as for potential...isnt that what gets everyone hooked? the potential in someone for something....but at the same time, if either party becomes unsecure, and begins doubting the love,then i think something was wrong in the r/ship from beginning lo. lemme put it this way...if a guy gets unsecure & wants out, i dont think he loves her that much lo. coz the common excuse would be 'shes not happy wif me...i just sense it' - dammit, man! life is more than just $$$. be a supportive hubby/bf to ur gal...and be the man behind her success, unless the jerk who wanted the model to give up everything. i mean...its ok if tatz wat she wants...but not co-erced into it *shake heads*

another impoRtant word at this point would be supportive of dreams

[shiruikage]

another impotant word at this point would be supportive of dreams
lol, if the guy is impotent.....it doesn't matter how much money he has..... he wont be hapi! :laugh: :eek:

[Ah Boh]

lol, if the guy is impotent.....it doesn't matter how much money he has..... he wont be hapi! :laugh: :eek:
honestly, lav dear... i didnt know u have such a corrupted mind! :eek:

[Lava Gal]

honestly, lav dear... i didnt know u have such a corrupted mind! :eek:
boh dear...i admit i am no saint - though when i initially joined the forum...i was very much innocent indeed, eg: not knowing that BJ was actually Blow Job....the only BJ i knew before that was Bukit Jalil!

but dear deary...DID YOU READ MY POST OR NOT??
this shirui trying to frame me by picking up a typo la...:crying:

lol, if the guy is impotent.....it doesn't matter how much money he has..... he wont be hapi!
shirui....i guess u'd know that FACT better as u are a guy. but dun la misquote me - THE WORD was IMPORTANT...not impotence...chi chi...u ah! minda never tak serong zit?

sorry la peeps, for the typo...i edited dee. but since i was typing in a rush just now, before class...didnt stop to read thru my post.

[Ah Boh]

boh dear...i admit i am no saint - though when i initially joined the forum...i was very much innocent indeed, eg: not knowing that BJ was actually Blow Job....the only BJ i knew before that was Bukit Jalil!

but dear deary...DID YOU READ MY POST OR NOT??
this shirui trying to frame me by picking up a typo la...:crying:


shirui....i guess u'd know that FACT better as u are a guy. but dun la misquote me - THE WORD was IMPORTANT...not impotence...chi chi...u ah! minda never tak serong zit?

sorry la peeps, for the typo...i edited dee. but since i was typing in a rush just now, before class...didnt stop to read thru my post.
:eek: now i know! :eek:

[malcolm]

boh dear...i admit i am no saint - though when i initially joined the forum...i was very much innocent indeed, eg: not knowing that BJ was actually Blow Job....the only BJ i knew before that was Bukit Jalil!

but dear deary...DID YOU READ MY POST OR NOT??
this shirui trying to frame me by picking up a typo la...:crying:


shirui....i guess u'd know that FACT better as u are a guy. but dun la misquote me - THE WORD was IMPORTANT...not impotence...chi chi...u ah! minda never tak serong zit?

sorry la peeps, for the typo...i edited dee. but since i was typing in a rush just now, before class...didnt stop to read thru my post.

innocent lav... :p

[shiruikage]

shirui....i guess u'd know that FACT better as u are a guy. but dun la misquote me - THE WORD was IMPORTANT...not impotence...chi chi...u ah! minda never tak serong zit?
hahahah, i know it was typo....but it was so easy! :laugh: must play play a little lor since u are so innocent. lol. and how come u know my mind serong serong one? if like straight arrow ar....i die long time liou lor. :laugh:

[Lava Gal]

hehe...Malc & Shirui, am i REALLY that innocent? :p

btw shirui...guess tatz how u r surviving in the kiasu land, oh?

btw peeps...this org johor (Batu Pahat) drive like crazy la - wonder if this is the habit they rubbed off staying so close to singapore?:sus:

[ryan_khoo82]

ooops, tersesat di sini,
ahh since i am here, let me pose a question to you 99ers

gals - would you date a guy that earns lesser or have a less promising career than you?

and guys - would you date a girl that earns more than you or someone thats obviously on a faster track on her career than you are?

The girl won't mind as long as she thinks the POTENTIAL for the guy to do well is there. If she sees him screwing up too much, the its bye bye to the guy.

The guy won't mind as long as he thinks he has the POTENTIAL to catch up. Normally this can't take too long as the male ego is a fragile thing.

So its always difficult for guys who are just starting out. Unless you're able to break above the rest and demonstrate a maturity beyond your years :amused:

[shiruikage]

The girl won't mind as long as she thinks the POTENTIAL for the guy to do well is there. If she sees him screwing up too much, the its bye bye to the guy.

The guy won't mind as long as he thinks he has the POTENTIAL to catch up. Normally this can't take too long as the male ego is a fragile thing.

So its always difficult for guys who are just starting out. Unless you're able to break above the rest and demonstrate a maturity beyond your years :amused:
or, the guy could be a lazy bum with an air of POTENTIAL oozing from him that the girl got hooked, and then the guys just leeched off the girl's income. in the way of the ninja, he become the ..... pisau cukur! muahhah!:laugh:

[LiLiaN]

personally i think it all depends on the situation...

well, i'll try to illustrate this with an example

girl - working for a company in malaysia, thus steady income etc, could afford a car and all that

guy - just started out as an entrepreneur, opened a cybercafe with a few partners, so definitely finances are tight and not stable

girl likes to wine and dine (at least once a week) while the guy definitely prefers to have mamak and other cheaper options la.. since they will both take turns to pay. now girl is not happy cause her finances are tight (somehow), and yet she still has to pay for the guy and yet still wants to wine and dine with him

guy of course feels that he doesn't wear the pants in the relationship because he feels that he has lesser say due to his spending power (read: ego bruised)

then they fight. bleah.
well, for one, wine and dine is not a cheap exercise...
i think it's fair taking turns paying, so deal with it...
why would she want to complain over this...? :confused:

sounds like both parties are not very committed...
the girl is somewhat selfish and seems to have me-me-me attitude...
while the guy is not really doing much about changing the situation...
moaning about bruised ego is not going to make things better...

[ryan_khoo82]

well, for one, wine and dine is not a cheap exercise...
i think it's fair taking turns paying, so deal with it...
why would she want to complain over this...? :confused:

sounds like both parties are not very committed...
the girl is somewhat selfish and seems to have me-me-me attitude...
while the guy is not really doing much about changing the situation...
moaning about bruised ego is not going to make things better...

It'll be nice to find a girl that's ok to take turns paying, but I think deep down, they'd prefer if the guy could pay all the time.

What I do is to make light of it, and make her feel guilty somehow :D

[LiLiaN]

you think that to be the case...? perhaps, i don't know...
i prefer to pay my share, that's the truth...
and one doesn't need to spend a lot of money in relationship...
there are lots more things that matter more...

[athena]

Lil, i think it's a culture thingy here la...I don't expect the guy to pay all the time, but i don't like to split the bill....prob.take turns :)

[Anson F-Clef]

Lilian, that's true indeed. Money CANNOT buy happiness to its entirety, and likewise is CHEMISTRY......why? Simple: I have even seen my best fren give his former g/f a peck or a kiss or even sleep together but eventually their r'ship hanyut after almost 2 years saja.....why? Other important fundamentals lacking especially how a couple can work together and live together with no holds barred. My best fren has even had his credit card expenditure taking its toll personally on him.......well, to cut this story short, at the point of his breakup, his life gradually turned around for the better until this very present day........still as a signifciant single...........

you think that to be the case...? perhaps, i don't know...
i prefer to pay my share, that's the truth...
and one doesn't need to spend a lot of money in relationship...
there are lots more things that matter more...

[SS2006]

Lil, i think it's a culture thingy here la...I don't expect the guy to pay all the time, but i don't like to split the bill....prob.take turns :)
Take turns, not split bills...this i agree. Even when going out with colleagues, 1 person will pay 1st, come back only we pay back our share, rather than splitting bills on the spot....doesn't look nice, maybe it's a cultural thing after all.
Even a married couple do take turns paying for household expenses, if both also working. For example, my husband pay for the housing loan, i pay for the babysitter, when buying groceries if i buy the stuff i'll pay from my pocket, if he buys he'll pay, if we're both together shopping we'll take turns but never really fix/monitor who's turn it will be each time. It's the mutual understanding there.

[Oddfather]

Take turns, not split bills...this i agree. Even when going out with colleagues, 1 person will pay 1st, come back only we pay back our share, rather than splitting bills on the spot....doesn't look nice, maybe it's a cultural thing after all.
Even a married couple do take turns paying for household expenses, if both also working. For example, my husband pay for the housing loan, i pay for the babysitter, when buying groceries if i buy the stuff i'll pay from my pocket, if he buys he'll pay, if we're both together shopping we'll take turns but never really fix/monitor who's turn it will be each time. It's the mutual understanding there.
he pays when shopping at hypermarket and you pay when buying from the neighbourhood sundry shop. no?? :blink: j/k :p

[SS2006]

he pays when shopping at hypermarket and you pay when buying from the neighbourhood sundry shop. no?? :blink: j/k :p
If beer included, then he pays. I drink shandy, he drinks Tiger...so issit fair for me to pay 5x extra?:p

[Oddfather]

If beer included, then he pays. I drink shandy, he drinks Tiger...so issit fair for me to pay 5x extra?:p
ahhh.....then make sure you slip a 6 pack into the trolley everytime both of you go shopping together.....:eek: :laugh:

[Lava Gal]

Lil, i think it's a culture thingy here la...I don't expect the guy to pay all the time, but i don't like to split the bill....prob.take turns :)
why not split? well...for us students, usually someone might pay first, then we split later (if cant get separate bills, eg:pizzahut etc)


The girl won't mind as long as she thinks the POTENTIAL for the guy to do well is there. If she sees him screwing up too much, the its bye bye to the guy.

The guy won't mind as long as he thinks he has the POTENTIAL to catch up. Normally this can't take too long as the male ego is a fragile thing.

So its always difficult for guys who are just starting out. Unless you're able to break above the rest and demonstrate a maturity beyond your years :amused:
so...ryan, are u saying guys like that are extinct dee? well...well...i do agree bout ego part, howeva egoless a guy SEEMS to be, he's still egoistic. but...i like rare species ;) haha..

[LiLiaN]

oh, i don't calculate down to the cent and split bills either...
but i definitely take turn in paying, that's normal...
i'm sorry if i badly phrased what i wanted to say...
when i mentioned "paying my share", i meant i do do my part in paying...
i don't even care if when i pay i seems to be paying more...
but truth be told, that rarely happens, everything always seems to even out...
not that i keep track very well anyway, i'm quite easy going when it comes to food! ;)

[ryan_khoo82]

I guess money is just one part of the equation. If the girl wants to break up with you, she'll find something as a reason to do so. Not necessarily money.

Usually when wooing the girl, its the small things that count i.e. pulling chairs, opening doors, pump the petrol for her car (after borrowing), be nice to her mum :D

[LiLiaN]

girls do understand that guys are not good in remembering little things...
but if you do remember something that she mentioned she likes...
then you'll be getting lots of brownie points... :)

[SS2006]

I guess money is just one part of the equation. If the girl wants to break up with you, she'll find something as a reason to do so. Not necessarily money.

Usually when wooing the girl, its the small things that count i.e. pulling chairs, opening doors, pump the petrol for her car (after borrowing), be nice to her mum :D
When wooing only? After steady no need already meh, ryan?:sus: :squeeze:

[Ah Boh]

I guess money is just one part of the equation. If the girl wants to break up with you, she'll find something as a reason to do so. Not necessarily money.

Usually when wooing the girl, its the small things that count i.e. pulling chairs, opening doors, pump the petrol for her car (after borrowing), be nice to her mum :D

girls do understand that guys are not good in remembering little things...
but if you do remember something that she mentioned she likes...
then you'll be getting lots of brownie points... :)

kcm & lilian... good tips for d guys! i couldn't agree more, except that be nice to both her mum AND dad. hehe...

[LiLiaN]

well, it does show that someone is sincere about caring for the others mah...
and that works in general, not just in terms of relationship but in friendship too...
e.g. a friend i totally didnt expect to remember when my birthday is...
he actually sent me a present on the post, much to my surprise...
now that (the actual thought) would mean a lot more to me than the value of the present...

[Lava Gal]

yup...those tips on lil things are very true indeed :) seems like kcm has got the hang of it...and oh yeah lil, exactly! is the thought tat counts....*smile*

[ryan_khoo82]

When wooing only? After steady no need already meh, ryan?:sus: :squeeze:

After steady also need... :D but too much of a good thing spoils people.

Some people only realize a good thing when its gone. Myself included.

[Ah Boh]

After steady also need... :D but too much of a good thing spoils people.

Some people only realize a good thing when its gone. Myself included.
awww.... u poor thing!

[Lava Gal]

Some people only realize a good thing when its gone. Myself included.
thatz such a touching sentence there...:crying: but true eh...hmm, so would it be a case of 'better late than never' or would 'ignorance have been bliss instead'??

[Adele]

After steady also need... :D but too much of a good thing spoils people.

Some people only realize a good thing when its gone. Myself included.
no wonder have been missing you! :eek: :p :rolleyes:

[laineyee]

hey everyone !! it's Elaine here.. pretty serious and deep stuff you guys discussing about..

hi boh.. i got in, thanks !!
so update me, who is attached ?
I know boh is, anyone else ?
haven't talked to you guys since end of last year

[Ah Boh]

welcome!! hey, check out Introduction where there's a welcome thread just for u. :)

[Lava Gal]

hey everyone !! it's Elaine here.. pretty serious and deep stuff you guys discussing about..

hi boh.. i got in, thanks !!
so update me, who is attached ?
I know boh is, anyone else ?
haven't talked to you guys since end of last year
yup...i heard u had a gathering wif some of them b4 leaving - and i haven met u since after F5! gal..tatz AGES!! good u found ur way here....so, Elaine....opinion to share bout this topic?

ehem...usually we have too much 'nonsense' - so ah boh trying to create some 'serious thread'...after all, its the evergreen in-topic and everyone can 'learn' something from here. haha..:noworry:

[laineyee]

[QUOTE=Lava Gal]yup...i heard u had a gathering wif some of them b4 leaving - and i haven met u since after F5! gal..tatz AGES!! good u found ur way here....so, Elaine....opinion to share bout this topic?

Ohhhhh ic.. hmm .. my opinion? hmm, our partner should be someone we can respect i suppose, but i'm not the right person to contribute, my relationships don't last longer than a year so i should 'learn' from others yar...

yeahh.. i went to India for my friend's wedding and stop over in malaysia for 2 weeks before going back to aus.. lena and kcm were really good, they organised the gathering. Met quite a few ppl that i haven't seen for a long long time..

[laineyee]

hey today is chung ming's birthday izzit ? Happy Birthday KCM..
how are you going to celebrate? nice romantic dinner with someone?

hey kuteh (balitung king), boh.. remember our balitung nights? next time i go back, we, kuteh go for chut chut again ok..


how come when i'm online no one is ? lonely talking to myself ok..

[Ah Boh]

yup...i heard u had a gathering wif some of them b4 leaving - and i haven met u since after F5! gal..tatz AGES!! good u found ur way here....so, Elaine....opinion to share bout this topic?

ehem...usually we have too much 'nonsense' - so ah boh trying to create some 'serious thread'...after all, its the evergreen in-topic and everyone can 'learn' something from here. haha..:noworry:
hahaha.... u got dat rite. :)

[QUOTE=Lava Gal]yup...i heard u had a gathering wif some of them b4 leaving - and i haven met u since after F5! gal..tatz AGES!! good u found ur way here....so, Elaine....opinion to share bout this topic?

Ohhhhh ic.. hmm .. my opinion? hmm, our partner should be someone we can respect i suppose, but i'm not the right person to contribute, my relationships don't last longer than a year so i should 'learn' from others yar...

yeahh.. i went to India for my friend's wedding and stop over in malaysia for 2 weeks before going back to aus.. lena and kcm were really good, they organised the gathering. Met quite a few ppl that i haven't seen for a long long time..
hoi...dats good enuf for me. my 1st r/ship didnt last 6 mths! luckily tho, my 2nd r/ship (current one) is approaching 1 year, keeping my fingers & toes crossed... :squeeze:

yeah, respect is rite gal. i remember once i met a guy so selfish n only think of his own feelings. he critic my choice of music cuz its not his type la, laugh at my hobbies cuz it's childish la, think im stupid cuz i dun like to talk bout politics la. he wasnt joking or teasing, he said it all in such a hurtful tone.

i tahan lar then one fine day in the middle of dinner, i just went *kaboom!* i scolded dat fella kaokao then only he shuddup. later he tot about it n admit he gotta respect me for who i am b4 i can accept him, but its too late. i dun think i can live with dat kinda person.

[Lava Gal]

*clap clap clap* for ah boh!
i dunno how u tahan-ed his kutuking for that long...i'd have told him off in the beginning itself. lucky he tak kena sepak dengan u :p

[laineyee]

hoi...dats good enuf for me. my 1st r/ship didnt last 6 mths! luckily tho, my 2nd r/ship (current one) is approaching 1 year, keeping my fingers & toes crossed... :squeeze: I'm sure it's going good n will last, i have faith in you n your guy..

yeah, respect is rite gal. i remember once i met a guy so selfish n only think of his own feelings. he critic my choice of music cuz its not his type la, laugh at my hobbies cuz it's childish la, think im stupid cuz i dun like to talk bout politics la. he wasnt joking or teasing, he said it all in such a hurtful tone.

yeah.. i don't see why ppl shoud criticise if we have different taste, just agree that we disagree, if everyone likes the same thing.. how boring would that be? i love it when ppl have different taste from me, then they won't like the same guy as me.. hihi


i tahan lar then one fine day in the middle of dinner, i just went *kaboom!* i scolded dat fella kaokao then only he shuddup. later he tot about it n admit he gotta respect me for who i am b4 i can accept him, but its too late. i dun think i can live with dat kinda person.[/QUOTE]
way to go girlfriend ..some guys think that they can just walk all over us and we will just sit there and take it.. sorry man.. :mad: not going to stand for it.

[Ah Boh]

*clap clap clap* for ah boh!
i dunno how u tahan-ed his kutuking for that long...i'd have told him off in the beginning itself. lucky he tak kena sepak dengan u :p
he kena sepak, kena hantam, kena blueblack eye liao... i just censor the violent parts for general public viewing mah. :laugh:

[Ah Boh]

I'm sure it's going good n will last, i have faith in you n your guy..



yeah.. i don't see why ppl shoud criticise if we have different taste, just agree that we disagree, if everyone likes the same thing.. how boring would that be? i love it when ppl have different taste from me, then they won't like the same guy as me.. hihi



way to go girlfriend ..some guys think that they can just walk all over us and we will just sit there and take it.. sorry man.. :mad: not going to stand for it.[/QUOTE]
whooaaa.... i have to agree on all counts, especially the 1st one...

thanks for ur strong opinions! looks like we cud learn a thing or two from u too. hehe... way to go, gal. keep it up! :D

[laineyee]

he kena sepak, kena hantam, kena blueblack eye liao... i just censor the violent parts for general public viewing mah. :laugh:

wow boh boh:blink: .. didn't know you are so violent.. must be careful what i say to you next time, who knows, i might be the next battered n abused friend :sad-2:

[laineyee]

QUOTE]thanks for ur strong opinions! looks like we cud learn a thing or two from u too. hehe... way to go, gal. keep it up! :D[/QUOTE]

don't make me paisehh.. nahh .. just that living by myself in a foreign place, no daddy, mommy or boyfriend, if i don't stand up for myself, who else will?

Plus i have to deal with a lot of abusive/unreasonable customers and immature staff, have to stand my ground if not they will climb over my head.

[kwimango]

wow boh boh:blink: .. didn't know you are so violent.. must be careful what i say to you next time, who knows, i might be the next battered n abused friend :sad-2:

ah boh violent? hehe i not scared. neh neh nih boo boo

[Ah Boh]

ah boh violent? hehe i not scared. neh neh nih boo boo
*smack smack*

notti boy, go to ur room! :laugh:

this mango fella sure tak kena cukup rotan wen small boy, no wonder so notti now.:p

[ryan_khoo82]

hey today is chung ming's birthday izzit ? Happy Birthday KCM..
how are you going to celebrate? nice romantic dinner with someone?

hey kuteh (balitung king), boh.. remember our balitung nights? next time i go back, we, kuteh go for chut chut again ok..


how come when i'm online no one is ? lonely talking to myself ok..


Yes. Today is my birthday. Thank you thank you.

I haven't really celebrated. Only dinner with some friends from work. Better keep the celebrations quiet for now. If got mood, then will organize something later this month :D

Welcome to the forum, Elaine.

[ryan_khoo82]

QUOTE]thanks for ur strong opinions! looks like we cud learn a thing or two from u too. hehe... way to go, gal. keep it up! :D

don't make me paisehh.. nahh .. just that living by myself in a foreign place, no daddy, mommy or boyfriend, if i don't stand up for myself, who else will?

Plus i have to deal with a lot of abusive/unreasonable customers and immature staff, have to stand my ground if not they will climb over my head.[/QUOTE]


Aaaahh... a job... what job? It sounds like a waitress :D Unless you're now a restaurant owner :D

[fatso_dude]

hi there,
i like the smell of fresh roses in the morning, the gentle strokes of the ever punctual swiss cookoo wall clock, reading the papers while lounging on a spring morning as the morning ray shines.
above all, i like women with ripe, tight and round a...hey, this is not adult friendfinder!?!
how the hell did i get in here...aaw man, every single time!!!:mad:
im sorry...my bad:o (email me:mesodesparate@replyplz.com)
...girls only:o ...
ill show my way out thanks...:o

[laineyee]

Aaaahh... a job... what job? It sounds like a waitress :D Unless you're now a restaurant owner :D

FnB industry lor.. very cruel.. thank God l left for the greener pastures at ANU.

Restaurant owner, hihi not yet.. was manager only.. mayb in the future..

[kwimango]

*smack smack*

notti boy, go to ur room! :laugh:

this mango fella sure tak kena cukup rotan wen small boy, no wonder so notti now.:p

well my dad used to give up buying canes from the supermarket (they were too flimsy), so he'd just pop by the rotan furniture shop and buy canes by the kilo...

fortunately cxtreme and i are quite good at hiding them... so we were spared the rod most of time...

ah boh... i still not scared of you! nyeh nyeh

[siehjin]

Chung Ming.... i belatedly wish u happy birthday. =)

i say it that way because one day my dad heard me say, "happy belated birthday!" and he asked me, how did i change the date of my friend's birthday n make it later? heheh.

reza... langsung tidak berkaitan man. u're so random, heheh

except that, come to think of it... since this thread is all about luurve, maybe reza's cry is relevant after all =)

and takers? =P

[Ah Boh]

hi there,
i like the smell of fresh roses in the morning, the gentle strokes of the ever punctual swiss cookoo wall clock, reading the papers while lounging on a spring morning as the morning ray shines.
above all, i like women with ripe, tight and round a...hey, this is not adult friendfinder!?!
how the hell did i get in here...aaw man, every single time!!!:mad:
im sorry...my bad(email me:mesodesparate@replyplz.com)
...girls only:o ...
ill show my way out thanks...
LOL!! :eek:

same ol' reza... his mind always veering off sumwhr like a car outta control. careful u dun crash n burn, my fren! :p

well my dad used to give up buying canes from the supermarket (they were too flimsy), so he'd just pop by the rotan furniture shop and buy canes by the kilo...

fortunately cxtreme and i are quite good at hiding them... so we were spared the rod most of time...

ah boh... i still not scared of you! nyeh nyeh
wahlau... just wen i finally have some peace from d biawak fella, now the thorn in my neck is one mango fella pulak! apala this world coming to...

Chung Ming.... i belatedly wish u happy birthday.

i say it that way because one day my dad heard me say, "happy belated birthday!" and he asked me, how did i change the date of my friend's birthday n make it later? heheh.

reza... langsung tidak berkaitan man. u're so random, heheh

except that, come to think of it... since this thread is all about luurve, maybe reza's cry is relevant after all =)

and takers? =P
are u kidding me??

oh ya, btw, a fren of mine looking for nice indian guy to fren fren *hint hint*. any takers? she's a nice gal, same age as me, working in accounts in a law firm in bangsar. she is my ex-coursemate at TARC, now my tenant at my apt.

[kwimango]

wahlau... just wen i finally have some peace from d biawak fella, now the thorn in my neck is one mango fella pulak! apala this world coming to...

well.. you bullied me! now justice is served! (since adele dowan to helps me)

[fatso_dude]

oh ya, btw, a fren of mine looking for nice indian guy to fren fren *hint hint*. any takers? she's a nice gal, same age as me, working in accounts in a law firm in bangsar. she is my ex-coursemate at TARC, now my tenant at my apt.

hmmn...
girls on advert...then i must be at the right place:eek:
but im not indian...damn u choosy women...:sad-2:
but maybe if i dip my face in bitumen...

[Lava Gal]

i agree 101% on 'agreeing to disagree' part! to seek win-win situation...but guess wat my fren. tatz wer the prob lies.....how many ppl are matured enuff to think this way, or even matured to consider accepting this method? ppl are jus so set in their ways...:eek:
yeah.. i don't see why ppl shoud criticise if we have different taste, just agree that we disagree, if everyone likes the same thing.. how boring would that be? i love it when ppl have different taste from me, then they won't like the same guy as me.. hihi



don't make me paisehh.. nahh .. just that living by myself in a foreign place, no daddy, mommy or boyfriend, if i don't stand up for myself, who else will?

Plus i have to deal with a lot of abusive/unreasonable customers and immature staff, have to stand my ground if not they will climb over my head.
*pat pat*
u r NEVER alone, my dear...the strenght of knowing that somewer in this big wide world, u have tonnes of ppl who cares for u...though they arent beside u in person - tat thought alone willl see u through :)
and in a way...this forum jus reinforces the 'family bond'...acs-sitiawan family. i bet u r already starting to feel it, eh ;)


ChungMing...one yr older. hope u had a Happy day...though didnt celeb much =)

SiehJin...u r so rite, my fren. reza's cry isnt tat misplaced after-all! =p

Reza: u poor darling...*pat pat*. i give u a tip...."stop looking...and good things will come falling at ur feet!!" - dont believe me oh? ask ah boh lo...*wink* Betul tak, boh!??

[Adele]

well.. you bullied me! now justice is served! (since adele dowan to helps me)
its nots thats Adeles don'ts wants tos helps yous buts yous dugs yours owns graves whens talkings abouts Adeles ands replys bys diggins deepers graves fors yourselfs whens talkings tos Adeles. sos hows Adeles goings tos helpls yous?? :p

[kwimango]

its nots thats Adeles don'ts wants tos helps yous buts yous dugs yours owns graves whens talkings abouts Adeles ands replys bys diggins deepers graves fors yourselfs whens talkings tos Adeles. sos hows Adeles goings tos helpls yous?? :p

now u remind me of KA the snake in jungle book....
http://www.ugo.com/channels/filmtv/features/snakeweek/fe-snakes/junglebook_1_sm.jpg

[Ah Boh]

Reza: u poor darling...*pat pat*. i give u a tip...."stop looking...and good things will come falling at ur feet!!" - dont believe me oh? ask ah boh lo...*wink* Betul tak, boh!??
:o hehe... so true so true. *wink wink*

its nots thats Adeles don'ts wants tos helps yous buts yous dugs yours owns graves whens talkings abouts Adeles ands replys bys diggins deepers graves fors yourselfs whens talkings tos Adeles. sos hows Adeles goings tos helpls yous?? :p
aikkss... u kena jampi liao ah? :laugh:

[fatso_dude]

Reza: u poor darling...*pat pat*. i give u a tip...."stop looking...and good things will come falling at ur feet!!" - dont believe me oh? ask ah boh lo...*wink* Betul tak, boh!??

lava,u sure o not?:unsure:
coz the last time i stopped looking, i came falling head first in a huge ass longkang and succesfully french kissed the tarmac(i was bicycle riding at the time...):o with both my feet wiggling profusely overhead... :o
why do i keep on telling people about all these embarassing stories...very image damaging doncha know:unsure:

[malcolm]

reza!! what did u have for sahur? must be your food! ;)

[Ah Boh]

lava,u sure o not?
coz the last time i stopped looking, i came falling head first in a huge ass longkang and succesfully french kissed the tarmac(i was bicycle riding at the time...):o with both my feet wiggling profusely overhead... :o
why do i keep on telling people about all these embarassing stories...very image damaging doncha know:unsure:
so how was it... good?? :laugh:

omigosh i can imagine u with cute wiggling feet! LOL!

[Adele]

:o hehe... so true so true. *wink wink*


aikkss... u kena jampi liao ah? :laugh:
not kena jampi.... kena influenced by my sister's new language - 'S'english! hehe....

[laineyee]

oh my goshh.. i tak log in for 2 days and so many things have happened..

poor Reza.. always pecah kepala ..

boh .. must tell me your story... !! i also want to know about the *wink wink*

[Ah Boh]

oh my goshh.. i tak log in for 2 days and so many things have happened..

poor Reza.. always pecah kepala ..

boh .. must tell me your story... !! i also want to know about the *wink wink*
ehhhh?? :blink: me dunno wor... me so innocent...

wats the difference between a wink n a blink ar?

*blink blink blur blur face*

[fatso_dude]

all this talk about food is really making me hungry...tapi kawe berpose sokmo.toksir make slalu:(...(kelantan accent)

[laineyee]

aiyoh fatso.. no idea what you said ok..

hmm .. mayb i should also try to puasa mayb can lose some weight..

not kena jampi.... kena influenced by my sister's new language - 'S'english! hehe....
Hopefully won't catch on, everytime someone talks to me, sea of saliva on my face.. YUCK :sick: like the cat in the tweety bird cartoon, Sylvester

[Anson F-Clef]

hmm .. mayb i should also try to puasa mayb can lose some weight..

Yakah??

[Ah Boh]

hmm .. mayb i should also try to puasa mayb can lose some weight..

eh dun think puasa can automatic lose weight leh, those who puasa whole day then binge kaokao on ramadan buffet every single night sure gemuk habis at the end of just 1 mth! :p

[laineyee]

hihih.. thats one thing i can't do.. puasa.... sighhh.. :(
but how much can you binge anyway.. cos normally when i get really starving marving, i can't eat a lot.. i eat a little bit then feel xtremely full already.

[Lava Gal]

some ppl can binge till they throw up!:sick:

well well...rezawif legs terkapai-kapai in the air. i cant imagine :p
got pix tak? can re-enact the situation :p

[laineyee]

some ppl can binge till they throw up!:sick:

well well...rezawif legs terkapai-kapai in the air. i cant imagine :p
got pix tak? can re-enact the situation :p

that's bad.. that called bulimic !!

reza .. ahhah .. if he re-enact it, take pic n show it to me.. i also want to laugh !!

[malcolm]

hihih.. thats one thing i can't do.. puasa.... sighhh.. :(
but how much can you binge anyway.. cos normally when i get really starving marving, i can't eat a lot.. i eat a little bit then feel xtremely full already.

hmmm...if you want to lose weight one way is to continue eating quality food with less oil, fats and excessive salt. You may opt for a strict diet with vegetables, fruits, fish. Easier said than done. I adming food around us are tempting.

The delicacies sold at pasar ramadan are super yum yum and are quite fattening since mostly contain lots of santan and oil. I personally like the murtabak at a stall nearby here but i have bought only twice since fasting started last month. I avoid them most of the time and stick to my usual diet of rice, a variety of vegetables, fish or some meat. I makan sekadar cukup. Air pun air kosong saja. I avoid air sirap, bandung, etc etc which are sweet.

I am a part time vegetarian you know ;) I am a vegetarian for dinner.

By the way, Prophet Muhammad himself only had 3 dates when he broke his fast. So why should we eat excessively? Perhaps some of your food should go to some nations in Africa.

[malcolm]

eh dun think puasa can automatic lose weight leh, those who puasa whole day then binge kaokao on ramadan buffet every single night sure gemuk habis at the end of just 1 mth! :p

I agree with you kaokao....hehe :D

[Lava Gal]

that's bad.. that called bulimic !!
correcto, mundo!

hmmm...if you want to lose weight one way is to continue eating quality food with less oil, fats and excessive salt. You may opt for a strict diet with vegetables, fruits, fish. Easier said than done. I adming food around us are tempting.

The delicacies sold at pasar ramadan are super yum yum and are quite fattening since mostly contain lots of santan and oil. I personally like the murtabak at a stall nearby here but i have bought only twice since fasting started last month. I avoid them most of the time and stick to my usual diet of rice, a variety of vegetables, fish or some meat. I makan sekadar cukup. Air pun air kosong saja. I avoid air sirap, bandung, etc etc which are sweet.

I am a part time vegetarian you know ;) I am a vegetarian for dinner.

By the way, Prophet Muhammad himself only had 3 dates when he broke his fast. So why should we eat excessively? Perhaps some of your food should go to some nations in Africa.

agree, malc! its jus misinterpreted by ppl, i guess.
tat they need to replenish body's supply.

haha...true true. but if eat vegetarian goreng2 food oso no point :p
mus always rem to reduce oily & too sweety stuufs...balance, my frens...balance. and all will be well

[Ah Boh]

I agree with you kaokao....hehe :D

woohooo... u guys + gals saw athena's wedding pix?? sooo beyoootiful & romantic!!

so, who's next on the list? jen lin rite?? any1 taking pix for us all?

[laineyee]

oh my gosh.. Jen lin getting married ? since when ??? walau.. better take pics n show me ok !!

[Ah Boh]

oh my gosh.. Jen lin getting married ? since when ??? walau.. better take pics n show me ok !!
22 oct - sun i think, but im not going. who going ar better take lotsa pix!

[Ah Boh]

I don't need a CAR, but I want a BMW

I don't need a CONDO, but I want a BUNGALOW

I don't need you to have CASH but I want you to own a BANK

I don't need you to have a CAREER but I want you to be a BOSS

It's interesting for you to read!

Most of you would have heard of the Singapore 5C's! :

Car, Condo, Credit Card(Gold), Cash and Career

Heard of the 5B's?

B - BMW

B - Body

B - Brain

B - Billionaire

B - Bungalow

And, and addition with the 5K's ......................

Kiasu (scared of losing)

Kiasee (scared of dying)

Kiabor (scared of wife)

Kiaboh (scared of having nothing)

Kiachenghu (scared of government)

[Adele]

haha.... ah boh, i heard that before. do you think it's true?? for me, i think it's $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$ooooooooooo true!!! :laugh:

(gosh, starting to sound like a gold digger edi!! oh no!!!!! die!! hey, wait a minute, I AM A GOLD DIGGER!!!!!!!!!! LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!)

[kwimango]

Credit Card(Gold)

outdated liao lah, nowadays Gold credit card quite easy to get

must be either BLACK card, or PLAT card (i think maybe Titanium and Adamantium also):confused:

[Adele]

Jack wakes up with a huge hangover after attending his Company's
Annual Office Party. Jack is not normally a drinker, but the drinks didn't taste like alcohol at
all. He doesn't even remember how he got home from the party. As bad as he was feeling,
he wondered if he did something wrong.

Jack forced himself to open his eyes, and the first thing he sees is a couple of aspirins next
to a glass of water on the bedside table. And, next to them, a single red rose!

Jack sits up and sees his clothing in front of him, all clean and pressed. He looks around the
room and sees that it is in perfect order, spotlessly clean. So is the rest of the house. He
takes the aspirins, cringing when he sees a huge black eye staring back at him in the bathroom
mirror. Then he notices a note hanging on the corner of the mirror written in red with little
hearts on it and a kiss mark from his wife in lipstick:

"Honey, breakfast is on the stove. I left early to go get groceries to make you your favorite
dinner tonight. I love you, darling! Love, Jillian"

Jack stumbles to the kitchen, and sure enough, there is hot breakfast, steaming hot coffee and
the morning newspaper. His son is also at the table, eating. Jack asks, "Son... what happened
last night?" "Well, you came home after 3 A.M., drunk and out of your mind. You fell over the
coffee table and broke it, then puked in the hallway and got that black eye when you ran into the door."

Confused he asked his son, "So, why is everything in such perfect order, so clean. Why do I have
a rose and breakfast on the table waiting for me?" His son replies, "Oh, THAT! Well, Mom dragged
you to the bedroom, and when she tried to take your pants off, you screamed, "Leave me alone, lady, I'm married!"

Broken coffee table: $39.99
Hot breakfast: $4.20
Two aspirins: $0.38
Saying the right thing, at the right time… Priceless :D

[dragoncity99]

outdated liao lah, nowadays Gold credit card quite easy to get

must be either BLACK card, or PLAT card (i think maybe Titanium and Adamantium also):confused:

O like the the word Adamantium....:p

[Lava Gal]

woohooo... u guys + gals saw athena's wedding pix?? sooo beyoootiful & romantic!!

so, who's next on the list? jen lin rite?? any1 taking pix for us all?
yup...velly d lomantic. haha...will any of us be as lucky as her in the future?

I don't need a CAR, but I want a BMW

I don't need a CONDO, but I want a BUNGALOW

I don't need you to have CASH but I want you to own a BANK

I don't need you to have a CAREER but I want you to be a BOSS


one conclusion: same-same je ma...materialistic!:rolleyes:

haha.... ah boh, i heard that before. do you think it's true?? for me, i think it's $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$ooooooooooo true!!! :laugh:

(gosh, starting to sound like a gold digger edi!! oh no!!!!! die!! hey, wait a minute, I AM A GOLD DIGGER!!!!!!!!!! LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!)
adele...the only 'gold-miner' i know around here is ryan :p

[ryan_khoo82]

Hmm.. I heard someone use my name... :D

Pretty busy everyone here. But this is getting off topic.

Mango, I leave you in charge for a couple of days and you let the women take over the forum. If you can't handle the 4 or 5 here, how are you going to take care of your girlfriends outside?

[Adele]

adele...the only 'gold-miner' i know around here is ryan :p
Lava dear, as i always go around telling everyone, i don't have a problem getting a gold-miner, i have a problem getting a gold-miner who truly loves me. you wouldn't want to feel as if the guy is buying your love right?? :(

[Nelson Allan]

Hi All,
Was just browsing through some threads and saw you guys. Seems like a cool bunch and quite active. Anyway keep it up and happy threading.:eek:

Your senior senior,
Nel

[malcolm]

Lava dear, as i always go around telling everyone, i don't have a problem getting a gold-miner, i have a problem getting a gold-miner who truly loves me. you wouldn't want to feel as if the guy is buying your love right?? :(

how do you know if the gold-miner really loves you? hard to tell right? :)

[kwimango]

Mango, I leave you in charge for a couple of days and you let the women take over the forum. If you can't handle the 4 or 5 here, how are you going to take care of your girlfriends outside?

kcm, sometimes you'd have to give them the impression that they're wearing the pants =)... the key is in letting them win the small battles but you're almost guaranteed victory in the war..

Lava dear, as i always go around telling everyone, i don't have a problem getting a gold-miner, i have a problem getting a gold-miner who truly loves me. you wouldn't want to feel as if the guy is buying your love right?? :(

i have a feeling that lava might not be talking about someone who earns lots.. but someone who "mines for gold" ?.. hehe... *cue in the snow white song*

We dig dig dig dig dig dig dig in our mine the whole day through
To dig dig dig dig dig dig dig is what we really like to do

[Adele]

how do you know if the gold-miner really loves you? hard to tell right? :)
Why else do you think i'm still single?!! :sus:

kcm, sometimes you'd have to give them the impression that they're wearing the pants =)... the key is in letting them win the small battles but you're almost guaranteed victory in the war..
Sudah kalah, mengaku aje la..... how deep a whole do you so want to keep digging for yourself huh?? :p


i have a feeling that lava might not be talking about someone who earns lots.. but someone who "mines for gold" ?.. hehe... *cue in the snow white song*

We dig dig dig dig dig dig dig in our mine the whole day through
To dig dig dig dig dig dig dig is what we really like to do
erm.......... then Ryan ain't no gold-miner lor..... :huh:

[kwimango]

Sudah kalah, mengaku aje la..... how deep a whole do you so want to keep digging for yourself huh?? :p
confucious say, make love not war.. so what say you babe? call it a truce?

erm.......... then Ryan ain't no gold-miner lor..... :huh:
i hope you got the "gold mining" joke... i think that almost everyone is guilty of gold mining (especially when they think people are not looking)

[Ah Boh]

O like the the word Adamantium....:p
isnt it dat metal thingy in wolverine bones? anyway, this is getting off topic...

Hmm.. I heard someone use my name...

Pretty busy everyone here. But this is getting off topic.

Mango, I leave you in charge for a couple of days and you let the women take over the forum. If you can't handle the 4 or 5 here, how are you going to take care of your girlfriends outside?
LOL!! aiyoh, mango trying to be macho but he ended up so harmless n fun to kacau.

Lava dear, as i always go around telling everyone, i don't have a problem getting a gold-miner, i have a problem getting a gold-miner who truly loves me. you wouldn't want to feel as if the guy is buying your love right?? :(

how do you know if the gold-miner really loves you? hard to tell right? :)
good point, mal.

adele, i dun quite understand. which gold-miner is not buying ur love? i mean, if they have $$$, wats to stop them fm using it as bait to fish gals? its really hard to differentiate their true love for u vs their male ego of showing off dat they can afford u? :weird:

[kwimango]

adele, i dun quite understand. which gold-miner is not buying ur love? i mean, if they have $$$, wats to stop them fm using it as bait to fish gals? its really hard to differentiate their true love for u vs their male ego of showing off dat they can afford u? :weird:

it just boils down to ONE french sentence

"les femmes sont difficiles"

c'est la vie, ma amie

[Adele]

adele, i dun quite understand. which gold-miner is not buying ur love? i mean, if they have $$$, wats to stop them fm using it as bait to fish gals? its really hard to differentiate their true love for u vs their male ego of showing off dat they can afford u? :weird:
true love is when no matter how rich or poor the guy is, he trust you with ALL of his life and money. like my dad. he gives ALL of his money to my mum and entrust everything to her. so, if the rich guy trust your love for him to be enough for him to do that, then he's not buying your love la.... then again, everyone might say i'm asking for a fairy tale. oh well, it's just my point of view. :noworry:

[Chris C]

it just boils down to ONE french sentence

"les femmes sont difficiles"

c'est la vie, ma amie

:blink: ......Ingerish puhleeez....bahasa poon bole.....:smile-2:

[kwimango]

:blink: ......Ingerish puhleeez....bahasa poon bole.....:smile-2:

les femmes sont difficiles - ze womens ees so difficult!

c'est la vie, ma amie - zat ees ze life, my friend

[Chris C]

les femmes sont difficiles - ze womens ees so difficult!

c'est la vie, ma amie - zat ees ze life, my friend

Wah.....u perli us open-open ah?

[Lava Gal]

Hmm.. I heard someone use my name... :D

Pretty busy everyone here. But this is getting off topic.

Mango, I leave you in charge for a couple of days and you let the women take over the forum. If you can't handle the 4 or 5 here, how are you going to take care of your girlfriends outside?
hot loveseat seems to have caught 'fire' wif some heated discussion here...off topic? hmmm..$$$ is still a big Q in the evergreen topic of lurve, aint it?

Hi All,
Was just browsing through some threads and saw you guys. Seems like a cool bunch and quite active. Anyway keep it up and happy threading.:eek:

Your senior senior,
Nel
welcome aboard...nelson! tanx for wishes...and compliments - ehheemm...and we tot we were a boring bunch of ppl :p
and Nel...feel free to express ur opinions here & anywer else in our house of 99 ya. we are a very harmless bunch...welcome ppl wif open arms one.

kcm, sometimes you'd have to give them the impression that they're wearing the pants =)... the key is in letting them win the small battles but you're almost guaranteed victory in the war..
eheemmm...realli? give us the impression...or u really no gutz =p
but i muz admit tatz a good tactic, will def help u in long-term r/ships...as long as u dont overdo it.
and i can sense u r having loads of fun 'kena bullly' (konon) by us gals in here...

i have a feeling that lava might not be talking about someone who earns lots.. but someone who "mines for gold" ?.. hehe... *cue in the snow white song*

We dig dig dig dig dig dig dig in our mine the whole day through
To dig dig dig dig dig dig dig is what we really like to do
dei...if ur fikiran serong..me not responsible for it lo...haha, so is tat WAT YOU DO WHOLE DAY long? dig dig for 'gold'?

[LiLiaN]

it just boils down to ONE french sentence
"les femmes sont difficiles"
c'est la vie, ma amie
mon cher, c'est tojours mon amie, et pas ma amie...

and c'mon, women are not THAT difficult...
just considerably more complex than guys... :p :laugh:

[Lava Gal]

..and simple minded guys cant figure (complex) women

so guyz need to learn to be less simple :p

[kwimango]

eheemmm...realli? give us the impression...or u really no gutz =p
wah insult my man-li-ness ah!

dei...if ur fikiran serong..me not responsible for it lo...haha, so is tat WAT YOU DO WHOLE DAY long? dig dig for 'gold'?

well i used to sit beside someone at work who does it for half an hour every morning.. :sick:

its disgusting!!

Wah.....u perli us open-open ah?
tak perli hor, just stating what i think are facts! =)

[Lava Gal]

well i used to sit beside someone at work who does it for half an hour every morning..

its disgusting!!
yucks..:sick:
the parents nvr teach the person manners wan ah?:sick:
:eek:

[Nelson Allan]

Aiyohhhh!!! Guy ke gal ke.....one can't live without the other. Got good guys also got bad ones....same same with gals mah.....without this balance....the world will go out of whack!!!!!:cool:

[Nelson Allan]

Handsome guy but no money....how?
Ugly guy but got money...........how?
Handsome guy and got money...gay?
Ugly guy and no money............"Tiada esok bagi mu"!!!!:crying:

Girls, your respond?

[malcolm]

true love is when no matter how rich or poor the guy is, he trust you with ALL of his life and money. like my dad. he gives ALL of his money to my mum and entrust everything to her. so, if the rich guy trust your love for him to be enough for him to do that, then he's not buying your love la.... then again, everyone might say i'm asking for a fairy tale. oh well, it's just my point of view. :noworry:

wah...susah susah. If the gal is like Adele, susah mau tau if she loves my money more... :p
How to find true love like that?

[ryan_khoo82]

mon cher, c'est tojours mon amie, et pas ma amie...

and c'mon, women are not THAT difficult...
just considerably more complex than guys... :p :laugh:

I really need to pick up French. There was this hot babe yesterday night that had me real confused with her French quotes. And here I find the same thing :D

Language classes for me anyone?

[LiLiaN]

get kwimango to share his expertise in french!
(although i betcha first thing he's going to teach you is "voulez vous....." :laugh:

[Adele]

Handsome guy but no money....how?
Ugly guy but got money...........how?
Handsome guy and got money...gay?Ugly guy and no money............"Tiada esok bagi mu"!!!!:crying:

Girls, your respond?
found. not gay. ;)

[Adele]

wah...susah susah. If the gal is like Adele, susah mau tau if she loves my money more... :p
How to find true love like that?
you'll know wan la....... don't worry...... gotta be wise lor... also, i guess, gotta have tons of faith in God. :)

[kwimango]

get kwimango to share his expertise in french!
(although i betcha first thing he's going to teach you is "voulez vous....." :laugh:

ma chere, you know me too well..

alas, i shall corrupt zee dragone's young mind...

monsiuer drac, maybe u can learn from the most famouse french casanova of all time? .. hee's name ist monsieur pepe le pew

[Nelson Allan]

found. not gay. ;)

Congratulations!!! Now don't lose him by being too spolit....hahaha:cheesy:

[Adele]

Congratulations!!! Now don't lose him by being too spolit....hahaha:cheesy:
:laugh: hard to do but will try...... not be too spoilt i mean....... :laugh:

[Ah Boh]

:laugh: hard to do but will try...... not be too spoilt i mean....... :laugh:
to try or not to try? dat is the question...

i tot guys like gals dat are just being themselves with no pretences? so u dunnit try so hard to be who u are not, especially if it overrides d adele dat we all know. ;)

[Adele]

to try or not to try? dat is the question...

i tot guys like gals dat are just being themselves with no pretences? so u dunnit try so hard to be who u are not, especially if it overrides d adele dat we all know.
eh, eh, eh.............. apa maksud ni huh?? :mad: :rolleyes: :laugh: ala..... i can't get any more manja then i already am la......... so, if can sayang this Adele, won't be difficult to sayang a less manja Adele right?? :p

[Lava Gal]

found. not gay.
eh...and u didnt tell me!!:(

anyway....i hope its a true statement...and so goes :D Congrats!

you'll know wan la....... don't worry...... gotta be wise lor... also, i guess, gotta have tons of faith in God.
yup....faith in God when things are not within ur control :)

[Adele]

eh...and u didnt tell me!!:(

anyway....i hope its a true statement...and so goes :D Congrats!


yup....faith in God when things are not within ur control :)
girl, you sendiri bold the 'found'. so, found saja la.... belum 'get' ma! apala..... :amazed:

[Nelson Allan]

girl, you sendiri bold the 'found'. so, found saja la.... belum 'get' ma! apala..... :amazed:

Now found or not found? Aiyoh!!!1:confused:

:noworry: If found, good....if thinking of finding.......

Confucius say:
"One bird in hand better than 10 in bush".....unless u're KFC......:crying:

[Adele]

Now found or not found? Aiyoh!!!1:confused:

:noworry: If found, good....if thinking of finding.......

Confucius say:
"One bird in hand better than 10 in bush".....unless u're KFC......:crying:
haha..... what does KFC mean??? anyway, found! not thinking of finding. what's there to be confused?? just haven't get only.

[Ah Boh]

eh, eh, eh.............. apa maksud ni huh?? :mad: :rolleyes: :laugh: ala..... i can't get any more manja then i already am la......... so, if can sayang this Adele, won't be difficult to sayang a less manja Adele right??
hahaha.... cleber gal! dats exactly wat i mean. u being u, can't be more but can be less, yet sometimes i wonder how guys respond to 'more' as well as 'less' manja scenarios. For example :

sometimes i manja with james if im in a good mood or if i wan something real bad, but then he said 'since wen u so manja wan??'

usually i jawab balik 'if i not manja with u, then manja with who??'

other times when i so serious on our dates, he ask 'why u so serious wan?' I ask back 'why?' then he say 'u my gal mah, lighten up n lets have fun'

:weird: err...wat gives? now i dilemma, when to manja n when to serious...

[Adele]

hahaha.... cleber gal! dats exactly wat i mean. u being u, can't be more but can be less, yet sometimes i wonder how guys respond to 'more' as well as 'less' manja scenarios. For example :

sometimes i manja with james if im in a good mood or if i wan something real bad, but then he said 'since wen u so manja wan??'

usually i jawab balik 'if i not manja with u, then manja with who??'

other times when i so serious on our dates, he ask 'why u so serious wan?' I ask back 'why?' then he say 'u my gal mah, lighten up n lets have fun'

:weird: err...wat gives? now i dilemma, when to manja n when to serious...
i guess it's all in the chemistry?? not having that prob so far.... going well! ;)

[Nelson Allan]

i guess it's all in the chemistry?? not having that prob so far.... going well! ;)

Because of chemistry lah got atomic bomb, nuclear bomb!!! When mixing it up got to be careful lor!!!

Manja doesn't mean not being serious mah....u girls ahhh...no wonder guys get all confused....:cool:

[Adele]

Because of chemistry lah got atomic bomb, nuclear bomb!!! When mixing it up got to be careful lor!!!

Manja doesn't mean not being serious mah....u girls ahhh...no wonder guys get all confused....:cool:
thanks for the reminder of looking at things from a different perspective! :)

oh, i didn't get confused about the manja not being serious. i'm very serious especially in my manja-ness! LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!:p

[Chris C]

Because of chemistry lah got atomic bomb, nuclear bomb!!! When mixing it up got to be careful lor!!!

Manja doesn't mean not being serious mah....u girls ahhh...no wonder guys get all confused....:cool:

Wahhhhh.......:laugh: ......looks like we have a professor of Love and char bohs in here....:rolleyes: :p

[Nelson Allan]

thanks for the reminder of looking at things from a different perspective! :)

oh, i didn't get confused about the manja not being serious. i'm very serious especially in my manja-ness! LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!:p

Your boy boy better be so into you otherwise sure burnout one. Better ask him to read the book.....char boh book I guess....something about being into you!!!!!

[Adele]

Your boy boy better be so into you otherwise sure burnout one. Better ask him to read the book.....char boh book I guess....something about being into you!!!!!
LOL!!!!!!!!!! aiya, the burnout process sure will happen over time la.. but i sure know when to add fuel la........ ;) what books do you recommend?? :huh:

[Nelson Allan]

Wahhhhh.......:laugh: ......looks like we have a professor of Love and char bohs in here....:rolleyes: :p

Got professor here kah? Where hor? Cannot see one......:unsure:

[Nelson Allan]

LOL!!!!!!!!!! aiya, the burnout process sure will happen over time la.. but i sure know when to add fuel la........ ;) what books do you recommend?? :huh:

Book about how much fuel or about type of fuel....;)

Can read all the books u want but only u'll know what's best....right?

Just dont add too much fuel.....combustion can be a real eyebrow remover...:cheesy:

[kwimango]

LOL!!!!!!!!!! aiya, the burnout process sure will happen over time la.. but i sure know when to add fuel la........ ;) what books do you recommend?? :huh:

from Oprah!

He's Just Not That Into You
By Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo
From the show He's Just Not That Into You and The "He's Just Not That Into You" Revolution
chekkit (http://www.oprah.com/tows/booksseen/200409/tows_book_20040922_behrendttruccillo.jhtml)
http://images.oprah.com/images/tows/200409/20040922/20040922_bk_a_100.jpg

[LiLiaN]

that book was rubbish!

[kwimango]

that book was rubbish!

u actually read it?

[LiLiaN]

the first 3 pages while waiting for a friend at the bookshop...
absolute rubbish...

[Adele]

thanks Lil! save me from attempting to read rubbish.

anyway, Kwimango, Nelson suggested the guy to read the book about being into me la... not the other way round. :p

[Lava Gal]

girl, you sendiri bold the 'found'. so, found saja la.... belum 'get' ma! apala.....
OHHhhhh!! so dah jumpa...tapi belum dapat! dun let go...k, hold on tight, but not too tight to suffocate him :p how's the prognosis like? =)

hahaha.... cleber gal! dats exactly wat i mean. u being u, can't be more but can be less, yet sometimes i wonder how guys respond to 'more' as well as 'less' manja scenarios. For example :

sometimes i manja with james if im in a good mood or if i wan something real bad, but then he said 'since wen u so manja wan??'

usually i jawab balik 'if i not manja with u, then manja with who??'
exactly! (referring to bolded part)...and boh...first time i see u mentioning james name in here, and not merely referring as boy-boy :D
Way to go....YOU know the balance, if he hints that u should be more manja..dun retaliate la gal, grab the opp and be all the 'manja' tat u can *wink*

Got professor here kah? Where hor? Cannot see one
hehe...nelson nelson. nice to see u are so at home with us 99ers =D
keep on sharing ur theories ya. catchya gain...

[LiLiaN]

thanks Lil! save me from attempting to read rubbish.

anyway, Kwimango, Nelson suggested the guy to read the book about being into me la... not the other way round. :p
you can judge it for youself, amazon gives sneak preview (http://www.amazon.com/Hes-Just-That-Into-Understanding/dp/068987474X/sr=1-1/qid=1161006231/ref=sr_1_1/104-9968431-4186312?ie=UTF8&s=books)...
just look at even the table of content... really just anything to sell the book...

[Nelson Allan]

you can judge it for youself, amazon gives sneak preview (http://www.amazon.com/Hes-Just-That-Into-Understanding/dp/068987474X/sr=1-1/qid=1161006231/ref=sr_1_1/104-9968431-4186312?ie=UTF8&s=books)...
just look at even the table of content... really just anything to sell the book...

Well that book was written for both sexes to understand each other I guess, but what's wrong in making a few bucks along the way huh.....;)

If read with an open mind...I guess it can be beneficial. Otherwise all men are doomed!!!!:sick:

[ryan_khoo82]

the first 3 pages while waiting for a friend at the bookshop...
absolute rubbish...

Yup. That book is absolutely rubbish. I read the contents and it was already clear to me.

[ryan_khoo82]

found. not gay. ;)

Sigh... competition... I always knew I was somewhere down her pecking order :mad:

[LiLiaN]

Well that book was written for both sexes to understand each other I guess, but what's wrong in making a few bucks along the way huh.....;)

If read with an open mind...I guess it can be beneficial. Otherwise all men are doomed!!!!:sick:
i think this book wasn't about both sexes understanding each other...
from what i gather, it was more women didn't want to face reality and make excuses when guys don't call/email/meet up etc...
and then the writer (the man) gave his very frank and honest advice...
"he's just not into you so move along, forget about it!"...
i believe THIS is actually the kind of things that causes men to be doomed!!

a lot of matters in relationship is quite instinctive...
and i believe if something is not quite right, then maybe take a step back...
re-evaluate your situation and see how that goes...
maybe it's time to take a break, maybe it's time for a talk, etc...
(i know, easier said than done - i've been there myself)...

[Adele]

Sigh... competition... I always knew I was somewhere down her pecking order
huh?? what competition and what pecking order?? :amazed:
OHHhhhh!! so dah jumpa...tapi belum dapat! dun let go...k, hold on tight, but not too tight to suffocate him :p how's the prognosis like? =)
don't let go?? not even hanging on, how to let go......... aiyo....... girl, step by step la.......... hehe......... prognosis........... still need more CT Scans and MRIs. X-rays not clear so can't make any predictions. ;) later kena sue by patient, i die!! :laugh:

Thanks Lil for the preview!

[Ah Boh]

Sigh... competition... I always knew I was somewhere down her pecking order :mad:
haha... so kcm, wats ur number? waiting list no. 12... or 78... or 145... or dun tell me its more than 200++??

poor u...

exactly! (referring to bolded part)...and boh...first time i see u mentioning james name in here, and not merely referring as boy-boy :D
Way to go....YOU know the balance, if he hints that u should be more manja..dun retaliate la gal, grab the opp and be all the 'manja' tat u can *wink*
hehe... u are one sharp gal, lav. after all, ppl saw him at forum bash liao mah n apparently im d last to realise dat most of our batch frens as far as australia + uk + singapore knows bout it liao. cheh... no surprise element no fun! haha...

from Oprah!

He's Just Not That Into You
By Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo
From the show He's Just Not That Into You and The "He's Just Not That Into You" Revolution
chekkit (http://www.oprah.com/tows/booksseen/200409/tows_book_20040922_behrendttruccillo.jhtml)
http://images.oprah.com/images/tows/200409/20040922/20040922_bk_a_100.jpg
i totally agree with lilian n ryan > dat book is one silly collection of pure crap.

sumone close to me actually recommended it to me (i wont name d poor misguided fella for fear of ruining his/her image) but after i skimmed thru a few pages i think a few thousands brain cells actually shrivelled up n die...

oprah or not, i dun care who touts it but i aint going a mile near dat book... its simply not worth insulting my intelligence over it. bleeehhhhh... :p

[Chris C]

Got professor here kah? Where hor? Cannot see one......:unsure:

:laugh: ......lecturer should be more appropriate....from Sunway College? :D


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