who's married ?

[darthvader]

i know that teik heng, andrew, kah hock, tien yew, daboss and amy are married. who else ah ? curious lah

[siewjang]

Ling Siew Teng, Lim Khoon Bin, Quah Wei Chin, David See, Ling Shiang Peng... who else you want to know? :D

[darthvader]

wah ! so many already ah ! thanks :)

[siewjang]

I think this is only 5% of your yearmate. Daboss can confirm more :cheesy:

[JC]

At 33, many oledi married lah...

[siewjang]

Oh yah. JC Wong is married and so do Lek Suan & Lek Chian.

[Fulat]

except me!! still open 4 grabs!! any takers?

[t-wei]

except me!! still open 4 grabs!! any takers?

I heard u got takers, but u play hard to get!!

[natalie]

Fulat, I am suggesting you put up an ad about this, may be after you get an approval from Daboss to place a sticky note for announcement....
just kidding.... :p

[Fulat]

Fulat, I am suggesting you put up an ad about this, may be after you get an approval from Daboss to place a sticky note for announcement....
just kidding.... :p

You want to apply izzit? just say so lah! No need to beat round the bushes!! hahaha... :p

[daBoss]

fulat will not get married in the near future... he's too much in love with himself - once in a while look for new software to try out... :)

[amelia7]

wah jc u turn so hensem already-ah? Cute avatar. Where is your sis ah? Is she in the forum?
At 33, many oledi married lah...

[amelia7]

then if that is the case, u should have a thread who is still not married yet, then have a matchmake service attached also...

At 33, many oledi married lah...

[Anson F-Clef]

then if that is the case, u should have a thread who is still not married yet, then have a matchmake service attached also...

Hehehe don't have me counted out yet...btw Amelia, howbout Adrian??

[cireria]

...btw Amelia, howbout Adrian??
dude, don't la mention people's real name... potong steam only...

[Lava Gal]

fulat will not get married in the near future... he's too much in love with himself - once in a while look for new software to try out... :)

Fulat...now in Psychological term, that is a "Narcissistic Personality" ;)
Remember da Greek God Narcissus...hah...be careful! dun fall in lurve wif ur own rflection yea Fulat.. :cheesy:

[Lava Gal]

then if that is the case, u should have a thread who is still not married yet, then have a matchmake service attached also...


sounds like a good business-prospect yea, amelia...can have d satisfaction of pairing up people...and earn some pocet $$$ along d way ;)

[cireria]

smurf... u married or not?

[cireria]

mana itu fulat?... heard he was getting married... on honeymoon ka?

[darthvader]

cireria, you married or not ? on the way ??? :D

[cireria]

cireria, you married or not ? on the way ??? :D
is that an invitation to join the dark force?! need some time to consider...

done... for the time being, you won't see me on the who's married list...

[SS2006]

The last time you all were talking about married/single stuff, Cireria went MIA. Now this topic pop up again, time to get into real action. I'm looking forward to welcome you into the married 'uncle/auntie' club, cireria.
"If you can't beat them, join them"

[daBoss]

cireria already look and behave like uncle - even though not married... :)

[darthvader]

is that an invitation to join the dark force?! need some time to consider...

done... for the time being, you won't see me on the who's married list...
welcome to the dark side of the force...ha ha ha

[darthvader]

The last time you all were talking about married/single stuff, Cireria went MIA. Now this topic pop up again, time to get into real action. I'm looking forward to welcome you into the married 'uncle/auntie' club, cireria.
"If you can't beat them, join them"

well, the other way is if you can't beat them, recruit them to the "dark side" he he he

[darthvader]

cireria already look and behave like uncle - even though not married... :)
really ah ? to the extent that the staff at mcdonald's or kfc call you "uncle" ? ha ha ha

[cireria]

all you 89 fellers kahwin already one kasi tulis your name here... give some inspiration and encouragement to fulat who's seriously thinking about settling down...

1. daboss
2. jcwong
3. buff
4. smurf
5.

[darthvader]

all you 89 fellers kahwin already one kasi tulis your name here... give some inspiration and encouragement to fulat who's seriously thinking about settling down...

1. daboss
2. jcwong
3. buff
4. smurf
5.

well, it'll be an inspiration to me as well ha ha

[SS2006]

Yeah, an inspiration to Fulat and Darthvader and Cireria and whoever it may concern. Don't wait until we become datuk and nenek only get your wedding invitation. Datuk and Datin can.

[darthvader]

Yeah, an inspiration to Fulat and Darthvader and Cireria and whoever it may concern. Don't wait until we become datuk and nenek only get your wedding invitation. Datuk and Datin can.

like that ah...give us a time frame lah when you guys/gals will be "promoted" to become datuk and nenek....do we have about 20 more years ? he he he

[daBoss]

Yeah, an inspiration to Fulat and Darthvader and Cireria and whoever it may concern. Don't wait until we become datuk and nenek only get your wedding invitation. Datuk and Datin can.
shirlene, all of them are too choosy lah... especially that fulat - kaki main pirated software... only want to test drive... :)

[darthvader]

just a bit off topic...are the ling twins here ? :D

[daBoss]

nope... they were one of the first few that i sent forum invites out... sadly, never even bother to reply...

you have the younger twin's contact number? call him and ask him to join lah...

[SMURF]

Some inspiration ...

http://sunth.aspxconnection.com/whatisfamily.jpg

[daBoss]

how come i dun see your face in the picture?

[buff]

shirlene, all of them are too choosy lah... especially that fulat - kaki main pirated software... only want to test drive... :)

me also love to test drive, but cars only :p

[cireria]

Some inspiration...
don't think it'll do any good... those still not married too smart to be fooled...

[darthvader]

nope... they were one of the first few that i sent forum invites out... sadly, never even bother to reply...

you have the younger twin's contact number? call him and ask him to join lah...

lost contact already lah

[darthvader]

don't think it'll do any good... those still not married too smart to be fooled...

ha ha ha that's a good one

[cireria]

acs marry acs one how many?

[darthvader]

acs marry acs one how many?

i only know of one....the elder ling twins, right ? :cool:

[JC]

i only know of one....the elder ling twins, right ? :cool:
Condemn, bro!!! daboss also acs kahwin acs.... :laugh:

[SS2006]

Condemn, bro!!! daboss also acs kahwin acs.... :laugh:
Who else acs kahwin acs? That should be interesting....

[cireria]

only 3 ekor it seems...

[SS2006]

only 3 ekor it seems...
Siapa satu ekor lagi?

[cireria]

sorry wrong number... that one more ekor i was actually thinking about the anjing gila but daboss pukul until that feller die already throw into longkang nearby office... very traumatic experience for me that's why got confused... so 3-1=2 ekor...

[darthvader]

sorry wrong number... that one more ekor i was actually thinking about the anjing gila but daboss pukul until that feller die already throw into longkang nearby office... very traumatic experience for me that's why got confused... so 3-1=2 ekor...

you are joking, right ????

[JC]

Thought of one more ekor....
Khoon Bin + Siew Teng...:)

[darthvader]

Thought of one more ekor....
Khoon Bin + Siew Teng...:)

siew teng is a cousin of the the ling twins ? just curious ....getting old already ha ha

[JC]

siew teng is a cousin of the the ling twins ? just curious ....getting old already ha ha
Not sure leh... can someone confirm this?

[cireria]

you are joking, right ????
of course lah joking only... i knew subconsciously there was a no.3 but didn't know who it was so just simply came up with that piece of dog shit... temporary bs story... now i know who i was thinking about... it's khoon bin la...

[buff]

siew teng is a cousin of the the ling twins ? just curious ....getting old already ha ha

yes...

there could have been another... if warhammer had his way :p

[cireria]

good thing there was not another there... otherwise got chance read case on wife abuse in newspaper... as it turns out, warhammer found himself a top class lady... lucky bastard...

[darthvader]

good thing there was not another there... otherwise got chance read case on wife abuse in newspaper... as it turns out, warhammer found himself a top class lady... lucky bastard...

when and who did he marry ?

[cireria]

married long time already that guy... cannot remember when already... anak sudah dua... just get that feller to attend the next round of drinks together with wifey...

[cyclone]

jc, siew teng is part of the ling clan. u're rite.

another pasang acs-acs : sharon & mike.

kira 89 only rite? if not, got banyak acs + acs.

[JC]

another pasang acs-acs : sharon & mike.
Aiyo!! You all '89 dem teruk... sharon also can forget lah...:p
cireria, especially you... how could you have forgotten sharon??:mad:

[cireria]

who this sharon? never heard of the name... don't know what kok u toking say sharon stone married mike & the mechanics...

[daBoss]

sharon = discipline master's daughter...

[JC]

mike = Mr. Lee's son...:)

[darthvader]

who this sharon? never heard of the name... don't know what kok u toking say sharon stone married mike & the mechanics...

i think i used to call her seok bin as opposed to sharon. i am sure you remember....you have a better memory than me ha ha :D

[cireria]

oic... what about u? still tss or maybe people call u something else these days... maybe carlpal tss...

[darthvader]

oic... what about u? still tss or maybe people call u something else these days... maybe carlpal tss...

well, friends will call me either "s" or "ss". opponents will call me "t" ha ha :D by the way, not qualified to earn that tag yet....need to grow more grey hair and join "rocket" :cool:

[cireria]

well, friends will call me either "s" or "ss". opponents will call me "t" ha ha :D
for those who don't know darthvader...
"s" - song (syiok)
"ss" - sibeh song (dem kaw syiok)
"t" - tiu (see already know they're farked)

[darthvader]

for those who don't know darthvader...
"s" - song (syiok)
"ss" - sibeh song (dem kaw syiok)
"t" - tiu (see already know they're farked)

bro, i have no idea what it means...cantonese or ??? :cool:

[cireria]

maybe bcos not married that's why no idea what it means... otherwise sure t-s-ss...

[SS2006]

maybe bcos not married that's why no idea what it means... otherwise sure t-s-ss...
But you know... although not married... hmm...

[cireria]

what to do... surrounded by those who are married... keep listening to their stories...

[SS2006]

what to do... surrounded by those who are married... keep listening to their stories...
You sure or not. Second hand smoke can kill you, but second hand experience can convince you??!!!

[buff]

You sure or not. Second hand smoke can kill you, but second hand experience can convince you??!!!

a wise man once said : "if u can have all the milk u want, why buy a cow?"... ;)

[daBoss]

a wise man once said : "if u can have all the milk u want, why buy a cow?"... ;)
what a dumb quote... milk alone won't keep you healthy... you need beef too...

[darthvader]

i thought we were talking about....hmm...what were we talking about ? :eek:

[SMURF]

:wacko:
Dear Systems Analyst,

I am desperate for some help! I recently upgraded my program from
Girlfriend 7.0 to Wife 1.0 and found that the new program began
unexpected
child processing and also took up a lot of space and valuable
resources.

This wasn't mentioned in the product brochure. In addition Wife 1.0
installs itself into all other programs and launches during systems
initialization,where it monitors all other system activities.

Applications such as "Boys' Night Out 2.5" and "Golf 5.3" no longer
run, and crash the system whenever selected.

Attempting to operate selected "Saturday Rugby 6.3" always fails and
Saturday Shopping 7.1" runs instead. I cannot seem to keep Wife 1.0
in the background whilst attempting to run any of my favourite applications.

I am thinking of going back to "Girlfriend7.0", but de-installing
doesn't work on this program.

Can you please help?

---------------------------------------------------------------------
AND THIS IS WHAT THE ANALYST SAID:
---------------------------------------------------------------------

Dear Customer,

This is a very common problem resulting from a basic
misunderstanding.
Manycustomers upgrade from Girlfriend 7.0 to Wife 1.0 thinking that Wife
1.0 is merely an UTILITIES AND ENTERTAINMENT PROGRAM. Actually, Wife 1.0 is an OPERATING SYSTEM designed by its Creator to run everything.

You are unlikely to be able to purge Wife 1.0 and still convert back
to Girlfriend 7.0, as Wife 1.0 was not designed to do this and it is
Impossible to uninstall, delete or purge the program files from the
system once it is installed.

Some people have tried to install Girlfriend 8.0 or Wife 2.0 but have
ended up with even more problems. (See manual under Alimony/Child Support
and Solicitors' Fees).

Having Wife 1.0 installed myself, I recommend you keep it installed
and deal with the difficulties as best as you can. When any faults or
problems occur, whatever you think has caused them, you must run the C:
\APOLOGIZE\FORGIVEME program and avoid attempting to use the
Esc-Key.

It may be necessary to run C:\APOLOGIZE\FORGIVE ME a number of times,
and eventually hope that the operating system will return to normal.

Wife 1.0, although a very high-maintenance programme, can be very
rewarding. To get the most out of it, consider buying additional
software such as "Flowers 2.0" and "Chocolates 5.0" or "HUGS\KISSES
600.0" or "TENDERNESS\UNDERSTANDING 1000.0", or even
"EatingOutWithoutTheKids 7.2.1"
(if child processing has already started).

DO NOT under any circumstances install "BarGirl 2.1" (Short Skirt Version)
or "OneNightStand 3.2" (any version), as this is not a supported
application for Wife 1.0 and the system will almost certainly crash.

BEST OF LUCK!

Your Systems Analyst

[LiLiaN]

hahahaha.... kochun had a similar story before, but in the opposing direction - woman upgrading boyfriend to husband package... :laugh:

[KongMing]

what a dumb quote... milk alone won't keep you healthy... you need beef too...

I read an office email saying '' She want just a sausage, why buy the whole pig" :laugh:

[cireria]

how can man like this... you married people all not saying the right things man... where got they marry you for sausage, milk, beef, etc... it's for love babe... hehe

[daBoss]

look who's talking - cireria the last bachelor standing... :)

[cireria]

look who's talking - cireria the last bachelor standing... :)
no lah... fulat, rsktan and i'm sure got many others...

[darthvader]

how can man like this... you married people all not saying the right things man... where got they marry you for sausage, milk, beef, etc... it's for love babe... hehe

it's for love ....YES !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :D

[Jinwei Pho]

Hi there guys & gals! Just stumbled on this website by accident due to boredom at work. Glad to know that most of you are still in touch with each other. Hope to catch up with all the latest news from all of you & BTW, yeah, I am married with 2 kids. :p

[daBoss]

...Just stumbled on this website by accident due to boredom at work...
hahaha... 1st post also start to bluff already... i asked you younger sister to drag you in and she told me she has passed the info to you...

anyway, welcome, welcome... most of the gang are already in...

i'm married too - also 2 kids - 1 boy and 1 girl...

[Jinwei Pho]

despite daBoss' claims, i really forgot that my sis told me about this site...anyhoo...will be in Singapore on the 29th of June...so, dinner's on me that evening for hoever willing to come.. :eek:

[daBoss]

:) ok, ok... i may have been mistaken... but it sure is good to ahve you in here... :)

[james 89]

despite daBoss' claims, i really forgot that my sis told me about this site...anyhoo...will be in Singapore on the 29th of June...so, dinner's on me that evening for hoever willing to come.. :eek:

oiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii who is this fella, dun remember got such person. i think wrong year lah. maybe year 98 lar.

[SMURF]

hahaha... 1st post also start to bluff already... i asked you younger sister to drag you in and she told me she has passed the info to you...

anyway, welcome, welcome... most of the gang are already in...

i'm married too - also 2 kids - 1 boy and 1 girl...

I also married already but no kid yet ... :h: and I know someone in the forum is getting married soon ....

[shiruikage]

well, not getting married anytime soon, but what u guys think of wedding underwater using scuba gears? or for that matter, wedding officiated by an archery contest, ala robin hood?

[Fulat]

no lah... fulat, rsktan and i'm sure got many others...

Eh! A chick is arranging for me to meet her 2 more chickadee friends!! Life is good to be a bachelor.....

If only I was married..*sigh*...than I dont have to spend time knowing and partying with young, hot & cute chicks!!!

[darthvader]

Hi there guys & gals! Just stumbled on this website by accident due to boredom at work. Glad to know that most of you are still in touch with each other. Hope to catch up with all the latest news from all of you & BTW, yeah, I am married with 2 kids. :p

good to see you in the forum...haven't heard from you in a long, long time :D

[darthvader]

oiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii who is this fella, dun remember got such person. i think wrong year lah. maybe year 98 lar.

of course got this fellar lah...your old classmate lah :D

[darthvader]

I also married already but no kid yet ... :h: and I know someone in the forum is getting married soon ....

who is getting married ? do share :)

[cireria]

Eh! A chick is arranging for me to meet her 2 more chickadee friends!! Life is good to be a bachelor.....

If only I was married..*sigh*...than I dont have to spend time knowing and partying with young, hot & cute chicks!!!
f-u lah... so old already still partying with young chicken... how many chickens you want to eat la friend... somemore pretend sigh here and there if only i was married... beh tahan man...

[Linkinfark]

f-u lah... so old already still partying with young chicken... how many chickens you want to eat la friend... somemore pretend sigh here and there if only i was married... beh tahan man...

Aiya.. the married part fulat mention is more of a sarcasm lah.. But Fulat really do have lots of kangtau with chicks.. he introduced quite a few to me too.. Luckily I'm chaste and faithful.. :p
But then he most of the time use his 'no-shadow hand' only and no further action... but now bachelor already maybe more action.. :cheesy:

[SS2006]

oiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii who is this fella, dun remember got such person. i think wrong year lah. maybe year 98 lar.

That fella I know, this james 89 fella I don't. Maybe YOU got wrong year, that's why want to keep anonymous. You no friend enoughlah, name also want to keep secret.

[daBoss]

That fella I know, this james 89 fella I don't. Maybe YOU got wrong year, that's why want to keep anonymous. You no friend enoughlah, name also want to keep secret.
james 89? this fellow very sad lah... i know him well in real life, but in the forum want to remain anonymous... some more lie to me about his identity... i really don't understand... anyway...

[Jinwei Pho]

james 89? this fellow very sad lah... i know him well in real life, but in the forum want to remain anonymous... some more lie to me about his identity... i really don't understand... anyway...
aw come on, james 89...reveal yourself so that I can jot your memory on who i am...can't believe somebody don't even know me..:p

[james 89]

That fella I know, this james 89 fella I don't. Maybe YOU got wrong year, that's why want to keep anonymous. You no friend enoughlah, name also want to keep secret.

yalah, maybe is time get back to my own year. see wat happen at 1998

[Lava Gal]

aw come on, james 89...reveal yourself so that I can jot your memory on who i am...can't believe somebody don't even know me..:p
u so famous one meh!??
haha..I DONT KNOW U either :p

[Jinwei Pho]

u so famous one meh!??
haha..I DONT KNOW U either :p
if you were only in my year of grad....you would...:p

[Lava Gal]

:laugh:

[darthvader]

i'm getting married soon... :D

[Lava Gal]

wow darthie!!
CONGRATS:) how soon is soon??

[darthvader]

wow darthie!!
CONGRATS:) how soon is soon??

thanks thanks :D 12/11/2005 church wedding in kl

[Lava Gal]

oh Nowembelll...my fav month:)
so...who's d lucky gal...

[darthvader]

oh Nowembelll...my fav month:)
so...who's d lucky gal...

she's a teacher. teaching maths in ayer tawar. can't remember the name of the school :D not a member of this forum :D

[Lava Gal]

orang manjung distrist oso eh :cool:

how come u not getting married in a galaxy far far away...darthvader??! so, will u be wearing ur darthie suit 4 wedding;)

[darthvader]

orang manjung distrist oso eh :cool:

how come u not getting married in a galaxy far far away...darthvader??! so, will u be wearing ur darthie suit 4 wedding;)

manjung punya orang :)

actually, if got chance, don't mind that - getting married in a galaxy far, far away...but too bad...we're not that advanced yet....anyway, she's more "down to earth" if compared to me he he he

[darthvader]

by the way, i don't have a darthvader suit lah..anyway, don't think she'll dress up as padme ha ha ha

[Lava Gal]

it'd be the wedding of the year if u 2 manjung mali people actually dress up as darthie & padme...haha...any photos?

[darthvader]

it'd be the wedding of the year if u 2 manjung mali people actually dress up as darthie & padme...haha...any photos?

ha ha yeah, it'll be great. star wars in sitiawan ha ha ha

no photos yet...haven't decided on the bridal shop...will try to post later, if possible :D

[Lava Gal]

since quite a number of people tied/tying knot soon, maybe s1 should think of starting a best wedding pic competition/poll:)

[darthvader]

since quite a number of people tied/tying knot soon, maybe s1 should think of starting a best wedding pic competition/poll:)

sure. fantastic idea :D

[Lava Gal]

haha...does tat grant me some additional 'force' ;)

[darthvader]

haha...does tat grant me some additional 'force' ;)

of course :D

[Linkinfark]

Congrats Darthvader.. If do Star Wars themed wedding, lavanya can come dressed as Princess Leia... I'll sponsor two donuts for your hair.. :D

[Lava Gal]

wah...got sponsor sumore:)

[darthvader]

Congrats Darthvader.. If do Star Wars themed wedding, lavanya can come dressed as Princess Leia... I'll sponsor two donuts for your hair.. :D

ok. will hold you to that ha ha ha :D but not sure whether she'll volunteer to do that ;)

[cyclone]

Hola Amigo!

Wah, darthvader, I'm gone for a month and you're getting married, and Jin Wei has "stumbled" in this forum....

So who's the girl? I taught in Ayer Tawar too...maybe teaching in the same school!



she's a teacher. teaching maths in ayer tawar. can't remember the name of the school :D not a member of this forum :D

[darthvader]

Hola Amigo!

Wah, darthvader, I'm gone for a month and you're getting married, and Jin Wei has "stumbled" in this forum....

So who's the girl? I taught in Ayer Tawar too...maybe teaching in the same school!

hi, welcome back :) i just remembered...it's ambrose. teaching maths (form 1/2 - afternoon session).

hey, didn't know you taught in ayer tawar. when was this ? maybe she knows you as well. :)

[Jinwei Pho]

Hola Amigo!

Wah, darthvader, I'm gone for a month and you're getting married, and Jin Wei has "stumbled" in this forum....

So who's the girl? I taught in Ayer Tawar too...maybe teaching in the same school!
aloha cyclone....heard that u r now in the state....:p

[cyclone]

aloha! yup, in cyclone district! still working on my phd at iowa state university.

u've not changed too much from the picture. drop me a line if u're planning to be in the midwest!

aloha cyclone....heard that u r now in the state....:p

[cyclone]

hey, i taught at ambrose! pm me her name?

but afternoon session i don't know that well...was teaching morning session. although i did remember a young chinese girl teaching in the afternoon session. can't remember her name, but i bet it must be her. she might remember me if that's the same girl. i taught fm 4/5 english fm 1996-2000.

hi, welcome back :) i just remembered...it's ambrose. teaching maths (form 1/2 - afternoon session).

hey, didn't know you taught in ayer tawar. when was this ? maybe she knows you as well. :)

[daBoss]

darthvader... my best wishes to both of you...

ermm... can post picture ah? :)

[Linkinfark]

darthvader... my best wishes to both of you...

ermm... can post picture ah? :)

Boss ah.. I'm still blur who's darthvader, can pm me his true identity?! :wacko:

[darthvader]

hey, i taught at ambrose! pm me her name?

but afternoon session i don't know that well...was teaching morning session. although i did remember a young chinese girl teaching in the afternoon session. can't remember her name, but i bet it must be her. she might remember me if that's the same girl. i taught fm 4/5 english fm 1996-2000.

ok. will p.m. shortly

[darthvader]

darthvader... my best wishes to both of you...

ermm... can post picture ah? :)

thanks. appreciate that....will try to post when i have the pics :D

[buff]

thanks. appreciate that....will try to post when i have the pics :D

why not post 'before' and 'after' pictures? :)

[Fulat]

if you were only in my year of grad....you would...:p


Hahaha!! Agreed! Me too :p

[Fulat]

Congrats Darthvader.. If do Star Wars themed wedding, lavanya can come dressed as Princess Leia... I'll sponsor two donuts for your hair.. :D

I sponsor a touchlight. Can be used a lightsaber. Need my curtains as your cape?

[Fulat]

Boss ah.. I'm still blur who's darthvader, can pm me his true identity?! :wacko:

Ya Ya! who is darthvader ah?

[cireria]

can daboss or any one of the mods help potong the posts from the point dv made the announcement that he's getting married to another thread on "dv getting married" or something... hot topic man... a lot of people interested to follow the event...

[Lava Gal]

cireria....if onli u havent resigned, could have done it urself liao

[darthvader]

why not post 'before' and 'after' pictures? :)

ok....let me try and get some "before" pictures first. but no promises :D

the "after" pictures can only come after we get the wedding photos...too soon actually...haven't chosen a package...still looking around :)

[darthvader]

I sponsor a touchlight. Can be used a lightsaber. Need my curtains as your cape?

your curtains what colour ? :D ha ha ha

[darthvader]

can daboss or any one of the mods help potong the posts from the point dv made the announcement that he's getting married to another thread on "dv getting married" or something... hot topic man... a lot of people interested to follow the event...

eh...no need lah...not hot topic...just sharing...anyway, still early...but thanks :o

[Lava Gal]

eh...no need lah...not hot topic...just sharing...anyway, still early...but thanks :o
modesty ya:)
dun shy shy ma...

[buff]

ok....let me try and get some "before" pictures first. but no promises :D

the "after" pictures can only come after we get the wedding photos...too soon actually...haven't chosen a package...still looking around :)

just dun let the studios 'con' u... whatever package u select, budget abt 30% extra, as that'll be the amount u pay... they will work on ur wife to get buy more pictures.... u've been warned ... :amused:

[darthvader]

just dun let the studios 'con' u... whatever package u select, budget abt 30% extra, as that'll be the amount u pay... they will work on ur wife to get buy more pictures.... u've been warned ... :amused:

thanks :D will keep that in mind

[Lava Gal]

just dun let the studios 'con' u... whatever package u select, budget abt 30% extra, as that'll be the amount u pay... they will work on ur wife to get buy more pictures.... u've been warned ... :amused:
hhmm...is that coz ladies are easier to be persuaded?

[buff]

hhmm...is that coz ladies are easier to be persuaded?

yep, i think all the employees have been told abt this proven weakness of ladies. when it comes to their photos, esp those that look nice, they will spare no expense... :cheesy:

[daBoss]

friend... getting married only once in lifetime thing... if you can afford it, just spend to make her happy...

[darthvader]

true-lah....only gonna get married once in this lifetime...hope everything turns out perfectly :D

[buff]

true-lah....only gonna get married once in this lifetime...hope everything turns out perfectly :D

i'm sure it will... :)

[darthvader]

i'm sure it will... :)

there seems to be a lot of little-little things that need to be taken care of....anyway, going to have a second session of pre-marital counselling this saturday...quite interesting so far :D

[buff]

there seems to be a lot of little-little things that need to be taken care of....anyway, going to have a second session of pre-marital counselling this saturday...quite interesting so far :D

dun let the little things stress u up... how many more sessions to go before you are 'qualified' to be married?

[daBoss]

there seems to be a lot of little-little things that need to be taken care of....anyway, going to have a second session of pre-marital counselling this saturday...quite interesting so far :D
darthvader... you're getting married lah... enjoy the occasion... dun worry about the little things... if some things don't turn out well, do you think your friends would mind??? :)

[darthvader]

darthvader... you're getting married lah... enjoy the occasion... dun worry about the little things... if some things don't turn out well, do you think your friends would mind??? :)

ok. thanks....yeah, you guys are the coolest. he he he

[cireria]

friend... getting married only once in lifetime thing... if you can afford it, just spend to make her happy...
wah, talk like dem wise man like that... how come ar? who ask u last time so kiamsiap...

[darthvader]

wah, talk like dem wise man like that... how come ar? who ask u last time so kiamsiap...

what ? really ah ? :D

[daBoss]

wah, talk like dem wise man like that... how come ar? who ask u last time so kiamsiap...
friend, not kiam siap... no money lah...

[Lava Gal]

there seems to be a lot of little-little things that need to be taken care of....anyway, going to have a second session of pre-marital counselling this saturday...quite interesting so far :D
darthie....this is something i've wondered bout lately...

may i ask..are u a muslim? as wat i know, pre-marittal counselling is compulsary for muslims in msia... :laugh: do they get a certificate of attendance & such?

so wondering if non muslims have it too??
what do they talk on? how many sessions?

[buff]

darthie....this is something i've wondered bout lately...

may i ask..are u a muslim? as wat i know, pre-marittal counselling is compulsary for muslims in msia... :laugh: do they get a certificate of attendance & such?

so wondering if non muslims have it too??
what do they talk on? how many sessions?

:laugh: :laugh: :laugh: ROFL

[cireria]

friend, not kiam siap... no money lah...
u no money who got money?... car so big house so big... cheat people issit, tiu... but we talking about last time when u get married right? hmmm... like that maybe you not so kiamsiap coz saving for the big house and big car...

[cireria]

pre-marital counselling that feller tell u cannot have pre-marital sex... post-marital counselling that feller tell u to stop the post-marital affair... this one cannot that one cannot then how... might as well don't get married and just be like fulat... hehe

[darthvader]

darthie....this is something i've wondered bout lately...

may i ask..are u a muslim? as wat i know, pre-marittal counselling is compulsary for muslims in msia... :laugh: do they get a certificate of attendance & such?

so wondering if non muslims have it too??
what do they talk on? how many sessions?

no, i'm not a muslim.

this pre-marital counselling is encouraged by my church. i think its purpose (in a nutshell) is to give the couple a wake-up call as to what a marriage is all about. no, i do not think we'll be given a certificate :D

from what i've found out, each church will have a different set of material for this purpose. some will use a specific book (with the assistance of videos). for the one that i'm attending, we are given printed notes.

there are about 8 sessions. so far, what i've learnt is this:-

a. marriage does not end on the wedding day;
b. your spouse should always be your best friend;
c. always treat your spouse with respect;
d. both are equal in a marriage (exchanging views) but the husband should be the decision maker;
e. you will be a new family with your own rules/customs etc. try not to let a 3rd party interfere. the moment that happens, your marriage will be in danger; and
f. love - going to learn what it is this coming saturday :)

will share more next time, if you're keen :)

[darthvader]

:laugh: :laugh: :laugh: ROFL

just wondering, what is "ROFL" ? :)

[Lava Gal]

:laugh: :laugh: :laugh: ROFL
watz so farny hah!??

[Lava Gal]

just wondering, what is "ROFL" ? :)
rolling on floor laughing

[darthvader]

rolling on floor laughing

i see...sorry ...thanks :D

[cireria]

... i do not think we'll be given a certificate :D

how can that be man! you better demand for that cert... no cert no evidence you've completed counselling... no attend counselling no marriage... it's all about getting the certificate man... otherwise why u think people already got degree somemore sibuk-sibuk go and do MBA...

[Lava Gal]

there are about 8 sessions. so far, what i've learnt is this:-

a. marriage does not end on the wedding day;
b. your spouse should always be your best friend;
c. always treat your spouse with respect;
d. both are equal in a marriage (exchanging views) but the husband should be the decision maker;
e. you will be a new family with your own rules/customs etc. try not to let a 3rd party interfere. the moment that happens, your marriage will be in danger; and
f. love - going to learn what it is this coming saturday :)

will share more next time, if you're keen :)
Darth...realli appreciate u sharing..when some ppl juz laugh at me :crying:

i see...its good...realli good...with so many marriages ending unfavourably in divorces, which is even increasing in Msia...i have always felt the pre-marital counselling programmes should be extended to all those who plan 2 get married, and not just confined to within races...i kindof agree (95%) with those point u shared...and of coz..do keep sharing darthie..aybe u can open a new thread for that:D

[darthvader]

how can that be man! you better demand for that cert... no cert no evidence you've completed counselling... no attend counselling no marriage... it's all about getting the certificate man... otherwise why u think people already got degree somemore sibuk-sibuk go and do MBA...

aiyah, it's ok one lah....something to learn...very interesting :D

[Lava Gal]

i see...sorry ...thanks :D
no probs la...welcome :noworry:

[darthvader]

Darth...realli appreciate u sharing..when some ppl juz laugh at me :crying:

i see...its good...realli good...with so many marriages ending unfavourably in divorces, which is even increasing in Msia...i have always felt the pre-marital counselling programmes should be extended to all those who plan 2 get married, and not just confined to within races...i kindof agree (95%) with those point u shared...and of coz..do keep sharing darthie..aybe u can open a new thread for that:D

you're most welcomed...will share more :D

by the way, don't think buff meant that lah...forgive him, ok ? anyway, good night...gotta go back home and sleep

[cireria]

aiyah, it's ok one lah....something to learn...very interesting :D
interesting meh?!... sure or not... i don't think that feller can share anything interesting... coz interesting things don't help keep you married...

[Lava Gal]

nah..didnt take it tat seriously..else he wud have got a red box by now:p

i agree...cert isnt everything!

[Lava Gal]

interesting meh?!... sure or not... i don't think that feller can share anything interesting... coz interesting things don't help keep you married...
so cireria, wat does help keep u married?? ur expert opinion plz...:D

[Jinwei Pho]

aloha! yup, in cyclone district! still working on my phd at iowa state university.

u've not changed too much from the picture. drop me a line if u're planning to be in the midwest!
will try to cyclone...although hawaii is a much better place to live in...:p not too crazy about the freezing cold in the midwest...

[SS2006]

[there are about 8 sessions. so far, what i've learnt is this:-

a. marriage does not end on the wedding day;
b. your spouse should always be your best friend;
c. always treat your spouse with respect;
d. both are equal in a marriage (exchanging views) but the husband should be the decision maker;
e. you will be a new family with your own rules/customs etc. try not to let a 3rd party interfere. the moment that happens, your marriage will be in danger; and
f. love - going to learn what it is this coming saturday :)

will share more next time, if you're keen :)[/QUOTE]

As our beloved PM Abdullah Badawi says " ...after marriage the husband is the general, the wife is the major................. husband makes all the general decisions, wife makes the major decisions..........couldn't agree less....

[buff]

Darth...realli appreciate u sharing..when some ppl juz laugh at me :crying:

wan't laughing at you but laughing at what u said...

jika tersinggung perasaan, maaf zahir batin!

so hope everything's cool again, sista?

[Lava Gal]

wan't laughing at you but laughing at what u said...

jika tersinggung perasaan, maaf zahir batin!

so hope everything's cool again, sista?
haha...accepted.
no hard feelings la..else ur repo would have shown it:p
calm & cool...like the scorpio maiden in my avatar :) only reason me boiling now is those terrorist bombing punya issue :(

[Lava Gal]

As our beloved PM Abdullah Badawi says " ...after marriage the husband is the general, the wife is the major................. husband makes all the general decisions, wife makes the major decisions..........couldn't agree less....
haha...good joke that one is:)

[cireria]

so cireria, wat does help keep u married?? ur expert opinion plz...:D
me smart... no get married... no need worry how to stay married... learn from master fulat...

[SMURF]

[there are about 8 sessions. so far, what i've learnt is this:-

a. marriage does not end on the wedding day;
b. your spouse should always be your best friend;
c. always treat your spouse with respect;
d. both are equal in a marriage (exchanging views) but the husband should be the decision maker;
e. you will be a new family with your own rules/customs etc. try not to let a 3rd party interfere. the moment that happens, your marriage will be in danger; and
f. love - going to learn what it is this coming saturday :)

will share more next time, if you're keen :)

As our beloved PM Abdullah Badawi says " ...after marriage the husband is the general, the wife is the major................. husband makes all the general decisions, wife makes the major decisions..........couldn't agree less....

As said by ... <direct translated from chinese>"When a Fish rot, it all starts from the Fish head" :)[/QUOTE]

[Linkinfark]

Bro Darth,
Do scout around for wedding photo packages. Got to get from those doing promotions at shopping malls. Some restaurants like Tai Thong group will give you discount vouchers for photo packages... And like buff say, prepare for some extra, but must be strong willed and don't get conned to buy more pictures! :D
So where's the wedding going to be?
All the best in your pre-marriage counselling..

[Lava Gal]

me smart... no get married... no need worry how to stay married... learn from master fulat...
nah...not such a good answer...SMART...or dun dare try?:p

tatz like staying away 4m problem...while i was asking how 2 handle problem...

[cireria]

apply basic risk management technique la... avoidance first, before thinking about reduction, retention or transfer...

aiyah, u know lah how people always say, why go cari pasal in the first place... u orang sudah tau, itu kawin misti ada plobem punya sebab itu dia orang suruh u pigi itu apa nama kaunseling... sudah kaunseling kawin misti jugak ada lagi ploblem... jadi apa hal u mau cari susah... lilek la brader, enjoy...

[darthvader]

interesting meh?!... sure or not... i don't think that feller can share anything interesting... coz interesting things don't help keep you married...

by the way, that reminds me of another point that i learnt: both gotta continuously make the marriage interesting :D ...thanks for the reminder :)

[darthvader]

As our beloved PM Abdullah Badawi says " ...after marriage the husband is the general, the wife is the major................. husband makes all the general decisions, wife makes the major decisions..........couldn't agree less....

ha ha ha that's a good one :) guess i missed that :laugh:

[darthvader]

Bro Darth,
Do scout around for wedding photo packages. Got to get from those doing promotions at shopping malls. Some restaurants like Tai Thong group will give you discount vouchers for photo packages... And like buff say, prepare for some extra, but must be strong willed and don't get conned to buy more pictures! :D
So where's the wedding going to be?
All the best in your pre-marriage counselling..

thanks, bro :) have checked out a few bridal shops. will continue checking them out. will be trying ipoh again this weekend...

the wedding ceremony is going to be in my church in subang jaya. the dinner will be in sitiawan...

will share more about the pre-marital counselling :D

[darthvader]

apply basic risk management technique la... avoidance first, before thinking about reduction, retention or transfer...

aiyah, u know lah how people always say, why go cari pasal in the first place... u orang sudah tau, itu kawin misti ada plobem punya sebab itu dia orang suruh u pigi itu apa nama kaunseling... sudah kaunseling kawin misti jugak ada lagi ploblem... jadi apa hal u mau cari susah... lilek la brader, enjoy...

guess you can say pre-marital counselling could be a tool telling you how to avoid possible difficulties that might arise / how to solve them....so, maybe can be considered a problem solving tool ? :D

[cireria]

guess you can say pre-marital counselling could be a tool telling you how to avoid possible difficulties that might arise / how to solve them....so, maybe can be considered a problem solving tool ? :D
bro, u very positive man... i tabik your attitude gib u 1 vote...

that's the problem u see. in life got a lot of problem. everything u do oso got problem. but no choice people still want to do - they want to live mah. have a life lah konon. so how? they need to do something bcos there know problem is coming bcos they decide to do something that will cause problem mah. the problem is, when they go do this other thing to tackle the problem that is coming bcos they choose to do that something that cause the problem in the first place, this other thing also introduce them to the wonderful world of more problem and how to handle them. and i tell you, this apa nama kaunseling thing and those siapa nama kaunselor advise sometimes also tak boleh pakai one. so in the end cause even more problem. so how?

u can be smart. learn from fulat. stay away from problem. just don't get yourself into problem in the first place.

[SS2006]

bro, u very positive man... i tabik your attitude gib u 1 vote...

that's the problem u see. in life got a lot of problem. everything u do oso got problem. but no choice people still want to do - they want to live mah. have a life lah konon. so how? they need to do something bcos there know problem is coming bcos they decide to do something that will cause problem mah. the problem is, when they go do this other thing to tackle the problem that is coming bcos they choose to do that something that cause the problem in the first place, this other thing also introduce them to the wonderful world of more problem and how to handle them. and i tell you, this apa nama kaunseling thing and those siapa nama kaunselor advise sometimes also tak boleh pakai one. so in the end cause even more problem. so how?

u can be smart. learn from fulat. stay away from problem. just don't get yourself into problem in the first place.

You simply give people vote, your vote not worth anything oredi, la...
Take it easy man, one day you fall in love and get married, how to tarik balik all these comment?

[Linkinfark]

Is cireria gay?! :D

[cireria]

Is cireria gay?! :D
cilakak ini linkinfarkbackside...

[Linkinfark]

cilakak ini linkinfarkbackside...

Swearing and cursing to avoid the question?! :rolleyes:

[darthvader]

bro, u very positive man... i tabik your attitude gib u 1 vote...

that's the problem u see. in life got a lot of problem. everything u do oso got problem. but no choice people still want to do - they want to live mah. have a life lah konon. so how? they need to do something bcos there know problem is coming bcos they decide to do something that will cause problem mah. the problem is, when they go do this other thing to tackle the problem that is coming bcos they choose to do that something that cause the problem in the first place, this other thing also introduce them to the wonderful world of more problem and how to handle them. and i tell you, this apa nama kaunseling thing and those siapa nama kaunselor advise sometimes also tak boleh pakai one. so in the end cause even more problem. so how?

u can be smart. learn from fulat. stay away from problem. just don't get yourself into problem in the first place.

bro, thanks for the vote. really :D

yes, there'll be "problems" in life. agree with you on that. but i choose to accept them as tests to be overcomed. they can be resolved (sooner or later). without these tests, life will not be as interesting as it is now.

of course, sometimes, the fear/disappointments/tears/anger/resentment ("discouraging factors") will tend to be a bit overwhelming...but, with the support and/suggestions/opinions (whatever you may want to call it) of, for example, our dear buddies in the forum, i'm sure these discouraging factors will be wiped out. a little too positive ? ha ha ha anyway, i rely more on the "higher authority" for help these days he he he

i'm actually looking forward to the pre-marriage preparations, the wedding day and the marriage itself. should and ought to be the most interesting "challenge" in my life :)

[darthvader]

Is cireria gay?! :D

no-lah, he's not gay lah...he's a normal guy. nice guy :D

[Lava Gal]

yes, there'll be "problems" in life. agree with you on that. but i choose to accept them as tests to be overcomed. they can be resolved (sooner or later). without these tests, life will not be as interesting as it is now.

i'm actually looking forward to the pre-marriage preparations, the wedding day and the marriage itself. should and ought to be the most interesting "challenge" in my life :)
darthie, :D nice attitude there...search for the brightness huh...good!
true...challenges are wat make life more savourable! and have the fun in life is in overcoming challenges??

cireria>> counsellors & techniques dun give solutions...they present OPTIONS....its up to individuals to make their choice, but muz alwiyz remember at back of the mind that we have to life with the consequences of our choices...

[darthvader]

darthie, :D nice attitude there...search for the brightness huh...good!
true...challenges are wat make life more savourable! and have the fun in life is in overcoming challenges??

cireria>> counsellors & techniques dun give solutions...they present OPTIONS....its up to individuals to make their choice, but muz alwiyz remember at back of the mind that we have to life with the consequences of our choices...

thanks :D me trying to get cireria to get married :laugh: seriously

[Lava Gal]

thanks :D me trying to get cireria to get married :laugh: seriously
haha...introduce him to some nice girl la then...when he's been struck wif cupid's arrow, we'll see him swallowing his own words liao

[cireria]

...when he's been struck wif cupid's arrow, we'll see him swallowing his own words liao
when the right girl and the right time comes (it happens once in a few hundred years), i'll be swallowing more than just words... with all the sheet crap problems that comes along with it, u need lots of drinks to help the swallowing... and johnnie provides good counselling session too...

[darthvader]

when the right girl and the right time comes (it happens once in a few hundred years), i'll be swallowing more than just words... with all the sheet crap problems that comes along with it, u need lots of drinks to help the swallowing... and johnnie provides good counselling session too...

alright ! cireria's more positive now....by the way, what type of girl you're looking for lah ?

[Linkinfark]

alright ! cireria's more positive now....by the way, what type of girl you're looking for lah ?

Long hair, fair skin, 34-24-36.. right cireria?! ;) Actually i think most guys look for that.. :amused:

[buff]

Long hair, fair skin, 34-24-36.. right cireria?! ;) Actually i think most guys look for that.. :amused:

pls la... he's more discerning. the description above could fit a lot of people..

[Linkinfark]

pls la... he's more discerning. the description above could fit a lot of people..

Ok lor.. wait for him to say then.. :rolleyes:

[cireria]

I have spoke with the tongue of angels... I have held the hand of a devil... It was warm in the night... I was cold as a stone... but I still haven’t found what I’m looking for... hehe

[SMURF]

WHEN U R ONLY 5 YRS OLD, I SAID I LOVE U.
U ASKED ME: WHAT IS IT?

WHEN U R 15 YRS OLD, I SAID I LOVE U.
U BLUSHED... U LOOK DOWN AND SMILE...

WHEN U R 20 YRS OLD, I SAID I LOVE U.
U PUT UR HEAD ON MY SHOULDER AND
HOLD MY HAND... AFRAID THAT I MIGHT
DISSAPEAR...

WHEN U R 25 YRS OLD, I SAID I LOVE U.
U PREPARE BREAKFAST AND SERVE IT IN
FRONT OF ME, AND KISS MY FORHEAD SAID:
U BETTER BE QUICK, IT'S GONNA BE LATE.

WHEN U R 30 YRS OLD, I SAID I LOVE U.
U SAID: IF U REALLY LOVE ME, PLEASE
COME BACK EARLY AFTER WORK.

WHEN U R 40 YRS OLD, I SAID I LOVE U.
U R CLEANING THE DINING TABLE AND SAID:
OK DEAR, BUT IT'S TIME FOR U TO HELP OUR
CHILD WITH HIS/HER REVISION...

WHEN U R 50 YRS OLD, I SAID I LOVE U.
U R KNITTING AND U LAUGH AT ME :-D

WHEN U R 60 YRS OLD, I SAID I LOVE U.
U SMILE AT ME :-)

WHEN U R 70 YRS OLD. I SAID I LOVE U.
WE SIT ON THE ROCK ING CHAIR WITH OUR
GLASSES ON. I'M READING YOUR LOVE
LETTER THAT U SENT TO ME 50 YRS AGO...
WITH OUR HAND CROSSING TOGETHER...

WHEN U R 80 YRS OLD, U SAID U LOVE ME!
I DIDN'T SAY ANYTHING BUT CRIED... THAT
DAY MUST BE THE HAPPIEST DAY OF MY
LIFE! BECAUSE U SAID U LOVE ME!!!

PLEASE APPRECIATE YOUR LOVED ONES..
SAY "I LOVE YOU" TO THEM TODAY!

[i love you] means really care for you......
say it out but not to expect the return or anything....
[i love you] is said because there is a pure
thought...
that was hoping this magical 3 words... can bring
you happiness and futurity...... and because of
having such pure thoughts..... ppl which have true
heart to a person. gives out all his/her courage to
tell :
I love you..

[QUOTED from Unknown Source]

[Linkinfark]

I have spoke with the tongue of angels... I have held the hand of a devil... It was warm in the night... I was cold as a stone... but I still haven’t found what I’m looking for... hehe

Bro, you shd hang out with Fulat more... he got lots of kangtau.. ;)

[cireria]

everyone also know fulat got lots of kangtau... but i not looking for that kind of everyday mabuk fengtau type la... also i got no money to pay for the good kangtau la...

[buff]

WHEN U R ONLY 5 YRS OLD, I SAID I LOVE U.
U ASKED ME: WHAT IS IT?

WHEN U R 15 YRS OLD, I SAID I LOVE U.
U BLUSHED... U LOOK DOWN AND SMILE...

WHEN U R 20 YRS OLD, I SAID I LOVE U.
U PUT UR HEAD ON MY SHOULDER AND
HOLD MY HAND... AFRAID THAT I MIGHT
DISSAPEAR...

WHEN U R 25 YRS OLD, I SAID I LOVE U.
U PREPARE BREAKFAST AND SERVE IT IN
FRONT OF ME, AND KISS MY FORHEAD SAID:
U BETTER BE QUICK, IT'S GONNA BE LATE.

WHEN U R 30 YRS OLD, I SAID I LOVE U.
U SAID: IF U REALLY LOVE ME, PLEASE
COME BACK EARLY AFTER WORK.

WHEN U R 40 YRS OLD, I SAID I LOVE U.
U R CLEANING THE DINING TABLE AND SAID:
OK DEAR, BUT IT'S TIME FOR U TO HELP OUR
CHILD WITH HIS/HER REVISION...

WHEN U R 50 YRS OLD, I SAID I LOVE U.
U R KNITTING AND U LAUGH AT ME :-D

WHEN U R 60 YRS OLD, I SAID I LOVE U.
U SMILE AT ME :-)

WHEN U R 70 YRS OLD. I SAID I LOVE U.
WE SIT ON THE ROCK ING CHAIR WITH OUR
GLASSES ON. I'M READING YOUR LOVE
LETTER THAT U SENT TO ME 50 YRS AGO...
WITH OUR HAND CROSSING TOGETHER...

WHEN U R 80 YRS OLD, U SAID U LOVE ME!
I DIDN'T SAY ANYTHING BUT CRIED... THAT
DAY MUST BE THE HAPPIEST DAY OF MY
LIFE! BECAUSE U SAID U LOVE ME!!!

PLEASE APPRECIATE YOUR LOVED ONES..
SAY "I LOVE YOU" TO THEM TODAY!

[i love you] means really care for you......
say it out but not to expect the return or anything....
[i love you] is said because there is a pure
thought...
that was hoping this magical 3 words... can bring
you happiness and futurity...... and because of
having such pure thoughts..... ppl which have true
heart to a person. gives out all his/her courage to
tell :
I love you..

[QUOTED from Unknown Source]


eh, smurf, wat's up? :wacko:

[darthvader]

WHEN U R ONLY 5 YRS OLD, I SAID I LOVE U.
U ASKED ME: WHAT IS IT?

WHEN U R 15 YRS OLD, I SAID I LOVE U.
U BLUSHED... U LOOK DOWN AND SMILE...

WHEN U R 20 YRS OLD, I SAID I LOVE U.
U PUT UR HEAD ON MY SHOULDER AND
HOLD MY HAND... AFRAID THAT I MIGHT
DISSAPEAR...

WHEN U R 25 YRS OLD, I SAID I LOVE U.
U PREPARE BREAKFAST AND SERVE IT IN
FRONT OF ME, AND KISS MY FORHEAD SAID:
U BETTER BE QUICK, IT'S GONNA BE LATE.

WHEN U R 30 YRS OLD, I SAID I LOVE U.
U SAID: IF U REALLY LOVE ME, PLEASE
COME BACK EARLY AFTER WORK.

WHEN U R 40 YRS OLD, I SAID I LOVE U.
U R CLEANING THE DINING TABLE AND SAID:
OK DEAR, BUT IT'S TIME FOR U TO HELP OUR
CHILD WITH HIS/HER REVISION...

WHEN U R 50 YRS OLD, I SAID I LOVE U.
U R KNITTING AND U LAUGH AT ME :-D

WHEN U R 60 YRS OLD, I SAID I LOVE U.
U SMILE AT ME :-)

WHEN U R 70 YRS OLD. I SAID I LOVE U.
WE SIT ON THE ROCK ING CHAIR WITH OUR
GLASSES ON. I'M READING YOUR LOVE
LETTER THAT U SENT TO ME 50 YRS AGO...
WITH OUR HAND CROSSING TOGETHER...

WHEN U R 80 YRS OLD, U SAID U LOVE ME!
I DIDN'T SAY ANYTHING BUT CRIED... THAT
DAY MUST BE THE HAPPIEST DAY OF MY
LIFE! BECAUSE U SAID U LOVE ME!!!

PLEASE APPRECIATE YOUR LOVED ONES..
SAY "I LOVE YOU" TO THEM TODAY!

[i love you] means really care for you......
say it out but not to expect the return or anything....
[i love you] is said because there is a pure
thought...
that was hoping this magical 3 words... can bring
you happiness and futurity...... and because of
having such pure thoughts..... ppl which have true
heart to a person. gives out all his/her courage to
tell :
I love you..

[QUOTED from Unknown Source]

so, do you love us ah ? :laugh: :D

[Linkinfark]

everyone also know fulat got lots of kangtau... but i not looking for that kind of everyday mabuk fengtau type la... also i got no money to pay for the good kangtau la...

Brader.. ask u to go meet some chicks mah.. then get their number and meet for dinner or something.. cannot everytime go mabuk mabuk one.. If the chick likes to go mabuk mabuk often then forget about it, try another one...
Anyway wait till Fulat got company event, don't have to spend a single cent, covered by Bill Gates mah.. ;)

[darthvader]

eh, smurf, wat's up? :wacko:

i think he is trying to say that he loves us ha ha :D

[cireria]

Brader.. ask u to go meet some chicks mah.. then get their number and meet for dinner or something.. cannot everytime go mabuk mabuk one.. If the chick likes to go mabuk mabuk often then forget about it, try another one...
Anyway wait till Fulat got company event, don't have to spend a single cent, covered by Bill Gates mah.. ;)
very good advise and sound very pofessional somemore... give u another star...

[cireria]

i think he is trying to say that he loves us ha ha :D
blardy hiaw... don't know that smurf feller drink what sheet until become like that...

[SMURF]

blardy hiaw... don't know that smurf feller drink what sheet until become like that...

Originally Posted by darthvader
i think he is trying to say that he loves us ha ha

Hai... since I love all of u so much, no tripple star for me-meh??? :eek:

[cireria]

ok man, me give one star to smurf since he graciously accepted all the sheet from me... hehe

[siak pah jin eng]

:laugh: :laugh: ai yo, smurf trying to be romantic and remind us to be romantic :laugh: :laugh:

[Fulat]

Long hair, fair skin, 34-24-36.. right cireria?! ;) Actually i think most guys look for that.. :amused:

Wrong buddy, should be 36-24-34 and 5'6" at least...oppss...sorry, I mean 5'1" otherwise will be taller than Cireria already.

[Fulat]

Brader.. ask u to go meet some chicks mah.. then get their number and meet for dinner or something.. cannot everytime go mabuk mabuk one.. If the chick likes to go mabuk mabuk often then forget about it, try another one...
Anyway wait till Fulat got company event, don't have to spend a single cent, covered by Bill Gates mah.. ;)

You talk kok only lah! Nowadays queen control. Got so many free mabuk sessions you dont come until nowadays I dont call you anymore. Just had a session early last month. Sotong fest dude!!

[Fulat]

bro, u very positive man... i tabik your attitude gib u 1 vote...

that's the problem u see. in life got a lot of problem. everything u do oso got problem. but no choice people still want to do - they want to live mah. have a life lah konon. so how? they need to do something bcos there know problem is coming bcos they decide to do something that will cause problem mah. the problem is, when they go do this other thing to tackle the problem that is coming bcos they choose to do that something that cause the problem in the first place, this other thing also introduce them to the wonderful world of more problem and how to handle them. and i tell you, this apa nama kaunseling thing and those siapa nama kaunselor advise sometimes also tak boleh pakai one. so in the end cause even more problem. so how?

u can be smart. learn from fulat. stay away from problem. just don't get yourself into problem in the first place.

Cireria,

I am a changed man! now looking for a wife but must first fulfill 3 criterias :
1) Must be as good as a maid
2) A good chef
3) and performance like a whore

Dont ask for too much otherwise you will never find one.

[JC]

3) and performance like a whore
You sure about his, bro? :p

[LiLiaN]

are you sure you are not asking too much...?

[Linkinfark]

You talk kok only lah! Nowadays queen control. Got so many free mabuk sessions you dont come until nowadays I dont call you anymore. Just had a session early last month. Sotong fest dude!!

Aiya brader.. nowadays got time play with baby mah.. wait lah.. i shall return soon! ha ha...
Once in a while yum cha ok lah.. You shd talk cireria out once in a while, if not he will fcuk people in the forum.. so must pent up frustration.. must take him release a bit... ;)

[Linkinfark]

Cireria,

I am a changed man! now looking for a wife but must first fulfill 3 criterias :
1) Must be as good as a maid
2) A good chef
3) and performance like a whore

Dont ask for too much otherwise you will never find one.

Wonder how you gonna fit 3 wives under one roof.. :p

[cireria]

... You shd talk cireria out once in a while, if not he will fcuk people in the forum.. so must pent up frustration.. must take him release a bit... ;)
ya, i got a lot of frustration... ep u la...

[cireria]

here's what happens when fulat finds the girl who meets all his 3 criteria...
1) Must be as good as a maid - treats the maid like whore
2) A good chef - treats the chef like... whore
3) and performance like a whore - opens park shop for the whore
fulat lives happily ever after...

[Linkinfark]

here's what happens when fulat finds the girl who meets all his 3 criteria...
1) Must be as good as a maid - treats the maid like whore
2) A good chef - treats the chef like... whore
3) and performance like a whore - opens park shop for the whore
fulat lives happily ever after...

Like that Fulat become OKT liao.. fatt tat loh.. :p

[darthvader]

Like that Fulat become OKT liao.. fatt tat loh.. :p

OKT = ???

[LiLiaN]

OKT = ???tortoise head... translate to hokkien...

[Fulat]

Aiya brader.. nowadays got time play with baby mah.. wait lah.. i shall return soon! ha ha...
Once in a while yum cha ok lah.. You shd talk cireria out once in a while, if not he will fcuk people in the forum.. so must pent up frustration.. must take him release a bit... ;)

Last friday sotong fest bro!! (not I sotong but got sotonged) Ask you to come but you scared wife fark. I think about 15 chicks for you to pick and only about 5-6 guys. Free flow also. Last nite went to Bar Savanh, Megan intro to me a friend, solid chick bro! looks like must try to practise my kau loi skills which was long lost for 8 years. Life can only get better......

[Linkinfark]

Last friday sotong fest bro!! (not I sotong but got sotonged) Ask you to come but you scared wife fark. I think about 15 chicks for you to pick and only about 5-6 guys. Free flow also. Last nite went to Bar Savanh, Megan intro to me a friend, solid chick bro! looks like must try to practise my kau loi skills which was long lost for 8 years. Life can only get better......

Ya lar ya lar.. rub it in lah.. Good for you lah, more choices, make sure choose correctly and settle down hor.. your mommy wants to carry granchild liao.. :p

[buff]

Ya lar ya lar.. rub it in lah.. Good for you lah, more choices, make sure choose correctly and settle down hor.. your mommy wants to carry granchild liao.. :p

aiya, no need to choose, choose one... can whack all, buffet style... then his mom will have a few grandchildren at the same time :p

[Linkinfark]

aiya, no need to choose, choose one... can whack all, buffet style... then his mom will have a few grandchildren at the same time :p

Buffet style?! Wah lau buff.. you memang buffalo lah.. :eek:

[siak pah jin eng]

aiya, no need to choose, choose one... can whack all, buffet style... then his mom will have a few grandchildren at the same time :p
buff, his mummy got only a pair of hand, cannot carry so many grandchildren at one time, too many cause headache so not a good idea...

[buff]

buff, his mummy got only a pair of hand, cannot carry so many grandchildren at one time, too many cause headache so not a good idea...

aiyah, these days, just hire a few maids lor... :laugh:

[siak pah jin eng]

aiyah, these days, just hire a few maids lor... :laugh:
aiyo, maid will give you more headache, ask jang if she agree to it

[siewjang]

<*sj nod in agreement>

[darthvader]

just wondering....do you really need a maid ? do they really ease the burden or create more ? anyway, already out of topic :D

[SMURF]

A wise man once said that to be happy:



1. It is important to find a woman who helps at home, who cooks a decent meal from time to time, cleans up and has a job.



2. It is important to find a woman who can make you laugh.



3. It is important to find a woman whom you can trust and who does not lie to you.



4. It is important to find a woman who is good in bed and who likes to be with you.



5. It is important that these 4 women do not know each other.

[SMURF]

http://sunth.aspxconnection.com/wedding%20card%20from%20it%20engineer.jpg

[siewjang]

just wondering....do you really need a maid ? do they really ease the burden or create more ? anyway, already out of topic :D
I think still within the topic - topic related to the married couples.

Without a maid
1) Let say you have 3 kids and each kid cost Rm500 per person at the baby sitter. RM500 x 3 = RM1,500 per month <~~~ that's what you are paying.
2) Apart from paying the RM1,500 you still have to do all the cooking, cleaning, scrubbing by your self.

With a maid
1) Her salary Rm380 per month
2) She does all the cooking, cleaning and scrubbing but have to watch out for her hygiene. Sometimes, they just won't listen and like to do their way. Beware of things that-was-not-supposed-to-be-there in your food and drinks.

I think SPJE can add more.

[cireria]

parkinsheet, this smurf feller kahwin not so long only already mabuk full time already...

[song cm]

:D I think still within the topic - topic related to the married couples.

Without a maid
1) Let say you have 3 kids and each kid cost Rm500 per person at the baby sitter. RM500 x 3 = RM1,500 per month <~~~ that's what you are paying.
2) Apart from paying the RM1,500 you still have to do all the cooking, cleaning, scrubbing by your self.

With a maid
1) Her salary Rm380 per month
2) She does all the cooking, cleaning and scrubbing but have to watch out for her hygiene. Sometimes, they just won't listen and like to do their way. Beware of things that-was-not-supposed-to-be-there in your food and drinks.

I think SPJE can add more.

for me, i am definetely better off after sending my maid back....

[daBoss]

i dun think dalady will survive without a maid anymore... to used to having a maid clean up after us... :)

anyway, ah jang, dun forget that rm380 is only the maid's salary... you also have to provide food and a bed. so overall cost is more than rm380. if i'm not mistaken, nowadays, it's no longer rm380 - it's rm450 now... :(
I think still within the topic - topic related to the married couples.

Without a maid
1) Let say you have 3 kids and each kid cost Rm500 per person at the baby sitter. RM500 x 3 = RM1,500 per month <~~~ that's what you are paying.
2) Apart from paying the RM1,500 you still have to do all the cooking, cleaning, scrubbing by your self.

With a maid
1) Her salary Rm380 per month
2) She does all the cooking, cleaning and scrubbing but have to watch out for her hygiene. Sometimes, they just won't listen and like to do their way. Beware of things that-was-not-supposed-to-be-there in your food and drinks.

I think SPJE can add more.

[siewjang]

I think daLady is lucky she don't have to face the maid and do all the nagging as your mom is taking over her place. I don't mind to have a maid if my mom is staying with me. At least she can keep an eye on the maid. Saliver also not enough to nag a maid. Worst still when you are not at home most of the time and they are like a queen in your house inviting guys home or calling guys. :sick:

[noname]

there are pros and cons by having maid or not.

for me, definetely wont hired a maid becoz i'll tend to be hardworking and exercise. probably need it when i grow older. so now wat for? having her is not convenience and recently having many bad news about maid... killing the employer, poison, pregnant, cabut lari and etc... end up might be paying more... :D just my humble opinion.

if hired maid, then will end up lazy... wont be doing housework. one day when the maid gone, jialat. dunno how to wash this n that... lagi worst. now the world live in very comfort zone...

[song cm]

there are pros and cons by having maid or not.

for me, definetely wont hired a maid becoz i'll tend to be hardworking and exercise. probably need it when i grow older. so now wat for? having her is not convenience and recently having many bad news about maid... killing the employer, poison, pregnant, cabut lari and etc... end up might be paying more... :D just my humble opinion.

if hired maid, then will end up lazy... wont be doing housework. one day when the maid gone, jialat. dunno how to wash this n that... lagi worst. now the world live in very comfort zone...

my sentiment exactly....dats why i decided to let her go home....now my weekends ia all about washing toilets, porch n cars....definitely a good form of exercise...

[siak pah jin eng]

everyone got their likes and dislikes about maid. What i felt is, when u started with one, you'll be stuck forever so if you've not started, don't think to get one.

Agree with what daboss said, so used to have someone cleaning for you and if you don't, you have to do it all by myself.

I agree with Jang, if someone is around with the maid, it will be better, else they have bbq without me knowing it. I wonder how those people handle 2 maids at home? :unsure:

[SMURF]

parkinsheet, this smurf feller kahwin not so long only already mabuk full time already...
I'm only an apprentice, still plenty to learn from u ... :eek:

[darthvader]

I'm only an apprentice, still plenty to learn from u ... :eek:

hey, smurf, don't think you're the apprentice. you're married. he's not. you're the master :laugh:

[darthvader]

everyone got their likes and dislikes about maid. What i felt is, when u started with one, you'll be stuck forever so if you've not started, don't think to get one.

Agree with what daboss said, so used to have someone cleaning for you and if you don't, you have to do it all by myself.

I agree with Jang, if someone is around with the maid, it will be better, else they have bbq without me knowing it. I wonder how those people handle 2 maids at home? :unsure:

my friends have started to get maids. one is already facing some "challenges". the other is praying hard that everything will work out fine. anyway, with the sort of stories relating to maids going around....makes one wonder ???? of course, not intending to generalise here (sorry if offend anyone)

anyway, just wondering: for those having kids and in situations where the kids spend a lot of time with the maids, care to share the experience ? just curious :D

[siak pah jin eng]

my friends have started to get maids. one is already facing some "challenges". the other is praying hard that everything will work out fine. anyway, with the sort of stories relating to maids going around....makes one wonder ???? of course, not intending to generalise here (sorry if offend anyone)

anyway, just wondering: for those having kids and in situations where the kids spend a lot of time with the maids, care to share the experience ? just curious :D
i still feel, if u have not started with one, don't think about it. It does ease you a lot from housework or babysitting or .... but there are other prob that you will face day by day or month by month. Unless, if you have someone at home with the maid, than you can consider but think twice also la. Or you are very, very lucky to get a good maid.

Kids will get attached to the maid and will prefer the maid more than you. (My aunt's experience) This also depend on yourself. I feel that if you spend quality time with your kids this will not happen. My aunt leave the son to the maid, from the minute he wakes up till bedtime story... Imagine this...

As for me, my maid does all the chores and i take care of my own kids, bathing them, cleaning their motion, feed them.....If I punish them, they will not go to the maid to ask for help whereas what i saw from one of my friend, when mummy punish the child, he runs to the maid for help and poor mummy be the orang busuk and kakak be the angel, c the problem here?

If the maid do jampi than i don't know la.

[darthvader]

i still feel, if u have not started with one, don't think about it. It does ease you a lot from housework or babysitting or .... but there are other prob that you will face day by day or month by month. Unless, if you have someone at home with the maid, than you can consider but think twice also la. Or you are very, very lucky to get a good maid.

Kids will get attached to the maid and will prefer the maid more than you. (My aunt's experience) This also depend on yourself. I feel that if you spend quality time with your kids this will not happen. My aunt leave the son to the maid, from the minute he wakes up till bedtime story... Imagine this...

As for me, my maid does all the chores and i take care of my own kids, bathing them, cleaning their motion, feed them.....If I punish them, they will not go to the maid to ask for help whereas what i saw from one of my friend, when mummy punish the child, he runs to the maid for help and poor mummy be the orang busuk and kakak be the angel, c the problem here?

If the maid do jampi than i don't know la.

i see. thanks for sharing that

[daBoss]

...Kids will get attached to the maid and will prefer the maid more than you...
doesn't happen with my kids... they still prefer mummy best and daddy second no matter who spends the most time with them...
:)

[noname]

i still feel, if u have not started with one, don't think about it. It does ease you a lot from housework or babysitting or .... but there are other prob that you will face day by day or month by month. Unless, if you have someone at home with the maid, than you can consider but think twice also la. Or you are very, very lucky to get a good maid.

Kids will get attached to the maid and will prefer the maid more than you. (My aunt's experience) This also depend on yourself. I feel that if you spend quality time with your kids this will not happen. My aunt leave the son to the maid, from the minute he wakes up till bedtime story... Imagine this...

As for me, my maid does all the chores and i take care of my own kids, bathing them, cleaning their motion, feed them.....If I punish them, they will not go to the maid to ask for help whereas what i saw from one of my friend, when mummy punish the child, he runs to the maid for help and poor mummy be the orang busuk and kakak be the angel, c the problem here?

If the maid do jampi than i don't know la.
my relative kena before once that when the baby is hungry, the maid fed the baby using her own milk... her breast milk.

my relative found out and sent her home right away. it is not good to fed someone using other ppl "milk" hmmm...

2nd thing is, now when u get maid, you have to pray hard that u'll get a good maid. otherwise jialat, cabut lari lah, got bf lah, pregnant lah... and etc... will give you headache and more time to send her off and etc... end up might rugi more...

alternative way is to get a maid to do house cleaning every weeks... like once per week. it will be good also... :D

[Tonto]

My experiences with having maids - I thought it would be cool to have someone cleaning up after us. We got a maid from Sumatra - 3 days later, she ran away. We haven't even got down to discussing real work with her. We gave her time to adjust & to do light work. The agency got a replacement for us. We paid extra for a Filipino (who happens to have university qualifications). She is bold, bad tempered & she tried winning my hubby's heart. We fired her b'coz I came home early & found her having a party with a bunch of her friends (didn't know tat she has so many friends) in our house. So now - we do the cleaning ourselves & once a month, we get the temporary maid paid on hourly basis to clean for us.

[siak pah jin eng]

doesn't happen with my kids... they still prefer mummy best and daddy second no matter who spends the most time with them...
:)
daboss, when u spend quality with them, this will not happen la. i said, this happen to my cousin brother when the maid does everything for him once he wakes up and till bedtime story