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Adele
05-05-2006, 04:38 PM
apa tu meebo, malc??
and do u think its safe to show show ur ids there like that ah?
adele...did u find mine? if not i pm u :)
dia pun tak tau la... just start only la even though we don't know what to call it. we are all smart ppl here. we'll get the hang of it eventually. and also, i'm sure there'll be smarter ppl here to tell us what's it called. hehehe...
meebo's web msn, icq, yahoo messenger and erm...another thing. google talk or something la!
Hades
05-05-2006, 04:42 PM
meebo nice site to log in all ur chat programs at 1 web page...
Lava Gal
05-05-2006, 04:43 PM
MALCOLM!!! *bow bow*salute salute*
cant thank u enuff la...that meebo website abit slow to load...but it finally did, and i'm not enlightened about what it is. hehe
so adele...pm me urs la :)
malcolm
05-05-2006, 05:04 PM
MALCOLM!!! *bow bow*salute salute*
cant thank u enuff la...that meebo website abit slow to load...but it finally did, and i'm not enlightened about what it is. hehe
so adele...pm me urs la :)
so far meebo's Yahoo Messenger works fine for me. I use Firefox browser.
Adele
05-05-2006, 05:05 PM
so far meebo's Yahoo Messenger works fine for me. I use Firefox browser.
apa tu firefox browser?? eh, you dah habis kerja ka? boleh ber-forumming?? :huh:
malcolm
05-05-2006, 05:05 PM
http://www.mozilla.com/firefox/ is just a free browser. Open source.
i am going back to my work....
boss coming after me ady....hehe
talk later when I am back here again..
have a nice day!!
Adele
05-05-2006, 05:05 PM
i am going back to my work....
boss coming after me ady....hehe
talk later....
hehe... hah! kan baru cakap! :p cepat also ah you mandi!
ryan_khoo82
05-06-2006, 10:17 PM
:laugh: .....u gals from 99', can certainly chat!....Lava, u must be really happy that there's 'life' finally in your yr thread....:D
Emphasis on the "gals can certainly chat". The men are simply lost in their train of thought...
Chris C
05-07-2006, 01:43 PM
Emphasis on the "gals can certainly chat". The men are simply lost in their train of thought...
:laugh: ....and may i know what's normally in those 'train'....:cheesy:
Adele
05-08-2006, 09:20 AM
Emphasis on the "gals can certainly chat". The men are simply lost in their train of thought...
:laugh: ....and may i know what's normally in those 'train'....:cheesy:
yes, KCM, please share what's that train of yours that you can get lost so simply!! :p
Lava Gal
05-08-2006, 01:54 PM
SIEH JIN> Yes...Hinduism has similar concept too. actually i believe every religion has similar basic roots...its how its been interpreted and practised over yrs..well.
Yup, the scriptures have mentioned anout each person being created to fulfill a certain purpose in this lifetime (based on the karmas). and life is about finding the 'path'...fulfilling God's purpose for us...and finding our way back to him :)
Ah Boh
05-08-2006, 05:01 PM
i'm baaaaccckkkk!!! gosh, ive just been away for a few days n u all dah chat till im blur liao... where to continue arr... nvm, i cant stay long tho. Hiii Sieh Jin! i gtg check out other threads...
Lava Gal
05-08-2006, 05:19 PM
nvrmind bobo...when u free, come in and read everything. *tips* nite-time better...less actv, can read thru all the threads & conversations u've missed at ur own pace :)
malcolm
05-08-2006, 06:00 PM
SIEH JIN> Yes...Hinduism has similar concept too. actually i believe every religion has similar basic roots...its how its been interpreted and practised over yrs..well.
Yup, the scriptures have mentioned anout each person being created to fulfill a certain purpose in this lifetime (based on the karmas). and life is about finding the 'path'...fulfilling God's purpose for us...and finding our way back to him :)
........
as christians, we talk about the idea of vocation or calling (does islam have this concept too, malcolm? lavanya, what about hinduism?) meaning that we're not at our jobs just to get bread, or just to get ahead... but that we're called by God to fulfill His purposes in the work that we do. the troublesome part for some, is finding out what those purposes are...=)
...........
We do have the same concept. I can say we have a purpose in life, knowing where we came from, and our next destination. Islam and Christianity share similar roots.
Also we have the concept of vicegerency (human being is perceived as the trustee/administrator of the earth).
You can read more in the following article (under the subsection on Khalifah):
a) http://www.islamonline.net/english/Contemporary/2002/08/Article02a.shtml
That is what i understand..
Something to add:
In Islam everything we do in the name of the Almighty (in accordance to the Quran and the Hadith [sayings+traditions of Prophet Muhammad pbuh] ) are considered acts of worship. In the name of Allah - we eat, read, walk, talk think, write, pray, sleep, bathe, work, giving tithes, etc etc of anymore verbs you can think of.
Lava Gal
05-08-2006, 06:07 PM
so..basically, guess what i said earlier holds water. memang all religion have basic similar values.
well...sometimes even in 1 religion, ppl interpret scriptures etc differently, leading to diff ways of practice. as long as they are not ino 'ajaran sesat' imho, all religion advocates good :)
Peace on earth...
Ah Boh
05-08-2006, 06:09 PM
nvrmind bobo...when u free, come in and read everything. *tips* nite-time better...less actv, can read thru all the threads & conversations u've missed at ur own pace :)
thanks for d tip, lav. wish i can do dat but unfortunately i gotta hit d books 2nite so am locking myself in d room :( anyway, im hvg fun reading up as fast as i can now b4 i ciao :)
malcolm
05-08-2006, 06:16 PM
thanks for d tip, lav. wish i can do dat but unfortunately i gotta hit d books 2nite so am locking myself in d room :( anyway, im hvg fun reading up as fast as i can now b4 i ciao :)
i got to ciao first.
makan time. yum yum..;)
Lava Gal
05-08-2006, 06:19 PM
me too cabuting..have to go mandi, and go for yoga class. and study tonight + prepare seminar...ahhh, so many things to do.
all d more y i need to learn to relax!
Ah Boh
05-08-2006, 06:38 PM
Check out Events! Ive posted a new thread on our latest endeavour to ahve a gathering... hope it works out :)
ryan_khoo82
05-08-2006, 10:38 PM
yes, KCM, please share what's that train of yours that you can get lost so simply!! :p
If I could answer that, I wouldn't be lost, would I? :(
siehjin
05-09-2006, 12:30 AM
Lavanya:
Thanks for d info about hinduism!=) i agree that all religions have similar roots, and that all religions have similar value systems... and we should bear this in mind in any discussion of religion, so that we each speak from a position of peace and agreement and do not let said discussion degenerate into hostility.
however the fact remains that on certain things, our religions do not agree; and when things contradict, they cannot both be true. either one is true and the other false, or both are untrue and the truth is found somewhere else. therefore let us seek the Truth together...for God is the ultimate Truth, and in Him there is no falsehood.=)
Malcolm:
Thanks for the info about Islam! =) christians also have the concept of viceregency, but we call it stewardship... it dates back from waaaay back when God gave Adam and Eve the mandate to 'rule over' creation.
and the idea of worship as a lifestyle and not just something one does on a 'holy day' is also found in christianity... but unfortunately not all christians practice it (and i must admit, it is much easier said than done!)
Guen Boh:
Hi!=) hitting the books eh? when's yr exam? accounting is it? all the best for yr exams ya...=P
Ah Boh
05-09-2006, 08:49 AM
yeah, taking partime night classes for CIMA. im convinced adv dip is not enuf, so... wat the heck was i thinking?? im going nuts!
Lava Gal
05-09-2006, 06:24 PM
If I could answer that, I wouldn't be lost, would I? :(
tats why guy need gals...in any form of r/ship...to straighten them up a lil :p
Lavanya:
Thanks for d info about hinduism!=) i agree that all religions have similar roots, and that all religions have similar value systems... and we should bear this in mind in any discussion of religion, so that we each speak from a position of peace and agreement and do not let said discussion degenerate into hostility.
however the fact remains that on certain things, our religions do not agree; and when things contradict, they cannot both be true. either one is true and the other false, or both are untrue and the truth is found somewhere else. therefore let us seek the Truth together...for God is the ultimate Truth, and in Him there is no falsehood.=)
welcome, Q.
on the discrepancies...i'd say we shud agree to disagree amicably on certain matters. tatz part of maturity.
actually i'm still learning loads bout mine..coz though i used to attane religious classes when young mostly they state things in too simplictic a manner, which i cant sometimes accept. a lot of ruminating on my part b4 i embrace a certain concept. :)
and FYI...basic of Hinduism is 'to find the truth'...seeker of the truth can be considered as a hindu. its more of a lifestyle...not only religion.
some frenz are amazed i can discuss with religions with frenz of different faiths...even when its provocative topic. but i know my stand...keep an open mind to their arguments...and we all learn something everyday :) and yang baik boleh dipraktikkan oleh anyone!
x-files said 'the truth is out there'...but i have come to believe 'the truth is within each and eevry one of us'....and hopefully we all come to find it. haha...with wesak day around, i'm sounding so much like seeking 'enlightenment'.
siehjin
05-09-2006, 06:49 PM
Guenboh:
Gambateh kuedasai! =)
Lavanya:
Good stuff. i agree wholeheartedly.=)
Lava Gal
05-09-2006, 07:10 PM
now gambateh i know sumthing like jia yu rite...the kudasai tu apa ye?
and oh ya....i too have to get out of here...head rite home & STUDY!!!
jeezzz...wat an irresponsible student i am :(
LiLiaN
05-09-2006, 08:11 PM
i thought gambateh means cheers... no?
Ah Boh
05-10-2006, 08:59 AM
gambateh is jap for 'keep up n dun give up' ? i like dat :)
siehjin
05-10-2006, 09:03 AM
yups, gambateh is an encouragement that means wat guenboh said... i think 'gambateh kuedasai' is the full form (as opposed to short form). but i don really know much jap, so... hehehe, hopefully its not a swear word or something...
Lava Gal
05-10-2006, 12:19 PM
ah...something along tat line la. and a fren of mine uses 'poq' sign to indicate gambateh...means hi-5 oso or wat!:wacko:
anyway..tanx boh!
tsk..kindof realli quiet in here today..wonder why?
anyway...i jus came in for a quick f/up..hehe, its a long day ahead...
Ah Boh
05-10-2006, 01:32 PM
no lar, forum where can quiet wan.. like ppl sleeping in grave meh, choi.
malcolm
05-10-2006, 02:21 PM
a few ppl are not here....
didn't see Adele online also....
Ah Boh
05-10-2006, 05:30 PM
she was here earlier today, dunnow here she go now. busy bee kua...
Adele
05-11-2006, 08:34 AM
i'm here now! :D but will be going for meeting in awhile. feel free to catch me in here when you can. yes, been very the busy. see y'all!
Ah Boh
05-11-2006, 01:24 PM
where is evry1???
cheh, boringnya... nvm, i need both hands to eat my lunch anyway - tuna cheese sandwich. its nice & crispy cuz i warmed it up in the toaster in my pantry.. hehe..
Adele
05-11-2006, 03:08 PM
ya la boh, where's evryone huh?? so weird!! everyone cuti mood kut! then cuti from forum oso... sigh.... so sunyi here.... :( eh, is Lav coming in here today? wanna ask her if today's Parvinder's b'day. i usually ingat wan but so long didn't keep in touch with each other i lupa is it today or was it yesterday. sigh... getting old, memory failing liao...
Voon Chan
05-11-2006, 03:14 PM
Hi Adele! Forum also got mood one you know
Adele
05-11-2006, 03:19 PM
Hi Adele! Forum also got mood one you know
hi VC! ya lor... it suka-suka, layan me. tak suka, ma tak layan me... so tou fong wan!! haiyer... hehehe...
Voon Chan
05-11-2006, 03:22 PM
What to do?
To me, i don't care. Whether people layan or not, you can continue posting
Adele
05-11-2006, 03:41 PM
What to do?
To me, i don't care. Whether people layan or not, you can continue posting
eh, i'm not talking about the ppl, i'm talking about the forum. hehe... 2 different things. forum's the place, the ppl are the well..., ppl! :D
Voon Chan
05-11-2006, 03:44 PM
Your title, Baby Princess sound very cute
Adele
05-11-2006, 05:14 PM
Your title, Baby Princess sound very cute
just like the person ma!! ;) :D
Lava Gal
05-11-2006, 06:26 PM
ya la boh, where's evryone huh?? so weird!! everyone cuti mood kut! then cuti from forum oso... sigh.... so sunyi here.... :( eh, is Lav coming in here today? wanna ask her if today's Parvinder's b'day. i usually ingat wan but so long didn't keep in touch with each other i lupa is it today or was it yesterday. sigh... getting old, memory failing liao...
IT WAS YESTERDAY! 10th of May lar, gal!
u arrr....i know why u forgot. hmmm:sus:
Voon Chan
05-13-2006, 09:07 AM
I think so:) just like the person ma!! ;) :D
Adele
05-17-2006, 08:24 AM
I think so:)
thanks VC! you're the sweetest! :)
Lava Gal
05-22-2006, 10:12 AM
why so long its so silent in here dee, ah?? *eerie*
Adele
05-22-2006, 10:17 AM
why so long its so silent in here dee, ah?? *eerie*
nothing to talk about. we all kan known to be boring ppl.... plan gathering pun so susah!! sigh..... :p
Lava Gal
05-22-2006, 10:27 AM
99ers boring? :sus:
busy more like it:p...wat wif exams and work...and wateva...till no time to log in! so few of us in heree this very min itself leh...but then ah adele...boring i can't say 'aye' coz....how does it explain ppl who can reach 600+ postings in a couple of mths! :p :eek:
Adele
05-22-2006, 10:34 AM
busy more like it:p...wat wif exams and work...and wateva...till no time to log in! so few of us in heree this very min itself leh...but then ah adele...boring i can't say 'aye' coz....how does it explain ppl who can reach 600+ postings in a couple of mths! :p :eek:
bold: yalar... money crazy ppl!! tsk, tsk, tsk..... hehehehe...
bold and underlined: you talking about me?? :rolleyes: lol
malcolm
05-22-2006, 01:23 PM
baby princess is so free ar......
i have started to have a lot of work to complete...sigh...
very sien la working life...
Adele
05-22-2006, 01:27 PM
baby princess is so free ar......
i have started to have a lot of work to complete...sigh...
very sien la working life...
no la, baby princess not free but always can squeeze time specially for forum wan.... anyway, baby princess won't be around to forum from tomorrow til the 5th of June. so better grab opportunity to chat with baby princess today!! :)
Ah Boh
05-22-2006, 06:45 PM
no la, baby princess not free but always can squeeze time specially for forum wan.... anyway, baby princess won't be around to forum from tomorrow til the 5th of June. so better grab opportunity to chat with baby princess today!! :)
i wonder why ah?
malcolm
05-22-2006, 06:50 PM
wei..... where are you now? in office?
Ah Boh
05-22-2006, 07:13 PM
wei..... where are you now? in office?
no ah, today im on study leave n tmrw on exam leave.
now in cyber cafe check email n forumming lor... addict liao :)
From Study vs Working Life thread : hey, u berani call me liar ah?? :mad:
malcolm
05-23-2006, 06:54 AM
no ah, today im on study leave n tmrw on exam leave.
now in cyber cafe check email n forumming lor... addict liao :)
From Study vs Working Life thread : hey, u berani call me liar ah?? :mad:
takut takut.... :p
Chris C
05-23-2006, 12:06 PM
Hope to see u gals back here soon......:)
Lava Gal
05-26-2006, 01:38 PM
Chris cheche...its indeed been mucha mucha quiter in here oh!
i've been unwired for some time, people...back for today, hopefully tomolow too
Ah Boh's on MC today, eye infection..hope she gets well soon.
aiya...and i tot of asking her today if wanna go for kelip-kelip (fireflies) thingy this wknd! aiy...
adele...busy bee at the 'site'!
bold: yalar... money crazy ppl!! tsk, tsk, tsk..... hehehehe...
bold and underlined: you talking about me?? :rolleyes:
u bet!
no la, baby princess not free but always can squeeze time specially for forum wan.... anyway, baby princess won't be around to forum from tomorrow til the 5th of June. so better grab opportunity to chat with baby princess today!!
aye aye...baby. malcolm...i have to agree wif her on this lar ;)
coz if & wen something becomes of importance to us...we will somehow squueze out time for it, kan? like how bobo goes to cybercafe to check forum...or how me, when shud be buried in my books am here ever so often!
else...it'll be "no time...no time" give 100hrs a day oso, u will still hear no time :p - isn't that how we al are?:rolleyes:
Adele
05-27-2006, 09:19 PM
baby's back for today to make some noise!!! :D but the bodoh part is no one's online to hear me out!! haha... but in a way, it's great 'coz get to read all threads in peace. hehehe... cosolidation of replies to all thread:
hey, don't think will see you all on the 3rd. so sorry... will be super busy that weekend and lots to sort out.
anyway, chit-chatting alone now. hmm.... what to talk about leh?? my life right now very the stressful with work (should be in the other thread hor?? nvm la... one line only.. hehe!). having a hard time juggling life with family, friends, work. hope it doesn't take a toll on me and drive me crazy. i hate it everytime that happens! life will just keep passing me by and i'll just be zombie-ing around but in a lunatical manner!!
ok, this chat is beginning to sound depressing. let's cheer things up! hmm... i'm such a boring person la... well, it only applies when i'm all alone la kut.... hehe....
let's see, i really wanna catch MI3 and X-Men. have missed opporunities going with friends for these 2 movies due to work. anyone wanna take me out for these?? :huh: call me 'coz i might not be able to access the forum til Tue (that also if got time! hmph!!).
malcolm
05-28-2006, 11:43 AM
kesian baby..
never mind.. the next gathering will be at your house and we will party all night ;)
I am getting more focused in my work. There is a lot to do here. We are all preparing for an exhibition somewhere in August/September.
I think will just log into the forum after office hours...
ryan_khoo82
05-28-2006, 03:15 PM
Exhibition Malc? What and where?
malcolm
05-28-2006, 03:44 PM
Exhibition Malc? What and where?
MIRC Global SME ICT 2006.
24th to 26th August 2006
Venue: PWTC
http://www.mirc.org.my/events2.php?subaction=showfull&id=1143693809&archive=&start_from=&ucat=2&
My boss is looking for anyone who is pleasant looking with good communications skills - female only!
She will help to explain about the software, distribute flyers etc etc...
Any of you girls out there looking for a partime job can PM me..
Adele
05-28-2006, 04:09 PM
kesian baby..
never mind.. the next gathering will be at your house and we will party all night ;)
okies. we can have the October babies' b'day at my house although KCM might already have way brilliant beyond brilliant ideas for us! ;)
ryan_khoo82
05-28-2006, 11:30 PM
okies. we can have the October babies' b'day at my house although KCM might already have way brilliant beyond brilliant ideas for us! ;)
KCM doesn't have any plans for his b'day yet. Still too far ahead. And I detect a hint of sarcasm there, Lin... :sus:
Lava Gal
05-29-2006, 11:51 AM
lin...too bad u cant make it in the end. hope all goes well :)
hey peeps! wat bout Nov babies...:crying: sob sob
malcolm
05-29-2006, 12:55 PM
oh.....birthday gathering every month??
possible arr..hehehe:p
Ah Boh
05-29-2006, 01:55 PM
Ah Boh's on MC today, eye infection..hope she gets well soon.
hey thanx for ur wishes cuz it must b magic since my eye shrunk back to its normal size n colour by evening dat same day :) but then again, it cud be d special eyedrop d lengjai doctor gave me, he say its d strongest he have with steriod in it dat cures allergic reaction asap. i told him i wan only d best med he can gimme but he did warn me not to put more than 3 drops to avoid side effects, then throw d whole bottle away, wat a waste. it worked like a charm!
we will somehow squueze out time for it, kan? like how bobo goes to cybercafe to check forum...or how me, when shud be buried in my books am here ever so often!
see la, now u know how much i miss u all :o
Ah Boh
05-29-2006, 01:58 PM
baby's back for today to make some noise!!! :D but the bodoh part is no one's online to hear me out!! haha... but in a way, it's great 'coz get to read all threads in peace. hehehe... cosolidation of replies to all thread:
hey, don't think will see you all on the 3rd. so sorry... will be super busy that weekend and lots to sort out.
anyway, chit-chatting alone now. hmm.... what to talk about leh?? my life right now very the stressful with work (should be in the other thread hor?? nvm la... one line only.. hehe!). having a hard time juggling life with family, friends, work. hope it doesn't take a toll on me and drive me crazy. i hate it everytime that happens! life will just keep passing me by and i'll just be zombie-ing around but in a lunatical manner!!
ok, this chat is beginning to sound depressing. let's cheer things up! hmm... i'm such a boring person la... well, it only applies when i'm all alone la kut.... hehe....
let's see, i really wanna catch MI3 and X-Men. have missed opporunities going with friends for these 2 movies due to work. anyone wanna take me out for these?? :huh: call me 'coz i might not be able to access the forum til Tue (that also if got time! hmph!!).
poor poor baby... i think u need 'somebody' to soothe u n give u some TLC :)
anyways, i've seen MI3 n XMen. both are ok only to me, maybe overdose of action too soon after exam...
Er.....Is Malcom here??!!??
Adele
05-29-2006, 08:12 PM
KCM doesn't have any plans for his b'day yet. Still too far ahead. And I detect a hint of sarcasm there, Lin... :sus:
no sarcasm here KCM. sincerest honestest truth! 'coz you told me that you'll make our Oct b'days a blast ma... i tell you all what, tentatively now (knowing our organizing skills a bit the lembab, better start now), venue's my house. food, activities, etc. we decide along the way k?? shall we leave this to KCM? :D
ryan_khoo82
05-29-2006, 10:47 PM
no sarcasm here KCM. sincerest honestest truth! 'coz you told me that you'll make our Oct b'days a blast ma... i tell you all what, tentatively now (knowing our organizing skills a bit the lembab, better start now), venue's my house. food, activities, etc. we decide along the way k?? shall we leave this to KCM? :D
Ok ok... we'll decide along the way... Oct is still some way off... I take pride I can still tell people I'm only 23 :D
Adele
05-30-2006, 08:22 AM
Ok ok... we'll decide along the way... Oct is still some way off... I take pride I can still tell people I'm only 23 :D
me too!! :laugh:
Adele
05-30-2006, 09:37 AM
a thought just came to mind: funny how that when we are at our lowest point in life, we focus whatever energy that is left in ourselves to those in need around us and we feel almost better in that instant. personal experience that i'm going through now la.... was really depressed for the past few weeks but with very supportive friends (you know who you are), i managed to survive although still feeling low. but i was uplifted yesterday and the troubles seem to have eluded me somehow (might come back but for now, it's out of the way). and this morning, i managed to offer the little energy i have to my sis and friend that i feel so much better. i hope God will bless them well too and feel better about the crumbling world they are facing right now. i guess we all face this once in awhile and that's why God prepared support for us in friends. =) why don't you all share your experiences?
Voon Chan
05-30-2006, 10:04 AM
Adele, I don't know why you are feeling down. But you have taken the correct approach in life to face the reality in life.
You are healthy & living, you can change & make the world a better place to live. Be strong.
All the best to you. God Bless you my friend
Ah Boh
05-30-2006, 10:10 AM
Cest la vie, my fren! :)
Adele
05-30-2006, 10:35 AM
thanks guys! :)
hey, anyone can help me find out the cheapest place to get a Samsung SGH E770 HP?? i need to get it for my sister's b'day next month. please reply ASAP. greatly appreciate it! :)
Lava Gal
05-30-2006, 12:39 PM
abt the fon adele...i just received a 4warded email on 'free samsung h/p if u forward to 20ppl' :rolleyes: - if onlt it was true...sure can help u...rite now, not my area. sowweeeyy...but surely there are experts in here :D
Ok ok... we'll decide along the way... Oct is still some way off... I take pride I can still tell people I'm only 23
KCM & Adele>yea....its funny how when i was 21 i felt 'young'...22 felt magical (maybe coz 2 is my fav number...and having double two was superb)...but 23 rite, made it like 'oh...ohhhh...' hehe...but i too go like "I'm 23...or 23+" but not yet 24...so no need to say so lor :p
a thought just came to mind: funny how that when we are at our lowest point in life, we focus whatever energy that is left in ourselves to those in need around us and we feel almost better in that instant. personal experience that i'm going through now la.... was really depressed for the past few weeks but with very supportive friends (you know who you are), i managed to survive although still feeling low. but i was uplifted yesterday and the troubles seem to have eluded me somehow (might come back but for now, it's out of the way). and this morning, i managed to offer the little energy i have to my sis and friend that i feel so much better. i hope God will bless them well too and feel better about the crumbling world they are facing right now. i guess we all face this once in awhile and that's why God prepared support for us in friends. =) why don't you all share your experiences?
well gal...i too have felt, & am feeling same way - daily :D
when i get to do even a minute thingy for s1 else....i feel GOOD! even if its as much as a smile...and if they dun return it...i just have to tell myself 'at least i did my bit'.
depression is kind of counter-acted by optimism...carrying sunshine...gottas go now, sambung later
Adele
05-30-2006, 01:26 PM
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Adele
05-30-2006, 01:26 PM
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Adele
05-30-2006, 01:27 PM
http://i75.photobucket.com/albums/i300/adelechee/9.jpg
http://i75.photobucket.com/albums/i300/adelechee/10.jpg
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Adele
05-30-2006, 01:28 PM
http://i75.photobucket.com/albums/i300/adelechee/13.jpg
http://i75.photobucket.com/albums/i300/adelechee/14.jpg
Ah Boh
05-30-2006, 01:42 PM
cool cartoons! abit long, but makes a whole lotta sense!
Adele
05-30-2006, 01:46 PM
ya, i know. i just got it in my email. thought i'd share. glad you enjoyed it! =)
Adele
05-30-2006, 02:04 PM
wow!! eh, apa ni?? i keep coming up with new topics but no response wan?? let me recap:
topic #1 - focusing one's meagre energy in the lowest time to others who
needs it more than you
topic #2 - Samsung SGH E770 HP quotation
topic #3 - graphics of how precious life is
topic #4 - why do lurkers check who's who thread? i'd like to know who's
(new!) checking me out. it frustrates me when i know strangers are
peeking into my life.
voice your smart thoughts out. i know you all are oustanding individuals with brilliant thoughts so please do share. as a management trainee, gotta train to be a manager now and instruct all of you this: I EXPECT TO SEE THIS THREAD MOVING ALONG AT 200 KNOTS AN HOUR BY THE TIME I GET BACK FROM MY MEETING!! :mad: hehehehe.....
Voon Chan
05-30-2006, 02:11 PM
Really cool cartoon Adele!
It would be crazy to go at 200 knots per hour
It will be too fast
dragoncity99
05-30-2006, 02:22 PM
This cutie is very demanding. 200 knots perhour? Or is she saying 200 alphabets per hour?
topic #1 - focusing one's meagre energy in the lowest time to others who
needs it more than you
--> Ape ni? Can eat one ah?
topic #2 - Samsung SGH E770 HP quotation
My sis friend is selling mobile phones. If your in KL, sorry lah. Hehehehe
topic #3 - graphics of how precious life is
Life is good.
topic #4 - why do lurkers check who's who thread? i'd like to know who's
U got stalkers around in ur closet ah sis? :laugh:
Happy now? 200 alphabets per hour. Pecah the record summore.
Chris C
05-30-2006, 03:28 PM
Glad to see u looking at life on a more +ve way.....:)
I've been thru' the roller coaster of life over and over,
and being able to always look on the +ve side and
always be able to feel thankfull for what u have and
what u're going thru', is the best remedy for a person
to face the trials in life. Always learn to lift your head
up and smile, even when your heart is bleeding and tears
never seems to cease. Support and strength r the only
things u'll get from others, but being able to stand on your
feet, is all up to u. Perseverance pays.....:)
Adele
05-30-2006, 06:05 PM
Really cool cartoon Adele!
It would be crazy to go at 200 knots per hour
It will be too fast
eh, life now in the fast lane! why are you complaining about speed now. get back to work!! chop chop!! you people!! haiyo....
topic #1 - focusing one's meagre energy in the lowest time to others who
needs it more than you
--> Ape ni? Can eat one ah?
topic #2 - Samsung SGH E770 HP quotation
My sis friend is selling mobile phones. If your in KL, sorry lah. Hehehehe
topic #3 - graphics of how precious life is
Life is good.
topic #4 - why do lurkers check who's who thread? i'd like to know who's
U got stalkers around in ur closet ah sis? :laugh:
Happy now? 200 alphabets per hour. Pecah the record summore.
yes! so proud of you! 200 alphabets per hour!! wow!! bravo!! bravo!! doinks!!!! i meant the speed of this thread should go at 200 KNOTS per hour la!! so, by now should start a new thread edi!
you topic #1, out. topic #2, why can't you get for me even if i'm in KL?? topic #3, happy for you! (must be having Joyce to thank for that???=Þ) topic #4, huh?? why suddenly closet??
Glad to see u looking at life on a more +ve way.....:) Support and strength r the only things u'll get from others, but being able to stand on your feet, is all up to u. Perseverance pays.....:)
and i have you to thank for all that! =)
Ah Boh
05-30-2006, 06:08 PM
sigh... work berlambak but d more stress i get d more i wanna forum leh, opposite effect. still, cant go too fast else brain get mixed up n i start repeating myself...
dragoncity99
05-30-2006, 09:48 PM
yes! so proud of you! 200 alphabets per hour!! wow!! bravo!! bravo!! doinks!!!! i meant the speed of this thread should go at 200 KNOTS per hour la!! so, by now should start a new thread edi!
you topic #1, out.
Hehehehe, oki doki SAILORMOON, watever u say loh. To fast later i oso puke fast leh. Kenot cope.
Wahdoi.......this girl is so bossy. U got the potential to be a fierce home minister. Cutie, can i ask ah? Do u tame ur hawk with a whip and a chair? Nvmnd, just asking myself oni...hehehehe
topic #2, why can't you get for me even if i'm in KL??
Ask ur hawk ma. That's the use of hawk. Not a dono-who-the-hell-is-dragon ma :cheesy:
topic #3, happy for you! (must be having Joyce to thank for that???=Þ) topic
wah....where did u get this idea from? who's joyce? I dono leh.
#4, huh?? why suddenly closet??
Closet normally referrs to something mysterious. Reminds me of the song sang by EmInEm......something closet, i kenot remember he killed --> Mocking bird, his mama, his dog or his daddy and placed it inside.
ryan_khoo82
05-30-2006, 11:56 PM
thanks guys! :)
hey, anyone can help me find out the cheapest place to get a Samsung SGH E770 HP?? i need to get it for my sister's b'day next month. please reply ASAP. greatly appreciate it! :)
There is only one place in Malaysia to buy gadgets... and thats in Sungai Wang or Low Yat. You can't get better deals anywhere else.
Adele
05-31-2006, 08:16 AM
Hehehehe, oki doki SAILORMOON, watever u say loh. To fast later i oso puke fast leh. Kenot cope.
Wahdoi.......this girl is so bossy. U got the potential to be a fierce home minister. Cutie, can i ask ah? Do u tame ur hawk with a whip and a chair? Nvmnd, just asking myself oni...hehehehe
Ask ur hawk ma. That's the use of hawk. Not a dono-who-the-hell-is-dragon ma :cheesy:
wah....where did u get this idea from? who's joyce? I dono leh.
Closet normally referrs to something mysterious. Reminds me of the song sang by EmInEm......something closet, i kenot remember he killed --> Mocking bird, his mama, his dog or his daddy and placed it inside.
sailormoon??? never had interest in them though i think they're realy hot la!! =) ok, ok, don't puke. if wanna puke also, don't puke in this thread. puke somewhere else.
not bossy la... i training to be manager ma.... so, have to give directives to manage you all la.... hehehehe.....
erm, when i'm with my hawk hor..... i'm not like this wan lor.... so, something like come in here and lepas geram. hahaha!!
haiya.... of course it's because hawk can't help me find out that's why i come in here to ask you all la!! you think hawk loves me so much meh?? as ah boh said, guys nowadays not like the olden days, so romantic until will die for you, they'll kill you first before they even think of dying for you!! so since hawk don't want to ma fan himself to find out for me, i ma find out on my own la... not like i couldn't survive on my own also before i met hawk! haiyer... and if you all can't help me, i'll just have to (maybe) pay more than usual lor... no big deal wan ma...
ok la... no more about joyce. i also dunno who she is. if you know, you tell la k?
i still don't understand why you suddenly talk about Eminem's closet to me. as much as i love to share a closet with him, i can't see the co-relation here. :huh:
sigh... work berlambak but d more stress i get d more i wanna forum leh, opposite effect. still, cant go too fast else brain get mixed up n i start repeating myself...
it happens la girl.... stay cool. we are all here to slow you down when you're going too fast although i do want this thread to still move at 200knots!! hehehe....
There is only one place in Malaysia to buy gadgets... and thats in Sungai Wang or Low Yat. You can't get better deals anywhere else.
since you're working downtown, can you pretty pretty please help me find out the price for it???? thankie thankie a million!!!!!!! :D
Ah Boh
05-31-2006, 09:05 AM
adele = turbo engine @ 200knots n looks like d Pink Lady car at kl motorshow.
sori, cuckoo imagination...
Voon Chan
05-31-2006, 09:37 AM
My dear Adele, I know how it feels like to live a super fast lane
I feel that we should come back to reality & get our sanity back
All the best to you
Adele
05-31-2006, 09:41 AM
adele = turbo engine @ 200knots n looks like d Pink Lady car at kl motorshow.
sori, cuckoo imagination...
hahaha..... good description! is pink a hot color though?? you know la... me so hot, must have hot colors to represent me. haha! (me too, cuckoo imagination! you know la, mixing around with Ita's cuckoo-teh too much. it definitely can happen la hor?? hehehehe....)
Adele
05-31-2006, 09:42 AM
My dear Adele, I know how it feels like to live a super fast lane
I feel that we should come back to reality & get our sanity back
All the best to you
ok la, ok la, peeps.... you all take it slow and easy k? i've got no time to layan anyway. have fun relaxing in here!! cherios....:D
dragoncity99
05-31-2006, 10:07 AM
sailormoon??? never had interest in them though i think they're realy hot la!! =) ok, ok, don't puke. if wanna puke also, don't puke in this thread. puke somewhere else.
Ok very good. If u like sailormoon, i will quickly run away from this thread.
Ok, i won't puke here. I pelomise.
not bossy la... i training to be manager ma.... so, have to give directives to manage you all la.... hehehehe.....
erm, when i'm with my hawk hor..... i'm not like this wan lor.... so, something like come in here and lepas geram. hahaha!!
Aiyo, so we are your punching bag lah. LOL
You are one Pretty-Nasty girl.
haiya.... of course it's because hawk can't help me find out that's why i come in here to ask you all la!! you think hawk loves me so much meh?? as ah boh said, guys nowadays not like the olden days, so romantic until will die for you, they'll kill you first before they even think of dying for you!! so since hawk don't want to ma fan himself to find out for me, i ma find out on my own la... not like i couldn't survive on my own also before i met hawk! haiyer... and if you all can't help me, i'll just have to (maybe) pay more than usual lor... no big deal wan ma...
If not dying for the other half when that's not really the other half or really a love right? :-p
Wat ah boh said is not a bf/gf then. It's materialism. Just like i own a PC, if PC lowyuck oledi, throw that old one and change a new brand new supercomputer. Sad sad sad.....
Do u think true love exist? If it does, when do u think it exist? I love to read ur opinion Ardele.
ok la... no more about joyce. i also dunno who she is. if you know, you tell la k?
i still don't understand why you suddenly talk about Eminem's closet to me. as much as i love to share a closet with him, i can't see the co-relation here. :huh:
Ok ok, we wipe out all that nonsense hehehehe.
it happens la girl.... stay cool. we are all here to slow you down when you're going too fast although i do want this thread to still move at 200knots!! hehehe....
dragoncity99
05-31-2006, 10:14 AM
hahaha..... good description! is pink a hot color though?? you know la... me so hot, must have hot colors to represent me. haha! (me too, cuckoo imagination! you know la, mixing around with Ita's cuckoo-teh too much. it definitely can happen la hor?? hehehehe....)
Pink to me look soft leh. :laugh:
It sounds sweet for a sweet girl.
Pink is the colour of passion.
Pink is some kind of obsession.
I have this experience where i heard during degrees in UPM, another geek saying i love pink. His friend pinched his butt and blink his left eye. The friend said, wanna start your engine? Yuckkkkk...can i puke here?
Voon Chan
05-31-2006, 10:14 AM
:crying: i am so sadok la, ok la, peeps.... you all take it slow and easy k? i've got no time to layan anyway. have fun relaxing in here!! cherios....:D
Adele
05-31-2006, 10:15 AM
Aiyo, so we are your punching bag lah. LOL
You are one Pretty-Nasty girl.
If not dying for the other half when that's not really the other half or really a love right? :-p
Do u think true love exist? If it does, when do u think it exist? I love to read ur opinion Ardele.
refer bold: yes i am.
refer underlined: i don't understand you
refer BOLD & UNDERLINED: YOU GOT MY NAME WRONG AGAIN!!!!!!!!!!!!! :mad:
anyway, erm, yes, i do believe it exists. it exist when you're willing to sacrifice all (happiness, self, etc) for the person you love even if it means of letting him/her go if he/she doesn't love you back (no love is true when it's forced). :) hope that answers your Q!!
dragoncity99
05-31-2006, 10:36 AM
refer underlined: i don't understand you
Errrmm, nvmnd it's a not useful question, since u answered my 3rd question :p
refer BOLD & UNDERLINED: YOU GOT MY NAME WRONG AGAIN!!!!!!!!!!!!! :mad:
Oh soli mangali, typing error :p hehehehe
don be mad lah. It was an accident ma. Koko sayang....LOL
anyway, erm, yes, i do believe it exists. it exist when you're willing to sacrifice all (happiness, self, etc) for the person you love even if it means of letting him/her go if he/she doesn't love you back (no love is true when it's forced). :) hope that answers your Q!!
Sacrifice Happiness....hehehehe...ok.
ok ok, good good good. Ok, i got work to do now. Interview u again another time. Kakakaka
Ah Boh
05-31-2006, 01:17 PM
hahaha..... good description! is pink a hot color though?? you know la... me so hot, must have hot colors to represent me. haha! (me too, cuckoo imagination! you know la, mixing around with Ita's cuckoo-teh too much. it definitely can happen la hor?? hehehehe....)
oh i dun hv piz of d car, but trust me, its d hottest pink colour u can imagine. ask ur hawk, i bet he went to d international motorshow n saw it too.
Adele
05-31-2006, 01:29 PM
oh i dun hv piz of d car, but trust me, its d hottest pink colour u can imagine. ask ur hawk, i bet he went to d international motorshow n saw it too.
saw a hot pink?? oh, the hawk's eyes saw more than just that!! and the hawk who happen to have hands, grazed more than the sleek metal of the hot machines! :sick:
Ah Boh
05-31-2006, 01:31 PM
Lol !!
Lava Gal
05-31-2006, 06:10 PM
cool cartoons! abit long, but makes a whole lotta sense!
aye! very d true...that's how we all still survive & move on. knowing we are just a man without shoes...while there are many more without a leg out there!
anyway, erm, yes, i do believe it exists. it exist when you're willing to sacrifice all (happiness, self, etc) for the person you love even if it means of letting him/her go if he/she doesn't love you back (no love is true when it's forced). hope that answers your Q!!
well...yeap! the greatest happiness is knowing u have made the own u care about/ love HAPPY :) - even if it means u have to leave their immediate circle for that to happen...at least u dun add stress to their life kan? Life is indeed a joke...hahaha
best love is one that finds u....not one that u pursue like giler - so the ebstest one will be mutual one!
Glad to see u looking at life on a more +ve way.....:)
I've been thru' the roller coaster of life over and over,
and being able to always look on the +ve side and
always be able to feel thankfull for what u have and
what u're going thru', is the best remedy for a person
to face the trials in life. Always learn to lift your head
up and smile, even when your heart is bleeding and tears
never seems to cease. Support and strength r the only
things u'll get from others, but being able to stand on your
feet, is all up to u. Perseverance pays.....:)
che...u r the wisest of us all! gratitude...yup, even if it means being thankful for the BAD THINGS (which makes us appreciate good things even more + leanr from the bad ones)
and gratitude to SELF...for having wateva good qualities that has enabled us to survive the elimination by natural selection...haha, chosen ones - be proud of urselves!
u r rite Chris che, if not for optimism and inner resources, no amount of external support can make a stubborn mule be positive & move on. and oh...sorry just now i had to leave YM without saying 'bye' coz was running late for class...only to have that lecturer come 45mins late :mad:
tatz the concepts that made me churn out The Chosen One poem...after i leant about GRATITUDE to self concept - sounds funny but true
Ah Boh
06-01-2006, 01:19 PM
yeah, there's always a silver lining in every cloud. no matter how dark & menacing d cloud is, im always surprised to discover sumtin good still can come out of it.
Chris C
06-01-2006, 04:27 PM
che...u r the wisest of us all! gratitude...yup, even if it means being thankful for the BAD THINGS (which makes us appreciate good things even more + leanr from the bad ones)
and gratitude to SELF...for having wateva good qualities that has enabled us to survive the elimination by natural selection...haha, chosen ones - be proud of urselves!
u r rite Chris che, if not for optimism and inner resources, no amount of external support can make a stubborn mule be positive & move on. and oh...sorry just now i had to leave YM without saying 'bye' coz was running late for class...only to have that lecturer come 45mins late :mad:
tatz the concepts that made me churn out The Chosen One poem...after i leant about GRATITUDE to self concept - sounds funny but true
It's ok....u told me earlier that u have class mah....so understooded.:D
Lava Gal
06-01-2006, 05:15 PM
It's ok....u told me earlier that u have class mah....so understooded.:D
:D
Ah Boh
06-05-2006, 01:30 PM
im so glad to see nani n reza have joined d forum :)
dragoncity99
06-05-2006, 05:04 PM
im so glad to see nani n reza have joined d forum :)
So nani n reza = romeo and juliet? :blink:
Who's reza?
Ah Boh
06-05-2006, 06:28 PM
no, they are not a couple lar... it just happened dat they start chatting in forum just recently mah.
reza one helluva crazy guy lar, he once said to me 'im not fat enuf to exercise', another time he said sum silly stuff i cant remember but he made me laugh till i cry, no shit... only guy who cud do dat to me so far :)
malcolm
06-05-2006, 08:32 PM
not fat enuf to exercise!! :p
Lava Gal
06-06-2006, 10:53 AM
so..is reza the fatso...sumthing??
Ah Boh
06-07-2006, 06:12 PM
im merely guessing... is he??
Lava Gal
06-08-2006, 09:05 AM
maybe...but he didnt come in again after that huh:sus:
Adele
06-08-2006, 10:05 AM
> One Flaw In Women
>
> By the time the Lord made woman,
> He was into his sixth day of working overtime.
> An angel appeared and said,
> "Why are you spending so much time on this one?"
> And the Lord answered, "Have you seen my spec sheet
> on her?
> She has to be completely washable, but not plastic,
> have over 200 movable
> parts, all replaceable and able to run on diet coke
> and leftovers, have a
> lap that can hold four children at one time, have a
> kiss that can cure
> anything from a scraped knee to a broken heart -and
> she will do everything
> with only two hands."
>
> The angel was astounded at the requirements.
> "Only two hands!? No way!
> And that's just on the standard model?
> That's too much work for one day.
> Wait until tomorrow to finish."
>
> But I won't," the Lord protested.
> "I am so close to finishing this creation that is so
> close to my own heart.
> She already heals herself when she is sick AND can
> work 18 hour days."
>
> The angel moved closer and touched the woman.
> "But you have made her so soft, Lord."
>
> "She is soft," the Lord agreed,
> "but I have also made her tough.
> You have no idea what she can endure or accomplish."
>
> "Will she be able to think?", asked the angel.
>
> The Lord replied,
> "Not only will she be able to think,
> she will be able to reason and negotiate."
>
> The angel then noticed something,
> and reaching out, touched the woman's cheek.
> "Oops, it looks like you have a leak in this model.
> I told you that you were trying to put too much into
> this one."
>
> "That's not a leak,"
> the Lord corrected,
> "that's a tear!"
> "What's the tear for?" the angel asked.
>
> The Lord said, "The tear is her way of expressing
> her joy, her sorrow, her
> pain, her disappointment, her love, her loneliness,
> her grief and her
> pride."
> The angel was impressed.
> "You are a genius, Lord.
> You thought of everything!
> Woman is truly amazing."
>
> And she is!
> Women have strengths that amaze men.
> They bear hardships and they carry burdens, but they
> hold happiness, love
> and joy.
> They smile when they want to scream.
> They sing when they want to cry.
> They cry when they are happy
> and laugh when they are nervous.
> They fight for what they believe in.
> They stand up to injustice.
> They don't take "no" for an answer
> when they believe there is a better solution.
> They go without so their family can have.
> They go to the doctor with a frightened friend.
> They love unconditionally.
> They cry when their children excel
> and cheer when their friends get awards.
> They are happy when they hear about
> a birth or a wedding.
> Their hearts break when a friend dies.
> They grieve at the loss of a family member, yet they
> are strong when they
> think there is no strength left.
> They know that a hug and a kiss
> can heal a broken heart.
> Women come in all shapes, sizes and colors.
> They'll drive, fly, walk, run or e-mail you to show
> how much they care about
> you.
> The heart of a woman is what makes the world keep
> turning.
> They bring joy, hope and love.
> They have compassion and ideals.
> They give moral support to their family and friends.
> Women have vital things to say and everything to
> give.
> HOWEVER, IF THERE IS ONE FLAW IN WOMEN,
> IT IS THAT THEY FORGET THEIR WORTH.
Got this off my email. :)
Ah Boh
06-08-2006, 01:02 PM
lovely stuff! :) now i feel so grand being female... hehe...
song cm
06-08-2006, 01:24 PM
great post adele....:)
i totally agree.......women esp working mum get my upmost respect.....
dragoncity99
06-08-2006, 01:54 PM
lovely stuff! :) now i feel so grand being female... hehe...
U feel so grandma ah dear sis? :blink:
Ah Boh
06-08-2006, 01:57 PM
lu punya english taruk la... haha...
dragoncity99
06-08-2006, 02:01 PM
lu punya english taruk la... haha...
:o ya sis.....manyak buruk....:laugh:
Wat's wrong wat's wrong? U no grandma ma? :blink:
Boh koh neng u r Grand Daddy wut, u r a girl.:wacko:
Lava Gal
06-08-2006, 02:08 PM
Thatz luverly, adele! shud have included that into my 'touching stories' thread...u are welcomed to post it there too - very velly appropriate.
though i have read it before...but still feel
touched & proud leh (to be one of that kind) :D
My fav portion of the story is this:
The angel then noticed something,
> and reaching out, touched the woman's cheek.
> "Oops, it looks like you have a leak in this model.
> I told you that you were trying to put too much into
> this one."
>
> "That's not a leak,"> the Lord corrected,
> "that's a tear!"> "What's the tear for?" the angel asked.
>
> The Lord said, "The tear is her way of expressing
> her joy, her sorrow, her
> pain, her disappointment, her love, her loneliness,
> her grief and her
> pride."> The angel was impressed.
> "You are a genius, Lord.
> You thought of everything!
> Woman is truly amazing."
Even God won't want us to be perfecto ;)
...and the Almighty Father gives us the right to cry - owww chweeettt & understanding
Adele
06-08-2006, 02:16 PM
My fav portion of the story is this:
Even God won't want us to be perfecto ;)
...and the Almighty Father gives us the right to cry - owww chweeettt & understanding
Girl, that's my favourite portion too. well, i've read it tons of times edi also. but i just got it in my mail again today from a dear friend who doesn't even know that this piece she sent me is soooooooooo timely. in a way, God works in His very own special way. i was definitely uplifted by it. :) so we can :crying: now and know that it's ok because it's normal, because it's how we're made! :D
malcolm
06-08-2006, 09:29 PM
i am always clueless of what to do when a girl cries infront of me. All I can do is listen. You girls are very gentle arr... ;)
Lava Gal
06-09-2006, 09:25 AM
All I can do is listen. You girls are very gentle arr...
malcolm...to LISTEN is one of the bestest gift u can give anyone! i have saved a draft of 'the art of listening' for our medworld, need to edit alignment & all abit before i post it up - and after attending yesterday's befrienders' seremban launch...u never know - listening can be life-saving even! =)
we gals gentle? hmm...i think fragile more like it. strong like a bull...but at same time can be as fragile as a piece of glass =p
i am always clueless of what to do when a girl cries infront of me.
malc...& the other guys, u wanna know the SECRET? when a gal...or any fren cries in front of u:
1/ just let them cry (tatz the bestest 'gift' u can give. trust me...it takes loads for s1 ro shed their social mask & cry...so, if u say things like 'dun cry'...'its not end of live' etc etc...tatz like the biggest deprivation to the person!
2/ offer a shoulder for them to cry on...if they have anything to say, listen & reflect back to them. a gentle pat...or hug (of coz this cant apply to all...but when permissible :)) would be great - it signifies understanding and allowing the person to 'let go' - unburden themselves.
3/ give 'em tissues! ;)
they trust u enuff to 'let go' in front of u! as much as they let go, in a way (deep within) they might feel shameful. so...just tell them that its ok to cry. in fact...only a STRONG person can shed their brave front (coz to trust is to risk oneself). and TISSUES...well, just offering them is an act of kindness.
hehe....hope those who were as clueless as malcolm is more clue-ful now! do let me know if any of u try/tried this & find it successful
Girl, that's my favourite portion too. well, i've read it tons of times edi also. but i just got it in my mail again today from a dear friend who doesn't even know that this piece she sent me is soooooooooo timely. in a way, God works in His very own special way. i was definitely uplifted by it. so we can now and know that it's ok because it's normal, because it's how we're made!
bolded part: very much indeed! everything happens for a reason...at the right time...right place...right SEQUENCE! we may not know the impact of each thought & action...but somewhere, somehow...each of our action/thoughts/words COUNT =D
Ah Boh
06-09-2006, 11:39 AM
haha... i just had a most interesting fire drill at 10am. its for d whole building 44 floors so my office at 32nd floor imagine d number of stairs i climbed down today! lucky its going down n not up so d climb itself wasnt too bad but halfway down i got a bad headache cuz going round n round n round... pening lalat lar! i tot was seeing double stairs, lucky didnt roll all d way down, though dat might be alot faster than balancing on my heels n dragging my blazer along.
interesting thing is d bomba actually use da smoke bomb at one window n got a bunch of bombas on extended metal stairs to replicate shooting water at it. prob is, water tak sampai cuz window too high! bodoh... guess who got a good bath when d wind blew d spraying water towards our assembly area outside d building! me n collegues now trying to untangle wet hair plus feeling cold n miserable in office... :(
funny thing is, it took them so long to increase d water pressure (meantime we had a looong bath) dat d smoke already went out b4 water finally reached d window! wah if real life whole building bakar habis liao! then sum1 announced its a success (really??) n its all over so we can all go back to d drudgery of work (no he didnt say dat, its my own words).
wahhh... it lasted about an hour but even now d drill is over n im safely back in my comfortable chair, my head still throbbing gila. i think its a case of 'stair-sick' as opposed to carsick or seasick. lucky we were allowed to take d lift back up!
cheh...wanted to take pix cuz its my 1st fire drill but forgot to bring camera. Cun bombas though... (i mean d shiny red trucks, not d guys!) hehe...
Lava Gal
06-09-2006, 12:18 PM
glad u 'survived' it Boh ;)
cheh....i tot u meant d guys :p
Ah Boh
07-01-2006, 09:03 AM
Its d weekend again..yohoooo!!
wat do u guys & gals normally do on a weekend anyway? eat & sleep like pig?? yeah...
i wish i hv streamyx & astro at home but too bad la, gotta entertain myself. usually i just chill with d radio n a good book, sumtimes watch anime or chat with my sis.
but today im feeling so bored so i plan to go out shopping! just havent figured out where to go... hmm...
fatso_dude
07-03-2006, 12:47 AM
Its d weekend again..yohoooo!!
wat do u guys & gals normally do on a weekend anyway? eat & sleep like pig?? yeah...
i wish i hv streamyx & astro at home but too bad la, gotta entertain myself. usually i just chill with d radio n a good book, sumtimes watch anime or chat with my sis.
but today im feeling so bored so i plan to go out shopping! just havent figured out where to go... hmm...
well,for my weekend, i usually stay in,u know,to mask my identity.its tough and sad to be lepaking indoors on a saturday night but its a small price to pay for ANONYMOSITY(hmmn,i'd be lucky if i got the spelling corrrect!?!:)anyways,if i wasnt cowering in my room inhiding, id imagine myself walking in the park and just mellowing in the sweet sweet scent of fresh bunga raya in the morning, preparing a picnic with a special someone at noon, and hopefully if it rains(just to add dramaticism), enjoy a long and peaceful walk down a coastline (freferbably in the west coast,im talking about cherating baby!!!)with nothing to keep me company but the sound of the crashing of incoming waves and faint gentle raindrops splashing the turbulent sea...heaven!
yeah,shopping isnt a bad way to spend the weekend too...
Ah Boh
07-03-2006, 01:57 PM
well,for my weekend, i usually stay in,u know,to mask my identity.its tough and sad to be lepaking indoors on a saturday night but its a small price to pay for ANONYMOSITY(hmmn,i'd be lucky if i got the spelling corrrect!?!:)anyways,if i wasnt cowering in my room inhiding, id imagine myself walking in the park and just mellowing in the sweet sweet scent of fresh bunga raya in the morning, preparing a picnic with a special someone at noon, and hopefully if it rains(just to add dramaticism), enjoy a long and peaceful walk down a coastline (freferbably in the west coast,im talking about cherating baby!!!)with nothing to keep me company but the sound of the crashing of incoming waves and faint gentle raindrops splashing the turbulent sea...heaven!
yeah,shopping isnt a bad way to spend the weekend too...
wah... great imagination!
eh u like picnic ah? i suggest u go teluk batuk got nice wind n lotsa coconut trees! so u & ur gal can dance around d coconut trees, u play guitar n she sing beautifully while wind play gently with her hair... so romantic rite?? :D
fatso_dude
07-03-2006, 04:55 PM
wah... great imagination!
eh u like picnic ah? i suggest u go teluk batuk got nice wind n lotsa coconut trees! so u & ur gal can dance around d coconut trees, u play guitar n she sing beautifully while wind play gently with her hair... so romantic rite?? :D
hmmn...reminds me alot of a hindi movie, what with the dancing around the coconut trees and what not...hahah...funny stuff;)
yeah,that'll be grreat wouldnt it?maybe a boh might wanna join me for one of these fantasy picnics...no?!?....cant blame a guy for asking right:o
p.s. i dont play the guitar, but im a killer recorder player...just ask my music teacher in primary 3:)
Ah Boh
07-04-2006, 11:58 AM
hmmn...reminds me alot of a hindi movie, what with the dancing around the coconut trees and what not...hahah...funny stuff;)
yeah,that'll be grreat wouldnt it?maybe a boh might wanna join me for one of these fantasy picnics...no?!?....cant blame a guy for asking right:o
p.s. i dont play the guitar, but im a killer recorder player...just ask my music teacher in primary 3:)
is this the hint im supposed to be looking out for? hmm... but i dunnot any1 who play recorder wor! gimme another hint? :amused:
wat picnic? not unless u cook me all my fav food & can play mozart on ur recorder, i dunwan la! hehe...
fatso_dude
07-04-2006, 02:23 PM
fooyoo....want me to play mozart on the recorder...ill have to dig out all my note books for this one:amazed:
eeh,i have a question for everyone to answer...
y is the blond haired girl staring at the orange juice bottle?
:p
Ah Boh
07-04-2006, 04:09 PM
fooyoo....want me to play mozart on the recorder...ill have to dig out all my note books for this one:amazed:
eeh,i have a question for everyone to answer...
y is the blond haired girl staring at the orange juice bottle?
:p
man,all he acsians are scattered all around the world!!!
thats nice...:smile-2:
i wish i was out of the country...somewhere with a colder climate!!!
malaysia so freakin hot laa...
dont know y,i suddenly have this menta picture of alaska...isnt that peculiar?:wacko:
hmm.... im consolidating all ur weird statements. why all d bold letters ah? clues??
fatso_dude
07-04-2006, 07:10 PM
hmm.... im consolidating all ur weird statements. why all d bold letters ah? clues??
ah boh,u'r seriously getting there...
its just a matter of time i guess:noworry:
Lava Gal
07-04-2006, 09:59 PM
see...told ya!!
the decoding: m-y n-a-m-e i-s r-e...
other clues belum ada lagi!
but here's the fatso-dude unravelled!!!
"MY NAME IS REZA!!!"
told ya...no DUDE would DESCRIBE ANOTHER GUY as good-looking! unless he wants to give the impression of being gay!
tapi kan...he'd def describe HIMSELF as good-looking lor...hahahah!
so buddy...apa hadiah aku??
Ah Boh
07-05-2006, 09:11 AM
see...told ya!!
the decoding: m-y n-a-m-e i-s r-e...
other clues belum ada lagi!
but here's the fatso-dude unravelled!!!
"MY NAME IS REZA!!!"
told ya...no DUDE would DESCRIBE ANOTHER GUY as good-looking! unless he wants to give the impression of being gay!
tapi kan...he'd def describe HIMSELF as good-looking lor...hahahah!
so buddy...apa hadiah aku??
wahhhh!!! u so smart lav!
pssstt... watever hadiah u get, can share share ah? hehe...
Lava Gal
07-05-2006, 05:35 PM
wahhhh!!! u so smart lav!
pssstt... watever hadiah u get, can share share ah? hehe...
*curtsy*
tanx Boh ;)
hmmm...see 1st if he gives me anything! coz awal-awal he said dee NO hadiah!! though i demanded him to give us the reader's digest story as the hadiah...will wait for fatso_dude himself to come in & reply :laugh:
Ah Boh
07-06-2006, 12:59 PM
*curtsy*
tanx Boh ;)
hmmm...see 1st if he gives me anything! coz awal-awal he said dee NO hadiah!! though i demanded him to give us the reader's digest story as the hadiah...will wait for fatso_dude himself to come in & reply :laugh:
earth calling to Fatso Dude...!!
FATSO DUDE!!
YOU ARE WANTED!
cuz we wan our present!!
malcolm
07-06-2006, 10:03 PM
Reza!!!:)
Ah Boh
07-07-2006, 01:21 PM
where dat guy disappear??
wahhh... ppl broke his secret liao now he merajuk like small boy n go cry to his mummy! wat is this man...
OOiiii!! Reza? U still alive arr... kekeke...
Lava Gal
07-07-2006, 02:14 PM
i'm sure he's not a pengecut to bolt out like then jus coz we've unmasked his secret identity! :p
giving some benefit of doubt here...maybe no net connection...or bz wif xms...or something like tat?
i'm sure our fatso_dude will come in with a bang! and not forgetting with my (our) hadiah! ;)
fatso_dude
07-09-2006, 07:07 PM
alas,thye secret identity revealed!
very good lava gal...ur smart!
i kinda thought boh would find out soon too but lav finished the race faster i guess...
hey,whats all this hype saying lava 'smart lah' cos she got the code,what about my dues for comming up with the code in the first place?im smart too u know....:o
anyway,no prizes...so qiut hoping!
hehehehehe:laugh:
ill blanja u all yumcha the next time i catch u?
urs truely,reza;)
fatso_dude
07-09-2006, 07:13 PM
where dat guy disappear??
wahhh... ppl broke his secret liao now he merajuk like small boy n go cry to his mummy! wat is this man...
OOiiii!! Reza? U still alive arr... kekeke...
for ur info dear guen,i was away outstation.i dislocated my arm and had to go back tu lumut for my physio sessions. my folks place in lumut got no streamyx, hence my unavailability....sorry laa:squeeze:
jangan marah ya fren...
p.s. mal c knows all about my accident and he'll vouch me on this one...
p.s.2. he also knew who fatso_dude was so u guys couldda save alot of time and brain juice and asked him instead actually.....funny how things turn out eh?
:cheesy:
fatso_dude
07-09-2006, 07:17 PM
i'm sure he's not a pengecut to bolt out like then jus coz we've unmasked his secret identity! :p
giving some benefit of doubt here...maybe no net connection...or bz wif xms...or something like tat?
i'm sure our fatso_dude will come in with a bang! and not forgetting with my (our) hadiah! ;)
wah,such a display of baik-hatiness from lava...and for that,i thank u.;)
still,no hadiah!?! :laugh:
my arm still hurts while typing...huhuhu
Ah Boh
07-10-2006, 01:28 PM
for ur info dear guen,i was away outstation.i dislocated my arm and had to go back tu lumut for my physio sessions. my folks place in lumut got no streamyx, hence my unavailability....sorry laa:squeeze:
jangan marah ya fren...
p.s. mal c knows all about my accident and he'll vouch me on this one...
p.s.2. he also knew who fatso_dude was so u guys couldda save alot of time and brain juice and asked him instead actually.....funny how things turn out eh?
:cheesy:
wahhh... how u dislocated ur arm?? tell story!
Adele
07-10-2006, 03:17 PM
p.s.2. he also knew who fatso_dude was so u guys couldda save alot of time and brain juice and asked him instead actually.....funny how things turn out eh?
:cheesy:
lagi buat orang pening!! he was having so much fun seeing the time and juice go to waste that he wasted mine even more when i asked him!! :squeeze: :mad:
fatso_dude
07-10-2006, 05:37 PM
after seeing the movie the da vinci code and national treasure,i thought it'll be good fun to test all ya'll mental capabilities, while having fun at the same time.i wasnt teasing or intended to pening kepala anyone so sorry if i accidentally did:o
bsides,the codes i presented hardly a test of wits for anyone of u cos it was soooo basic and simple...lava and ah boh seemed to enjoy it?!?
anyhoo,i dislocated my arm by attempting a bicycle kick while playing futsal,very minor laa.
im currently on 1 month mc,hence the free time to do all the 'who the hell is fatso_dude' codes!!!
my leave runs till the 14th july so if anyine wants to send me flowers and get well soon cards....hehehhee
Ah Boh
07-10-2006, 05:52 PM
i'll probably send u a couple of batubata if i have d time, just for sending us on d runaround! hmmpphh... but it was really weird entertainment. haha..
fatso_dude
07-11-2006, 06:40 PM
hahahha
siehjin
07-12-2006, 10:46 AM
yo reza! =)
i thought those stuff u said sounded like u. =)
sorry to hear about yr shoulder... guess now that we're 'old', we hv to be more careful when playing sports. i hv a friend our age who tore his ACL (anterior cruciate ligament, one of the knee ligaments... the one that Owen tore) while playing basketball.
hope u hv a speedy recovery with no complications! =)
Lava Gal
07-12-2006, 11:09 AM
wah,such a display of baik-hatiness from lava...and for that,i thank u.
still,no hadiah!?!
my arm still hurts while typing...huhuhu
welcome...wat r frenz for! not bribery tactic to get hadiah from u...but now ehhh..:sus:
thinking if i shud really break ur arms (upah gengster) coz u refuse us our 'hadiah' :mad:
alas,thye secret identity revealed!
very good lava gal...ur smart!
i kinda thought boh would find out soon too but lav finished the race faster i guess...
hey,whats all this hype saying lava 'smart lah' cos she got the code,what about my dues for comming up with the code in the first place?im smart too u know....
anyway,no prizes...so qiut hoping!
hehehehehe
ill blanja u all yumcha the next time i catch u?
urs truely,reza;)
reza oh...reza!
aren't u contradicting thyself? :p
jealous ke, kawan...
anyway...of coz u r not merely smart! YOU r a GENIUS for coming up with tat 'code' in 1st place...but then hor, cannot be compared to da vinci'c code la...urs so s84ward ni
Lava Gal
07-12-2006, 11:16 AM
after seeing the movie the da vinci code and national treasure,i thought it'll be good fun to test all ya'll mental capabilities, while having fun at the same time.i wasnt teasing or intended to pening kepala anyone so sorry if i accidentally did:o
bsides,the codes i presented hardly a test of wits for anyone of u cos it was soooo basic and simple...lava and ah boh seemed to enjoy it?!?
anyhoo,i dislocated my arm by attempting a bicycle kick while playing futsal,very minor laa.
im currently on 1 month mc,hence the free time to do all the 'who the hell is fatso_dude' codes!!!
my leave runs till the 14th july so if anyine wants to send me flowers and get well soon cards....hehehhee
well...its a bit weird though coz after seeing u log-in for 1st time...ALMOST ALL OF US KNEW it was u, reza! and u trying to fool us by saying u wish u were at the party wif us...and abt reza being nice guy :p blah blah...all d while i was thinking that u r a real joker (as usual...and tatz wat makes u different kan)
trust malcolm to further misled adele la...hahaha, maybe moral of d story is 'inquisition has a limit'
hey reza...on a more serious note > how bad is ur dislocation? hope its not ur dominant arm...anyway, ur MC almost over...how now, better ke? good to see u haven lost ur sense of humor
so now that we know who u r...can give a proper intro in the other thread ;)
malcolm
07-12-2006, 08:13 PM
trust malcolm to further misled adele la...hahaha, maybe moral of d story is 'inquisition has a limit' ;)
no fun la if i break the code!!
hehe
sorry ar adele! ;)
Ah Boh
07-13-2006, 05:56 PM
hey, wats this about jen lin's email to go buffet at Planter's Inn in Aug?
cant we organise it here in forum rather than spam every1's email??
Adele
07-14-2006, 11:21 AM
no fun la if i break the code!!
hehe
sorry ar adele! ;)
apology accepted.
boh, feel free to start new thread about Planter's Inn. :)
Ah Boh
07-14-2006, 01:39 PM
ok, apparently Planter's Inn is off but Soul Out in hartamas is on.
i have nvr been thr b4. any1 hv any info? like type of food, atmosphere, cost per pax, parking, etc etc...
Adele
07-14-2006, 02:11 PM
Soul Out's a good place for me to cuci mata on gwailo hunks. i'll be in heaven when we are there. apologize in advance if half my soul's not there with you all on that night. :laugh: let's carry on this in the other thread.
now, just wondering, maybe we can kongsi-kongsi money and bid for AJP to raise fund for the forum party??? just a thought la... but if you all wanna save your money to bid for me, i'm honoured la!! :eek: :p
Chris C
07-14-2006, 02:23 PM
Okie.....time to close this thread.....u gals can continue to cuci your mata in another new thread.....:D
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