[closed] First child - boy or girl?

[Sarah]

Hehe, just want everyone's opinion on this though by far, it is unethical...
If you were able to do a sex selection on your first child, would you want a boy or girl??? :sus:

[LiLiaN]

very tough question - can make them twins, one boy one girl?
if not... hmm... probably a boy, so he can protect his younger sister later...
never have an older brother myself, so thought that would be nice... :)

[Sarah]

Personally I want a boy first... then followed by all girls.. :)

[Sarah]

very tough question - can make them twins, one boy one girl?
if not... hmm... probably a boy, so he can protect his younger sister later...
never have an older brother myself, so thought that would be nice... :)

hm.. if u have one, then you will want a younger bro.. like me... I have an older bro, but we are not close anymore as we grow up.. at least with a younger bro, you still have an authority over him... hehe.. and can question him whenever you want... i cant do that to my older bro..

[Sarah]

Funny that I still want a boy first.. hm... :huh:

[LiLiaN]

hm.. if u have it, then you will want a younger bro.. like me... I have an older bro, but we are not close anymore as we grow up.. at least with a younger bro, you still have an authority over him... hehe.. and can question him whenever you want... i cant do that to my older bro..neh, i have enough younger bros to last me my life... in fact used not to be that close esp to middle one, but nowadays, much better...

my bros don't really mind even if i'm older... in fact, they in return would question me on things i do until they realised that i would not give in coz i'm equally stubborn! :laugh:

[LiLiaN]

mind you, i do love my bros and all... :)

[Sarah]

of course... but becuz I had an older bro, and as we grow up i feel quite distant from him... so, that's why I have a god-brother.. :)

[shiruikage]

me....def a boy then a girl, then a boy again.

[KoChun]

I would prefer a girl. :)

[vicky boy]

my turn...... well girl will be good....

[KoChun]

Shall I start a poll on this?

[LiLiaN]

i can nearly see guys want daughter and girls want son first... proving freud to be right?

[vicky boy]

ok... good idea..... go ahead...

[vicky boy]

i can nearly see guys want daughter and girls want son first... proving freud to be right?
well lil... i luv to see an older sis taking care of the whole family....

[LiLiaN]

well lil... i luv to see an older sis taking care of the whole family....very tiring lar... has so much to mind after...

[vicky boy]

very tiring lar... has so much to mind after...
who very tiring???? me or my daughter??

[KoChun]

Okay, poll started. Thread moved to Polling Station.

Vote is non-confidential, single option and will be closed in 7 days time.

[LiLiaN]

who very tiring???? me or my daughter??your daughter... having to mind the young ones...

[amelia7]

could it be because of culture...you know, the boy thing...blah, blah...
Funny that I still want a boy first.. hm... :huh:

[Sila]

boy first, god willing! i say that because i enjoyed having an older brother who helped me through life and continues to now, he's the bestest big brother in the whole world!

or should i say he's my favoooooourite older brother.. :p (he used to say to me, adik aren't i your favorite brother? - given that he is my only brother, even if he tried to cekik me everytime my parents turned their backs, he would HAVE to be the favourite by default, no?)

[Voon Chan]

Pray that you will have a healthy child
Boy or girl? It is not a choice we can make

[KoChun]

Pray that you will have a healthy child
Boy or girl? It is not a choice we can make
Yes, VC, fully agree that everyone wants a healthy child.

The question is, which do you prefer? Boy or girl?

[song cm]

No preference for me...as long as I get a pair eventually....


Hey, dunno whether its true, but I notice it is easier to get a girl first-boy second rather than a boy first-girl second....true??

[Voon Chan]

Yes, VC, fully agree that everyone wants a healthy child.

The question is, which do you prefer? Boy or girl?I will have only one child, so I prefer a boy

[KoChun]

I will have only one child, so I prefer a boy
Good, you have given your answer now. :)

[song cm]

Good, you have given your answer now. :)

but that is not the question......

[athena]

boy first, god willing! i say that because i enjoyed having an older brother who helped me through life and continues to now, he's the bestest big brother in the whole world!

or should i say he's my favoooooourite older brother.. :p (he used to say to me, adik aren't i your favorite brother? - given that he is my only brother, even if he tried to cekik me everytime my parents turned their backs, he would HAVE to be the favourite by default, no?)
haha...i do that all the time.....to my DAD ....since i'm his only daughter!!!

[song cm]

haha...i do that all the time.....to my DAD ....since i'm his only daughter!!!

do wat? cekik him?? :laugh:

[athena]

do wat? cekik him?? :laugh:
claim i'm his FAVOURITE daughter in the WHOLE WIDE WORLD!!! hehe..though at that time he feel like cekik-ing me to death!! :laugh:

[song cm]

claim i'm his FAVOURITE daughter in the WHOLE WIDE WORLD!!! hehe..though at that time he feel like cekik-ing me to death!! :laugh:

neah....bet he loves u to bits....

i wld love to have a daughter too.....(thinking hard now....)

[Voon Chan]

neah....bet he loves u to bits....

i wld love to have a daughter too.....(thinking hard now....)work on it, not just think

[athena]

neah....bet he loves u to bits....

i wld love to have a daughter too.....(thinking hard now....)
hahaha.....go for it!! hehe..get artie's professional opinion la!! hahaa

[KoChun]

neah....bet he loves u to bits....

i wld love to have a daughter too.....(thinking hard now....)
Don't think hard, work hard.

[song cm]

work on it, not just think

but i don want another Luke or John worr.....

[song cm]

Don't think hard, work hard.

haha...tell u, it ain't hard work... :p infact it is pretty enjoyable.. :laugh:

[Voon Chan]

but i don want another Luke or John worr.....work on it at night, not morning

pray hard!

[song cm]

hahaha.....go for it!! hehe..get artie's professional opinion la!! hahaa

haha...i know, if it's a boy, can give artie??

[KoChun]

haha...tell u, it ain't hard work... :p infact it is pretty enjoyable.. :laugh:
Then, what are you waiting for, Song? Go go go, enjoy yourself.

[Voon Chan]

haha...tell u, it ain't hard work... :p infact it is pretty enjoyable.. :laugh:i know!

[song cm]

work on it at night, not morning

pray hard!

so far, mine all at nite...still boy one??

mayb i din pray hard enaf.... :laugh:

[athena]

hehe...all in favour of song having another baby!! say aye!!


*chorus of ayes heard*

[Voon Chan]

so far, mine all at nite...still boy one??

mayb i din pray hard enaf.... :laugh:possible, & you eat too much meat

[song cm]

Then, what are you waiting for, Song? Go go go, enjoy yourself.

really....2 is more than enaf...time for me n anne to have a more peaceful life.....time to go for fine dining n clubbing liao..... :laugh:

[song cm]

possible, & you eat too much meat

isit? vegetarian can increase the prob of getting a girl??

ath, can u ask ur dad wat he did differently for the third one?

[Voon Chan]

really....2 is more than enaf...time for me n anne to have a more peaceful life.....time to go for fine dining n clubbing liao..... :laugh:yeah! going clubbing with another?

[athena]

isit? vegetarian can increase the prob of getting a girl??

ath, can u ask ur dad wat he did differently for the third one?
haha....my papa? hehe...i bet ya he doesn't know!! hahaha..my mom is the one who is feeding him!! hehe...:)

[song cm]

haha....my papa? hehe...i bet ya he doesn't know!! hahaha..my mom is the one who is feeding him!! hehe...:)

haha...mayb it is not only the feeding dat makes the diff...... :laugh:

[athena]

haha...mayb it is not only the feeding dat makes the diff...... :laugh:
that you've got to ask 'em urself!! :amused:

[siewjang]

Many people would prefer Boy first. Still the old tradition. But since i'm having a girl first, I think that is great. My girl really help me out by looking after her little brother. And now, she even help me with her baby sister by rocking her or fetching the nappy. even feeding her water, etc...

[song cm]

Many people would prefer Boy first. Still the old tradition. But since i'm having a girl first, I think that is great. My girl really help me out by looking after her little brother. And now, she even help me with her baby sister by rocking her or fetching the nappy. even feeding her water, etc...

haha...she waiting for the baby sis to grow up so dat can gang up on Carl.....

[vicky boy]

Many people would prefer Boy first. Still the old tradition. But since i'm having a girl first, I think that is great. My girl really help me out by looking after her little brother. And now, she even help me with her baby sister by rocking her or fetching the nappy. even feeding her water, etc...
that is y i want girl girl girl first.... girl still leading...

[vicky boy]

haha...she waiting for the baby sis to grow up so dat can gang up on Carl.....
wah like that also can???? shake head :blink: :wacko:

[siewjang]

haha...she waiting for the baby sis to grow up so dat can gang up on Carl.....
:amused: I think she will.

[siewjang]

that is y i want girl girl girl first.... girl still leading...
Another thing. My girl does her homework without being told. When her little brother saw her reading, he will take a book and sit next to her. Good motivation too.

[song cm]

wah like that also can???? shake head :blink: :wacko:

dats wat we call sibling rivalry lorr.....

[song cm]

Another thing. My girl does her homework without being told. When her little brother saw her reading, he will take a book and sit next to her. Good motivation too.

true....Mark will aslo follow Matt when he sees him reading...but the prob is, he will disturb Matt and they will start fighting....

[athena]

i think baby boys are cute...and verynotti...haha...so better have one first...when u can still handle it....girls, on the other hand, quite obedient wan!! haha...good to have abig brother who can look after her!

[vicky boy]

it will be nice if u have ur own kids... but for me now..... party is the word in my mind.. hahahahaaa

[siewjang]

i think baby boys are cute...and verynotti...haha...so better have one first...when u can still handle it....girls, on the other hand, quite obedient wan!! haha...good to have abig brother who can look after her!
My girl and boy went to the same kindie. Whenever other kids bully my boy, my girl will come to his defence. But if put it the other way round, I think my boy will join those bullies and bully his sister. You will never know. Boys are very notti like you said.

[athena]

My girl and boy went to the same kindie. Whenever other kids bully my boy, my girl will come to his defence. But if put it the other way round, I think my boy will join those bullies and bully his sister. You will never know. Boys are very notti like you said.
wah jang...ur girl quite terror also!! tabik!!!

i agree with u...maybe the boy will gang up...but it depends on nature as well as nurture

[vicky boy]

My girl and boy went to the same kindie. Whenever other kids bully my boy, my girl will come to his defence. But if put it the other way round, I think my boy will join those bullies and bully his sister. You will never know. Boys are very notti like you said.
hahahahahahahaha.... true nature of boys..... when i bully my sis now... my dog will gang up with me... hahahahahahahahahahahahaaaa

[vicky boy]

wah jang...ur girl quite terror also!! tabik!!!

i agree with u...maybe the boy will gang up...but it depends on nature as well as nurture
wah very deep.... need some digestion... hahahahahahahahhahaaaaaa

[Sila]

wah jang...ur girl quite terror also!! tabik!!!

i agree with u...maybe the boy will gang up...but it depends on nature as well as nurture
hisham last time his philosophy is he can bully me but nobody else can.. so he would stand up for me if he sees me kena bully. but i stopped being bullied quite early, maklumlah i was too damn tall. :)

[Chris C]

Me, girl.......no complain about not having a boy. Even my hubby doesn't mind not having a son. He had 7 nephews b4 girls came into the family, so girls are definitely more obedient and adorable. Anyway, i don't think we have any more strength left to chase after another kid. :D

[song cm]

Me, girl.......no complain about not having a boy. Even my hubby doesn't mind not having a son. He had 7 nephews b4 girls came into the family, so girls are definitely more obedient and adorable. Anyway, i don't think we have any more strength left to chase after another kid. :D

chris...wanna exchange withe me?? :laugh:

[WitchKing]

My sister punye anak2, semua empat2 hero, she is desperate for a daughter, even to the extent of considering adoption. My bro-in-law genes too strong it seems. I would like at least one son before am too old, but have no complaints with the lot given me, they are a bundle of joy to us already. My brother just nice...first girl, second boy, now they are purely doing it for the fun.....

[Chris C]

chris...wanna exchange withe me?? :laugh:
:laugh: ..........why don't u "enjoy" yourself and hope for 1 adorable girl...... ;)

[Chris C]

My sister punye anak2, semua empat2 hero, she is desperate for a daughter, even to the extent of considering adoption. My bro-in-law genes too strong it seems. I would like at least one son before am too old, but have no complaints with the lot given me, they are a bundle of joy to us already. My brother just nice...first girl, second boy, now they are purely doing it for the fun.....

Yup.....we should be happy with the blessings we have, boy or girl, really it doesn't matter. :)

[vicky boy]

hi hi chris..... long time no see u... how u doing???? welll true enuf... girl or boy... if it is given to u then just be bless

[song cm]

:laugh: ..........why don't u "enjoy" yourself and hope for 1 adorable girl...... ;)

haha...okok...i try to enjoy myself tonite....horr...... :laugh: :laugh:

[Chris C]

hi hi chris..... long time no see u... how u doing???? welll true enuf... girl or boy... if it is given to u then just be bless
hi dearie.........miss u.....me hokay.......read that u're pretty bz...now back in K.L. or still outstation?

[Chris C]

haha...okok...i try to enjoy myself tonite....horr...... :laugh: :laugh:
....will keep my fingers and toes crossed for u...... ;) :laugh:

[WitchKing]

....will keep my fingers and toes crossed for u...... ;) :laugh:

....i hear the 'helicopter' is very good technique... :squeeze:

[vicky boy]

hi dearie.........miss u.....me hokay.......read that u're pretty bz...now back in K.L. or still outstation?
back in kl now... but life is like a bird... wont know where i am heading tomolo..

[song cm]

....i hear the 'helicopter' is very good technique... :squeeze:

to concieve a baby girl?? hmm...must pm u.....

[vicky boy]

....i hear the 'helicopter' is very good technique... :squeeze:
u and ur technique....

[LiLiaN]

ok people, serong lagi... back to topic please...

[daBoss]

if i had a choice, i'd like 3 boys... :) dun get me wrong ah... i love dagirl very much...

dalady prefers 1st to be boy, 2nd to be girl... 3rd no preference...

[LiLiaN]

wah daboss, you want so many boys but not girls ah...?

[Sarah]

No preference for me...as long as I get a pair eventually....


Hey, dunno whether its true, but I notice it is easier to get a girl first-boy second rather than a boy first-girl second....true??

Everyone knows the fact that having a boy or a girl is equal in chances... but few ppl actually knows that the chances of getting a boy is 0.49 and girl, 0.51... ppl just love to round the number up, therefore, making it equal...

hehe...

[Sarah]

could it be because of culture...you know, the boy thing...blah, blah...

yes, I suppose. My reason is, as long as my first child is a boy, my "status" is secured.. and subsequent births can be all girl... a dozen of them also nvm, as long as I have 1 boy.. just becuz ppl's perception esp the typical chinese ppl, thinks that having a boy is "ideal".

So, just to shut their mouths from further commenting (should I fail to have boys), I hope that my first will be a boy lor..

[Sarah]

hahaha.....go for it!! hehe..get artie's professional opinion la!! hahaa

haha... i have a few laa... pm me if u want.. will be an underground topic if I discuss it here... haha... but not scientifically proven laa... just mere faith in believing what I say... hehe...

[Sarah]

haha...i know, if it's a boy, can give artie??

can... no prob... but must do prenatal diagnosis before giving it to me... i will test if they have the athlete genes, so i can enrol them in international sports school... sure get scholarship wan.. hehe

[Sarah]

possible, & you eat too much meat

morning or night... ?? hehe... not that la...

[Sarah]

if i had a choice, i'd like 3 boys... :) dun get me wrong ah... i love dagirl very much...

dalady prefers 1st to be boy, 2nd to be girl... 3rd no preference...

Why all boys daboss??

[Sarah]

Wah.. girl still leading man..

[athena]

Everyone knows the fact that having a boy or a girl is equal in chances... but few ppl actually knows that the chances of getting a boy is 0.49 and girl, 0.51... ppl just love to round the number up, therefore, making it equal...

hehe...
song song..take a lookie here.....chances for girls higher by 2 %.....no worries liao....enjoy away!!! :p

[song cm]

yes, I suppose. My reason is, as long as my first child is a boy, my "status" is secured.. and subsequent births can be all girl... a dozen of them also nvm, as long as I have 1 boy.. just becuz ppl's perception esp the typical chinese ppl, thinks that having a boy is "ideal".

So, just to shut their mouths from further commenting (should I fail to have boys), I hope that my first will be a boy lor..

haha...well said...very true indeed...unfortunately

[song cm]

can... no prob... but must do prenatal diagnosis before giving it to me... i will test if they have the athlete genes, so i can enrol them in international sports school... sure get scholarship wan.. hehe

haha...like that kenotlar....father mother not athletic ones...

[song cm]

song song..take a lookie here.....chances for girls higher by 2 %.....no worries liao....enjoy away!!! :p

okok...i will enjoy again tonite... :laugh:

[athena]

okok...i will enjoy again tonite... :laugh:
haha.........

[Linkinfark]

Choice of a baby BOY or GIRL

Hope it is useful for some of you in planning stage. For those of you do not have any plan in the near future, you can keep it for future reference.

Background:
Man’s sperm consists of X & Y spermatozoa, X spermatozoon decides the female whereas Y is the male. Referring to these physiological properties of the spermatozoa, gynecologists set up the theory of ‘Choice of a girl or a boy’.


1st factor: Food
If you want a baby girl: Husband must eat more alkaline food, wife eats more acidic food.
If you want a baby boy: Husband eats more acidic food, wife eats more alkaline food.

Alkaline food: vegetables, fruits, egg white, milk, algae, etc.
Acidic food: meat, seafood, etc.


2nd factor: Timing (When to do it?)
If you want a baby girl: Frequent copulation during pre-ovulation period.
If you want a baby boy: Copulating just before ovulation or just after ovulation.

How to confirm ovulation period:
Body temperature increases (you may want to use SPC chart to monitor your body temperature here).


3rd factor: Penetration (How to do it?)
If you want a baby girl: Husband to avoid deep penetration in the female vagina during copulation.
If you want a baby boy: Deep penetration by the husband is suggested.

Reasoning:
Characteristics of X & Y spermatozoa
- X: Marathon runner with good stamina
- Y: Sprinter but poor stamina
So, with deep penetration, the chances for Y to reach destination will be higher.


4th factor: Stimulation
If you want a baby girl:
Wife should avoid stimulation during copulation. Secretion from female vagina becomes alkaline when stimulated, therefore this promotes the activity of Y spermatozoon.
If you want a baby boy:
Husband ejaculates after wife has been stimulated.


5th factor: Wife’s Preparation
If you want a baby girl:
Rinse the vagina with solution dissolving 2 spoonfuls of white vinegar in 1 liter of water. Since an acidic condition decreases activity of Y spermatozoon.
If you want a baby boy:
Rinse the vagina with solution dissolving 2 spoonfuls of soda in 1 liter of water.


6th factor: Positioning
If you want a baby girl:
Female to be on the top position & male to be on the bottom position.
If you want a baby boy:
Male to be on the top position & female to be on the bottom position. This posture allows the Y spermatozoon to reach the destination faster.


************************************************** ************************************************** *********
The wisdom of our (?) ancestors!
For those planning to have a baby & those who will need to plan in future, the chart below may help you to predict the sex of your future child.
The accuracy of the chart has been proved by thousands of People and is believed to be 99 percent accurate.
Believe it or not.

WOMAN’S CONCEIVING AGE

AGE 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 26 27 28 29 30 31

MONTH 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 26 27 28 29 30 31
1 G B G B G B B G B G B G B B
2 B G B G B B G B G B G B G G
3 G B G G B G B B B G B G G B
4 B G B G G B B G G B G G G G
5 B G B G B B G G G G G B G G
6 B B B G G G B B B G G B G G
7 B B B G G B B G G B B B G G
8 B B B G B G G B B B B B G G
9 B B B G G B G B G B B B G G
10 B B G G G B G B G B B G G G
11 B G B G G B G B G G G G B G
12 B G B G G G G B G B G G B B

AGE 32 33 34 35 36 37 38 39 40 41 42 43 44 45
MONTH 32 33 34 35 36 37 38 39 40 41 42 43 44 45
1 B G B B G B G B G B G B B G
2 G B G B B G B G B G B G B B
3 B B B G B B G B G B G B G B
4 G B G B G B B B B G B G B G
5 G G G G B G B B G B G B B G
6 G G G G G B G G B G B G B G
7 G G G G G G B G B B G B G B
8 G B G B G B G B G B B G B G
9 G G G G B G B G B G B B G B
10 G G G G B B G B G B G B B G
11 G G B B B G B G B G B B G B
12 B B B B B B G G G B G B G B

EXPLANATION
You can choose for yourself whether you want a boy or a girl by following the chart. The woman’s age from 18 to 45 (Chinese reckoning) is on the top line while the months Jan to Dec indicate the month when the baby is conceived. By following the chart you will be able to tell in advance whether your baby will be a boy or a girl. Thus, you can plan to have a boy or a girl.

This chart has been taken from a Royal tomb near Peking, China. The original copy is kept in the institute of Science of Peking. The accuracy of the chart has been proved by thousands of People and is believed to be 99 percent accurate. By reckoning, you follow a line drawn from the figure representing the woman’s age to a line drawn from the month the baby is conceived.
For instance, if the woman is 27 years old and her baby is conceived in Month 1 (according to the Chinese Lunar Calendar), then her baby will be a girl. The chart is based on the month the baby is conceived and not on the birth of the baby, B-Male, G-Female.

Remarks: A Chinese Scientist discovered and drew this chart which was buried in a Royal tomb about 700 years ago.

[siewjang]

You beat me to this Linkin

[Linkinfark]

You beat me to this Linkin
:D Worked for us..
Couldn't get the chart done correctly.. i have the doc file, anyone can pm me for better looking chart..

[Voon Chan]

Linkin, is it base on a chinese age & calendar?

[Linkinfark]

Linkin, is it base on a chinese age & calendar?

Yep..

[Voon Chan]

Yep..interesting!

[athena]

linkin ah...explain further on the age and month thingy..tak berapa faham la!

[Sila]

linkin ah...explain further on the age and month thingy..tak berapa faham la!
i pun...

[Linkinfark]

linkin ah...explain further on the age and month thingy..tak berapa faham la!
Ok, let professor teach you hor...
Based on the chart, it depends on your age, since the chart originate from China, the follow Chinese calendar and age. If you're 25, then Chinese age is 26 lor.. So depends on whether you want to have a boy or girl.
Assuming someone is 25 and want to have a boy, the best month to conceive is Month 2 & 3 or 8 o 12.. So when the time comes, you better get into action.. Also depends whether you're ovulating or not la...
Belum cuba belum tahu, lepas cuba, hari hari mahu!! :p

[athena]

Ok, let professor teach you hor...
Based on the chart, it depends on your age, since the chart originate from China, the follow Chinese calendar and age. If you're 25, then Chinese age is 26 lor.. So depends on whether you want to have a boy or girl.
Assuming someone is 25 and want to have a boy, the best month to conceive is Month 2 & 3 or 8 o 12.. So when the time comes, you better get into action.. Also depends whether you're ovulating or not la...
Belum cuba belum tahu, lepas cuba, hari hari mahu!! :p
ok wait....according to chinese calendar i'm born in the year of the monkey 24th day of the 12th lunar month...so..in chinese calendar...sud i be 25 or 26? :confused:

[Linkinfark]

ok wait....according to chinese calendar i'm born in the year of the monkey 24th day of the 12th lunar month...so..in chinese calendar...sud i be 25 or 26? :confused:

Mat salleh age plus one year loh..

[athena]

hey u changed ur avatar liao.....how come not using your fav pic of Damien?

[Linkinfark]

hey u changed ur avatar liao.....how come not using your fav pic of Damien?
Which one liao ah? All my favorites... :)

[athena]

this one :)!!
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v627/linkinfark/DSCN0139.jpg

[vicky boy]

linkin.... u are he MAN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[vicky boy]

ok wait....according to chinese calendar i'm born in the year of the monkey 24th day of the 12th lunar month...so..in chinese calendar...sud i be 25 or 26? :confused:
ath so fast planning liau????

[Voon Chan]

ath so fast planning liau????i think so too

[athena]

ath so fast planning liau????
learning first mah...later will need to use :o

[vicky boy]

Ok, let professor teach you hor...
Based on the chart, it depends on your age, since the chart originate from China, the follow Chinese calendar and age. If you're 25, then Chinese age is 26 lor.. So depends on whether you want to have a boy or girl.
Assuming someone is 25 and want to have a boy, the best month to conceive is Month 2 & 3 or 8 o 12.. So when the time comes, you better get into action.. Also depends whether you're ovulating or not la...
Belum cuba belum tahu, lepas cuba, hari hari mahu!! :p
one question?????? different pppl born on a different day and months... so the month and day are according to ur birthdate as well???

[vicky boy]

one question?????? different pppl born on a different day and months... so the month and day are according to ur birthdate as well???
like a person is born in may... so count june as the first month???

[vicky boy]

i think so too
well this one she confess liau.... not need to think.... its the truth

[Linkinfark]

this one :)!!
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v627/linkinfark/DSCN0139.jpg

Ha ha.. this one real cute.. ok ...let me get it..

[vicky boy]

Ha ha.. this one real cute.. ok ...let me get it..
emm linkin....... did u do acccording to the posting???? and also match the date and year???

[Linkinfark]

one question?????? different pppl born on a different day and months... so the month and day are according to ur birthdate as well???

:wacko:
If you're referring to the chart, top is age of the person, left side is which month to conceive..

[Linkinfark]

emm linkin....... did u do acccording to the posting???? and also match the date and year???

Actually my wife looked at the charts and planned.. myself ever-ready for action only.. :cool:

[vicky boy]

:wacko:
If you're referring to the chart, top is age of the person, left side is which month to conceive..
hahahahahahaa i know the top is the year and the side is month to conceive.... let say a girl at the age of 25 and conceived in the 2nd month.... so all girls who age 25 and conceived in the 2nd month going to have a boy is it?????

[vicky boy]

Actually my wife looked at the charts and planned.. myself ever-ready for action only.. :cool:
wow!!!! i am amaze......... so did it come as expected???? :cheesy:

[Linkinfark]

hahahahahahaa i know the top is the year and the side is month to conceive.... let say a girl at the age of 25 and conceived in the 2nd month.... so all girls who age 25 and conceived in the 2nd month going to have a boy is it?????

According to the chart, yes. But then again, who dares guarantee?

[Linkinfark]

wow!!!! i am amaze......... so did it come as expected???? :cheesy:
Yes.

[athena]

maybe gotta do wif the lunar alignment affecting the gals hormone....

it is widely believed that if gal 1 is having her menses...and gal2 is always around gal1 ..lambat laun..both willhv menses the same time!v:)

[vicky boy]

Yes.
ok ok ... ATH time for planning liau//...... with monkey i mean... hahahahhaaa :D

[vicky boy]

maybe gotta do wif the lunar alignment affecting the gals hormone....

it is widely believed that if gal 1 is having her menses...and gal2 is always around gal1 ..lambat laun..both willhv menses the same time!v:)
ok this one i really have no idea..... really ah ATH.....

u umur 24 correct???? well my gf also same age.... are u having urs???????? then i go ask her tonite...

[athena]

ok this one i really have no idea..... really ah ATH.....

u umur 24 correct???? well my gf also same age.... are u having urs???????? then i go ask her tonite...
haha..must always together wan...it's got to do with some hormone thingy...

[vicky boy]

haha..must always together wan...it's got to do with some hormone thingy...
hmm....... u are not answering me yet.....???? hehehehehehe cheecky me.... :p

[athena]

wat question? :)

[Chris C]

In respect to wot Linkin is doing, I must add this in.........to those of u who really plan to follow it, please do not expect 100% result and then get disappointed with it later on if u don't get what u're hoping for.......
Has a friend who tried everything he could follow for a boy.....but all 4, girls....he was disappointed, and that do affect his and his wife's emotional state.......so just do it,enjoy and be happy with wot u get...... :)

[siewjang]

whenever we (among siblings) talk about pre-arrangement, my mom will say "look at me. I've done everything ppl said." But my mom still get 6 girls. :o

[Linkinfark]

In respect to wot Linkin is doing, I must add this in.........to those of u who really plan to follow it, please do not expect 100% result and then get disappointed with it later on if u don't get what u're hoping for.......
Has a friend who tried everything he could follow for a boy.....but all 4, girls....he was disappointed, and that do affect his and his wife's emotional state.......so just do it,enjoy and be happy with wot u get...... :)

Ya, ini semua based on studies only.. No 100% guarantee one..Just enjoy doing it!
As for what athena mentioned, quite true, same group of girls around each other have higher chances of having period at the same period! :amused:

[Chris C]

actually nowdays people are not really that particular anymore about having girls and no boys........yeh, culture and all might expect u to have a son.....but at the end of the day....all those ladies will start whispering,"it's better to have girls than boys"............honestly......heard this many-many times, even when I was holidaying in China and Korea were Asian culture is suppose to be strong....

[vicky boy]

girl or boy doesnt matter... more the favour of having girls is still majority

[Chris C]

yeah...........proves that girls are good......like me! :p :laugh:

[LiLiaN]

wait and see if got more people who will vote differently...

[Chris C]

wait and see if got more people who will vote differently...
so close poll now......... :p :laugh:

[LiLiaN]

cannot lar... still a few days to go... ;)

[vicky boy]

wah chris ni power girl ah.... know how to missuse authority pulak....

[LiLiaN]

boys gaining vote as time goes... :)

[Chris C]

:o tot nobody was watching........ :laugh:

[Sarah]

actually nowdays people are not really that particular anymore about having girls and no boys........yeh, culture and all might expect u to have a son.....but at the end of the day....all those ladies will start whispering,"it's better to have girls than boys"............honestly......heard this many-many times, even when I was holidaying in China and Korea were Asian culture is suppose to be strong....

that's very true Chris... i believe (even for myself) that its all for impression sake... nothing more... not that having a boy is any better than girl...

[Sarah]

Ya, ini semua based on studies only.. No 100% guarantee one..Just enjoy doing it!
As for what athena mentioned, quite true, same group of girls around each other have higher chances of having period at the same period! :amused:

hehe.. well glad u know this... in fact the calender thing isn't based on any studies at all, and if anything it should be thrown away into the deep blue sea, or maybe not la.. just so we respect the ancient ppl's effort in putting all this together, we should just archive it in the museum...

[Sarah]

In respect to wot Linkin is doing, I must add this in.........to those of u who really plan to follow it, please do not expect 100% result and then get disappointed with it later on if u don't get what u're hoping for.......
Has a friend who tried everything he could follow for a boy.....but all 4, girls....he was disappointed, and that do affect his and his wife's emotional state.......so just do it,enjoy and be happy with wot u get...... :)

yeah.. actually ignorance is bliss la.. I shouldnt put any hope in getting any gender..


I have an uncle, all his bros and sis have at least a boy... but he has 3 girls... becuz of that, he blamed his wife (him being a typical man)... that wrecked up the marriage man...

[LiLiaN]

I have an uncle, all his bros and sis have at least a boy... but he has 3 girls... becuz of that, he blamed his wife (him being a typical man)... that wrecked up the marriage man...aiyoh, the fault should be the y-chr bearing sperms lar...

[Sila]

maybe gotta do wif the lunar alignment affecting the gals hormone....

it is widely believed that if gal 1 is having her menses...and gal2 is always around gal1 ..lambat laun..both willhv menses the same time!v:)
this is true - personal experience ;)

[athena]

this is true - personal experience ;)
at least u can verify that claim!! haha...

last time my housemate terror wan....her monthly visits aren't exactly monthly visits...sometimes 2 months..baru sekali....i think record was 3 months....so lucky!!!

[Linkinfark]

this is true - personal experience ;)
You mean Hisham ada menses jugak?! :eek:

[Linkinfark]

yeah.. actually ignorance is bliss la.. I shouldnt put any hope in getting any gender..


I have an uncle, all his bros and sis have at least a boy... but he has 3 girls... becuz of that, he blamed his wife (him being a typical man)... that wrecked up the marriage man...

For the record, not all man like that... :amused:

[Sila]

You mean Hisham ada menses jugak?! :eek:
huuuuuuuuuuuh??? :blink: :huh: :eek:

takdelah - when i was doing my undergrad i roomed with a few girls for the whole 4 years. we were definitely on the same "schedule"...or very nearly. every year after the summer, we tune back to each other...

[Sila]

last time my housemate terror wan....her monthly visits aren't exactly monthly visits...sometimes 2 months..baru sekali....i think record was 3 months....so lucky!!!
wow!! that could be bad oso - signalling something wrong loh. cycle is supposed to be regular...

[siewjang]

Was going to say that too, sila. That is a bad sign. My cousin having that sympton too. and each time her kawan visit her, she will had a terrible cramp. She was diagnosed with cysts at the age of 32 (i think so) and few months after removing them, another cysts was found. and according to the gynae, her chances of getting pregger is very very slim now. Now that she is 36 y/o, she's not keen to get married. poor girl. :(

[athena]

yea...cysts are really bad....:(

my lecturer in uni last time also like that........all these time wif cyst..remove ..occur..remove occur....managed to beranak 4....bersusah take risk to beranak......really took abig gamble!

[Sila]

aiyo, cysts are quite painful, no?? plus now they will have to watch her carefully for the rest of her life...

sucks about the diff to get pregnant too... :(

[siewjang]

Since we are in this thread, I think ppl with difficulty conceiving will not mind at all if it's a boy or girl.

[Voon Chan]

Since we are in this thread, I think ppl with difficulty conceiving will not mind at all if it's a boy or girl.very true! Anything will do!

[Chris C]

aiyo, cysts are quite painful, no?? plus now they will have to watch her carefully for the rest of her life...

sucks about the diff to get pregnant too... :(
When my sis, Linda got married, one day she fainted when she was having this terrible pain during her menses. When to the hospital for check-up and found out that she had ovarian cysts, one was completely blocked and the other ovarian 3/4 blocked. The doctor told her that her chances of conceiving is slim. But thank God she's now the proud mother of 4!

[siewjang]

We are so proud for her too. Send my regards to Linda will ya?

[LiLiaN]

true, for anyone with difficulties, boy or girl cease to matter... what matters is the baby itself...
i know someone from school here who has baby already because she has polycystic ovaries...
still so young but she has to coz her ovaries need to be removed...

[Sarah]

aiyoh, the fault should be the y-chr bearing sperms lar...

well..who doesnt know now... just too bad they are not educated in this lor.. :sad-2:

[Sarah]

When my sis, Linda got married, one day she fainted when she was having this terrible pain during her menses. When to the hospital for check-up and found out that she had ovarian cysts, one was completely blocked and the other ovarian 3/4 blocked. The doctor told her that her chances of conceiving is slim. But thank God she's now the proud mother of 4!

wah... praise God man...

[Linda C]

When my sis, Linda got married, one day she fainted when she was having this terrible pain during her menses. When to the hospital for check-up and found out that she had ovarian cysts, one was completely blocked and the other ovarian 3/4 blocked. The doctor told her that her chances of conceiving is slim. But thank God she's now the proud mother of 4!

To be honest, conceiving was no problem even with my situation, it's taking care of the four monkeys now that's draining me...... :squeeze:

[Linda C]

We are so proud for her too. Send my regards to Linda will ya?

Thank you........and my regards to you too Jang.... :smile-2:

[vicky boy]

waht his thread turns to women thread liau..... oh ya oh..... the girls are leading... hehehehehee

[LiLiaN]

i've heard of some people saying this before - in modern day and age, better to have daughters coz sons nowadays are being "married out"... really?

[vicky boy]

i've heard of some people saying this before - in modern day and age, better to have daughters coz sons nowadays are being "married out"... really?
aiks :eek: ,.... well what i can say is that nowadays man are not as traditional as before... there is no married out (gha chuk hui) or married in (chui fan lei). there is no difference in my dictionary. there is a bigger family u are in and so both parents and in-law are dear to myheart if i got married.

so lil, dun lah say till guys gonna married out. is just us (man) beeing a loving husband.

[Voon Chan]

aiks :eek: ,.... well what i can say is that nowadays man are not as traditional as before... there is no married out (gha chuk hui) or married in (chui fan lei). there is no difference in my dictionary. there is a bigger family u are in and so both parents and in-law are dear to myheart if i got married.

so lil, dun lah say till guys gonna married out. is just us (man) beeing a loving husband.I agree with you Vicky Boy

[vicky boy]

I agree with you Vicky Boy
five vc.....!!!! :D

[Voon Chan]

five vc.....!!!! :D**vc giving Vic five**

[vicky boy]

**vc giving Vic five**
************piak************* return...

[LiLiaN]

aiks :eek: ,.... well what i can say is that nowadays man are not as traditional as before... there is no married out (gha chuk hui) or married in (chui fan lei). there is no difference in my dictionary. there is a bigger family u are in and so both parents and in-law are dear to myheart if i got married.

so lil, dun lah say till guys gonna married out. is just us (man) beeing a loving husband.eh, i didn't say that lar... i said i heard people saying that... just want some view mah... :noworry:

[Sarah]

i've heard of some people saying this before - in modern day and age, better to have daughters coz sons nowadays are being "married out"... really?

I think ppl say that becuz, when sons get married, they are sooo caught up with taking care of his family, providing for them, spending time with them and etc..becuz of these, the parents may feel left out. This may be particularly true is parents don't stay with the son and his family. So, for them to bring family back to visit parents also will take ages...

Daughters on the other hand are usually more flexible. They can go home as they wish provided husband is ok about it.

But different family have different situations... so, really... it all depends on the son/daughters conscience la. They can show that they love their parents through many ways.

[LiLiaN]

i had to say though, this person i know, her son listens to just about everything his wife says...
go back to his parents-in-law's place more than his own... even though same hometown...
poor thing...

but yeah, otherwise, in general, i've seen mainly a good balance...
especially important for maintaining good relations between the in-laws...

[LiLiaN]

poll closing in a few hours... close run ler...

[KoChun]

Yup, slightly more in favour of a baby girl. :)

[LiLiaN]

closing thread - poll ended, slightly more forummers would like their first child to be a baby girl rather than a baby boy... :)