New poll.....Mens' duties

[song cm]

Do you(as a father) or your husband do the following:

1. Make milk and feed your kids
2. Change diapers
3. Both of the above
4. Neither

Feel free to add more.....
Poll will start at 4pm, today

[SS2006]

Help with kids homework
Bath for kids

[Voon Chan]

1) Take care of the kids if wife is not around or go for holidays
2) Clean the kids
3) Feed the kids

[SS2006]

1) Take care of the kids if wife is not around or go for holidays2) Clean the kids
3) Feed the kids
Cannot when wife not ard only, if wife ard 365 days also must do...

[Voon Chan]

Ok! talking about melahCannot when wife not ard only, if wife ard 365 days also must do...

[Sarah]

is this for men to answer or women also can??

[SS2006]

is this for men to answer or women also can??
women answer on behalf of husband? But must have children only can answer, ok?

[Oddfather]

women answer on behalf of husband? But must have children only can answer, ok?
I think women can also answer, laaa. Expectations of the future, ma!!

[SS2006]

I think women can also answer, laaa. Expectations of the future, ma!!
Expectation and actual different...
...whether your baby get breastfeeded is the mother's choice, not father's!

[siewjang]

Cook for the kids when wife is not around.

My hubby can cook a nice yummy and lipsmacking pork porridge. My kids love them lots. And his maggi mee is better than mine.

[Voon Chan]

SJ, good suggestionCook for the kids when wife is no around.

My hubby can cook a nice yummy and lipsmacking pork porridge. My kids love them lots. And his maggi mee is better than mine.

[Oddfather]

Expectation and actual different...
...whether your baby get breastfeeded is the mother's choice, not father's!
dey, of course expectations are for those categories which husband can perform and expected to carry out. It will be the Joke of the century if women vote that they expect husband to breastfeed....... :squeeze:

[SS2006]

dey, of course expectations are for those categories which husband can perform and expected to carry out. It will be the Joke of the century if women vote that they expect husband to breastfeed....... :squeeze:
You misunderstood me...what i mean is you can expect all you want but can the husband actually carry it out? Vote is for those who actually do it.
Same as if husband expect wife to breastfeed, if wife doesn't want what can he do?

[dragoncity99]

Do together lah :)
Not around help loh. Cook, clean, change diapers, and ("breastfeed" find Nai Ma" hahaha, else bagi susu loh)

Babies can feed the "XO" o not? I heard they can grow up very smart one loh. Like "Cheun Kar Fai". :laugh:

[Oddfather]

You misunderstood me...what i mean is you can expect all you want but can the husband actually carry it out? Vote is for those who actually do it.
Same as if husband expect wife to breastfeed, if wife doesn't want what can he do?
aiyoh...expectations are for those not yet married women lor....going to get married, etc. We should allow them to vote also, lor. Than we know the expectation levels.

[Oddfather]

Do together lah :)
Not around help loh. Cook, clean, change diapers, and ("breastfeed" find Nai Ma" hahaha, else bagi susu loh)

Babies can feed the "XO" o not? I heard they can grow up very smart one loh. Like "Cheun Kar Fai". :laugh:
we need yours for sampling and testing purposes!!! :squeeze:

[song cm]

aiyoh...expectations are for those not yet married women lor....going to get married, etc. We should allow them to vote also, lor. Than we know the expectation levels.

no andrew...this poll is based on actuals...expectation shld be another poll...

[song cm]

Do you(man) or your husband do the following:

1) Make milk for the kids
2) Change diapers
3) Bathe the kids
4) Help with the homework
5) Cook for the kids

remember this thread is based on actual facts and not expectation on what a father should do....

[Oddfather]

no andrew...this poll is based on actuals...expectation shld be another poll...
okie..dokie. :)

[song cm]

okie..dokie. :)
make sure u aso vote horr.... :)

[Oddfather]

make sure u aso vote horr.... :)
definitely!!!

[song cm]

start polling...fathers n mothers....

[siewjang]

Aiyah, confidential poll issit? Thought want to know which dad is capable. Can change or not ah?

[SS2006]

Not bad all our fathers here...all 8 bath for kids, 3 doesn't make milk.
Homework not so accurate because some kids not schooling yet.

[athena]

so if we're not married & no kids, can we vote??

[alfred98]

:mad:

[Hisham]

I vote yes for first three (milk, diapers and bathe)... but I forgot to tick making food option. So it's actually 4 for me.

[LiLiaN]

since i don't have a husband, no voting...

[WitchKing]

since i don't have a husband, no voting...

I dun have a husband aso, but i still voted anyway......

(soli, stomach way too full, cant think straight....)

[LiLiaN]

I dun have a husband aso, but i still voted anyway......
(soli, stomach way too full, cant think straight....)but... but.. but... you fall into "you (men)" category mah... i tarak qualify lar! :p

[WitchKing]

but... but.. but... you fall into "you (men)" category mah... i tarak qualify lar! :p
okay. i have managed to completely lose myself in whatever train of thot this poll is about. lemme start over. I oledi voted, and it was about pickin bathing and diaper changes. my kids never expect me to cook and my wife would vouch 4 my patheticness in dat dept.....

[Alkapocino]

I dun have a husband aso, but i still voted anyway......

(soli, stomach way too full, cant think straight....)
Somehow I don't quite get you! How straight can you think when you're half full? :squeeze: :p

Well...I have voted and checked most of the box. :)

[SS2006]

Wondering aloud who voted for the final answer?
...or is it a spam?

[Voon Chan]

I winder why people want the men to bath thier kids?

[WitchKing]

I winder why people want the men to bath thier kids?

Because their wives would be too busy cooking.

[song cm]

Because their wives would be too busy cooking.

or if u have 2 kids...can bath them at the same time....to save time....

[song cm]

looks like cooking is the less preferred chore....

hey, I dare the person to voted none of the above to come and share his thoughts on why he don do any of the chores.....alfred, is dat u??

[WitchKing]

or if u have 2 kids...can bath them at the same time....to save time....

Save time? Not if both of them together you wont. My girls (if they bathe together) would then bring out the bathtub and play

'Mr Rubber Duckie rides on the Titanic'.

That playacting goes for at least 15 mins more than if they were to bathe separately.

[WitchKing]

looks like cooking is the less preferred chore....

hey, I dare the person to voted none of the above to come and share his thoughts on why he don do any of the chores.....alfred, is dat u??

Is it any wonder, i mean for (i think) most guys, the closes thing to cooking oil we know about are the ones that carry SAE standard labelling that says '15W-40'!!

[song cm]

Is it any wonder, i mean for (i think) most guys, the closes thing to cooking oil we know about are the ones that carry SAE standard labelling that says '15W-40'!!

haha...don forget abt the massage oil 2.... :laugh:

[Voon Chan]

Naz, WD-40 is another oil that I knowIs it any wonder, i mean for (i think) most guys, the closes thing to cooking oil we know about are the ones that carry SAE standard labelling that says '15W-40'!!

[song cm]

Naz, WD-40 is another oil that I know

wats dat??

[siewjang]

I wonder those man that doesn't cook porridge for the kids when wife are not around, what are the kids going to eat? One or two days ta pau outside acceptable. If one week, ta pau also?

[Dino]

wats dat??

WD-40 = Wats Dat-40 :laugh: :p

[Hisham]

Bathing my son is a fun activity for me. :)

[WitchKing]

wats dat??

Massage Oil.

[Voon Chan]

Especially for screws & nutsMassage Oil.

[WitchKing]

Especially for screws & nuts


Yeah, RIGHTTTTTT.

[alfred98]

:mad:

[SS2006]

Every day ta pau children will be very happy if this occurs KFC, Mc D, Pizza hut good bussiness loh

I wonder who voted neither on the poll ahh????? :unsure:
Not you meh, Dr Smartass? :p

[alfred98]

:mad:

[vicky boy]

aiyo.... naz u sure u dun know what is WD-40... all man should know.... good for rust.... ya like bolts and nuts, squeking door and all

[WitchKing]

aiyo.... naz u sure u dun know what is WD-40... all man should know.... good for rust.... ya like bolts and nuts, squeking door and all

c'mon VB, I happen to have two cans of it around my house :D course I know watzit for...unless like me, you aso playacting your part as the all time fav BBK.

NOw, excuse me while I use it to smoothen my complexion and body tone.....Slippery when Wet....

[siewjang]

Every day ta pau children will be very happy if this occurs KFC, Mc D, Pizza hut good bussiness loh
Kids at certain age (like infant) only take porridge.

[alfred98]

:mad:

[SS2006]

Aiyah give neh neh ask maid to make lah.. :D :D
That's the BIG PROBLEM...everything depend on maid. Children can survive without parents, but cannot survive without maids.

[Oddfather]

Aiyah give neh neh ask maid to make lah.. :D :D
Hey, Doc do you give free medical treatment to your maid??

[song cm]

aiyo.... naz u sure u dun know what is WD-40... all man should know.... good for rust.... ya like bolts and nuts, squeking door and all

i use baby oil.... :eek:

[Chris C]

i use baby oil.... :eek:
:laugh: ....I remembered u mentioning it once......baby johnson's ...... :p

[song cm]

:laugh: ....I remembered u mentioning it once......baby johnson's ...... :p

:laugh: u got good memory.... :)

[alfred98]

:mad:

[alfred98]

:mad:

[Oddfather]

Meaning? If sick then my wife handle lah where got chance one. :D
if wife not in, you handle lor...!!! :p

[daBoss]

i am extremely ashamed to vote "non of the above"... i helped around a little when daboy was born... but have just gotten too dem lazy over the years... have to admit didn't life a finger to help with dagirl... probably not too for dababy... :(

[Oddfather]

i am extremely ashamed to vote "non of the above"... i helped around a little when daboy was born... but have just gotten too dem lazy over the years... have to admit didn't life a finger to help with dagirl... probably not too for dababy... :(
shock but understandable. Try to stop and smell the roses. They actually smell good. :)

[SS2006]

i am extremely ashamed to vote "non of the above"... i helped around a little when daboy was born... but have just gotten too dem lazy over the years... have to admit didn't life a finger to help with dagirl... probably not too for dababy... :(
Maybe can make that your new year resolution...bathing the kids are fun :)
I totally understand your situation, you have your parents and maid to depend on, therefore there's no need for you to lift a finger...but these little token of love will make dalady and dakids appreciate you more :)

[song cm]

Maybe can make that your new year resolution...bathing the kids are fun :)
I totally understand your situation, you have your parents and maid to depend on, therefore there's no need for you to lift a finger...but these little token of love will make dalady and dakids appreciate you more :)

also...help them with their homework......let them tap into your brain power... :)

[Sila]

got no kids, so this poll i must sit out. i think my dad can only tick "help with homework" though...abah? what say yoU?

[WitchKing]

got no kids, so this poll i must sit out. i think my dad can only tick "help with homework" though...abah? what say yoU?

Dun see your dad log in for quite some time now.....

[alfred98]

:mad:

[alfred98]

:(

[alfred98]

:(

[SS2006]

Dun see your dad log in for quite some time now.....
Sila's dad busy doing all the above things for his grandson :)

[Oddfather]

rules of the jungle Cannot eat and shit in the same place ok :p
Wah, you just made the statement of 2005 for the forum...
From now on, your nick is Tarzan of City-A-One.

PM the admins/mods to have your nick change from Senior Member to Tarzan of City-A-One. hahahaha.....

[SS2006]

Wah, you just made the statement of 2005 for the forum...
From now on, your nick is Tarzan of City-A-One.

PM the admins/mods to have your nick change from Senior Member to Tarzan of City-A-One. hahahaha.....
Congrats Alfred, senior member in 2 weeks. I become senior only after almost 1 year. Give yoy title Smartass Tarzan of City-A-One :laugh:

[james 89]

rules of the jungle Cannot eat and shit in the same place ok :p
and same time also ...............kakakakakaka

[alfred98]

:mad:

[james 89]

Perli me ok! :squeeze:
perli a bit wont die one.......dun u agree?

[alfred98]

:mad:

[dragoncity99]

Aiseeh, ter-"vote" pulak. Sorry, mistake mistake, can minus my vote lah ya. :p

[alfred98]

:mad:

[alfred98]

:mad:

[SS2006]

Aiseeh, ter-"vote" pulak. Sorry, mistake mistake, can minus my vote lah ya. :p
Dragon..you already gatal mahu jadi bapa? :D
Way to go, man!

[song cm]

Wah got 61% make milk for baby ah Whose the culprit?? Wait middle of the night asked U to get up to make milk then U will be@###$$$ the hell up... :D

i don mind..... :)

[Hisham]

i don mind..... :)
Me neither. Done it before when my son woke up late nights. Nowadays not so much. But I prepare his milk almost everyday during regular hours, taking turns with my wife. Just did it 30 minutes ago.

[song cm]

Me neither. Done it before when my son woke up late nights. Nowadays not so much. But I prepare his milk almost everyday during regular hours, taking turns with my wife. Just did it 30 minutes ago.

yup....it is definitely a shared responsibilities.... :)

[alfred98]

:mad:

[dragoncity99]

Dragon..you already gatal mahu jadi bapa? :D
Way to go, man!

No lah sis shirlene, where got. If early oso, MBA (Marriage By Accident) Kakakak.

I tertekan ma, not purposely one.

I see the topic Men's Duties. So click lah. Im patriotic ACSian. Don't put me on the table lah....pls pls pls... :laugh:

[Sila]

Sila's dad busy doing all the above things for his grandson :)
where got lah?? he only gets the kid when he's clean and happy... i think same deal with hisham and me when we were small.. harharharharharharhar

one time i gave irfan (hisham's son) back to my sis in law because he needed to be changed, my dad looked at me and said, "hey you should do it. it is your nephew"

i asked him "you ever do it before?"

he said no. i said, "but he is your grandson!"

he say, "yeah, but i give back to his parents"

i say "same here.." LOL

[KoChun]

No kid yet (not so fast lah), so I am not voting.

[Sila]

out of 23 voters, only 4 voted None of the above. which means that about 5/6 of those participating in the polls are active fathers! bravo, forummers! bravo!!! *applaud*

[Dino]

No kid yet (not so fast lah), so I am not voting.

Should have use instant baby powder!!! :p

[SS2006]

No kid yet (not so fast lah), so I am not voting.
Dun talk so fast...daBoss said the same thing when he just came back from HK :D

[alfred98]

:mad:

[KoChun]

Thanks for the advice, Alfred. I will surely remember. :cheesy:

[Dino]

Vote lah to show your wife mah. But tell U my secret ok-if U don't want to do any thing act stupid don't be too smart eg making milk-eh how much milk to add ah, eh! how much water ah, eh how much hot water ah, need to shake ah-like that sure the wife said no need leh, she will make herself or your mum or inlaw sure take over one. After that can sit back and watch the fun..... :)
Wah ladies sure very angry one.. Some more your wife Hock Chew ah hock chew very independent one.... :)

This is one very,very good advice!! :)

[alfred98]

:mad:

[SS2006]

Vote lah to show your wife mah. But tell U my secret ok-if U don't want to do any thing act stupid don't be too smart eg making milk-eh how much milk to add ah, eh! how much water ah, eh how much hot water ah, need to shake ah-like that sure the wife said no need leh, she will make herself or your mum or inlaw sure take over one. After that, U can sit back and watch the fun..... :)
Wah ladies sure very angry one.. Some more your wife Hock Chew ah hock chew very independent one.... :)
Alfred, Kochun's wife in my immediate cousin sister....her father and my father are brothers. So do you think she will whack you up for this remark?

[Dino]

Eh KoChun ah your wife coming for cny party ah.Don't introduce to me ok sure get wack one. On the second thought, I think I better don't come because the ladies will be waiting to bash me lor... :p

Can always edit your posts rite???

[alfred98]

:mad:

[Dino]

Edit ah how leh, I think better censored or delete lor.. :(

Nevermind laaa...just get whacked only wut......how hard can a girl hit anyway???

[KoChun]

No need lah, the girls read it already. Too late... :p

[Voon Chan]

Dino, my friend was hit by a softball player, that was bad:eek: Nevermind laaa...just get whacked only wut......how hard can a girl hit anyway???

[alfred98]

:mad:

[Odysseus]

Cook for the kids when wife is not around.

My hubby can cook a nice yummy and lipsmacking pork porridge. My kids love them lots. And his maggi mee is better than mine.
McDonald's can or not?

[SS2006]

McDonald's can or not?
Leslie, you just visited this thread? I can guess what your answer is. :)

[Odysseus]

Leslie, you just visited this thread? I can guess what your answer is. :)
Yup... you may try :)

[SS2006]

Yup... you may try :)
Before you visited, 4 people voted on the final answer, after you left 5 people voted there. So what is your choice? I give up :D

[suliet]

Where I got sooo bad one lah, bathing children I do every day. So simple put water, then add soap powder then rise, dry finish...He He!! :D
Wah Dr. Alfred98, you bath your kid like cuci baju in the washing machine lah. :laugh:

[Odysseus]

Before you visited, 4 people voted on the final answer, after you left 5 people voted there. So what is your choice? I give up :D
What you talking la...?

[suliet]

i am extremely ashamed to vote "non of the above"... i helped around a little when daboy was born... but have just gotten too dem lazy over the years... have to admit didn't life a finger to help with dagirl... probably not too for dababy... :(
Its ok Boss, all you have to do is appreciate what Dalady had done for you and your family. I'm sure she is a very understanding wife.

[alfred98]

:mad:

[alfred98]

:mad:

[alfred98]

:(

[Odysseus]

Leslie! Welcome to the MCP clubb. :D TQ TQ
This club is too exclusive for me la... I don;t qualify. Soli

[alfred98]

:(hick hick...

[alfred98]

No body want to vote leh so close lor..

[KoChun]

The poll will be closed in less than a week. Then we shall close the thread as well.

[alfred98]

The poll will be closed in less than a week. Then we shall close the thread as well.
close lor.. :D

[james 89]

i am extremely ashamed to vote "non of the above"... i helped around a little when daboy was born... but have just gotten too dem lazy over the years... have to admit didn't life a finger to help with dagirl... probably not too for dababy... :(
daboss can make more money n get more maids. dun helped around too much, i wish those day i said i dunno to my wife...............kakaka.
now i ended up doing evrything..........huh

[Oddfather]

daboss can make more money n get more maids. dun helped around too much, i wish those day i said i dunno to my wife...............kakaka.
now i ended up doing evrything..........huh
cannot like that laaa....must always help around in the hse.... :cool:

[james 89]

cannot like that laaa....must always help around in the hse.... :cool:
u wait till u get married............then u know

[Oddfather]

u wait till u get married............then u know
hahahaha....again??? :squeeze:
ya, this year not yet...!!! :eek: :laugh:

[alfred98]

hahahaha....again??? :squeeze:
ya, this year not yet...!!! :eek: :laugh:
Hahahahaha.... LOL LOL