Stay Single or get married?

[Voon Chan]

One of my friend will always ask me whether he should get married or not.
After 1 month, he still cannot decide.
I have decided that I will get some feed back from our forum members before I talk to him again.

So guys & girls, please share
Thank you

[siewjang]

God made Adam and Eve. If you have found a partner just tie the knot. That is fact.

[athena]

well said jang!!! :)

[siewjang]

The outcome have to wait and see. You will not know if the marriage work until you stay under the same roof. Some ppl say there is evil in the cake that you feed. :D

[Voon Chan]

God made Adam and Eve. If you have found a partner just tie the knot. That is fact.a lot of people think & think but cannot decide

[athena]

vc, i feel it is a gamble.....nothng is certain in life!

[siewjang]

Never be a marriage adviser. When the marriage works, they won't thank you. When the marriage turn sour, they will blame you.

[KoChun]

vc, i feel it is a gamble.....nothng is certain in life!
Life is uncertain, death is certain.

[Lava Gal]

Have u all heard d story bout the grass field...filed is our time, can nvr turn back..so, its all a gamble actually...if ur heart tells u tatz d right person, and u are ready 2 settle down, go & get married :)

[Lava Gal]

Ath> same line of thinking there!

Ah jang> maybe VC can juz highlight 2 the person pros & cons of getting married vs being single...let HIM DECIDE ON HIS OWN! that way he'll be responsible for own decision, and cant point fingers if things dun work out ;)

[Voon Chan]

Ath> same line of thinking there!

Ah jang> maybe VC can juz highlight 2 the person pros & cons of getting married vs being single...let HIM DECIDE ON HIS OWN! that way he'll be responsible for own decision, and cant point fingers if things dun work out ;)I will let him decide

[Voon Chan]

vc, i feel it is a gamble.....nothng is certain in life!no risk no gain

[Voon Chan]

Never be a marriage adviser. When the marriage works, they won't thank you. When the marriage turn sour, they will blame you.this is worst!

[athena]

hehe...i'm just saying gamble...but must also gamble smart....cannot simply have blind luck!! ;)

[Voon Chan]

hehe...i'm just saying gamble...but must also gamble smart....cannot simply have blind luck!! ;)very true!
have to go for a meeting now

Bye! See all of you tomorrow!

[arch-an-gel]

6000 years ago, Adam told by God "it's not good for a man to be alone"

2 is better than one, it's better to get married than to be burnt up or toasted by desires'' :laugh:

[athena]

6000 years ago, Adam told by God "it's not good for a man to be alone"

2 is better than one, it's better to get married than to be burnt up or toasted by desires'' :laugh:
TOASTED BY DESIRES??? :laugh:

serious or not?

[arch-an-gel]

TOASTED BY DESIRES??? :laugh:

serious or not?

tsk tsk tsk..things won't look good when that happens :cheesy:

[daBoss]

better to get married or not? hmm... that is a difficult one...

i guess:
1. if want to enjoy now, don't get married...
2. if want to enjoy later, get married...

make sense?

[athena]

better to get married or not? hmm... that is a difficult one...

i guess:
1. if want to enjoy now, don't get married...
2. if want to enjoy later, get married...

make sense?
haha...wat ya mean by enjoy later?

[Hisham]

After 1 month still not decided then something is wrong.

[Sila]

After 1 month still not decided then something is wrong.
agreeing with hisham...

why all the doubts? is it self doubt or doubt about the relationship. if self doubt, i urge the friend to grow up and make a decision, let the other person go or make the full commitment. cannot be wishy washy.

if doubt about the relationship then perhaps need to do a true pro and con list? (and may i say this is most unromantic...)

[song cm]

haha...wat ya mean by enjoy later?

haha...enjoy later, meaning marry young and when ur kids are older, u r still young enaf to enjoy life...isit??

[Voon Chan]

agreeing with hisham...

why all the doubts? is it self doubt or doubt about the relationship. if self doubt, i urge the friend to grow up and make a decision, let the other person go or make the full commitment. cannot be wishy washy.

if doubt about the relationship then perhaps need to do a true pro and con list? (and may i say this is most unromantic...)to him it is a life time commitment
i think he is doing some risk management, looking at the pros & con
in my opinion, if a person is having doubts in respect of this, don't commit

[Voon Chan]

Let me start with the pros:
1) i can share everything with my wife happiness, sadness, expenses & etc. Always can talk and tell her everything
2) i have a son now as a result of my marriage. Happy to have my own child.
3) my wife is my friend & lover that is always there for you
4) someone i can disturb when I am bored:laugh:

I will continue later

[song cm]

u know...i think the only possible downside in a marriage is dat one always think that the grass is greener on the other side...but often enaf, u hear of cases in which ppl regreted making those mistakes.....

haha....i jus watch a movie on relationship yesterday.....called Closer....nice show

[Voon Chan]

u know...i think the only possible downside in a marriage is dat one always think that the grass is greener on the other side...but often enaf, u hear of cases in which ppl regreted making those mistakes.....

haha....i jus watch a movie on relationship yesterday.....called Closer....nice showpeople make the same mistake again & again under that false assumption.

[song cm]

people make the same mistake again & again under that false assumption.

i guess most ppl never learn until they try......

[athena]

haha...enjoy later, meaning marry young and when ur kids are older, u r still young enaf to enjoy life...isit??
i mean that would be having kids only...when you marry...do you don't have to get the kiddies so soon?

[Voon Chan]

i guess most ppl never learn until they try......I believed that after trying, the will make the same mistake again.
they must 1st realised their mistake

[song cm]

i mean that would be having kids only...when you marry...do you don't have to get the kiddies so soon?

true....but sometimes accident happens worr... :laugh:

[Voon Chan]

true....but sometimes accident happens worr... :laugh:buy insurancelah!
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[song cm]

buy insurancelah!
Durex policy is very good isn't it.
99.99% safe

hahah...sometimes in the heat of the moment......forgot all abt C....somemore diff worr..... :laugh:

[athena]

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[Voon Chan]

hahah...sometimes in the heat of the moment......forgot all abt C....somemore diff worr..... :laugh:that one must you the CI technique:laugh:

[song cm]

that one must you the CI technique:laugh:

haha...this one 50% failure rate lar..... :laugh:

[Voon Chan]

haha...this one 50% failure rate lar..... :laugh:so bad ke?
I got 100% ratelah:laugh:

[song cm]

so bad ke?
I got 100% ratelah:laugh:

haha....u lucky lar..... :laugh:

[Voon Chan]

haha....u lucky lar..... :laugh:I think so too

BTW, share with us you pros & con of getting married

[song cm]

I think so too

BTW, share with us you pros & con of getting married

for me, it is definitely more pros than cons....

here are the pros.....
1) u hv someone to share ur happinese n problems with...24x7
2) life is definitely more interestin with havin a better half, at least u don have to worry abt goin to movies n dinner alone,
3) i think the most important aspects wld be building a family together....buyin a hse, hv kids, watch the kids grow, hv grdkids....

for me, no major con except for the one that i mentioned earlier....ppl always think that the grass is greener on the other end and worried that they will lose the green pastures once they get married....but why do u need green pastures when u get to have a durian plantation...... :laugh:

[Voon Chan]

but why do u need green pastures when u get to have a durian plantation...... :laugh:Thank you Song
I think they are worried that the durian will fall on their head one day

[song cm]

Thank you Song
I think they are worried that the durian will fall on their head one day

haha...true...someone durian acquired taste one...some ppl might not like it....

[Voon Chan]

Song, what are the cons of a marriage?

[song cm]

Song, what are the cons of a marriage?

for me....the biggest con is that I tend to lose touch with frens as I am really family orientated person....ie don do things without mrs and kids....guess i feel that they are a part of me in which i like to be with at all times....

also, i do believe that if u r single, u r able to focus on ur carreer better, ie can relocate urself as and when needed, work longer hours without havin any guilt.......

but as they say, u cant hv the best of both worlds....

[buff]

One of my friend will always ask me whether he should get married or not.
After 1 month, he still cannot decide.
I have decided that I will get some feed back from our forum members before I talk to him again.

So guys & girls, please share
Thank you

when u say 'single', did u mean to just remain as 'partners' or remain single i.e. not in a exclusive relationship?

[Dino]

Single or married is all up to the individual. Both have good and bad sides.
Not everyone's destiny is to be married or vice versa....some fair better single and some fair better married. Personally, its the fear of a lifetime commitment to a single person(what if i stop loving her) and the responsibility of making sure your kid/kids have the best life possible is not something i am willing to commit to. Besides, i am not an easy person to live with so its better for me and save her the misery of dealing with me. She's probably better off with a better person!! :)

[Voon Chan]

also, i do believe that if u r single, u r able to focus on ur carreer better, ie can relocate urself as and when needed, work longer hours without havin any guilt........I always think that affter marriage, my career is better.
I can take up a new job without worrying of zero income
I can also focus on my job as I don't need to go dating, watch movie & etc,
The moment I reach home my wife & son is there. It is a joy to see them

[euj]

One of my friend will always ask me whether he should get married or not.
After 1 month, he still cannot decide.
I have decided that I will get some feed back from our forum members before I talk to him again.

So guys & girls, please share
Thank you
if you cannot decide, then that's decided lah - the answer is stay single...

[song cm]

if you cannot decide, then that's decided lah - the answer is stay single...

haha...euj, i think u r rite on...

[buff]

Personally, its the fear of a lifetime commitment to a single person(what if i stop loving her) and the responsibility of making sure your kid/kids have the best life possible is not something i am willing to commit to. :)


i dun understand how 1 can just stop loving the wife/husband.... unless it wasn't love in the first place... coz' u never stop 'loving' ur family members, right?

[siewjang]

i dun understand how 1 can just stop loving the wife/husband.... unless it wasn't love in the first place... coz' u never stop 'loving' ur family members, right?
Not necessary love at first sight. Ppl tend to get bored with each other. That is when they stop loving their spouses. Or they found someone who is better than the present.

[Dino]

Not necessary love at first sight. Ppl tend to get bored with each other. That is when they stop loving their spouses. Or they found someone who is better than the present.

Sad but true.....

[siewjang]

And when that happen, the question is always WHY? WHY ME?? :crying:

[buff]

Not necessary love at first sight. Ppl tend to get bored with each other. That is when they stop loving their spouses. Or they found someone who is better than the present.

then after being with the other person for a while, discover that the person is not much better than the spouse... then regret big time :crying: ... grass always looks greener until u get over the fence...

[Dino]

then after being with the other person for a while, discover that the person is not much better than the spouse... then regret big time :crying: ... grass always looks greener until u get over the fence...

but what if that other person is better than your current spouse???

[Voon Chan]

when u say 'single', did u mean to just remain as 'partners' or remain single i.e. not in a exclusive relationship?remain a partner & not going to marry or start a family life

[song cm]

but what if that other person is better than your current spouse???

dats why rule of thumb...don even go there....find hobbies....make urself occupied....

[Voon Chan]

dats why rule of thumb...don even go there....find hobbies....make urself occupied....very true!
Have fun with your kids & wife, you will have no time for anything else

[euj]

i dun understand how 1 can just stop loving the wife/husband.... unless it wasn't love in the first place... coz' u never stop 'loving' ur family members, right?
i guess as with most things it's a choice. you can choose to break of ties with your family if you want...

[Voon Chan]

i guess as with most things it's a choice. you can choose to break of ties with your family if you want...If you're forcing it, you're doing something wrong-Euj's Dad
Take it easy

[euj]

Not necessary love at first sight. Ppl tend to get bored with each other. That is when they stop loving their spouses. Or they found someone who is better than the present.
that's why if you are not completely sure about the other person, don't get married. better just to wait and take your time. like one of my favourite singers sang, ' no love is better than crap love'.

[Diong_Gar_Loon]

better to get married or not? hmm... that is a difficult one...

i guess:
1. if want to enjoy now, don't get married...
2. if want to enjoy later, get married...

make sense?
wise words of the day.

[siewjang]

that's why if you are not completely sure about the other person, don't get married. better just to wait and take your time. like one of my favourite singers sang, ' no love is better than crap love'.
You won't know a person completely until you have married them. That is why things only go wrong when they are pronounce man and wife. I think marriage is blind too.

[euj]

You won't know a person completely until you have married them. That is why things only go wrong when they are pronounce man and wife. I think marriage is blind too.
actually, from my experience, if you've known the person for a while, the signs will be there before you get married, but our hearts deceive us and we push aside the negatives before we get married.

[LiLiaN]

agree with hisham and sila and euj... if in doubt for this long, then marriage is not for him... one should not have this kind of doubt like this... at least not for this long in my opinion... is he feeling like he should get married just because he ought to..? then, that's not marriage, that's conforming to ideas...

[siewjang]

actually, from my experience, if you've known the person for a while, the signs will be there before you get married, but our hearts deceive us and we push aside the negatives before we get married.
That the whole problem.

[euj]

That the whole problem.
so how?

[song cm]

so how?
for me....I am all for married....i believe if would totally work if one is reasonable and able to "give n take"

[Voon Chan]

agree with hisham and sila and euj... if in doubt for this long, then marriage is not for him... one should not have this kind of doubt like this... at least not for this long in my opinion... is he feeling like he should get married just because he ought to..? then, that's not marriage, that's conforming to ideas...Very true, people marry for the wrong reason, conforming with ideas & following the norms

[euj]

i think sometimes people are just incompatible and they should have realised that before they got married....

[buff]

dats why rule of thumb...don even go there....find hobbies....make urself occupied....

wise words indeed... i'm sure if we're honest with ourselves, our spouses are not the absolutely best person is the world... especially when we age, grow fat etc etc, the younger ones will look attractive... so dun play with fire... i know of a few who have been burnt badly coz' they thought it's safe to just 'play a little'...

[buff]

You won't know a person completely until you have married them. That is why things only go wrong when they are pronounce man and wife. I think marriage is blind too.

so is it better to do what is practised in the west - live together first and decide later? :huh:

[athena]

so is it better to do what is practised in the west - live together first and decide later? :huh:
somehow the west have a higher failed marriage rate than the east? :blink:

[daBoss]

so is it better to do what is practised in the west - live together first and decide later? :huh:
erm... i think not just live together... :o

[siewjang]

so how?
That is why we have something called "DIVOURCE". :(

[Voon Chan]

wise words indeed... i'm sure if we're honest with ourselves, our spouses are not the absolutely best person is the world... especially when we age, grow fat etc etc, the younger ones will look attractive... so dun play with fire... i know of a few who have been burnt badly coz' they thought it's safe to just 'play a little'...no one can get the best because nobody is perfect including myself

[Hisham]

To be fair no two human beings (or ducks and lampposts), for that matter are completely compatible. The thing is to accept this fact, and make sure both parties accept and can live with these slight incompatibilities.

If you're looking for your 100% perfect partner... I'm not saying they don't exist, but you'd be hard-pressed looking for him or her.

If you're a peace-loving vegetarian and you marry a person who works at an abattoir in the day and a serial killer at night (that is to say super-duper incompatible), then you might be in trouble.

If you can accept your partner's slight incompatibilities, then you're a-okay.

[siewjang]

so is it better to do what is practised in the west - live together first and decide later? :huh:
Some live for a decade and still can't decide.

[Voon Chan]

so is it better to do what is practised in the west - live together first and decide later? :huh:do some test drive first is it?

[siewjang]

So now back to square one. That undecided person will look for Dr. Love. And Dr. Love will seek consultation or opinion from her comrades. :D

[siewjang]

Good say Hisham. No one is perfect.

[buff]

somehow the west have a higher failed marriage rate than the east? :blink:

i think that statistics could be 'skewed' coz:

1) relatively few people get married... so denominator is smaller - higher %

2) a lot of people in the east dun divorce - they simply have mistresses. would u consider this a failed marriage?

3) the most shocking of all, is that i heard someone said that divorce rate is abt 33% in m'sia... this is not publicised so we still think it's low...

[song cm]

wise words indeed... i'm sure if we're honest with ourselves, our spouses are not the absolutely best person is the world... especially when we age, grow fat etc etc, the younger ones will look attractive... so dun play with fire... i know of a few who have been burnt badly coz' they thought it's safe to just 'play a little'...

haha...sikit sikit lama menjadi bukit..... :laugh:

[Voon Chan]

So now back to square one. That undecided person will look for Dr. Love. And Dr. Love will seek consultation or opinion from her comrades. :DDr.Love can only present the pros & cons. The rest is up to him

SJ, please tell me the pros & con from your own experience

[daBoss]

So now back to square one. That undecided person will look for Dr. Love. And Dr. Love will seek consultation or opinion from her comrades. :D
dem!!! dr love... your services will be very much in demand after this...

[Voon Chan]

dem!!! dr love... your services will be very much in demand after this...Will open a clinic soon.
Boss, free service for you

[daBoss]

i think that statistics could be 'skewed' coz:

1) relatively few people get married... so denominator is smaller - higher %

2) a lot of people in the east dun divorce - they simply have mistresses. would u consider this a failed marriage?

3) the most shocking of all, is that i heard someone said that divorce rate is abt 33% in m'sia... this is not publicised so we still think it's low...
i seriously think that if we disregard the lgal perspective, i think it's worse in the east - mistresses, visiting prostitutes, flirting around, extra services in massage parlour, etc...

comments?

[daBoss]

Will open a clinic soon.
Boss, free service for you
hahaha... hopefully i will never need your services... dalady's a great partner in life...

[Voon Chan]

i seriously think that if we disregard the lgal perspective, i think it's worse in the east - mistresses, visiting prostitutes, flirting around, extra services in massage parlour, etc...

comments?i don't think is east or west
I think is the individual

[siewjang]

SJ, please tell me the pros & con from your own experience
I'm in a state of unsound mind right now. Let me settle down and get back to you again.

[Voon Chan]

hahaha... hopefully i will never need your services... dalady's a great partner in life...glad to hear that from you

[Voon Chan]

I'm in a state of unsound mind right now. Let me settle down and get back to you again.I hope is not post natal blues
Please take care SJ

[athena]

i seriously think that if we disregard the lgal perspective, i think it's worse in the east - mistresses, visiting prostitutes, flirting around, extra services in massage parlour, etc...

comments?
you'll be quite surprised that many gals are willing to suffer the hubby philandering rather than to divorce...

[siewjang]

I hope is not post natal blues
Please take care SJ
Oh, no lar. Kids also no time to look after. How to think of marriage.

I need someone to boil me herb. Dr. Love punya clinic ada kah?

[Hisham]

Oh, no lar. Kids also no time to look after. How to think of marriage.

I need someone to boil me herb. Dr. Love punya clinic ada kah?
How about if I boil you some people instead? Very satisfying listening to them scream.

[buff]

you'll be quite surprised that many gals are willing to suffer the hubby philandering rather than to divorce...

not the current generation.... would u?

[Voon Chan]

you'll be quite surprised that many gals are willing to suffer the hubby philandering rather than to divorce...true,

[Voon Chan]

Oh, no lar. Kids also no time to look after. How to think of marriage.

I need someone to boil me herb. Dr. Love punya clinic ada kah?ada, but it I really need a lot of time to do it
At the moment it is for my wife only

[athena]

not the current generation.... would u?
i am talking about current generation.....i really do not know.. as far now...definately no...when other factors comes in....i wouldn't know what i would do!

[siewjang]

How about if I boil you some people instead? Very satisfying listening to them scream.
Gila ka you? :amazed:

[Voon Chan]

i am talking about current generation.....i really do not know.. as far now...definately no...when other factors comes in....i wouldn't know what i would do!yes! others factors like a child you mean

[euj]

so is it better to do what is practised in the west - live together first and decide later? :huh:
i wouldn't think it's any better, just that it's another option.

[euj]

somehow the west have a higher failed marriage rate than the east? :blink:
i wouldn't necessarily call that bad though. i know a lot of people in malaysia and singapore who stay married just cos they are supposed and society pressure.

[euj]

That is why we have something called "DIVOURCE". :(
how come you spell it with a u?

[euj]

To be fair no two human beings (or ducks and lampposts), for that matter are completely compatible. The thing is to accept this fact, and make sure both parties accept and can live with these slight incompatibilities.

If you're looking for your 100% perfect partner... I'm not saying they don't exist, but you'd be hard-pressed looking for him or her.

If you're a peace-loving vegetarian and you marry a person who works at an abattoir in the day and a serial killer at night (that is to say super-duper incompatible), then you might be in trouble.

If you can accept your partner's slight incompatibilities, then you're a-okay.
i've always wondered about that. if we want all these wonderful attributes in our potential partner, are we all that good ourselves?

[euj]

Some live for a decade and still can't decide.
i think if you live together for more than a year or two and don't get married, it could mean either:
a) you have something against marriage, some issue to do with marriage, not ready to get married, don't think getting married is important; or
b) it's the wrong person.

[euj]

i think that statistics could be 'skewed' coz:

1) relatively few people get married... so denominator is smaller - higher %

2) a lot of people in the east dun divorce - they simply have mistresses. would u consider this a failed marriage?

3) the most shocking of all, is that i heard someone said that divorce rate is abt 33% in m'sia... this is not publicised so we still think it's low...
well thought out. i enjoyed reading that.

[euj]

i seriously think that if we disregard the lgal perspective, i think it's worse in the east - mistresses, visiting prostitutes, flirting around, extra services in massage parlour, etc...

comments?
cuold be. i often think that people in the east are very hypocritical. as long as things look ok on the outside to them, then they think it's ok. for example:
- when it comes to morality, asians make such as issue about not divorcing, not taking drugs, not drinking too much. on the hand, corruption is so rife in many asian countries, and there is inequality between sexes, different classes and lack of civil liberties and human rights.

[athena]

cuold be. i often think that people in the east are very hypocritical. as long as things look ok on the outside to them, then they think it's ok. for example:
- when it comes to morality, asians make such as issue about not divorcing, not taking drugs, not drinking too much. on the hand, corruption is so rife in many asian countries, and there is inequality between sexes, different classes and lack of civil liberties and human rights.
gotta agree wif u!

[daBoss]

well thought out. i enjoyed reading that.
have you given him a positive vote then? :)

[euj]

have you given him a positive vote then? :)
i did actually. wrote a little comment too! :)

[Voon Chan]

i wouldn't necessarily call that bad though. i know a lot of people in malaysia and singapore who stay married just cos they are supposed and society pressure.this is true. They suffer alone.
Some also due to religious reason
A lot of people today live to please the world

[Jacinta Goh]

Hi guys

Just feel like sharing this interesting topic. Well, first of all must search your heart whether you really love that person or not before you make your decision. I think love can conquer everythings whether your marriage is happy or not at the end of the day. The most important is to share the happy and sad moment together till the end if u decide to marry somebody. As u know in church marriage both party have to said a pledge that 'i will love you always in bad, sickness, health and happy' which means that is our life when we are really to share our saddness and happiness together with somebody. Whatever decision it maybe just be contented and happy where you are. As marriage couple i felt there happy when there are somebody to share with you the happy and sad moment in life. rite? My conclusion is the choice is yours. ha.. have a great day.

[Voon Chan]

Jacinta, great to hear from you again.
Yes, the choice is in his hand.
Sad to say, most people today only want the sweet part

[James Nga]

Jacinta, great to hear from you again.
Yes, the choice is in his hand.
Sad to say, most people today only want the sweet part

Yo what happen to this thread? I enjoyed the diskusi..

why? Semua suda takut kahwin ka? :squeeze:

Mebbe we shall start another thread - Kahwin Apa Style? (koboi, jepon, kiam siak..). :p

[Voon Chan]

Yo what happen to this thread? I enjoyed the diskusi..

why? Semua suda takut kahwin ka? :squeeze:

Mebbe we shall start another thread - Kahwin Apa Style? (koboi, jepon, kiam siak..). :pno problem
start thread

[Lava Gal]

Yo what happen to this thread? I enjoyed the diskusi..

why? Semua suda takut kahwin ka? :squeeze:

Mebbe we shall start another thread - Kahwin Apa Style? (koboi, jepon, kiam siak..). :p
underwater, sky wedding, etc etc...?

[Voon Chan]

underwater, sky wedding, etc etc...?awak ini banyak pandai

[Lava Gal]

:laugh: :laugh: so..is there a thread on tat ah

juz remembered some fantasies bout weddings me & some frenz had before

[Voon Chan]

:laugh: :laugh: so..is there a thread on tat ah

juz remembered some fantasies bout weddings me & some frenz had beforeno!

[euj]

i highly recommend getting married as long as both parties are at the stage to get married and are really sure about it. if there's any doubt, don't do it. it's not worth it, but when it's good, it's really good...
oh yeah, also, don't do it for anyone else but for yourself...

[Lava Gal]

euj is right!
ermm...does the same goes for love...i guesss it does huh...coz few days back someone mentioned to me, "being in love in Heavenly, so dun lock ur heart" :laugh:

[Voon Chan]

euj is right!
ermm...does the same goes for love...i guesss it does huh...coz few days back someone mentioned to me, "being in love in Heavenly, so dun lock ur heart" :laugh:i agree with him too
do it for love not anything else

[Lava Gal]

yes master...but how do u know if its realli luv?
seems like u have to reopen ur Love clinic la, doctor...

[euj]

gee, thanks for the support guys... :)
my advise to my brother who's 22 is - take your time. don't marry the first girl you hook up with unless you're very, very sure...

[Lava Gal]

the first might not be the one, eh euj?

remember reading this sumwer

Don't marry someone u can life with...marry someone u CANT life without :amused:

[Voon Chan]

yes master...but how do u know if its realli luv?
seems like u have to reopen ur Love clinic la, doctor...Long answer
Will tell you tomorrow

[Lava Gal]

ok ok...will be waiting for ur clinic tom;)

[Voon Chan]

Thank, going off now

[Lava Gal]

From THE STAR (http://thestar.com.my/lifestyle/story.asp?file=/2005/7/12/lifefocus/11439215&sec=lifefocus)

[James Nga]

Long answer
Will tell you tomorrow

Let tis young Jedi try to answer on behalf of the "Sifu": -

Love is sweet, :amused:

Marriage is Heavenly.. :D ....BUT...

Divorce is Better.... errkk... Bitter!! :wacko: (just kiddin' he..he..)

[Lava Gal]

Let tis young Jedi try to answer on behalf of the "Sifu": -

Love is sweet, :amused:

Marriage is Heavenly.. :D ....BUT...

Divorce is Better.... errkk... Bitter!! :wacko: (just kiddin' he..he..)
:p shant comment yet

[Hisham]

From THE STAR (http://thestar.com.my/lifestyle/story.asp?file=/2005/7/12/lifefocus/11439215&sec=lifefocus)
Obviously a teenager (or just out of teen) voicing her angsty and cynical opinion on the matter. At that age, any issue is a heavy, world changing affair that you to not just have an opinion about, but voice it out to the entire world. Wait til the reality sets it in her mid and late 20s, then she'll see the light. ;)