[closed] Damn It III

[Voon Chan]

I would like to have a continuation thread for people to express their unhappy or what ever negative emotion here. :mad: :( :crying: :sad-2: .

Start posting.

[Hades]

i'm so sad....i dunno y....

[Voon Chan]

there must be a reasoni'm so sad....i dunno y....

[SS2006]

there must be a reason
pms?:p

[Hades]

umm, i actually dunno.. but i juz feel unhappy...maybe coz too much pressure at work gua...who knows? or maybe i feel unfair coz no bonus...

[athena]

umm, i actually dunno.. but i juz feel unhappy...maybe coz too much pressure at work gua...who knows? or maybe i feel unfair coz no bonus...
no bonus...welcome to the club!!!! :laugh:

[Voon Chan]

Lack of Vitamin M?umm, i actually dunno.. but i juz feel unhappy...maybe coz too much pressure at work gua...who knows? or maybe i feel unfair coz no bonus...

[Hades]

no bonus...welcome to the club!!!! :laugh:

thanks for enhancing my feeling of misery :p

[Voon Chan]

Too youngpms?:p

[athena]

\^-^/

u frus coz no date for valentine izzit?

[Odysseus]

\^-^/

u frus coz no date for valentine izzit?
U offering a service to link up lonely hearts?

[athena]

U offering a service to link up lonely hearts?
if you're a girl...and wanna get an engineer bf..i can help...other than that...sorry!!

[Hades]

\^-^/

u frus coz no date for valentine izzit?

dat wan no need...hehehe the most if i wan i can go to any clubs and get picked up again hehehe

[Hades]

if you're a girl...and wanna get an engineer bf..i can help...other than that...sorry!!

who's that engineer bf? :blink:

[athena]

who's that engineer bf? :blink:
wah..cal...u want one izzit?

[SS2006]

who's that engineer bf? :blink:
All Ath's colleague lorr...all of them must be very frus when they found out you aldy had a boy-boy, rite, ath?

[Hades]

wah..cal...u want one izzit?

nope but i hope u're not refering to me only hehe :blink:

[Voon Chan]

that type for ONS onlydat wan no need...hehehe the most if i wan i can go to any clubs and get picked up again hehehe

[Hades]

that type for ONS only

umm, well better than nothing right? hehe anyway, valentines only last 1 night...:cheesy:

[Voon Chan]

:D , if you look at it that wayumm, well better than nothing right? hehe anyway, valentines only last 1 night...:cheesy:

[dragoncity99]

no bonus...welcome to the club!!!! :laugh:
Aiyo me too :(

[SS2006]

umm, well better than nothing right? hehe anyway, valentines only last 1 night...:cheesy:
That's why i consider Valentine over-rated. Just another marketing strategy.

[Voon Chan]

Are you guys thinking of setting up a no bonus club?

[SS2006]

i heard Malaysia economy very bad now, since they unlock the currency peg.

[Voon Chan]

Oil prices keep going up & we will be in troublei heard Malaysia economy very bad now, since they unlock the currency peg.

[dragoncity99]

Ha...yakah? So the bull at first in the market is just some bullsh** ?? :blink:

Hmmm, wat a big mistake.....

Why don't we have a no bonus club :( So kesian hahahahah....:D

[SS2006]

Oil prices keep going up & we will be in trouble
Damn it! Damn it! Damn it!

[Voon Chan]

Dragon, what Bull are you talking about. I only see Shit not the real bull

[andrewjpan]

Oil prices keep going up & we will be in trouble
first inflation is gonna hit, then ressesion... and then w're all gonna be screwed... so if u guys wanna buy a house or car... better do it now before the interest rates go sky high...

[dragoncity99]

Oh sorris VC bro, the BULL i refer to is the BULL of KLSE & MASDEQ....:p

Yaloh, minyak naik harga, i hate it lah :( bengang, how nice if my car drinks water...or milk....

Everything go up except salary like one of my friend says.

[Voon Chan]

Dragon I know the bull you are refering to but I just don't see it coming!

[SS2006]

first inflation is gonna hit, then ressesion... and then w're all gonna be screwed... so if u guys wanna buy a house or car... better do it now before the interest rates go sky high...
The loan interest will follow the market rate, unless you get the fixed interest.

[andrewjpan]

when there's inflation and ression.... interest rates goes up....

[SS2006]

when there's inflation and ression.... interest rates goes up....
Your loan interest will follow it up too, even if you take it now.

[Voon Chan]

Cannot mabuk any more. Too expensivewhen there's inflation and ression.... interest rates goes up....

[dragoncity99]

Dragon I know the bull you are refering to but I just don't see it coming!
Oki hahahaha, i guess i twist the word too much oledi until Bro's Kepala Pusing habis....ROFL

How come i kenot convince the gohmen to reduce the oil price i wonder :blink: ...

[SS2006]

Oki hahahaha, i guess i twist the word too much oledi until Bro's Kepala Pusing habis....ROFL

How come i kenot convince the gohmen to reduce the oil price i wonder :blink: ...
Gohmen already subsidised the oil price a lot aldy laa...you should see other country price.

[Dino]

Gohmen already subsidised the oil price a lot aldy laa...you should see other country price.


:crying: :crying:

[Oddfather]

Oki hahahaha, i guess i twist the word too much oledi until Bro's Kepala Pusing habis....ROFL

How come i kenot convince the gohmen to reduce the oil price i wonder :blink: ...
would you prefer cheaper gas prices or higher taxes and toll??

[dragoncity99]

But wat if they subsidised a little more leh by reducing the salary of their ministry expenditures? Heheheh :p

[Hades]

so had it been announce that petrol price would go up again??
i hate it la, the government promised not to raise it anymore since the last raise, but then again, the government is full of bullshit wan la...all talks only...

[dragoncity99]

would you prefer cheaper gas prices or higher taxes and toll??

Cheaper tax and toll. :)

But will they increase the toll again in future?

so had it been announce that petrol price would go up again??
i hate it la, the government promised not to raise it anymore since the last raise, but then again, the government is full of bullshit wan la...all talks only...
:( Sad story loh

[Oddfather]

But wat if they subsidised a little more leh by reducing the salary of their ministry expenditures? Heheheh :p
for example..??

[andrewjpan]

Your loan interest will follow it up too, even if you take it now.
yes... but it's fixed against the BLR... the BLR increase/decrase will effect everything... so we can't run away from that... atleast what we can control is the interest against the BLR...

[dragoncity99]

for example..??
If they could cut down the expenditures like:
1. Jamuan this and that.
2. Renovations
3. Allocation of cash allocated per department to be spent.

[Hades]

not to mention our EPF these days...there was even an article saying that the ppl in EPF these days dunno how to invest our moeny for higher returns...so sad...i think it's too much of corruption liao, like "i invest in ur company, how much return u gimme back??" haih :confused:

[athena]

so had it been announce that petrol price would go up again??
i hate it la, the government promised not to raise it anymore since the last raise, but then again, the government is full of bullshit wan la...all talks only...
gomen promised no increase till dec 05...they din say forever!

[dragoncity99]

gomen promised no increase till dec 05...they din say forever!

Thinking it over, gohmen is really like a playboy playing feelings of their ppl ah?

By year it looks long, but in fact it's only a few months away.

So 2006, i naik minyak harga. Due to naik minyak harga, did gohmen say consumer products kenot naik harga?

So pirated VCD got naik harga o not leh?

[Voon Chan]

If ever US declare war on Iran, that will be the day we see the sharp increase of oil prices

[SS2006]

If ever US declare war on Iran, that will be the day we see the sharp increase of oil prices
Oh no! Please pray that won't happen.:worried:

[dragoncity99]

So the god punish the US with natural disaster? To stop it from happening? Do u think it's possible? So he haf to cut down the military BILLs

[Voon Chan]

Pray that there will no war & no economic sanction on IranOh no! Please pray that won't happen.:worried:

[SS2006]

So the god punish the US with natural disaster? To stop it from happening? Do u think it's possible? So he haf to cut down the military BILLs
God has nothing to do with this. Wars are caused by people, people and nothing but people!:squeeze:

[Voon Chan]

Selfish peopleGod has nothing to do with this. Wars are caused by people, people and nothing but people!:squeeze:

[Dino]

God has nothing to do with this. Wars are caused by people, people and nothing but people!:squeeze:

Yup...its all about people....religion,politics and money...

[dragoncity99]

So sad, why haf to be like this leh, kenot share wif ppl ma, make everyone happy.

Modern 3G like the older Columbus days?

[Voon Chan]

until the end of the world, human will never changeSo sad, why haf to be like this leh, kenot share wif ppl ma, make everyone happy.

Modern 3G like the older Columbus days?

[athena]

God has nothing to do with this. Wars are caused by people, people and nothing but people!:squeeze:
ppl sud stop blaming God for everything!!!

[Hades]

it's merely human greed la...
juz that malaysian government has extra huge greed only :squeeze:

[SS2006]

ppl sud stop blaming God for everything!!!
Easiest answer for everything. I've seen people answer when their little kid ask Q like ...
Child :Why does it rain?
Parent: Because God make the rain.
So easy answer, no need to think one.:squeeze:
Imagine what will happen when the child goes to school and start studying science.

[dragoncity99]

Mama, papa, u tipu me last time say god make rain one....hahahahah

or

Teacher, u tipu me lah, why u so cacat one, my daddy and mummy say it's the god that but hujan punya. Teacher u better go back to kindergarten study another 10 years lah....

:laugh: :laugh: is it like this kah?

[Hades]

Mama, papa, u tipu me last time say god make rain one....hahahahah

or

Teacher, u tipu me lah, why u so cacat one, my daddy and mummy say it's the god that but hujan punya. Teacher u better go back to kindergarten study another 10 years lah....

:laugh: :laugh: is it like this kah?

go back to topic liao, later kena bomb by others liao

[SS2006]

go back to topic liao, later kena bomb by others liao
Then we can go Damn It...and start back into topic again.:laugh:

[Voon Chan]

Human never want to blame their own doing

[Hades]

well, humans are such wat...who would wanna blame for their doings??
example: ppl would give u -ve repo and not write their name, but if they give u +ve repo, they'll write their name there...hehe

[Voon Chan]

:laugh: , biasalah! well, humans are such wat...who would wanna blame for their doings??
example: ppl would give u -ve repo and not write their name, but if they give u +ve repo, they'll write their name there...hehe

[dragoncity99]

Hmmm i do agree wif CK in away. Giving -ve repo without leaving name is like not sincere telling other their mistakes.

I oso haf that view too when kena repo. If i were to repove a friend, i will say in PM first, please dont do that lah, not nice ma. If i stubborn u repo me i wont say anything one, I can accept with open heart one. ;)

It's my weakness ma.

[Voon Chan]

Dragon, I posted a stone to show people also I kena -ve repo. The person commented "show off". I was really angry, I actually wanted to tell another forummer how the stone look like

[Hades]

well, we are such predictable creatures...haih...
so at the end of the day, we'll end up juz couldnt be bothered about that stupid repo system anymore hehehe
in a way, i see it, it sometimes will not only help us make some friends in this forum, it would also help us make some enemies inside...

[Hades]

Dragon, I posted a stone to show people also I kena -ve repo. The person commented "show off". I was really angry, I actually wanted to tell another forummer how the stone look like

hahahaha i heard about that oso...so pityful....
me oso wat...posting about God and Goddess of the myths, i kena -ve repo saying "Thanks for the Plagiarism!" hahaha

[dragoncity99]

I saw it to bro VC, just be cool loh. I oso very angry and swear loh in MSN alot because of this problem.

Maybe our friend cannot understand it's called art. A misconception of wat is called a pornographic material and art.

:)

[Voon Chan]

Calvin & Dragon, we really have no control over all those actions. That is why , I refrain myself from posting certain comments & pictures to avoid problem. Stay neutral.

[dragoncity99]

hahahaha i heard about that oso...so pityful....
me oso wat...posting about God and Goddess of the myths, i kena -ve repo saying "Thanks for the Plagiarism!" hahaha
Is this person trying to give u a +ve repo and accidentally give u -ve repo ?

I hope it's not purposely being done to be Sarky (sarcastic).

How bout a request to mods/admins to log down who repo who leh?

Coz, in away sometimes -ve repo anonymously is really like back stabbing, not healthy act.

Creating hard feelings and unhealthy things like this can ruin a society.

[Hades]

Plagiarism

n 1: a piece of writing that has been copied from someone else and is presented as being your own work 2: the act of plagiarizing; taking someone's words or ideas as if they were your own [syn: plagiarization, plagiarisation, piracy]


couldnt be a +ve repo....i didnt say anything that i wrote it myself...:laugh:

[dragoncity99]

Wow, any copyright issues CK? Or is it the person's work until beh song u oledi hahahah.

Nevermindlah CK, i think sleepy mah that time....he/she tersalah tafsir...oledi hahahahaha....

Lately u got make enemies in the forum kah? -ve repo giving out got side effects one mah on that person oso one hahaha...so cheer up bro....

So i believe in this thread cannot swear oso oledi right? If want to swear find me at MSN lah hahahahah

[SS2006]

What can i say...you people have voiced out my exact thought. And they cannot red rep us now because we are expressing it in the right thread. :cheesy:
I couldn't be bothered with the rep....because these repo system means nothing outside this forum. I am just thankful that my boss isn't like this...everytime no eye see, put one -ve on the appraisal system. End of the year, get -ve increment!:eek:

[athena]

All Ath's colleague lorr...all of them must be very frus when they found out you aldy had a boy-boy, rite, ath?
no la...most of my coligs...unker wan..haha.....i'm talking about my coursemates....need to fulfil one criteria nia...must play games :laugh:

[Voon Chan]

Very funny Shirlene. I talk some more I will get more red.

It good that we realised that repo actually mean nothing. Even if a person end up having 20 greens, it does not mean a thing.

I think, we should allow more freedom of expression in the forum to see a more positive & dynanic forum

[SS2006]

no la...most of my coligs...unker wan..haha.....i'm talking about my coursemates....need to fulfil one criteria nia...must play games :laugh:
What games?:sus: :sus:

[athena]

What games?:sus: :sus:
oh..sowee....forgot to mention...W3 (warcraft3 but according the WK's dict, it's wild willee wanking)

[dragoncity99]

What can i say...you people have voiced out my exact thought. And they cannot red rep us now because we are expressing it in the right thread. :cheesy:
I couldn't be bothered with the rep....because these repo system means nothing outside this forum. I am just thankful that my boss isn't like this...everytime no eye see, put one -ve on the appraisal system. End of the year, get -ve increment!:eek:
I believe that's a common understanding in all the forummers.

Hahaha, i hope they won't -ve ur salary oso sis...do they ? :blink:

no la...most of my coligs...unker wan..haha.....i'm talking about my coursemates....need to fulfil one criteria nia...must play games :laugh:
Must play games Ath? Wat games oh? Warcarft III?

[SS2006]

oh..sowee....forgot to mention...W3 (warcraft3 but according the WK's dict, it's wild willee wanking)
Say clearly next time...many serong people here.:laugh:

[athena]

Say clearly next time...many serong people here.:laugh:
shirlene...ur serongnes level overtaking mine......almost at par with godfather liao!

[SS2006]

I believe that's a common understanding in all the forummers.

Hahaha, i hope they won't -ve ur salary oso sis...do they ? :blink:


Must play games Ath? Wat games oh? Warcarft III?
Luckily forum no salary one...so cannot -ve lorr...:laugh:

[dragoncity99]

Very funny Shirlene. I talk some more I will get more red.

It good that we realised that repo actually mean nothing. Even if a person end up having 20 greens, it does not mean a thing.

I think, we should allow more freedom of expression in the forum to see a more positive & dynanic forum
Life is short, why want to put someone in misery horrr :)

Kenot sleep lo at nite, coz will kena haunt by us kena repo one mah. hahahahah :laugh:


Aha, i knew Ath will say that oleid hehehehe, ath, got any prize for the correct guess o not?

[suliet]

shirlene...ur serongnes level overtaking mine......almost at par with godfather liao!
You innocent girls become serong after entering the forum?? All Godfather's fault, spoiling all the goddaughters, ha ha ha.

[Hades]

aiya dun bother about the repo la...screw the system, too lame to be bothered by it liao hehehe
i juz wanna read more articles, get to know more stuff then share it in the forum ie: god and goddess of mythologies and mysteries...

[dragoncity99]

You innocent girls become serong after entering the forum?? All Godfather's fault, spoiling all the goddaughters, ha ha ha.
Hahaha, hiya there suliet...join in to merepek here...kakakaka

They are oledi evil one, the godfather are just the pemangkin nia hahahahaha :laugh:

aiya dun bother about the repo la...screw the system, too lame to be bothered by it liao hehehe
i juz wanna read more articles, get to know more stuff then share it in the forum ie: god and goddess of mythologies and mysteries...
Yes, and screw the reds...hahahaha, ur the man bro. hahahaha

Yes, read the articles and laugh like mad fella. God & Goddess....and mysteries....hey how come u don do Types of Ghosts ah?

[Hades]

Yes, read the articles and laugh like mad fella. God & Goddess....and mysteries....hey how come u don do Types of Ghosts ah?

later la....slowly ma...if 1 time shoot everything out, all would be lazy to read liao lo, then wasted my effort ady

[dragoncity99]

oki doki bro hahahahah......

Got so many ideas want to spitting out...it's coming!!!! arghh...oh god, i sked i forget later leh... :p

The older the more useless oledi....

[Voon Chan]

Oh Yeah!oki doki bro hahahahah......

Got so many ideas want to spitting out...it's coming!!!! arghh...oh god, i sked i forget later leh... :p

The older the more useless oledi....

[Hades]

then u ma start a thread about ghosts lo...i'll fill it in soon enough...
alrighty then, back to topic

[Voon Chan]

What topic?then u ma start a thread about ghosts lo...i'll fill it in soon enough...
alrighty then, back to topic

[Hades]

What topic?

:mad: Damn It III

[Voon Chan]

Are you still feeling sad?:mad: Damn It III

[Hades]

Are you still feeling sad?
nope...juz feeling sleepy, wanna go home n sleep but cannot...work wont end till 8pm then have to go for farewell dinner with my colleagues....

[Voon Chan]

that is goodnope...juz feeling sleepy, wanna go home n sleep but cannot...work wont end till 8pm then have to go for farewell dinner with my colleagues....

[Hades]

that is good
sleep is more important than that

[Voon Chan]

What is that? Sex?sleep is more important than that

[Hades]

What is that? Sex?

well sex IS important too, but i'd prefer sleeping. juz plain ol' sleepin....
sex can wait, since it waited for like 6 months now, i guess it can wait a lil longer

[Voon Chan]

:laugh: , sleep is always important. Especially now. When my son refused to sleep, I can't sleep toowell sex IS important too, but i'd prefer sleeping. juz plain ol' sleepin....
sex can wait, since it waited for like 6 months now, i guess it can wait a lil longer

[Hades]

:laugh: , sleep is always important. Especially now. When my son refused to sleep, I can't sleep too

yeap that's the pain of bein a dad....wahaha
dats y i didnt like kids...:cheesy:

[Voon Chan]

when you have one, you will adore them. Trust meyeap that's the pain of bein a dad....wahaha
dats y i didnt like kids...:cheesy:

[athena]

so what's the surest way to make ur son sleep?

[Hades]

when you have one, you will adore them. Trust me
the moment i think of kids, i'll be like having shivers...hahaha
even with kids of my relatives, i would juz stay away from them...it's more on instinct hehe

[Voon Chan]

1) Take him out in the evening for cycling. Make sure he is tired
2) Sleeping pills (I have never try it):cheesy: so what's the surest way to make ur son sleep?

[athena]

1) Take him out in the evening for cycling. Make sure he is tired
2) Sleeping pills (I have never try it):cheesy:
what's the surest way for u to sleep after ur son sleep??? (assuming u hv trouble sleeping)

[Voon Chan]

Sex keep me alert, Single malt whiskey is the best :p what's the surest way for u to sleep after ur son sleep??? (assuming u hv trouble sleeping)

[Hades]

interesting ideas i must say hahaha

[dragoncity99]

Very very interesting VC bro...hehehehe.

But very tiring loh if sex oledi, how come u say alert ah? U must be one strong horny mamee monster. ROFL :laugh: juz kidding....

I will prefer sleep too, since im oso single hahahahah while i haf the chance & freedom...

[Hades]

hahaha sex only wat...easy ler

[dragoncity99]

Wua easy for u to say, if syok sendiri too selfish oledi mah, haf to be nice to ur partner mah...wah...so tiring loh....36 stances from Wah Shan & Shao Lin Temple. 8 styles of Karma Sutra

After tired ah, i think better go drink 100 PLUS & rest on the OSIM wheel chair loh...

CK mebbe u can, coz ur the Superman....

[Hades]

see how first la, now no mood to think about it yet :p

[dragoncity99]

:)

U got play badminton? I wan to continue back the game after so long din play. After playing with Doc Alfred, i know my body is berkarat oledi.

Sungguh mem-persia-sui-kan....doing push ups alone not enuf. Must exercise whole body, every part of it.

[Voon Chan]

My clients invited me to a papaya farm just now. I told him "By the time we reach there it is already late how to see if the papaya is good". He F*#^ me up. :mad:

[Hades]

:)

U got play badminton? I wan to continue back the game after so long din play. After playing with Doc Alfred, i know my body is berkarat oledi.

Sungguh mem-persia-sui-kan....doing push ups alone not enuf. Must exercise whole body, every part of it.

soli ah, kian hooi only plays badminton, never me, i was a basketballer since school days wat.. :amused:

[Hades]

My clients invited me to a papaya farm just now. I told him "By the time we reach there it is already late how to see if the papaya is good". He F*#^ me up. :mad:
hahaha
ur clients asked u to go papaya farm ah??y u try to be sarcastic??

[Voon Chan]

Yes! I don't want to go.
hahaha
ur clients asked u to go papaya farm ah??y u try to be sarcastic??

[Hades]

Yes! I don't want to go.

hahaha bro, it happens, once i oso ad to bring customer up to bintang palace...dammit, so expensive some more, but nvm la, boss asked me to bring them there wan...9 ppl cost the company about RM12k

[Voon Chan]

It is very expensive to go to those farm.

[Odysseus]

hahaha bro, it happens, once i oso ad to bring customer up to bintang palace...dammit, so expensive some more, but nvm la, boss asked me to bring them there wan...9 ppl cost the company about RM12k
Next time you can also extend invite to your associates in this Forum. Can ah?

[Hades]

It is very expensive to go to those farm.
but that time the project costs 5mil ma...wat to do?

[Hades]

Next time you can also extend invite to your associates in this Forum. Can ah?
well i guess, but now i no longer wanna deal with clients liao, lazy la, i only tried bintang palace, and las vegas club only

[Voon Chan]

So was the harvest good?well i guess, but now i no longer wanna deal with clients liao, lazy la, i only tried bintang palace, and las vegas club only

[Hades]

So was the harvest good?
in bintang palace, u get those "models-wanna-be" and part time models working inside there as escorts...hoping to get to know rich men to support them...how pathetic sometimes when i think about it, but well this is how the world goes now, hahaha

[Voon Chan]

I pity those people. I remember I was in beach club, a young couple good looking are in the business of "service people"

[Hades]

I pity those people. I remember I was in beach club, a young couple good looking are in the business of "service people"
yeah well, beach club is oso famous for picking up or being picked up, but of course there's a price to pay :amused:
so dats y i never go in there...:laugh:

[Voon Chan]

Those girl there are wild. They really want youyeah well, beach club is oso famous for picking up or being picked up, but of course there's a price to pay :amused:
so dats y i never go in there...:laugh:

[Hades]

Those girl there are wild. They really want you
ah so i believe u had ur fair share of experience about that place huh? :blink:

[Voon Chan]

Some share:D ah so i believe u had ur fair share of experience about that place huh? :blink:

[Hades]

hahahaha good for u then...eh so how ur client F#$% u liao then no more story liao ah?

[Voon Chan]

Just finish a short meeting with my boss. Tell the client that I am too busy:laugh: , (forumming)hahahaha good for u then...eh so how ur client F#$% u liao then no more story liao ah?

[Hades]

Just finish a short meeting with my boss. Tell the client that I am too busy:laugh: , (forumming)
hahahaha a good one indeed...bless u

[Voon Chan]

My wife said you can pluck papaya but it automaticaly allow me to pluck banana. I was:eek: hahahaha a good one indeed...bless u

[Hades]

My wife said you can pluck papaya but it automaticaly allow me to pluck banana. I was:eek:
u TOLD ur wife??? wow happening! :laugh: :laugh:

[Voon Chan]

Yeah! I told her:laugh: , that was her reply:laugh: u TOLD ur wife??? wow happening! :laugh: :laugh:

[Hades]

Yeah! I told her:laugh: , that was her reply:laugh:
hahaha so cute....but its good oso coz it would build a trust between u n ur wife

[Voon Chan]

I tell her a lot of thing that are happening in my life.hahaha so cute....but its good oso coz it would build a trust between u n ur wife

[Hades]

I tell her a lot of thing that are happening in my life.
good lo, that's the way it should be :amused:

[LiLiaN]

It good that we realised that repo actually mean nothing. Even if a person end up having 20 greens, it does not mean a thing.
well, from what i see, it matters a lot to a lot of people...
all the point beggings, reciprocal reps, etc etc...
it's sad to see so many repping for the wrong reasons...

[dragoncity99]

Yes LiLian, it's very sad repping for the wrong reasons, but how to measure it's a wrong reason leh leng lui?

Is there such a right and wrong mah for repping?

Have fun lah leng lui, don't take it so bad loh. Everyone come here to haf fun ma. If u punish oso they like to do more ma. Persuade them like baby loh then they become good boy and good girls loh ;)

Cheer up....smile a bit. hehehe

[LiLiaN]

i am just seeing from an admin point of view...
in any case, let's drop this matter...

my grievance of the week... so annoyed with someone, let's call X...
X has been told not to contact me, ever... well until i am ready to talk to X again, that is...
but guess what, within the last 10 days, i've got one sms and 3 emails from X...
i'm getting quite pissed off, that X is not respecting my wishes...

[dragoncity99]

Hmmm X miss u too much oledi leh LL,

Why dont ask X wat he/she wants? Stalker ma?

R u allergic to X? :p

[SS2006]

X thinks he still stand a chance from you, too sayang to give up yet.

[dragoncity99]

Aiseh, jie jie how u know is a he oh? :blink:

Maybe is a she oso leh? :p hehehehe

Mebbe that's why Leng Lui don wan to accept her... ROFL

[LiLiaN]

wow shir, woman's intuition kicking in huh...

yeah well, he's someone from my past...
we were trying to stay friends and all... but...
he did something that breached my trust in him last year...
that was when i decided i couldn't cope with him anymore...
and i don't want to have anything to do with him at all...
until whenever i feel i can cope again... just not now...

i'm not emotionally attached to him anymore or anything...
i just don't have the time or energy to deal with him...

[dragoncity99]

Hey Leng Lui, u very hurt me loh, if u say i buta one....:(

My heart is like plastic bag, very elastic but can be koyak one mah....

Aiseh, love and hate relationship....

These few tactics help?

1. Find a big 6 feet tall, muscular Singh to be your boyfriend sked him off

2. Tell him, he sucks. And "Michael Jackson - BEAT IT"

3. Dig nose in front of him, and swear in front of him? Raise ur leg on the chair while eating ur lunch.

4. Eat a lot of "Chau Tau Fu" and "Durian" and talk to him.

5. Accept him and become his gf, and control and complain him like mad loh. Rip him off his freedom. See he sked o not.

6. Tell him that, "My Heart Belong To Someone Already". Can? If u say u still single and just be friends, he stil think got chance and keeps trying mah.

7. U must be very strict and firm. Ignore his messages and mails and SMSes. I think your heart as a girl got soft a bit leh. That's why u entertain the messages....hehehehe....If u treat those things as flirting and nothing more....okay lah....

8. Don't let him be in activities where there is just two of u oni, get some guys and girls go along. Then when he don feel special...he will give up

[LiLiaN]

whoa, hang on there buddy... no need to go so extreme lar...
in case you haven't quite get the gist, he's my ex lar...

at the moment i am just ignoring everything from him...
sms, delete... emails, also delete... ph calls, don't take...

[Voon Chan]

LiLiaN, it was very nice of you to share you view here. Thank you:) well, from what i see, it matters a lot to a lot of people...
all the point beggings, reciprocal reps, etc etc...
it's sad to see so many repping for the wrong reasons...

[dragoncity99]

whoa, hang on there buddy... no need to go so extreme lar...
in case you haven't quite get the gist, he's my ex lar...

at the moment i am just ignoring everything from him...
sms, delete... emails, also delete... ph calls, don't take...

Finally hahaha, an answer to it.

Lesser clouds and gray areas. :laugh: thanks LL

Aiyo, that's right oledi lah :)

U got an answer and solution to it. U can use junk mail /spam mail so no need to see oledi loh...hehehehe

So cruel ah? Don wan gif him chance anymore? U don want it to be saved? Won't it be a waste?

[Voon Chan]

Dragon, she is dealing with her ex.
As for me I don't want a second chance & I don't want to give 2nd chance

[SS2006]

Dragon, she is dealing with her ex.
As for me I don't want a second chance & I don't want to give 2nd chance
True...true...old chapter must close only new chapter can begin.

[Voon Chan]

Yes! New adventure will begin after the old chapter. Don't make the same mistake & hang on to to old chapterTrue...true...old chapter must close only new chapter can begin.

[Hades]

well for us humans, try not to lie to ourselves, if we still have feelings for that person and all the circumstances are good, y not have a try again? i mean there's no harm in having a person love or care for u...

but for lady's nature, they tend to decide. if let go means let go for good, no more getting back...but well, it's still a decision lo, whether wan or dunwan, i do agree we should respect each other's decision and all...anywayz LL, cheer up, things my get better in ur path i hope :amused:

[Voon Chan]

Maybe is due to my nature & expereiences I prefer that way. It is very individual.

[SS2006]

well for us humans, try not to lie to ourselves, if we still have feelings for that person and all the circumstances are good, y not have a try again? i mean there's no harm in having a person love or care for u...

but for lady's nature, they tend to decide. if let go means let go for good, no more getting back...but well, it's still a decision lo, whether wan or dunwan, i do agree we should respect each other's decision and all...anywayz LL, cheer up, things my get better in ur path i hope :amused:
I think Lil feels frus because she already made everything clear to him and he already agreed...now he comes back disturbing her again, it's like everything she said doesn't register in his brain...now its back to square one again.
You guys may think that girls like to have admiring and declaring their love for us, but actually it is very 'fan' one, i tell you. If admiring from afar nevermind, can just pretend we dun know, but if the boy keep following you...and you dun want to hurt his feeling especially if he's a nice guy....then very headache lorr...

[dragoncity99]

Dragon, she is dealing with her ex.
As for me I don't want a second chance & I don't want to give 2nd chance
Aiseh, bro, the girl gif u ur breakfast oledi kah? She had u for dinner right? I know it...hehehehe

Juz kidding....

well for us humans, try not to lie to ourselves, if we still have feelings for that person and all the circumstances are good, y not have a try again? i mean there's no harm in having a person love or care for u...

but for lady's nature, they tend to decide. if let go means let go for good, no more getting back...but well, it's still a decision lo, whether wan or dunwan, i do agree we should respect each other's decision and all...anywayz LL, cheer up, things my get better in ur path i hope :amused:

CK, that's the man.

Try to imagine Bon Jovi (Richie the guitarist breakup with Heather Lockely...11 years leh, wat a waste...just because of one provocative pic ah?) Not worth it ma....

LL still got love him Mr. X a bit a bit o not?

Couples sure can see the "nanah" on the opposite sex, it's whether u want to patch the nanah or want to korek until it bleed ma...if both korek one another's nanah too much

1+1 = 3 loh.....

[Hades]

I think Lil feels frus because she already made everything clear to him and he already agreed...now he comes back disturbing her again, it's like everything she said doesn't register in his brain...now its back to square one again.
You guys may think that girls like to have admiring and declaring their love for us, but actually it is very 'fan' one, i tell you. If admiring from afar nevermind, can just pretend we dun know, but if the boy keep following you...and you dun want to hurt his feeling especially if he's a nice guy....then very headache lorr...

yes i totally agree with u, that's how i ended my 3 years relationship with the girl 5 years older than me :crying: i agreed, all of a sudden out of anger coz she's been crying n yelling till i cant take it...

then i sent her home after that, when i reached home, i've realized i've done something so wrong that wouldnt wanna do...:crying: as a man, it's shameful but i broke down :sus: yet i did ask her to come back to me, she said "u agreed for the break up ady and now u wanna come back ah? NO WAY!"

so u can guess how devastated i was that time

[dragoncity99]

I think Lil feels frus because she already made everything clear to him and he already agreed...now he comes back disturbing her again, it's like everything she said doesn't register in his brain...now its back to square one again.
You guys may think that girls like to have admiring and declaring their love for us, but actually it is very 'fan' one, i tell you. If admiring from afar nevermind, can just pretend we dun know, but if the boy keep following you...and you dun want to hurt his feeling especially if he's a nice guy....then very headache lorr...

Yes, i agree with jie jie on this fact. Girls have guys tailing. Imagine u drive a kancil and a stupid giant BMW keep following behind u.

Very irritating right? Oki wat we can do is, show the finger. (Like Neo in the Matrix did to Agent Smith?)

No, im just joking.

After a stage of early quits, the other partner will keep kacau-ing and begging for mercy. (KILL HIM?)

Just stay away as far as u can loh LiLian, he will give up one. Give him 6 months lah to die out. If still kenot ah....i suggest u accept him lah. He's so sincere if u still got a bit a bit in of "CHARGE" for him.

[Voon Chan]

Dragon, what dinner & what breakfast?

[dragoncity99]

yes i totally agree with u, that's how i ended my 3 years relationship with the girl 5 years older than me :crying: i agreed, all of a sudden out of anger coz she's been crying n yelling till i cant take it...

then i sent her home after that, when i reached home, i've realized i've done something so wrong that wouldnt wanna do...:crying: as a man, it's shameful but i broke down :sus: yet i did ask her to come back to me, she said "u agreed for the break up ady and now u wanna come back ah? NO WAY!"

so u can guess how devastated i was that time

Poor CK and poor me. Poor guys on this planet earth.

Guys are from Mars, Girls are from Venus.

[Hades]

Poor CK and poor me. Poor guys on this planet earth.

Guys are from Mars, Girls are from Venus.
oi stick to topic la...dun terpesong here n there :cheesy:

[dragoncity99]

Dragon, what dinner & what breakfast?
U know i know lah bro VC hehehehe ***EVIL LAUGH***

oi stick to topic la...dun terpesong here n there :cheesy:
Sorri bro,,, we're talking about our good friend LiLian hor.... mistake mistake...:p

Where's LiLian, helo helo LiLian faster reply us...we try to put our eyes on ur posts to listen with our heart.

[Hades]

i guess lilian would only be with us during the evening as usual. hehe

[SS2006]

yes i totally agree with u, that's how i ended my 3 years relationship with the girl 5 years older than me :crying: i agreed, all of a sudden out of anger coz she's been crying n yelling till i cant take it...

then i sent her home after that, when i reached home, i've realized i've done something so wrong that wouldnt wanna do...:crying: as a man, it's shameful but i broke down :sus: yet i did ask her to come back to me, she said "u agreed for the break up ady and now u wanna come back ah? NO WAY!"

so u can guess how devastated i was that time
If you break up because of some irreconcilable differences, it's better to break-up in the early stage than to drag the problem deeper and deeper. Calvin, you asked your ex back because you feel guilty at that time, but if she continue acting the same way, can you still stand her? Will there be a 2nnd and 3rd break-up? Altho at that time she was 'siu-hei' in not wanting to get back to you, but she did the right thing. If there is ever any unsettled doubt in a relationship, there is no point in continuing it. Better to break-up during dating stage than carrying the doubt into your marriage.

[Hades]

If you break up because of some irreconcilable differences, it's better to break-up in the early stage than to drag the problem deeper and deeper. Calvin, you asked your ex back because you feel guilty at that time, but if she continue acting the same way, can you still stand her? Will there be a 2nnd and 3rd break-up? Altho at that time she was 'siu-hei' in not wanting to get back to you, but she did the right thing. If there is ever any unsettled doubt in a relationship, there is no point in continuing it. Better to break-up during dating stage than carrying the doubt into your marriage.

well for her, it took me almosy 9 months to be able to let her go, not completely but fair enough, so the thing is during this period, i tried to call her, she didnt pick up her phone, i sms her, with no replies....so after 3rd month if i'm not mistaken, i stopped all that...so i continued workiing, keeping myself busy, but then work oso i got no mood, sometimes on MC sometimes i take leave all of a sudden (that time i got about 32 days leave hehe) until i ran out of leaves, i left the company....then i was jobless for a while, i worked on my own business, studying and learning all about business, well, keeping myself busy la...

so after the 9th month, she called me 1 day...she said she found out that she had not return me some keys of my drawers, so ok lo, i go collect, when i met up with her, we went for a drink, i was ok liao coz i almost managed to let her go, so then during the drinking session, she told me she's going to alor setar for good with her mom, then i said good for her lo, but then hor, she said again, "i was thinking, maybe if we could go back together i no need to go to alor setar with my mom, i could stay here, u know i've been thinking about us a lot and i was thinking that there's no harm for us being together again."

so i remembered when we broke up, it was coz i was angry at her that she was going out with this guy solo for quite some time, and i know this guy is going after her... so i asked her wat about that guy?

she said she wasnt able to be with that guy as she felt guilty. so she asked again should we give it another try, i was tempted no doubt, but then again i thought to myself, y now?? y after 9 months? y after i was able to let u go?

so i told her NO. i cant handle her rubbish anymore, i have more girl-friends than before and i'm not about to let them go because of her, no more sacrifices should be made like dat...plus during that time, thanks to her, i became a playboy for a while :cheesy: so then i brushed her off, she cried, but then thank God i can hold firm hahaha

[dragoncity99]

Welcome to the gang CK hahahaha, so u a playboy ah? hahahaha

[Hades]

Welcome to the gang CK hahahaha, so u a playboy ah? hahahaha
not anymore...i found out being a playboy wasnt so fun after all, i mean i felt the hurt before, i remembered the hurt, so i couldnt bear in mind that the fact i'm doing the same thing to my "victims" as well...

i feel so sorry for the girls i've played, some left the country coz of me, some were around, i went to approach them n apologize, no doubt yea i got some slaps n so on, but well i guess it's nothing compared the way i hurt them...:crying:

[dragoncity99]

Wah CK, u so teruk one ah? Aiyo....i dono u oledi leh... :o

hahahaha, juz kidding.

Wow, don't play wif girls feeling leh. Not good one loh. Tak sangka CK so playboy ah....hehehehe.....

[SS2006]

not anymore...i found out being a playboy wasnt so fun after all, i mean i felt the hurt before, i remembered the hurt, so i couldnt bear in mind that the fact i'm doing the same thing to my "victims" as well...

i feel so sorry for the girls i've played, some left the country coz of me, some were around, i went to approach them n apologize, no doubt yea i got some slaps n so on, but well i guess it's nothing compared the way i hurt them...:crying:
Calvin, look at the bright side...all these experience make you stronger and more mature. Your future wife will be very lucky to have you.
You too, Dragoncity.:) Life goes on.

[Chris C]

not anymore...i found out being a playboy wasnt so fun after all, i mean i felt the hurt before, i remembered the hurt, so i couldnt bear in mind that the fact i'm doing the same thing to my "victims" as well...

i feel so sorry for the girls i've played, some left the country coz of me, some were around, i went to approach them n apologize, no doubt yea i got some slaps n so on, but well i guess it's nothing compared the way i hurt them...:crying:
...it's good that u realised such things r not good.....I always believe that life is like the 'boomerang'......

[Voon Chan]

Let us all listen to our big sister here. Sis, help those boys here.

I am going out for meeting

[Chris C]

Let us all listen to our big sister here. Sis, help those boys here.

I am going out for meeting
:laugh: .......all I could give is an advice or 2...it's up the the others to 'help' themselves.....as long as u're willing to admit and am humble enuff, u'll be alrite..:)

Hi VC, can see that u've been rather bz.......so b4 the CNY ends, "Gong Hei Fatt Choy"......all the best in your life and work....;)

[Hades]

yup yup, thanks for the advise aby the way shirlene and Chris, haha
sorry i was away for a while, i'm on MC today so i had rather lots of time to post around hehe

[Chris C]

yup yup, thanks for the advise aby the way shirlene and Chris, haha
sorry i was away for a while, i'm on MC today so i had rather lots of time to post around hehe
U're welcome.......tot u'll be heading up to Penang?

[Hades]

U're welcome.......tot u'll be heading up to Penang?

yeap...12pm tmr at pudu wait for bus hahaha then i'll be off to penang to celebrate my bday, then come back kl on wednesday to celebrate actual bday with family,

friday go s'wan still sunday

[dragoncity99]

Calvin, look at the bright side...all these experience make you stronger and more mature. Your future wife will be very lucky to have you.
You too, Dragoncity.:) Life goes on.
Aiyo jie jie, why always i oso kena one hahahah :crying:

Now i know in ur heart, this bro oso veli important...10kiu 10kiu

...it's good that u realised such things r not good.....I always believe that life is like the 'boomerang'......
Very good quote jie jie "BOOMERANG"

[Chris C]

yeap...12pm tmr at pudu wait for bus hahaha then i'll be off to penang to celebrate my bday, then come back kl on wednesday to celebrate actual bday with family,

friday go s'wan still sunday
Oh, how nice.......that's part of the fun of being single.....can go anywhere without much worries.......enjoy yourself there then...:)

[Hades]

in short, wat comes around, goes around

[Hades]

Oh, how nice.......that's part of the fun of being single.....can go anywhere without much worries.......enjoy yourself there then...:)

thanks sis...will do juz dat, and if i'm in s'wan i might pay u a visit if u're around though

[dragoncity99]

U should bro CK, jie jie Chris very nice person loh. U must loh.... ;)

[Hades]

U should bro CK, jie jie Chris very nice person loh. U must loh.... ;)

well, hopefully she's not in CH that time lo

[Chris C]

Very good quote jie jie "BOOMERANG"

Thanks Dragon......it is appropriate, cos' "what goes round, comes around..." :)

[Chris C]

Cal, I'll be around.....would be nice to meet up with u.....will call u up then...:)

[dragoncity99]

well, hopefully she's not in CH that time lo
She won't one lah. :)

Ai seh, i dono why my brain keeps telling me CH = Chin Hock church...hahahaha

[Chris C]

She won't one lah. :)

Ai seh, i dono why my brain keeps telling me CH = Chin Hock church...hahahaha
:laugh: .....I'll definitely won't be there next weekend.....

[Hades]

wow cool~ so i'll hear from u then next week...

[Chris C]

wow cool~ so i'll hear from u then next week...
Hokie......gotta go now.....my gal wants to use the pc......catch up with u again next week.....:)

[dragoncity99]

Oki bye jie jie, see u next week hahahaha on behalf of CK of course.

[Hades]

Oki bye jie jie, see u next week hahahaha on behalf of CK of course.

wah like dat oso can ah?
come la go back s'wan with me :p

[dragoncity99]

Don wan la...later kena report myself to Sitiawan ah moi :(

[Hades]

then i got nothing to say liao hehehe ok la i go rest liao la
talk to u in a bit

[dragoncity99]

oki doki, cu later / tomolo ck ;)

[LiLiaN]

hmm... my scenario, well, actually i gave him second chance before...
and i don't believe in third time lucky... plus, he wanted to break up, not me...
he got what he wanted, so why can't he give me some peace and quiet...

as shir pointed out, i am just frustrated that he's hearing, but not listening to what i'm saying...
i have already moved on as we have broke up for a good while by now..
granted, we were also together for quite a long time (nearly 3 years)...
the breakup was unpleasant to say the least, and i've tried to deal with it nicely...
i even agreed to stay friend, and still talk to him etc after that...

whatever feelings i have back then had been killed...
i have enough guy-related problem to deal with right now...
i don't need him to add on to the pile of confusion...!

[WitchKing]

I got annoyed with my auditees today, and I expressed it. Regretted doing it in hindsight cos they really are actually good people. THis is not in my nature to be sarcastic in real life (forum is different), so am gonna make sure I really think before acting (more so than is usual, i mean)...........

[WitchKing]

hmm... my scenario, well, actually i gave him second chance before...
and i don't believe in third time lucky... plus, he wanted to break up, not me...
he got what he wanted, so why can't he give me some peace and quiet...

as shir pointed out, i am just frustrated that he's hearing, but not listening to what i'm saying...
i have already moved on as we have broke up for a good while by now..
granted, we were also together for quite a long time (nearly 3 years)...
the breakup was unpleasant to say the least, and i've tried to deal with it nicely...
i even agreed to stay friend, and still talk to him etc after that...

whatever feelings i have back then had been killed...
i have enough guy-related problem to deal with right now...
i don't need him to add on to the pile of confusion...!

Hang in there, Lill. AS with all things, this too, will pass.

[LiLiaN]

I got annoyed with my auditees today, and I expressed it. Regretted doing it in hindsight cos they really are actually good people. THis is not in my nature to be sarcastic in real life (forum is different), so am gonna make sure I really think before acting (more so than is usual, i mean)...........well, we all get blip moments now and then...
hope things are running smoothly for you otherwise...
(despite your heavy work load at the moment)...

Hang in there, Lill. AS with all things, this too, will pass.i sure hope so... (or he can do with some growing up too :p )

[WitchKing]

well, we all get blip moments now and then...
hope things are running smoothly for you otherwise...
(despite your heavy work load at the moment)...

i sure hope so... (or he can do with some growing up too :p )

Well Lillian, males typically regress when it comes to matters of the heart. And with that said I am expecting flames to hit me left right and centre.

[suliet]

Don wan la...later kena report myself to Sitiawan ah moi :(
Hai ya Drago, what's wrong with Sitiawan Ah Moi? Besides being fierce, they are very hard working mah. Good thing is, during public holidays you don't have to one, two som and decide who's hometown to go for holiday.

Time comes, balik kampung in Sitiawan, one destination and settle all the problems.:cheesy:

[suliet]

hmm... my scenario, well, actually i gave him second chance before...
and i don't believe in third time lucky... plus, he wanted to break up, not me...
he got what he wanted, so why can't he give me some peace and quiet...

as shir pointed out, i am just frustrated that he's hearing, but not listening to what i'm saying...
i have already moved on as we have broke up for a good while by now..
granted, we were also together for quite a long time (nearly 3 years)...
the breakup was unpleasant to say the least, and i've tried to deal with it nicely...
i even agreed to stay friend, and still talk to him etc after that...

whatever feelings i have back then had been killed...
i have enough guy-related problem to deal with right now...
i don't need him to add on to the pile of confusion...!

Well Lilian, whatever passed is the pass. Sometimes guys are idiots. They really do not appreciate of what they have.

Bad one don't go, good ones will never come. Cheer up, I'm sure you will find a better one.

[LiLiaN]

Well Lillian, males typically regress when it comes to matters of the heart. And with that said I am expecting flames to hit me left right and centre.perhaps... i don't know... :)

Well Lilian, whatever passed is the pass. Sometimes guys are idiots. They really do not appreciate of what they have.
Bad one don't go, good ones will never come. Cheer up, I'm sure you will find a better one.yes suliet, the past should remain in the past...
i know, there are great guys around...
the problem now is how to make a decision...

[Oddfather]

perhaps... i don't know... :)

yes suliet, the past should remain in the past...
i know, there are great guys around...
the problem now is how to make a decision...
mee ni mee ni my ni MORE.....on the way....:squeeze:

[LiLiaN]

it involves other people's feeling.. not a decision to be made lightly...

[WitchKing]

perhaps... i don't know... :)

yes suliet, the past should remain in the past...
i know, there are great guys around...
the problem now is how to make a decision...


if you know any of the great guyz, what are you waiting for? i know some guys that udderly hopeless to the point of being socially inept when it comes to making the 1st move, but drop em enuff catalytic converters and they can start to come alive (sorry for the choice of analogy but damn it III I just filled RM45 for 27litre, can you just believe that!? ....sorry, back to where we were...)

whatever it is, DO NOT FORCE THE ISSUE. Take your time, if all else fails, decide ala Dungeons and Dragons ie roll a 20-sided die (i am only joking, do NOT take this suggestion seriously)

[LiLiaN]

well, then tell me how to choose between...
- a great guy i like but i am not sure will reciprocate
- a great guy who likes me but i see more as a friend?

and my goodness... that's a lot to pay for the petrol!
well, here, not that it's set to be a cold cold winter (-7 this morning!)...
the fuel and heating prices are going to go up again...
i can see myself staying in college more and more i think...
need not go home early and thus using heating at home..?

[WitchKing]

well, then tell me how to choose between...
- a great guy i like but i am not sure will reciprocate
- a great guy who likes me but i see more as a friend?

and my goodness... that's a lot to pay for the petrol!
well, here, not that it's set to be a cold cold winter (-7 this morning!)...
the fuel and heating prices are going to go up again...
i can see myself staying in college more and more i think...
need not go home early and thus using heating at home..?

you need to go with the former.....matters of the heart are not about doing the other heart A FAVOUR ie the latter. You not sure? FIND OUT. AS in poker, CALL IT! Whatever the outcome, you will be sure to know after that, .......right?

[LiLiaN]

well, yeah, i'm kinda leaning towards the same thinking...
spoke to shirlene about this previously actually...
anyho, i'm off for hiking with him and another couple of friends this weekend... :D

[WitchKing]

well, yeah, i'm kinda leaning towards the same thinking...
spoke to shirlene about this previously actually...
anyho, i'm off for hiking with him and another couple of friends this weekend... :D

yeah, good idea. take a hike. wait, i mean, errrrr take a hike, not take a hike :blink::huh: think i'll go take a walk instead.......

[LiLiaN]

yeah, good idea. take a hike. wait, i mean, errrrr take a hike, not take a hike :blink::huh: think i'll go take a walk instead.......LMAO... :laugh: :laugh:
got to run now, lunch time and stomach grumbling... see y'all later...
if not, have a good weekend ahead...

[WitchKing]

LMAO... :laugh: :laugh:
got to run now, lunch time and stomach grumbling... see y'all later...
if not, have a good weekend ahead...

Bon Appetit, C ya when we C ya......

[SS2006]

if you know any of the great guyz, what are you waiting for? i know some guys that udderly hopeless to the point of being socially inept when it comes to making the 1st move, but drop em enuff catalytic converters and they can start to come alive (sorry for the choice of analogy but damn it III I just filled RM45 for 27litre, can you just believe that!? ....sorry, back to where we were...)

whatever it is, DO NOT FORCE THE ISSUE. Take your time, if all else fails, decide ala Dungeons and Dragons ie roll a 20-sided die (i am only joking, do NOT take this suggestion seriously)
For some guys the catalyst only work once, then they go dead until the next catalyst come in. The problem is you'll never know whether the spark is auto-ignited or forced one and whether it will last.:sad-2:
well, then tell me how to choose between...
-(a) a great guy i like but i am not sure will reciprocate
-(b) a great guy who likes me but i see more as a friend?


well, yeah, i'm kinda leaning towards the same thinking...
spoke to shirlene about this previously actually...
anyho, i'm off for hiking with him and another couple of friends this weekend... :D

Yes Lil, we discussed this before and i recall telling you i had gone thru exactly the same road. What i did was i waited for (a) and rejected (b)'s approach as i feel it would not be fair to him to tie him down when my heart was still with (a). (b) is a great guy and i did not want him to go thru what i was going thru with (a), at least if i made him clear there could never be anything between us, he would able to move on and find other girl who could bring him happiness.
But i was lucky in a way because i finally managed to meet (c) whom i like more than (a) and who likes me back too. I was sure that (c) is the right guy for me because i had (a) as the standrd comparison. If i were to accept (b) at that time, and when i finally met (c), would i have to break up with (b) to go with (c), or would i have to let the opportunity with (c) slip through? Both would be tough decision and i am glad i never had to go through that trauma. Guess i made the right decision after all.
Just follow your heart and your brain and i am sure things will work out fine.

[dragoncity99]

hmm... my scenario, well, actually i gave him second chance before...
and i don't believe in third time lucky... plus, he wanted to break up, not me...
he got what he wanted, so why can't he give me some peace and quiet...

as shir pointed out, i am just frustrated that he's hearing, but not listening to what i'm saying...
i have already moved on as we have broke up for a good while by now..
granted, we were also together for quite a long time (nearly 3 years)...
the breakup was unpleasant to say the least, and i've tried to deal with it nicely...
i even agreed to stay friend, and still talk to him etc after that...

whatever feelings i have back then had been killed...
i have enough guy-related problem to deal with right now...
i don't need him to add on to the pile of confusion...!

He got his second chance ah? Good. Kill him. He got what he wanted? Aiyo, u should tarik harga ma...so he won't be thinking u easy to get last time. It's okay...I know by nature ur a very nice girl.

That's why i say u can be a good wife & mum.

Hai ya Drago, what's wrong with Sitiawan Ah Moi? Besides being fierce, they are very hard working mah. Good thing is, during public holidays you don't have to one, two som and decide who's hometown to go for holiday.

Time comes, balik kampung in Sitiawan, one destination and settle all the problems.:cheesy:
Yes yes yes, Sitiawan Ah Moi very hard working and good mother hahahaha.

True loh, no need to report to somewhere far...hahahaha ;)

Suliet u got Sitiawan ah moi to recommend me? :p :o

[SS2006]

He got his second chance ah? Good. Kill him. He got what he wanted? Aiyo, u should tarik harga ma...so he won't be thinking u easy to get last time. It's okay...I know by nature ur a very nice girl.

That's why i say u can be a good wife & mum.


Yes yes yes, Sitiawan Ah Moi very hard working and good mother hahahaha.

True loh, no need to report to somewhere far...hahahaha ;)

Suliet u got Sitiawan ah moi to recommend me? :p :o
Drago, not every girl likes to tarik harga. Please do not assume that when a girl says no, she is tarik harga ing. Guys should learn to take no for an answer. An if we like a guy, we will reciprocate his advances.
Lilian is mature and sensible in her thinking. She already knows what she wants, so i guess she just wants someone to talk to and to share her feelings...and she chose us forummers to do so.

[WitchKing]

Yes Lil, we discussed this before and i recall telling you i had gone thru exactly the same road. What i did was i waited for (a) and rejected (b)'s approach as i feel it would not be fair to him to tie him down when my heart was still with (a). (b) is a great guy and i did not want him to go thru what i was going thru with (a), at least if i made him clear there could never be anything between us, he would able to move on and find other girl who could bring him happiness.
But i was lucky in a way because i finally managed to meet (c) whom i like more than (a) and who likes me back too. I was sure that (c) is the right guy for me because i had (a) as the standrd comparison. If i were to accept (b) at that time, and when i finally met (c), would i have to break up with (b) to go with (c), or would i have to let the opportunity with (c) slip through? Both would be tough decision and i am glad i never had to go through that trauma.

Too many multiple choice!!! Aspirin!...ASPIIRIINNNNN!!

.....just dont lose yourself when making the decision, or whatever decision for that matter ok Lill, and you'll be just fine. THis is life after all, and you're supposed to get a few knocks here and there.

Frodo (http://www.imdb.com/name/nm0000704/): I wish the ring had never come to me. I wish none of this had happened.
Gandalf (http://www.imdb.com/name/nm0005212/): So do all who live to see such times. But that is not for them to decide. All we have to decide is what to do with the time that is given to us

[dragoncity99]

Drago, not every girl likes to tarik harga. Please do not assume that when a girl says no, she is tarik harga ing. Guys should learn to take no for an answer. An if we like a guy, we will reciprocate his advances.
Lilian is mature and sensible in her thinking. She already knows what she wants, so i guess she just wants someone to talk to and to share her feelings...and she chose us forummers to do so.
But if girls don't tarik harga...some guys not attracted leh...take for granted loh....wont they? :blink:

Alamak jiejie i don't mean that lah....i meant in the first place mah when she got the guy after him should tarek harga ma....:o

I oni take answer "YES" || "I DUNNO" = "YES" oni from girls ma hehehehe :p

Yep yep yep...she just wan to talk to someone and share her feelings...im very honoured leh to hear LL share her problem :o

[LiLiaN]

hey, thanks for your input... i really appreciate the thoughts...
well, i am pretty certain of what i want and am working on that...
i don't believe in tarik harga kind of thing... it's pretentious and immature...
so for me, when i say no, that means no, when i say yes, it means yes...

i won't say i am the nicest person ever, but i'm no pushover either...
he grovelled hard before he got his second chance as a matter of fact...
so the way i see it now, he had his chances, he blew them off, that's his problem now if he had regrets...
i have moved on and i am not going to dwell in the past...

naz, you're right, there are a few knocks here and there in life...
so far, i haven't quite yet scarred for life in anything, so i guess i'm doing alright... ;)

by the way, (b) hasn't said anything to me directly despite all signs etc...
so i've been trying my best to make it clear that i'm treating him like all my other friends...
whether he get it or not, i don't know...

[LiLiaN]

But if girls don't tarik harga...some guys not attracted leh...take for granted loh....wont they? :blink:err... i'd rather not attract these kind of guys...

[Sila]

err... i'd rather not attract these kind of guys...
good for you lil! i don't believe in playing that sort of games either - when i started going out with vin i told him, these are the things you need to know about me:

a) i DON'T do the dishes
b) be honest - if you do not like anything, tell me, i will be the same with you
and
c) i don't know how to play those guy-girl games, and i am not about to learn them now.

take it or leave it. lucky for me, he took it!! :D

so lil, i agree wholeheartedly with shirlene - and i think you are on the right path. you know what you want, and X has gotten enough chances with you and no means no, he needs to understand it. don't let it get to you - just continue to ignore all his communiques and don't let it get under your skin. delete delete delete, that's all i say - VMs, sms, emails, whatever, delete delete delete. that chapter is over and when you feel ready to have conversations with him without any pressure of a relationship or whatever, then you do that. but don't you let him get into your mix, and make your blood boil. obviously X is not mature enough to understand when no means no and perhaps he doesn't know you as well as he thinks he does. close your eyes and relax, and don't let thoughts of X spoil your mood, as he is not worth it.

guys - in case you think i am being biased to you guys, well, i am a little bit.. :o but i would give the same advise to a guy if a girl they didn't like was bothering them, k? ;)

[LiLiaN]

thanks sila... :)

[Voon Chan]

:) LiLiaN, I think you are a girl with a strong character. You can survive anything. After reading all your posting, I feel that you are doing well. Keep it up. All the best to you in your future undertaking.

Smile always:)

[dragoncity99]

hey, thanks for your input... i really appreciate the thoughts...
well, i am pretty certain of what i want and am working on that...
i don't believe in tarik harga kind of thing... it's pretentious and immature...
so for me, when i say no, that means no, when i say yes, it means yes...

i won't say i am the nicest person ever, but i'm no pushover either...
he grovelled hard before he got his second chance as a matter of fact...
so the way i see it now, he had his chances, he blew them off, that's his problem now if he had regrets...
i have moved on and i am not going to dwell in the past...

naz, you're right, there are a few knocks here and there in life...
so far, i haven't quite yet scarred for life in anything, so i guess i'm doing alright...

by the way, (b) hasn't said anything to me directly despite all signs etc...
so i've been trying my best to make it clear that i'm treating him like all my other friends...
whether he get it or not, i don't know...

So that one consider tarik harga/tarik balik o not leh? :p

If he kenot see the message no, ever consider "TARIK RAMBUT" o not on him?

:) LiLiaN, I think you are a girl with a strong character. You can survive anything. After reading all your posting, I feel that you are doing well. Keep it up. All the best to you in your future undertaking.

Smile always:)

Does that mean she got all the muscles and 6 pack abdomen? :sick:
I remember Cher used to be in that situation too..when she came out her song "BELIEVE"

err... i'd rather not attract these kind of guys...
Why ah? Why ah? They look like bugs? LADY-BUGS ?

[suliet]

perhaps... i don't know... :)

yes suliet, the past should remain in the past...
i know, there are great guys around...
the problem now is how to make a decision...

Sorry Lilian, this I can't help you. Go for what you feel is best loh. Good Luck!

[suliet]

[QUOTE=Yes yes yes, Sitiawan Ah Moi very hard working and good mother hahahaha.

True loh, no need to report to somewhere far...hahahaha ;)

Suliet u got Sitiawan ah moi to recommend me? :p :o[/QUOTE]

Sorry lah little brother, no ah mois to introduce. Go search yourself lah.:cheesy:

[dragoncity99]

Sorry lah little brother, no ah mois to introduce. Go search yourself lah.:cheesy:
Oki lo sis suliet....:(

If u see some tell me ya hahahah :laugh:

[LiLiaN]

:) LiLiaN, I think you are a girl with a strong character. You can survive anything. After reading all your posting, I feel that you are doing well. Keep it up. All the best to you in your future undertaking.

Smile always:)thanks vc...

So that one consider tarik harga/tarik balik o not leh? :p that was not tarik harga... that was protecting myself...
need to be sure that he was serious then...

Does that mean she got all the muscles and 6 pack abdomen? :sick:
I remember Cher used to be in that situation too..when she came out her song "BELIEVE"deii.... since when i have 6 packs..??? not a guy hor....

Why ah? Why ah? They look like bugs? LADY-BUGS ?somehow feels like you're pulling my legs but i'll humour you...
guys like these are immature and don't know what they want...
worse, they like playing games and that's not something positive in my book...
i know there are girls who like the excitement of playing games in relationship...
but i'm not one of them... i prefer straight talking, honesty and openness...

Sorry Lilian, this I can't help you. Go for what you feel is best loh. Good Luck!no worry, i am going with my gut instinct... thanks suliet...

[Chris C]

:) LiLiaN, I think you are a girl with a strong character. You can survive anything. After reading all your posting, I feel that you are doing well. Keep it up. All the best to you in your future undertaking.

Smile always:)
Yup, agree with VC on this....they say that the trials in life will either make or break a person, and u've done well so far sweetie.....keep it up!;)

[dragoncity99]

thanks vc...

that was not tarik harga... that was protecting myself...
need to be sure that he was serious then...

Oic ok.


deii.... since when i have 6 packs..??? not a guy hor....

Oh sorry...i was a bit sleepy, when posting this hehehehe....sorry:laugh:


somehow feels like you're pulling my legs but i'll humour you...
guys like these are immature and don't know what they want...
worse, they like playing games and that's not something positive in my book...
i know there are girls who like the excitement of playing games in relationship...
but i'm not one of them... i prefer straight talking, honesty and openness...

;)

So, u r a straight girl....wow, so rare. U r the second friend i met with this characteristic. I guess ur very precise in everything. Very strong.....like She-man.

Insist something very strongly means strong. So can i say u r the not so romantic type?

What kind of games leh? Teasing, tricking, cheating, lying....jealousy...envy...distrust...?

Straight talking ah? But u hurt ppl wont it? Honesty & Openness....Ic ic.....
The best medicine is always bitter to swallow...

[LiLiaN]

So, u r a straight girl....wow, so rare. U r the second friend i met with this characteristic. I guess ur very precise in everything. Very strong.....like She-man.

Insist something very strongly means strong. So can i say u r the not so romantic type?

What kind of games leh? Teasing, tricking, cheating, lying....jealousy...envy...distrust...?

Straight talking ah? But u hurt ppl wont it? Honesty & Openness....Ic ic.....
The best medicine is always bitter to swallow...er... strong here means my character i think, not about insisting stuff...
i can be romantic in the closet, but i am also practical...
at least i don't (really) let love sweeps me away and makes me blind...
there's a balance to thing, to much of either is not good for me...

the games i refer... it's the game of manipulation some people play....
like say yes but means no, tarik harga, scheming etc etc etc...
in relationship there's no place for games like these...
straight talking doesn't mean you'll necessarily hurt someone...
do it with tact, but firm on the points, that ought to do it...

with me, what you see is what you get...
i don't pretend to be someone i am not... and i won't...

[WitchKing]

i can be romantic in the closet,


.......oh my. :blink:

[Dino]

.......oh my. :blink:

Oh my my...:blink: :blink:

[dragoncity99]

er... strong here means my character i think, not about insisting stuff...
i can be romantic in the closet, but i am also practical...
at least i don't (really) let love sweeps me away and makes me blind...
there's a balance to thing, to much of either is not good for me...

the games i refer... it's the game of manipulation some people play....
like say yes but means no, tarik harga, scheming etc etc etc...
in relationship there's no place for games like these...
straight talking doesn't mean you'll necessarily hurt someone...
do it with tact, but firm on the points, that ought to do it...

with me, what you see is what you get...
i don't pretend to be someone i am not... and i won't...
Wah, if i know u earlier i want to date u loh to be honest.

Romantic in the closet....wow...very nice.

WYSIWYG - That reminds me of .... ermmmm HTML & Pizza Song....

Very nice....very nice.....;)

Such a rare attitude and i thought only guys haf this kinda attitude. I am wrong oledi all this while then...:o shame shame shame

[dragoncity99]

Darn it,,,, i felt so disturbed when my friend start to ask a blog about Homosexual Love in Uni Life:

"David: I feel so attracted to him, he makes me feel safe when i ride behind his motorbike. We share the same dorm and laugh and cry together. When I hold him, i feel like want to hug him."

The rest i don wan to think about it.

So my reaction was to put a Broken Hokkien version as an answer
"Ah Kua:
Wua si ah kua, wua peng yu jing jia hoe kua. Wua ai joe ee za boh beng you. Si kong ee kiu wa Mr. Za.
Wua peng you ang mo tan tua tua liap.....kar cheng ang ang....Wua kar cheng oh oh....Ing gai si wua jiak kah j Bak Kut Teh liao...."

Of course, i spoilt her romantic story......coz the story made me sick loh...yuck....

[LiLiaN]

drago, you need to go out and get to know more people...
most girls i know share my view about being open and honest...
and they're all very devoted to their bfs/fiances/husband...

[dragoncity99]

drago, you need to go out and get to know more people...
most girls i know share my view about being open and honest...
and they're all very devoted to their bfs/fiances/husband...

U mean i must go out and meet all the ah kuas?

Ermmmm i kenot relate oledi la here.....:wacko:

Oki, i will...can i get to know u first then? Hahahaha :laugh:

I think we speak different language loh....

[WitchKing]

U mean i must go out and meet all the ah kuas?

Ermmmm i kenot relate oledi la here.....:wacko:

Oki, i will...can i get to know u first then? Hahahaha :laugh:

I think we speak different language loh....

psst, Lillian, i think this guy is making the moves on ya.......you hot mod, u.

[andrewjpan]

woi... get in line!

i already booked a date with her when she comes back!

[dragoncity99]

woi... get in line!

i already booked a date with her when she comes back!
Ok sorry man, u go first then. But all depend on her ma...

Bro Naz...do we need to submit our resume o not? :p

[LiLiaN]

:o don't like this lar....
just came back from hiking...
had a great... actually no, it's fantabulous day! ;)

[dragoncity99]

:o don't like this lar....
just came back from hiking...
had a great... actually no, it's fantabulous day! ;)
Wah i see Beautiful LiLian blushing.....now u see her romantic side AndrewJPan bro?

I guess we have to fight over this girl....huh? :laugh:

[andrewjpan]

Wah i see Beautiful LiLian blushing.....now u see her romantic side AndrewJPan bro?

I guess we have to fight over this girl....huh?

Bring It On my fren....

:D:D

[Voon Chan]

Dragon & Andrewjpan, don't fight!:amazed:
Bring It On my fren....

:D:D

[Dino]

Aiseh...she's coming to US first...so i take her out for dinner first. Slowly wait fella's.....:p :p

[Voon Chan]

:laugh::laugh: , good move Dino.
Man you will drive this people mad.
(Dino, you love LiLiaN?)Aiseh...she's coming to US first...so i take her out for dinner first. Slowly wait fella's.....:p :p

[SS2006]

Aiseh...she's coming to US first...so i take her out for dinner first. Slowly wait fella's.....:p :p
Uh-oh...another person potong trip! What do you call this...love square?:wacko:

[Dino]

:laugh::laugh: , good move Dino.
Man you will drive this people mad.
(Dino, you love LiLiaN?)

The meet-up laaa....we're gonna go Belacan Grill in LA.


Uh-oh...another person potong trip! What do you call this...love square?:wacko:

LOL!!! Where got potong....these 2 want to fight...let them fight it out loor....we in the US take Lilian out laaa....:p

[Voon Chan]

:laugh: :laugh: Uh-oh...another person potong trip! What do you call this...love square?:wacko:

[song cm]

may the best man/boy win.....:D

[SS2006]

may the best man/boy win.....:D
Ouch...very sensitive:laugh:

[Voon Chan]

Where & why?:rolleyes: Ouch...very sensitive:laugh:

[SS2006]

Where & why?:rolleyes:
Ego!