Love and Lost or Never to have loved at all?

[athena]

this is a spin-off from Dino's phone call thread....


which is better....start a relationship and get hurt....or stay clear....esp frens...who fell in love with each other...dare not start a relationship fearing that it would jeopardize the friendship should the love turn sour.....


give me your view!! :)

[siewjang]

Love and Lost better. Get to taste it. 10 years later can brag about it, "once upon a time i had a gf" :D

[athena]

but frens le.....i mean, you have a gf who's your best fren....satu hari.....break off....you not only lose a gf...you lost a best fren.....

[Voon Chan]

Athena, my wife was a nice friend to me for 6 years
We can talk to each other everything
I ended a relationship with BC
Hers, can't start

We were talking about friend getting together as a couple
(remember, Harry Met Sally?)
We decided to give it a try
lay down all our conditions like a contract

It work very well.
We are so comfortable with each other
1 year & 7 months later, we signed at the doted line at the Registrar of Marriage

[KoChun]

You can lose that girlfriend but she still remains your best friend.

Ponder on this. :)

My opinion, if you are in love, tell her. Don't think too much.

[athena]

You can lose that girlfriend but she still remains your best friend.
Ponder on this. :)

My opinion, if you are in love, tell her. Don't think too much.
possible...but hard.....

[Voon Chan]

possible...but hard.....very difficult

[athena]

very difficult
but u took the chance? why?

[Voon Chan]

but u took the chance? why?I know she is a nice girl.
I have every opportunity to try it out
Why not?
I don't want to write a story like " I should have.............."
Those story lines are for fools
No regret.
BTW, my wife is not my ex-gf. She was just a friend

[KoChun]

My ex-girlfriend is still a very good friend of mine today. :)

[jerrychoo2004]

me no experience on going after a very good fren :o
but i support go for it if have the feeling

[Lava Gal]

i'd definitely say its better to have Loved & Lost :)...at least u dont put ur feelings on a leash and stop urself 4m loosing ur heart

hhmmm...but LOVE...no guarantee it'd be reciprocated rite..sigh..

[Lava Gal]

Lost love...doesnt necessarily mean broke off right?? can oso mean terpisah...am i right

[victor]

You can lose that girlfriend but she still remains your best friend.

Ponder on this. :)

My opinion, if you are in love, tell her. Don't think too much.
Yeah, do not wait till some else tackle then push panic button!

[clos]

i prefer love & lost than nvr to love at all..........omg, tht wld b such a waste if 'never to love'

[Sarah]

I won't start at all... if I know its not a reciprocal love... but if initially things go well but then ended up bad... then I guess, no choice lor.. u cant predict what's in the future rite?

[Lava Gal]

well....u can still love s1 although it isnt reciprocated...some kindof "lost love" too